Are nipple toys safe to use?
Used correctly, nipple toys and adjustable nipple clamps are generally safe, but it’s important to take precautions. Engle warns, “Be careful when using any kind of nipple clamps. Try and clamp yourself gently, let go, and see how that feeling is. Be mindful that nothing is causing pain—it should never be painful.” She also recommends limiting use to 10–15 minutes to avoid discomfort or temporary loss of sensation.
Natasha Silverman, Sex and Relationship Expert at Bed Nerdz, agrees, stating that when it comes to nipple suckers or any nipple toy that you should “use for short periods at first to avoid soreness.”
Choosing body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel is essential. Regular cleaning, starting with lower intensities, and taking breaks between use can help maintain both comfort and safety.
Remember, everyone’s body is unique, so what works for one person may not work for another. Pay attention to your own comfort, pleasure and safety when using nipple toys, and always prioritise open communication and consent with your partner.
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About the experts
Gigi Engle, Sexologist and Sex Educator at SexToys.co.uk is a Certified Sex and Relationships Psychotherapist and Award Winning Author.
Natasha Silverman, Sex and Relationship Expert at Bed Nerdz, is also an experienced, integrative, sex-positive Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist, working with couples, individuals and singles.
About the author
Rebecca Roberts is a writer, editor, and content marketing expert hailing from Leeds. Here at Mumsnet, she commissions, writes, and edits to bring parents content designed to make life easier. After birthing and breastfeeding two babies in two years, Rebecca knows first-hand how hard it can be to reignite intimacy. From condoms, to lubricants, to sex toys - she’s on a quest to find the best ones, with the help of Mumsnet user recommendations.
Beyond her role as an editor here at Mumsnet, Rebecca can be found balancing life as a working mum of two toddlers and when she’s not at her desk, you’ll likely find her at a local playgroup, in a nearby coffee shop, walking the dog, or hiding from her neighbour as she attempts to buy condoms during her weekly “Big Food Shop”.
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