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Softzilla returns..... to soft play

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 24/04/2018 19:57

Probably will be a boring thread as i mainly intend to continue just ignoring and refusing to be drawn in to any games but...

Guess where I went today? And who I bumped into there? (I really need to find another place to hang out with people! )
Well she was there when I turned up with party mum. We greeted her with a surprised slightly awkward 'oh... hi!' which she returned, but then sat at a different table.
Later in the afternoon when I'd got home she called and i picked up without thinking. She said she wanted to chat and make it so that we could start going to our usual group again - she seemed to be under the impression that I was no longer going. And asked if she could come over right then. I said no sorry as it was time for dinner/ bath/ bed etc for my dc. I also told her that I was still attending the group and that she didn't need to worry about attending, I joked that it's big enough for both of us..... and she put the phone down. I wondered if it was a mistake but she never called back if it was and I don't want to call her.

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Weezol · 25/04/2018 12:44

If you have her address, go to

www.open.ac.uk

and send her a course prospectus. She clearly has too much time on her hands.

Idontdowindows · 25/04/2018 12:47

She's nuts!

aaaaargghhhhelpme · 25/04/2018 12:53

She’s certifiable.

Well done op. Doing so well. Agree with pp. she wants to get into an argument so she can claim she was hard done by.

Just ignore. Nothing you can say or do will get through. She’s on a mission. She’s dug herself in too deep to admit she’s fucked up.

GabsAlot · 25/04/2018 12:54

dont say anything more op she wants a fight and to blame it all on you

LaContessaDiPlump · 25/04/2018 12:59

"I don't understand - what am I doing that's frustrating?"

Gwan gwan gwan gwan gwan.....

LaContessaDiPlump · 25/04/2018 12:59

Might not be the most mature or sensible response, mind you Grin

zzzzz · 25/04/2018 13:00

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VladmirsPoutine · 25/04/2018 13:01

Crikey. Are you still attention seeking over this? Do you not have anything better to do. What next... "Tomorrow I'm going to soft-play and ordering a coffee, wish me luck." Get over it already.

Idontdowindows · 25/04/2018 13:02

Oh come off it Vladmir

Hide the thread if it irritates you so much.

VladmirsPoutine · 25/04/2018 13:02

Life must be incredibly non-happeing for you in order to have made 3 threads over such a non-issue.

TemptressofWaikiki · 25/04/2018 13:03

My flabber is continuingly gasted! I am utterly intrigued and deliciously revolted. Softzilla is the sort of guilty pleasure that reminds me of gross pimple popping YouTube videos Grin

Ladymadness · 25/04/2018 13:07

Softzilla really is a drama llama isnt she Grin asif she thought you werent attending groups because of her !

stateschool · 25/04/2018 13:07

Y'all seem to have a lot of time on your hands for drama. Maybe get some new hobbies?

Lizzie48 · 25/04/2018 13:10

It doesn't irritate Vladmir. She's loving it, showing off her superiority with snide comments. You sound silly and the opposite of grown up. Hmm

Lizzie48 · 25/04/2018 13:11

Same with you, stateschool seriously get a life. It's our time we're wasting not yours.

StormTreader · 25/04/2018 13:13

I notice stateschool has managed to both try and claim some kind of moral high ground WHILE ALSO now bookmarking for updates Grin

elisenbrunnen · 25/04/2018 13:14

Life must be incredibly non-happeing for you in order to have made 3 threads over such a non-issue. - Vladimir, your life must be incredibly non-happening for you to comment over such a 'non-issue'.

DadDadDad · 25/04/2018 13:16

stateschool - I don't have lots of time, so I find one way to use my time effectively is not to read, let alone comment on, threads that don't interest me. You could give that a try. Smile

stateschool · 25/04/2018 13:18

yeah, bad habit. I look at all the threads on the first page. I have no idea what this is about and care even less.

StealthPolarBear · 25/04/2018 13:24

Is this the one who upset your pregnant friend? Or am I thinking of another thread

dubmumof2 · 25/04/2018 13:26

OP I am reluctant to even make a suggestion because I think your instincts and responses to Softzilla in the past have been perfect but I think storminanteacup's suggested response this time is perfect "I don't know what you want from me. Please just drop it and let's move on, everything is fine. See you Friday"

Aprilmightbemynewname · 25/04/2018 13:28

Bet she is a' pick at a scab' person!

Clutterbugsmum · 25/04/2018 13:29

Text her back

'There is nothing to be frustrated about, me, friend A, Party friend and NPF have told you that there is not a problem. Now please drop it as I will converse in any conversation about this.
Hope to see you at normal groups with friends' And leave it at that.

Although I don't think she will drop it solely because you won't interact with her and she using every tactic she used in the past to get reaction and she doesn't understand why it's not working.

notapizzaeater · 25/04/2018 13:31

Why are you frustrating? She's still mad as a bag of froGs

Unreasonableunreasonableness · 25/04/2018 13:34

Stealth, yes that's the one. It has taken quite a bit to reassure tpf that I'm not upset with her.

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