I remember a thread on here a year or maybe more ago with a link to an article where a village doctor spoke about the increase in teenage girls turning up at her surgery with anal injuries from anal sex with partners who have learnt how to do it in porn.
I can't remember if it was the same link or another link on the thread but a lot of teenage girls spoke of pressure to consent because it's expected from partners and it's made out to be the norm.
I'm not shocked to read a pp say a 23 year old didn't know the risks, firstly a lot of people won't talk to their teenagers about porn and how damaging it can be in general, let alone go into more specifics like possible risks of rough anal, violence and lack of consent that is shown in mainstream porn. Porn doesn't show the prep that's needed and it's just about ramming the penis wether the woman is enjoying it or not.
The cynic in me thinks the risks are not promoted and warned about because it'll make more women and girls say no.
As much as I wish we didn't have to, I think society needs to teach our kids about the dangers of porn in general, about how it doesn't show consent, about the violence and degradation of women not being part of a healthy equal relationship. I've spoken to my dd about coercion and how to spot it, things like when you've said no and they everyone else likes it, or if you looked me you'd try it etc etc and my brother thinks I'm bang out of order and will make her scared of boys, if a boy is going to try and push her into acts she's said no to then she should be fucking scared of him. His son is also 14 and brother won't even answer basic questions his son has and can't see he's going to get his answers from school and online as a result. That's he's naive if he thinks his son is gonna wait until he's 16 to look up sexual questions.