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The sacrificial lamb: Transsexual "Louise" blames transgenders and GCs for everything. Oh, and also the Government. And the NHS. And gender clinics. And GRCs. And possibly my dog.

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 17:08

https://genderblog.net/a-transsexual-writes/

Well, this is odd: a strange blog from Nick Wallis, written almost entirely by a "transsexual" (self-termed) person called Louise.

I wouldn't even know where to start to respond to such hyperbole, but the comments by Jennifer Gourley, in the Comments section, say pretty much everything I could think of.

One small quote from "Louise" (it's a pseudonym) sums it up:

"So you see we’re the little guy in the middle being shot at by both sides. The sacrificial lamb in somebody else’s war."

The "little guy" would be transsexuals. Or something.

A transsexual writes…

Over the past couple of years I’ve been corresponding with a couple of older male transsexuals. They are courteous types who have watched in horror at what they see as the politicisation of t…

https://genderblog.net/a-transsexual-writes/

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RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 15:58

Whatchamacallitt · 16/09/2026 15:30

What a self indulgent, woe is me piece. The idea that a gender identity clinic wouldn't know anything about or understand transsexual patients is laughable. He really thinks he's some special creature, elevated above the mundane transgender person.

I have some empathy regarding treatment issues with the GP. I know there have been issues with patients who are post-operative and many years into 'transition', having had their care taken over by GPs who are now withdrawing it due to funding and shared care disputes. These patients don't produce any sex hormones of their own and it isn't acceptable to leave them that way and risk osteoporosis. Obviously it would be far healthier to have appropriate sex hormones but I also realistically know that isn't a battle that GPs are going to win. At the end of the day, someone who has already been through the waiting list and gender clinic pathway and is long established on treatment shouldn't be having this withdrawn with little warning.

The moaning about the Supreme Court ruling is predictable. I have no sympathy. None of these men belong in female single sex space. I'm perfectly happy to see service providers add additional unisex facilities but under no circumstances should they be using the women's. He also repeats the mistruth that the supreme court didn't fully consider or listen to the trans 'side'.

There is also a complete mischaracterisation of the GC position. GC is a broad church and has many positions in a spectrum. Most of us are not campaigning to remove civil rights from trans-identified people, or trying to control their medical choices. We simply wish to see women's rights upheld. We aren't responsible for issues relating to transgender care, which is entirely down to a lack of good quality evidence and funding/responsibility disputes between primary and secondary care.
This part I agree with fully:
'The NHS diagnosed me. The NHS operated on me. And the NHS medicalised me. Thus they have a duty of care'
But he is placing blame at the wrong door. GCs are not responsible for this, the NHS is. Neither is it a political decision but a clinical and funding one.

I agree that there are a lot of different groups classed under the terms 'trans' and not all should be conflated. But the pretence that a man is rendered risk free and docile by possessing a GRC or having his penis amputated is a farce. Sarah Jane Baker is post-operative, even having amputated his own testicles. It doesn't render him any less misogynistic, violent or dangerous. Claiming that concerns regarding the safety of women and children is simple bigotry is lazy and underhanded. Comparing us to Nazis like Dr Goebbels is typical of the trans activists this man supposedly decries. Claiming that denying men access to women's toilets is extermination is a similarly ludicrous and outrageous claim.

Remember who is trying to destroy the WI.

AimsAndObjectives · 16/09/2026 16:05

ArabellaScott · 16/09/2026 15:54

Anna describes a fairly bleak meeting she had outside the clinic with a senior person at her NHS Trust. “I was in tears. I was saying, “look, there’s all these vulnerable people. We’re castrating them as a treatment option. We’re not thinking about it properly. It’s so wrong.” And he said, “I agree with every word you’re saying, but what you don’t understand is that the gender clinic bankrolls the mental health services in this Trust*. It brings in a lot of money for the Trust.”

Fucking, fucking, hell.

Wasn't something similar happening at the Portman and Tavistock NHS Trust? The GIDs clinic was bringing in significant funding to the rest of the trust? I seem to remember this in Hannah Barnes's 'Time to Think'.

AimsAndObjectives · 16/09/2026 16:07

Another chilling example Anna gave was her experience of dealing with 18 year olds who had been put on puberty blockers whilst at the Tavistock children’s gender clinic. “Because they’d been on puberty blockers, it felt like being in the room with a 13 or 14 year old. Cognitively and emotionally, it felt like somebody much younger to the point where, as a team, it felt like we were working in an adolescent service. But we were an adult service. I’d never worked with adolescents. It’s a different field. So I suppose we were… I wouldn’t say out of our depth, but it was uncomfortable.”
I pick Anna up on the point about cognition. Was she saying that these teenagers’ mental development had slowed?
“Totally, yeah. Totally. And I can remember we had a training session with some of the endocrinologists from the Tavistock children’s gender identity service. And I put that to them and they went, “No, no, no. There’s no evidence for that.” I said, “well, that’s what I’m seeing”, but they were just: “No, no, no. That’s not a thing”.”

What a surprise, says absolutely no-one with a functioning adult brain and a concern about child safeguarding.

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 16/09/2026 16:07

BlueLegume · 16/09/2026 15:54

@MarcTheGenderSkeptic IMO - it all came down to funding - or rather funding drying up after the success of same sex marriage - a well fought and deserved win. The fight was won.

Ruth Hunt is now in the House of Lords.

Sadly much of the success of the gays and lesbians was then hijacked by the T plus brigade - I make no apology for that term. It is all pushing boundaries and challenging the traditional family all neatly wrapped up in the #BeKind movement. We complied and now if we raise our heads over concerns we are transphobic and similarly if we raise concerns about Islam we are deemed to be Islamophobic.

Two huge Trojan Horses pushed into society with people showing concerns being made to listen to linguistic gymnastics to accept these huge societal changes. Families broken by having to accept the lie that is trans.

And there it is. Truth and reality smashed apart under the guise of #BeKind

I have a gay friend, cold as ice emotionally, not a shred of Be Kind in him, who on the one hand is a total biological determinist, what's in your pants dictates who you are, has no time for fashionable excesses in society, hugely skeptical on Stonewall...yet when we talk about women and gays (yes, I realise as a straight man I can't lecture him), he sees no compromise on trans being the societal acceptance thing it's become (yet then he takes the piss out of transgender BS the next moment, I can't keep up!).
Interestingly, his niece who is strongly on the autistic spectrum, has come out as trans, NB mainly, but a boy on some days. Now there can be no debate, the individual must be free of all judgements from the family and society at large.
Yes, even the uncle, my "what's in your pants is who you are" friend goes into denial. If he was being honest, and he hints at it more and more often, it's mass delusion powering this, the niece is as female as the day she was born, but societal pressures, judging, and the eggshells the girl and family walk on means that for the first time in our friendship, he's coy, self censoring, not himself.

BlueLegume · 16/09/2026 16:33

@MarcTheGenderSkeptic madness. But as he has ‘kin in the game’ to quote a cleverer person than me he has to play along or he is seen as a bigot.

How would we be dealing with this contagion if it was anorexia? Giving weightloss drugs/gastric bands? No we wouldn’t because we know anorexia is a mental illness.

Trans needs to be pathologised in a similar vain so we can help these people - especially the young women opting out of womanhood.

I feel we are lying to a whole group of people who seem to think they are in a revolution and this will all turn out great. It won’t and the boys will still be boys and the girls will still be girls.

We seem to have lost the ability as a society to explain that women come in all personalities and presentations and men do to. You are not born in the wrong body and using intersex as the gotcha is not acceptable. They are still male or female.

I have said this before. This is a medical scandal in the making.

The men lapping as women are also the worst type of men and they are destroying or attempting to destroy women’s rights. It is misogynistic beyond belief all dressed up as be kind.

BlueLegume · 16/09/2026 16:47

Larping not lapping

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 16/09/2026 16:54

BlueLegume · 16/09/2026 16:33

@MarcTheGenderSkeptic madness. But as he has ‘kin in the game’ to quote a cleverer person than me he has to play along or he is seen as a bigot.

How would we be dealing with this contagion if it was anorexia? Giving weightloss drugs/gastric bands? No we wouldn’t because we know anorexia is a mental illness.

Trans needs to be pathologised in a similar vain so we can help these people - especially the young women opting out of womanhood.

I feel we are lying to a whole group of people who seem to think they are in a revolution and this will all turn out great. It won’t and the boys will still be boys and the girls will still be girls.

We seem to have lost the ability as a society to explain that women come in all personalities and presentations and men do to. You are not born in the wrong body and using intersex as the gotcha is not acceptable. They are still male or female.

I have said this before. This is a medical scandal in the making.

The men lapping as women are also the worst type of men and they are destroying or attempting to destroy women’s rights. It is misogynistic beyond belief all dressed up as be kind.

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I think a big problem is that this has arisen at the very point in the West that our critical reasoning skills have dumbed down in the social media age, social contagion now happens globally via the web as opposed to just in your school alone, or village at most.
Additionally, we have no attention span, we both can't concentrate on one story for more than three nanoseconds, all the while so many things come at us all the time.
Into this dilution of the Western ethos have come the motivated actors and activist class.
But even here, things are muddy, there's a lot of genuine belief in their cause, yet the cause (one sex can magically become another) is as ephemeral as the very medium it's transmitted on (online, peer to peer radicalisation), and permitted by the wholly insubstantial guard rails of society.
It's as if the very shelling out of the Western culture is the perfect foundation for an ethos that instead of being a celebration of our differences, looks to hollow us out into pure stereotypes. What is touted as lifting humanity up instead flattens and homogenizes us.
An ephemeral belief, imposed on an insubstantial culture.
That's why the fighrback of women, from Greer, Bindel, thru JKR, to the Sex Matters women, and all the proud GC journalists refusing to shut up, is so jarring to the culture.
It's reminding us all what the culture used to be, based on science, logic, lack of sentimentality. Pride in the Enlightenment and no nonsense Western testing of our principles.
The culture today is struggling to take this.
And it's why the activist class was so successful for what looks like nearly a couple of decades (if I deem the start of the decline as the Gender Recognition Act) in effectively hijacking society. Uniquely aided by social media, and public shaming as the new method to keep us all in line.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 16/09/2026 19:05

ArabellaScott · 16/09/2026 13:52

I was extra polite. 🙂

You were! Quite restrained, I thought. ✅

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BlueLegume · 16/09/2026 19:13

Genuine question. How do teachers, health professionals, doctors, therapists, surgeons not see they are grifting for money and kudos and not see reality and truth? I am a normal middle aged woman, not an activist- I see the lies. It is not ‘kind’ to concur with a delusion.

Pingponghavoc · 16/09/2026 19:52

I think its professional working independently with no joined up thinking.

Schools were letting in outside companies to talk about sex education, lgb, or other issues and all included or sometimes focused just on trans. Lots of trans content on line was aimed at children. Schools started to see children socially transition. Maybe seeing it as a fad or part of LGB?

GP were seeing more children and adults and referring them to clinic.

Schools, social workers, parents and GPs trusting the experts in clinics.

The clinics saw the rise, but didnt/couldnt see a source.

These patients were referred on to endocrinology and surgeons who trusted the clinics diagnosis.

The clinics were only diagnosing gender dysphoria, and not responsible for prescribing drugs and surgery.

Everyone along the line should have known that trans children wasn't a thing 10 minutes ago and adult transition was very rare. But the culture made it difficult to speak out if we werent experts. But who were the experts? No one is taking responsibility.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/09/2026 20:16

Pingponghavoc · 16/09/2026 19:52

I think its professional working independently with no joined up thinking.

Schools were letting in outside companies to talk about sex education, lgb, or other issues and all included or sometimes focused just on trans. Lots of trans content on line was aimed at children. Schools started to see children socially transition. Maybe seeing it as a fad or part of LGB?

GP were seeing more children and adults and referring them to clinic.

Schools, social workers, parents and GPs trusting the experts in clinics.

The clinics saw the rise, but didnt/couldnt see a source.

These patients were referred on to endocrinology and surgeons who trusted the clinics diagnosis.

The clinics were only diagnosing gender dysphoria, and not responsible for prescribing drugs and surgery.

Everyone along the line should have known that trans children wasn't a thing 10 minutes ago and adult transition was very rare. But the culture made it difficult to speak out if we werent experts. But who were the experts? No one is taking responsibility.

Agreed. The DfE & other govt departments openly funded & promoted trans lobby groups. Even Ofsted pushed GI at primary schools and only abandoned it when they were outed by the Telegraph for downgrading primary schools inspection results, stating that failing to teach about gender identity was a contributing factor. Plus leaked letters from Stonewall whining that Inspectors weren't talking to primary children enough about trans issues

https://archive.ph/L987K

The risk to schools for failing to dance to the trans tune was massive. Ofsted have now reverse ferreted but without any apology. The new guidance from the DfE shows they recognise the damage they've enabled - but again no public acknowledgement.

So now schools have to manage new guidance, numerous activist staff egged on by the Unions to ignore the law and changes with no public acknowledgment that all the powerful organisations were wrong.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 16/09/2026 20:17

How do teachers, health professionals, doctors, therapists, surgeons not see they are grifting for money and kudos and not see reality and truth?

@BlueLegume
Two things stood out for me, from the Gender Clinician blog:

As a clinician or as a service, you give them what they want. Everybody’s happy. You can feel quite righteous, I suppose,

and

when I work in the psychotherapy service, that’s where I think. And when I come to the gender clinic, that’s where I don’t think. I just do what’s asked of me.”

Remember (I think we all can) that job you hated, really f*ing hated, but you got to that point in the job where you could roll out of bed, drag yourself into work, turn on the autopilot, and get through the day by thinking about the bills you were going to be able to pay, the clothes you could buy, and the lovely things you'd be able to do that weekend (not AT WORK)?

And maybe there's a nice, small team of you who all hate your jobs, but you keep each other going, and nobody can afford to quit, so you turn your brain off and make the best of it?

I'll bet we've all had jobs like that, and we can do it for quite a while before the stress just starts to wear us down.

I imagine it must have been something similar for a lot of those people who knew something felt off, but if you have to get through your day, you just turn off the warning signs.

But, I never had the power to ruin someone else's life except for firing them for being incompetent. It must take a huge switch to turn off the "caring" if you are a medic of any kind. Some medics (and we've seen the evidence in employment tribunals) seem to be able to access that switch more easily than other people.

Just switch off the brain, do as you're told, take your salary, keep your job. We really only hear about those who lost their jobs.

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Scout2016 · 16/09/2026 21:34

@MarcTheGenderSkeptic I think also some people love A Cause and to be seen as one of the Good Guys. Just as sticking up a Pride flag is cheap and easy PR, some of these supporters have thought it's an easy cause to support, costs them nothing- they don't really have to do anything and they don't think it will negatively affect them. It's also what's fashionable. How else to explain protests with a mismatch of placards about Palestine, "trans rights" and pro sex work. Why are those 3 issues so often lumped together?

I read that Piddington has a Lib Dem MP, which made me think so liberal until it's an issue on their doorstep. Lots of people think they are oh so open minded and "kind" until it impacts them.

Scout2016 · 16/09/2026 21:47

Can anyone explain the medical aspect please, around Louise needing oestrogen? Men in their 60s don't, is that because testosterone protects them but Louise, having had their testicles removed, doesn't produce it?

Louise is about getting a bit carried away about Scott, given they only started dating in June. Bit quick and unhealthy to be citing him as your reason to live after 3 ish months.

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 17/09/2026 00:00

Scout2016 · 16/09/2026 21:34

@MarcTheGenderSkeptic I think also some people love A Cause and to be seen as one of the Good Guys. Just as sticking up a Pride flag is cheap and easy PR, some of these supporters have thought it's an easy cause to support, costs them nothing- they don't really have to do anything and they don't think it will negatively affect them. It's also what's fashionable. How else to explain protests with a mismatch of placards about Palestine, "trans rights" and pro sex work. Why are those 3 issues so often lumped together?

I read that Piddington has a Lib Dem MP, which made me think so liberal until it's an issue on their doorstep. Lots of people think they are oh so open minded and "kind" until it impacts them.

I work in therapy, but for myself. Meaning I've avoided all groupthink mantras. I could have gone down a more NHS psychotherapy route as well. Or instead trained as a doctor or nurse. Yet when I was younger going into this line of work, I was way more left coded, and more malleable into groupthink.
I'm sure I'd have been a lot more Omnicause, ramped up being vertically and horizontally radicalised in social justice matters, trans likely massive amongst these.
I can genuinely see my "sliding doors" self banging on about the feelings of trans trumping the red lines of women had I stayed in the rigid group mentality of working in the NHS, education or academia.
And had that happened, there'd be very little impetus for me to challenge my own "thinking" or try to extricate myself.
My working life would be replete with a team building where social justice ethos and thus pro trans would be my everyday professional language.
"First do no harm" can be flipped on its head when the "kindness" engendered by luxury beliefs systems replaces hard truths and genuine reflective wisdom for people needing help.

borntobequiet · 17/09/2026 06:23

Scout2016 · 16/09/2026 21:47

Can anyone explain the medical aspect please, around Louise needing oestrogen? Men in their 60s don't, is that because testosterone protects them but Louise, having had their testicles removed, doesn't produce it?

Louise is about getting a bit carried away about Scott, given they only started dating in June. Bit quick and unhealthy to be citing him as your reason to live after 3 ish months.

Louise is about getting a bit carried away about Scott, given they only started dating in June.

This caught my attention too.

HoppityBun · 17/09/2026 07:20

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 17/09/2026 00:00

I work in therapy, but for myself. Meaning I've avoided all groupthink mantras. I could have gone down a more NHS psychotherapy route as well. Or instead trained as a doctor or nurse. Yet when I was younger going into this line of work, I was way more left coded, and more malleable into groupthink.
I'm sure I'd have been a lot more Omnicause, ramped up being vertically and horizontally radicalised in social justice matters, trans likely massive amongst these.
I can genuinely see my "sliding doors" self banging on about the feelings of trans trumping the red lines of women had I stayed in the rigid group mentality of working in the NHS, education or academia.
And had that happened, there'd be very little impetus for me to challenge my own "thinking" or try to extricate myself.
My working life would be replete with a team building where social justice ethos and thus pro trans would be my everyday professional language.
"First do no harm" can be flipped on its head when the "kindness" engendered by luxury beliefs systems replaces hard truths and genuine reflective wisdom for people needing help.

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That’s such a good explanation! I have often look back and thought that way about my younger self in different situations.

I think this is exactly what goes on and has been going on in those clinics and with the wider population, too.

ArabellaScott · 17/09/2026 08:24

Pingponghavoc · 16/09/2026 19:52

I think its professional working independently with no joined up thinking.

Schools were letting in outside companies to talk about sex education, lgb, or other issues and all included or sometimes focused just on trans. Lots of trans content on line was aimed at children. Schools started to see children socially transition. Maybe seeing it as a fad or part of LGB?

GP were seeing more children and adults and referring them to clinic.

Schools, social workers, parents and GPs trusting the experts in clinics.

The clinics saw the rise, but didnt/couldnt see a source.

These patients were referred on to endocrinology and surgeons who trusted the clinics diagnosis.

The clinics were only diagnosing gender dysphoria, and not responsible for prescribing drugs and surgery.

Everyone along the line should have known that trans children wasn't a thing 10 minutes ago and adult transition was very rare. But the culture made it difficult to speak out if we werent experts. But who were the experts? No one is taking responsibility.

Bear in mind Walter Boumann and Jon Arcelus, who run the Nottingham gender clinic, were both very high up in WPATH.

I do think there is 'joined up thinking' happening at those levels, I'm afraid.

fromorbit · 17/09/2026 08:26

Operation Let them Speak. As long as others get to put reality out this kind of thing is only helpful.

For Women Scotland

20h
Some of the comments accuse Nick of falling for "Louise's" line. We don't think this is true. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is let people expose themselves in their own words. The venom directed at women is undisguised here.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/09/2026 09:17

The post from the gender clinician was incredibly upsetting. Real harm has been taking place

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 17/09/2026 09:39

ArabellaScott · 17/09/2026 08:24

Bear in mind Walter Boumann and Jon Arcelus, who run the Nottingham gender clinic, were both very high up in WPATH.

I do think there is 'joined up thinking' happening at those levels, I'm afraid.

I'm sure there is. But it still takes a compliant culture for motivated bad faith actor(vists) to coordinate things.
I'm more and more reading Róisín Michaux talking about the NGO activists who are manouvreing things at WHO, UN and especially EU level.
Again, they're working with a compliant Be Kind professional culture to enact the legal side of this revolution.

ArabellaScott · 17/09/2026 09:39

Well. Kids have been sterilised and will require lifelong medical care. But on the plus side, it's made a lot of money! And some surgeons got to try out novel ideas.

And some people got to be Who They Really Are.

ArabellaScott · 17/09/2026 09:42

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 17/09/2026 09:39

I'm sure there is. But it still takes a compliant culture for motivated bad faith actor(vists) to coordinate things.
I'm more and more reading Róisín Michaux talking about the NGO activists who are manouvreing things at WHO, UN and especially EU level.
Again, they're working with a compliant Be Kind professional culture to enact the legal side of this revolution.

The NHS has made arse covering and buck passing Olympic sports.

AimsAndObjectives · 17/09/2026 09:52

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 17/09/2026 09:39

I'm sure there is. But it still takes a compliant culture for motivated bad faith actor(vists) to coordinate things.
I'm more and more reading Róisín Michaux talking about the NGO activists who are manouvreing things at WHO, UN and especially EU level.
Again, they're working with a compliant Be Kind professional culture to enact the legal side of this revolution.

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