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Horrendous consequence of current porn trends

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theresaspiderinthesink Wed 16-Jan-19 19:04:41

I have no words.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6595871/Online-porn-horror-Girl-16-forced-colostomy-bag-attempting-group-anal-sex.html

FloralBunting Wed 16-Jan-19 19:13:00

I can't even bear to click on that link based on the link keywords alone. My god.

theresaspiderinthesink Wed 16-Jan-19 19:14:37

No need to. That's basically it, in Australia.

HamiltonCork Wed 16-Jan-19 19:14:56

Dear god.

Bittermints Wed 16-Jan-19 19:20:07

Long overdue that the press should focus on this. We need decent sex education in schools. Girls need to learn to say no and boys need to learn to accept that, or even better, not to expect this disgusting abusive stuff in the first place.

JoanSummers Wed 16-Jan-19 19:20:39

But Teen Vogue said it's normal?
www.teenvogue.com/story/anal-sex-what-you-need-to-know/

AncientLights Wed 16-Jan-19 19:26:30

I can just about understand the logistics of double anal. But triple???? What on earth is happening? I'd like to see some court cases and convictions. Yeah, I know - in my dreams.

FloralBunting Wed 16-Jan-19 19:29:03

I just can't. The next ignorant fucker that defends porn to me will get the full force of my incandescent rage.

millyonth Wed 16-Jan-19 19:29:32

Horrible sad story. It's awkward, but as parents we have to talk to our young teenage girls about the risks of anal sex and lots of other stuff like choking and group sex that used to be fringe and is now mainstream and vanilla. I tell my daughter that if the boys want to try anal they can do it to each other. They've all got arseholes and more to the point they've got prostates.
Just say no.
Apparently prolapse porn is a thing. Grim .

feministfairy Wed 16-Jan-19 19:29:52

The court cases will find that women and girls consented to this sad. Because men always find a get out clause for their violence.

millyonth Wed 16-Jan-19 19:31:32

This is where the Daily Mail comes into its own.

AncientLights Wed 16-Jan-19 19:33:08

When I think of older men who won't get their prostate checked because of a forefinger up their arse ... wonder how many expect women to do anal?

failingatlife Wed 16-Jan-19 19:33:45

Awful. I have no words. Need to find some though as I am mum of 3 teens. 7et another convo I will have to have with them. Hate to think of my sons possibly treating girls like thisangry

TheMatriarch Wed 16-Jan-19 19:35:27

I think lots of people are in denial about how violent mainstream porn is, plus "I know a stripper/pornstar and they love it", so porn is all fine etc.

I recently read a quote about research into the effects of porn on young men being prematurely ended because it was so damaging, I’ll see if I can find it.

I don’t understand people who have no issue with porn.

TheMatriarch Wed 16-Jan-19 19:36:41

This was it.

TheMatriarch Wed 16-Jan-19 19:38:12

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FlyingOink Wed 16-Jan-19 19:40:39

I remember reading an article, it was an interview with a San Bernardino Valley doctor (where the vast majority of porn is made) and he explained he restitched the same girls month in, month out.
And then I go to find that article and it's gone.
Mindgeek are a very scary firm.
There's a deliberate branch out into mobile formats because of men who can't masturbate in front of a pc (family, overcrowding, etc) which is one reason why it's taken off in Brazil and India, as well as among young men here.
There is big money involved here. Grassroots orgs have a battle on their hands. fightthenewdrug.org

IStillMissBlockbuster Wed 16-Jan-19 19:43:17

Why is this violence accepted when it's called sex? Who consents to rupturing their colon? No one. Hold the men accountable.

1MillionSelfiesTakenByMyKids Wed 16-Jan-19 19:45:00

16-year-old girl suffered serious injuries attempting group anal sex, and now requires a colostomy bag

Attempting group anal sex? Let's call this what it is - anal gang rape. Nobody would "attempt" to continue sonething causing this much damage unless forced.

HellsBellsAndBatteredBananas Wed 16-Jan-19 19:45:10

This needs to be shared far and wide. Absolutely horrifying sad

1MillionSelfiesTakenByMyKids Wed 16-Jan-19 19:45:38

X post MissBlockbuster

feministfairy Wed 16-Jan-19 19:49:12

Trouble is HellsBells - if this was posted on AIBU it wouldn't take long before the porn advocates would be along telling us why this is made up and doesn't happen etc etc... I'd post it but it gives me the rage having to listen to them. The Mermaids bondage / porn thread managed to attract some minimising porn for primary children and that's enough for me today. angry

BlindYeo Wed 16-Jan-19 19:50:41

This is horrible. I can't click.

I am so disturbed by that Matriarch I hate to think what proportion of men now are programmed by porn to link violence with sex. Is it an epidemic?

Men have managed to engineer a world in which violence towards us that would result in a conviction in any other area of life, is now seen as normal and acceptable as part of sex. And they're getting women of the younger generations to accept it too. It's like some dystopian nightmare except this is our real life.

What the hell is happening behind the bedroom doors of the world now?

Olgatheoptimist Wed 16-Jan-19 20:11:03

I tell my daughter that if the boys want to try anal they can do it to each other. They've all got arseholes and more to the point they've got prostates
^^
This

Badstyley Wed 16-Jan-19 20:15:12

Group sex? I can’t imagine she was enjoying it, then just happened to notice afterwards that she’d got these horrific injuries. Let’s call it what it is shall we, gang rape.

Fucking vile. I feel sick and I haven’t even clicked on the link.

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