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Softzilla returns..... to soft play

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Unreasonableunreasonableness Tue 24-Apr-18 19:57:31

Probably will be a boring thread as i mainly intend to continue just ignoring and refusing to be drawn in to any games but...

Guess where I went today? And who I bumped into there? (I really need to find another place to hang out with people! )
Well she was there when I turned up with party mum. We greeted her with a surprised slightly awkward 'oh... hi!' which she returned, but then sat at a different table.
Later in the afternoon when I'd got home she called and i picked up without thinking. She said she wanted to chat and make it so that we could start going to our usual group again - she seemed to be under the impression that I was no longer going. And asked if she could come over right then. I said no sorry as it was time for dinner/ bath/ bed etc for my dc. I also told her that I was still attending the group and that she didn't need to worry about attending, I joked that it's big enough for both of us..... and she put the phone down. I wondered if it was a mistake but she never called back if it was and I don't want to call her.

GothMummy Tue 24-Apr-18 20:00:23

Oh dear! I think you handled it well though.

PollyBanana Tue 24-Apr-18 20:01:31

She seems determined to make this a much bigger deal that it needs to be.
No need for a face to face convo

Bluelonerose Tue 24-Apr-18 20:01:58

I can't believe you still haven't blocked her shock

GeminiWarrior Tue 24-Apr-18 20:02:40

Can you link original thread pls?

lynzpynz Tue 24-Apr-18 20:03:20

I’d def avoid any ‘alone time’ with this woman like the plague, she sounds exactly the type to make up or twist things you’ve said to cause more drama! Sounds like you’re still handling it perfectly, rationally and not letting her drag you into her nonsense!

BarryTheKestrel Tue 24-Apr-18 20:04:17

Oh God. I can't believe she is still making a huge deal out of this!
Let's hope she doesn't go on a character assassination again.

YouTheCat Tue 24-Apr-18 20:05:54

She wants to be begged to return, doesn't she? She's going to be waiting a long time.

amusedbush Tue 24-Apr-18 20:06:32

She really is batshit shock

MarcellaBackland Tue 24-Apr-18 20:12:28

Who?

peepholepringle Tue 24-Apr-18 20:14:58

I wouldn't engage any further than you already have. She sounds unhinged!

Ellendegeneres Tue 24-Apr-18 20:15:45

Hahaha she wanted to come over to unleash her crazy in private so she could then tell others she made an effort to see you and squash this thing that didn’t exist before she lost her fucking mind but you were sooo mean and horrible and now... she’s left with nothing.

gamerchick Tue 24-Apr-18 20:18:38

Obviously she has far too much time on her hands and is stewing over this.

Just block the twat.

Thequeenisdeadboys Tue 24-Apr-18 20:27:58

Is this about the convo hogger woman ?

Bramble71 Tue 24-Apr-18 20:29:15

Oh goodness me! She really is a bit bonkers!

mummypeepee Tue 24-Apr-18 20:30:12

She’s crazy!!!

MsJudgemental Tue 24-Apr-18 20:30:38

Or, is this the woman who expects you to pay for her if you suggest going somewhere?

GreenTulips Tue 24-Apr-18 20:30:41

Well the difference isn't that you know it's a game and therefore not affecting you mentally, which was the real issue a few weeks ago!

Keep going .... wait for more batsht antics

Leckhamptonmummy Tue 24-Apr-18 20:30:48

So missed the original thread... she sounds like a twat though

Gemini69 Tue 24-Apr-18 20:30:53

hahahaaaa brilliant.. Welcome Back OP flowers

AnneLovesGilbert Tue 24-Apr-18 20:31:22

Block her. Honestly. She’s fixated and ours weird and unhealthy.

For your own sanity, please stop engaging with her!

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar Tue 24-Apr-18 20:32:56

How many fecking threads about this have you had now?

MrsMozart Tue 24-Apr-18 20:33:38

Goodness me.

Maybe point her to a fairly recent Disney film with a catchy main song... shockhmmconfused

Cagliostro Tue 24-Apr-18 20:34:36

Blimey. She really doesn’t get it does she

YippeeTipTap Tue 24-Apr-18 20:34:56

I would have blocked her when this all first started and can’t imagine why you haven’t.

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