Crikey. Is this a new thing ? That children can't be upset? Or offended?
Seriously, giraffe, what is the alternative here?
If the school wants to extricate itself from gender ideology there is obviously going to be some fallout.
They will have some children who are clearly in trouble, some who are pissed of, and some who are utterly relieved.
Carrying on with a dangerous reality denying ideology, that is doomed to failure, is not the answer.
How would you do it, in that case?