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SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 02:12:44

Hi all.
Just needed a handhold really. Going through the stages of being heartbroken and on my own.
Always wake up this time of night missing him. Then cant get back to sleep.
I get that horrible wave of sadness and gut churnning knowing I will never see him again.
When will it end?

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Knucklehead101 Sat 13-Jun-20 02:20:09

I'm going through a breakup now too so big handhold and flowers. This is always the worst time. Try to remember we've made it through 100% of the other bad things that have happened to us. You're doing brilliantly and we will do this x

Mermaidwaves Sat 13-Jun-20 09:15:21

I'm there too, FWB ended it with me on Tuesday as he's met someone he wants a relationship with. I woke up at 4am this morning as I dreamt about him, crying. I just feel this horrible stomache churning panic when I think about never seeing him again and him with his new girl. Why her and not me? flowers for all those going through this pain.

Knucklehead101 Sat 13-Jun-20 10:48:07

How are you both feeling this morning?

OhioOhioOhio Sat 13-Jun-20 10:50:54

Omg this reminds me why I'm single.

peakygal Sat 13-Jun-20 10:55:28

Im going through something similar but in a friendship way. We were extremely close for 3 and a half years, spoke every single day, been through so much together and then this lockdown completely broke us coz we weren't able to see eachother and we constantly argued. I miss him so much. I can't sleep or nothing. Hope you're doing ok x

SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 11:30:09

Morning everyone.
Im at that stage where I think im going to get him back. Doll myself up after no contact. Show him what hes missing. All of that caper. I know it wont work. But its nice to have that fantasy i guess

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SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 11:30:43

Makes a change from feeling broken

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peakygal Sat 13-Jun-20 11:42:50

For me the hardest part is to not send a message or to even get one back when it was very day for over 3 years. Its hard to try act like strangers x

namechangedforthis123456 Sat 13-Jun-20 11:46:50

I'm in the same boat. It's awful. Handholds to all of you. thanks

namechangedforthis123456 Sat 13-Jun-20 11:47:10

I think I'm going to stay single. I can't do this.

Knucklehead101 Sat 13-Jun-20 12:18:34

I cant stop crying what on earth is the matter with me? He isnt even a great loss

namechangedforthis123456 Sat 13-Jun-20 13:14:29

What's the situation @Knucklehead101 ? Would it help to talk about it?
I've been strung along for the last 3 months by someone who I also happen to work with! Making it very difficult..... I've fallen for him. He just wanted sex.. which I was ok with for a while, but I told him how I felt and he told me he does not want a relationship (at least not with me). He has definitely carrot dangled a good few times, particularly if he thought I was losing interest. We talk every day.

He still wants to sext. It hurts too much. I don't know why I'm not good enough.
It's making me want to leave my job. Can't motivate myself today.

Knucklehead101 Sat 13-Jun-20 13:22:16

That's a horrible situation @namechangedforthis123456. My 'boyfriend' of two and a half years dumped me by text last night. I told him something he did upset me on Thursday (very calmly just said you did __ and it made me feel sad) and he dumped me by text last night. It was a LDR but I feel so sick and sad even though I know its absolutely for the best. I have blocked him mainly so I cant contact him in a moment of weakness or send him horrible messages..

SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 13:40:20

Ive done that knucklehead. Text him, begged him, blocked and unblocked-everything. He has a different number now I think but im not sure. He doesnt use whatsapp as much as he did so im guessing he has a new number and different whatsapp account. Sometime I get so angry that I hate him. Only I dont. I love him.

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SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 13:42:19

Its been 15 days and it feels like a lifetimeflowers

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Knucklehead101 Sat 13-Jun-20 14:02:57

Sissy oh God I really feel for you. Where is our self respect?

SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 14:33:41

Mine went out of the window when i fell on my knees pleading with him.
Fill so stupid now.
Must have looked so desperate.
I was. I didnt even see it coming.

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SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 14:36:38

Im sorry your going through this knucklehead. Its horrible isnt it? My heart goes out to you. Sending big hugs wherever you are flowers

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Patch23042 Sat 13-Jun-20 14:37:06

It’s a bloody horrible feeling.

Why did he end it Sissy?

Knucklehead101 Sat 13-Jun-20 15:21:36

I'm in Asda car park bawling my eyes out because I always messaged him after Asda for some reason. How pathetic am I?

SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 15:29:06

Knucklehead im here are you ok?

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SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 15:30:56

Your not pathetic. Your in shock. It will be alright. We will get through it. I ride through each bit of pain and think im getting a little bit closer to getting over him.

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SissyLongStockings Sat 13-Jun-20 15:34:44

Hi Patch23042
He ended it because his DC from his previous relationship wasnt coping very well. He needed to be there for them. I understand it of course but it still hurts.

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Babypiggy Sat 13-Jun-20 15:39:43

Can I join this pls? Also trying to get over someone and ive beenthere done the block and unblock and all the rest.

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