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Softzilla returns..... to soft play

999 replies

Unreasonableunreasonableness · 24/04/2018 19:57

Probably will be a boring thread as i mainly intend to continue just ignoring and refusing to be drawn in to any games but...

Guess where I went today? And who I bumped into there? (I really need to find another place to hang out with people! )
Well she was there when I turned up with party mum. We greeted her with a surprised slightly awkward 'oh... hi!' which she returned, but then sat at a different table.
Later in the afternoon when I'd got home she called and i picked up without thinking. She said she wanted to chat and make it so that we could start going to our usual group again - she seemed to be under the impression that I was no longer going. And asked if she could come over right then. I said no sorry as it was time for dinner/ bath/ bed etc for my dc. I also told her that I was still attending the group and that she didn't need to worry about attending, I joked that it's big enough for both of us..... and she put the phone down. I wondered if it was a mistake but she never called back if it was and I don't want to call her.

OP posts:
GabsAlot · 24/04/2018 20:36

batshit crackhead is back again-i knew she wold be

nursy1 · 24/04/2018 20:37

She’s back!!
However, it’s more of the same.
My reading is she has been picking off people from the group one by one and asking if they have seen you. Of course the6 have probably said “ No” or “can’t remember” because they don’t want drawing in to her games.
Now she is trying to assert her control over You again by being the fixer. Don’t let her. Beware though. She hates you for not playing by her rules.

Willow2017 · 24/04/2018 20:38

Ha ha she obviously thought you would be to scared to go to meet ups and was waiting for her to give you permission to go and assure you she had 'forgiven you'.

Psycho hose beast.

Cindie943811A · 24/04/2018 20:38

You did the right thing OP. I think you need to block her or give her her own ring tone so you don’t inadvertently answer her calls.
If she asks you to come along with her to the group meet up again say “Why? Do you want to pay for me this time?”
Good luck

GabsAlot · 24/04/2018 20:40

love it wilow

Hepzibar · 24/04/2018 20:44

lamagreyhound Who put you in charge? . It's a forum, starting threads is the general idea, you don't have to read them.

ReanimatedSGB · 24/04/2018 20:49

Just carry on acting as though you barely give her a thought. It will drive her even more bugfuck, but I imagine the whole group is now tired of her and just won't engage in any more silliness from her.

MissionItsPossible · 24/04/2018 20:51

Who is she? What is 'the group'? Does anyone know the original thread?

sauvignonblancplz · 24/04/2018 20:53

What an absolute nutcase!!!!!!!

mummyhaschangedhername · 24/04/2018 20:54

She's crazy!

CuckingFunt1987 · 24/04/2018 20:58

Op why havent t you blocked her ? It's coming across as though you are also enjoying this game ? Block her and be done !

Mummyoflittledragon · 24/04/2018 21:00

Helzibar agreed. I assume this is no 3 unless I missed something. And I’m back on this thread to cheer op on.

Well done REasonable. Your communication was superb as always. Crazy woman.

ItsNachoCheese · 24/04/2018 21:02

Shes utterly insane

Skinnyboneylittlepony · 24/04/2018 21:06

Link to thread one of 4. Link to the next thread on the last page. About 100 pages worth.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3212527-For-not-paying-even-though-I-invited

bearbehind · 24/04/2018 21:07

OP you are stringing this out nearly as much as she is.

Give over with the dramas and just get on with things.

hdh747 · 24/04/2018 21:07

Just wierd. I don't get what it is she wants that she can't just say in a sentence or two on the phone. What is even left to say. Unless she's waiting for you to apologise and offer to pay for her...

Willow2017 · 24/04/2018 21:09

Nobody is forcing anyone to read updates. You know, just ignore the thread its perfectly obvious what its about.

Flexoset · 24/04/2018 21:10

Why on earth is she still trying to generate drama?

She sounds utterly unhinged (and aggressive).

Sounds like OP handled that conversation really well. But I wouldn't be picking up any more calls from her... if she MUST keep pestering the OP (though God knows why), at least she can do so in writing so that the OP has proof of any batshittery and Softzilla can't lie about it.

Smeddum · 24/04/2018 21:12

I can’t believe she (softzilla) is still at it! Why can’t she just stop and get on with being a grown up?

Idontdowindows · 24/04/2018 21:13

Perfect reaction OP :)

Zeze247 · 24/04/2018 21:13

Can we have a recap?

GreenTulips · 24/04/2018 21:17

OP is at soft play
CF calls to ask about a meet up
OP says we're at X comenit you like
CF turns up and is miffed - turns out that as OP 'invited' OP should pay for CF and CF child
CF then attempts to lure OP friend to another table and growls at OP

CF then attempts to turn the tables on OP - which failed as OPnwas extremely British and did that ignore thing ..... even CF hundreds of PA texts and calls later ....

GreenTulips · 24/04/2018 21:18

throw in a kids party - party mum and various other OP friends ....

MovingThisYearHopefully · 24/04/2018 21:22

HaHa! Brilliant! The total loony tune! You really need to block the freak & move on!

AlbertaSimmons · 24/04/2018 21:22

She's barking.