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The sacrificial lamb: Transsexual "Louise" blames transgenders and GCs for everything. Oh, and also the Government. And the NHS. And gender clinics. And GRCs. And possibly my dog.

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 17:08

https://genderblog.net/a-transsexual-writes/

Well, this is odd: a strange blog from Nick Wallis, written almost entirely by a "transsexual" (self-termed) person called Louise.

I wouldn't even know where to start to respond to such hyperbole, but the comments by Jennifer Gourley, in the Comments section, say pretty much everything I could think of.

One small quote from "Louise" (it's a pseudonym) sums it up:

"So you see we’re the little guy in the middle being shot at by both sides. The sacrificial lamb in somebody else’s war."

The "little guy" would be transsexuals. Or something.

A transsexual writes…

Over the past couple of years I’ve been corresponding with a couple of older male transsexuals. They are courteous types who have watched in horror at what they see as the politicisation of t…

https://genderblog.net/a-transsexual-writes/

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alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:10

It's all content - and therefore money - for Nick, isn't it? The big man saviour of womenkind. How some of you fall for this, I don't know.

Imdunfer · 15/09/2026 17:15

He's rather deluded, isn't he?

"I'm special, I'm not one of them".

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 15/09/2026 17:16

Imdunfer · 15/09/2026 17:15

He's rather deluded, isn't he?

"I'm special, I'm not one of them".

Operation Let Them Speak in action.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 17:19

alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:10

It's all content - and therefore money - for Nick, isn't it? The big man saviour of womenkind. How some of you fall for this, I don't know.

I guess you didn't read it 😆"Louise" is an acquaintance of Nick's and wanted to write something for the blog.

But, choose to ignore that if you want to, I really don't care. It's an interesting, if rather strange and hyperbolic, read.

This is at least the second time you have commented negatively about Nick's blog. It comes across to me as jealousy, just my impression.

It's just a blog. I'm sure you'll get over it.

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Lovelyview · 15/09/2026 17:22

alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:10

It's all content - and therefore money - for Nick, isn't it? The big man saviour of womenkind. How some of you fall for this, I don't know.

Ah yes, we're such silly women. Because a journalist does a story. After doing other stories. One of which slammed the brakes on the appalling Welsh gender services. Silly me.

AimsAndObjectives · 15/09/2026 17:23

alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:10

It's all content - and therefore money - for Nick, isn't it? The big man saviour of womenkind. How some of you fall for this, I don't know.

I'll keep funding Nick, thanks. Same as I fund Reduxx and Sex Matters and Seen in Journalism. He is helping to get the message out to the wider public.
Is he becoming rich from this? Unlikely. Does he need to eat? Of course.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 15/09/2026 17:26

alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:10

It's all content - and therefore money - for Nick, isn't it? The big man saviour of womenkind. How some of you fall for this, I don't know.

It really didn't take long for your 'I'm as GC as they come I just have few observations ' mask to slip did it

And anyway, unlike TRA, we don't think that TW views should be deplatformed, banned, or suppressed - on the contrary we are fully in favour of operation #letthemspeak

Mmmnotsure · 15/09/2026 17:38

Goodness, "Louise".
There's hyperbole, and then there's this.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 17:49

Mmmnotsure · 15/09/2026 17:38

Goodness, "Louise".
There's hyperbole, and then there's this.

It started out almost normally. It just went off the rails really quickly! "Louise" clearly has some unresolved issues.

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Mmmnotsure · 15/09/2026 17:52

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 17:49

It started out almost normally. It just went off the rails really quickly! "Louise" clearly has some unresolved issues.

Mostly his mother.

AimsAndObjectives · 15/09/2026 18:00

A heart-warming introduction. A rant against the NHS, which has nothing to do with GC people. A sleight of hand to obfuscate transsexual offending stats. A moan about all those other 'monsters' who are not the same as him at all. The obligatory Nazi and genocide references. Ending with an unsubtle attempt at emotional manipulation.
Do you know who aren't mentioned once? Women. It's almost as if he can't see us, or hates us so much that he cannot bear to mention us.

KittyWilkinson · 15/09/2026 18:10

I was looking to see if someone had started a thread about this. I read it this morning and my first thought was that I would be very interested to hear what someone describing themselves as an older transsexual had to say.
But after a para or two it was like a mask slipped. This person really hates women. So much that "Louise" cannot beat to use the word. " The GC". Its a right old rant by the end of it.

HoppityBun · 15/09/2026 18:14

alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:10

It's all content - and therefore money - for Nick, isn't it? The big man saviour of womenkind. How some of you fall for this, I don't know.

Bollocks to that.

Nick Wallis does sterling work, at personal expense. His blog explains why he provided this forum for Louise. It’s important to read what Louise has written and also to read the comments underneath, some of which are extremely well informed..

KittyWilkinson · 15/09/2026 18:22

I thought of responding as Nick Wallis invited comments but no one had responded at that point. Seeing as he (Nick) had made clear that anything viewed as being unkind would be deleted, I didn't really see the point in engaging and pointing out the dodgy factoids.

Edited to add: I missed the above post. So will go and see the comments. Its Nick's blog so he can invite whom he jolly well likes to write an article. Doesn't mean I have to agree with the invited person, and the article speaks volumes to me. It was very bitter about everyone except the author.

AimsAndObjectives · 15/09/2026 18:28

HoppityBun · 15/09/2026 18:14

Bollocks to that.

Nick Wallis does sterling work, at personal expense. His blog explains why he provided this forum for Louise. It’s important to read what Louise has written and also to read the comments underneath, some of which are extremely well informed..

He says he had 130 000 views for his BBC Gender Apology Row story (up to 145 000 views now), though he got only two new subscribers. So if anyone can spare a monthly or one-off donation, please consider it. We will benefit from keeping him focused on these issues.
I know most of us would prefer to support women, but Nick is very committed to the stories around safeguarding children too, and turned up in person to the puberty blockers demo in London.
(I am not his agent, honest😁)

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 18:28

AimsAndObjectives · 15/09/2026 18:00

A heart-warming introduction. A rant against the NHS, which has nothing to do with GC people. A sleight of hand to obfuscate transsexual offending stats. A moan about all those other 'monsters' who are not the same as him at all. The obligatory Nazi and genocide references. Ending with an unsubtle attempt at emotional manipulation.
Do you know who aren't mentioned once? Women. It's almost as if he can't see us, or hates us so much that he cannot bear to mention us.

See, that's really interesting! Both you and @KittyWilkinson noticed that about no mention of women, where I'm afraid that went right past me - but you're absolutely right, well spotted. I guess I'm not even looking for the word "woman" anymore because it's rarely even acknowledged that we exist.

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Igmum · 15/09/2026 18:29

I found it far less interesting than his normal blog. I prefer well informed, well written posts with evidence to justify the points that they make. I can see why Louise wanted a voice, but I still didn’t find it interesting.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 18:32

Mmmnotsure · 15/09/2026 17:52

Mostly his mother.

"Louise" would definitely benefit from grief counselling, as a start.

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AimsAndObjectives · 15/09/2026 18:37

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 18:28

See, that's really interesting! Both you and @KittyWilkinson noticed that about no mention of women, where I'm afraid that went right past me - but you're absolutely right, well spotted. I guess I'm not even looking for the word "woman" anymore because it's rarely even acknowledged that we exist.

It's a habit I have developed since corresponding with my woman-hating MP. I keep a tally of 'trans' vs 'women'. It's one of those 'tells' that is hidden in plain sight.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 15/09/2026 18:39

Igmum · 15/09/2026 18:29

I found it far less interesting than his normal blog. I prefer well informed, well written posts with evidence to justify the points that they make. I can see why Louise wanted a voice, but I still didn’t find it interesting.

I think I started out interested, for much the same reason as @KittyWilkinson did. I think I ended up more fascinated than interested by the end, and struggling to understand the "logic." But, still, I think it's useful to know the thoughts (ramblings?) of someone like "Louise" because we've been saying for years where are all the old-school transsexuals, what do they think about all this? Now we know what one of them thinks, I guess.

But, yes, not earth shattering, and the "arguments" became more and more predictable as the blog went on.

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pontefractals · 15/09/2026 18:39

KittyWilkinson · 15/09/2026 18:10

I was looking to see if someone had started a thread about this. I read it this morning and my first thought was that I would be very interested to hear what someone describing themselves as an older transsexual had to say.
But after a para or two it was like a mask slipped. This person really hates women. So much that "Louise" cannot beat to use the word. " The GC". Its a right old rant by the end of it.

Agreed, and if you were in any doubt, there's this paragraph:
"Transsexuals are NOT cross-dressers but I believe GCs are desperate to erase the difference between them in the hope of persuading the public (who never cared before) that they don’t want these people anywhere near their wives and daughters."
which makes it absolutely plain that he only tangentially considers women, and only in their relation to real people, ie men.
I honestly couldn't read it to the finish, it was so very solipsistic and so -disorganised? It was indeed a rant and I don't feel any obligation to read it.

RareGoalsVerge · 15/09/2026 18:39

Yes it reads like a lot of over-dramatic hyperbole but I can hear the genuine distress of the writer and that's a real emotion that shouldn't be dismissed. The author, and JKR too who the author highlights as in agreement with this, lay out that the 9,000ish post-op transsexuals are being genuinely damaged by the actions and beliefs of 500,000 or so other people who are lumped together under the trans umbrella and I can well believe it.

I've read less emotional writing from someone post-op before, I don't recall who, but I remember that it made sense that the operation was only done after an enormous amount of psychotherapy to explore whether any other treatment than the surgery might possibly relieve their suffering. The Psychiatric approach also included ensuring that the patient fully understood and accepted that the surgery would not make the person "actually" a woman, they would remain male, but the surgery would, if successful, relieve the dysphoria that they couldn't live with. That was a logically consistent approach and in combination with the Supreme Court clarification there is no contradiction that for the purpose of single-sex provisions, the operation does not change the sex category that the person is in.

However these provisions were never intended to cover the far, far greater number of people who don't have dysphoria, do not wish to pursue surgery and just want to present as the opposite sex whilst keeping their body the same. That status has been taken, for decades, as being the same thing and that's hugely damaging for all concerned.

The protected characteristic of Gender Reassignment is supposed to cover someone if they are proposing to undergo, are undergoing, or have undergone this process, but the vast majority of people under the trans umbrella are not remotely intending or expecting to undergo this process and that is 100% correct - the surgery is a huge risk to take and should only be done when it's the only possible option, therefore being on a pathway towards it should never be any kind of goal or tickbox as a means of achieving a different ambition. It is important that we should uphold that going through with the surgery does not make a man into a woman and does not entitle an individual to use women's spaces and facilities - any other position would be unethically pushing people towards the risks of a surgery that should not be carried out unless there is no other option. It would be hugely unethical to say to someone who wants X "you have to consent to this dangerous surgery with lifelong consequences in order to obtain X" - therefore the only compassionate thing to do is to confirm that the surgery will have no consequences for access to anything, and must only go ahead if the benefits to the individual within their own mind and body are sufficient in themselves without there being any such consequences.

It is right that people who consider themselves trans should be protected from discrimination. Conformity to sexist stereotypes should never be a requirement for participation in society and community and certainly there are plenty of places that will discriminate against gender nonconforming people. But the 500,000 people under the trans umbrella who are definitely not proposing to undergo, undergoing, or have undergone surgery should have a different category of protected characteristic that protects them.

Legislation should clarify and renact the Equality Act and the Gender Recognition Act together to set out formally that

  • sex and gender are different things
  • everyone has a sex and it is fixed at the moment of conception and remains the same throughout life. Disorders of Sexual Development do not create additional sexes or exist in a limbo between sexes, each DSD is a category within male or female.
  • not everyone has a gender and gender may be fluid, no one has to conform to the gender expectations associated with their sex.
  • a new protected characteristic of gender nonconformity should be created such that no one is discriminated against if their gender presentation is unconventional. This PC should apply equally to anyone who is gender non-conforming, some of whom may consider themselves trans and some will not. (noting that gender nonconforming butch lesbians get a lot more discrimination than gender conforming fem lesbians and they are being discriminated against for their gender nonconformity not their gender identity or their sexuality)
  • People can obtain a gender recognition certificate, but that is simply recognising their gender and does not change their sex.
  • People can undergo surgical or hormonal changes to their body but that also does not change their sex.
  • People who have obtained a gender recognition certificate, people who have (or are intending to) undergo surgical or hormonal changes to their body to change sexual characteristics, and people whose gender presentation is very different from expectations for their sex, are all fully entitled to 100% human rights, dignity and respect.
  • The fundamental principle of equality should be that other than for the legitimate exceptions all facilities and opportunities everywhere are open equally to everyone irrespective of any of the listed items of protected characteristics. Where it would be a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim to reserve some kind of facility or opportunity to people with a specific characteristic, then that is allowed but the exclusion must be applied without exceptions otherwise the rational basis of it being a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim is negated.
  • If the rational basis for creating something that is separate for women is constructed due to differences between male and female bodies then it cannot be the case that some male people are included - but if it is appropriate to include male people then the appropriate action is to revisit whether there is actually a need for the exclusion at all, and redefine the facility/opportunity as open to all
  • Discrimination means treating someone at a disadvantage compared with how they would have been treated if they didn't have a particular characteristic. A male person with a protected characteristic of gender non-conformity (presenting according to female norms) must not be treated with any disadvantage compared to a male person without the protected characteristic of gender non-conformity - they are not being discriminated against if they are not treated as female because they are not female - that does not stop them from being treated with the utmost respect which is their absolute right.
KittyWilkinson · 15/09/2026 18:49

Back in the day, I would have been one of those women supporting "Louise" and co in their attempts to gain legal rights and protection from harassment.

Then they came for my rights and those of other women and I realised the big con.

AimsAndObjectives · 15/09/2026 18:59

@RareGoalsVerge ..the 9,000ish post-op transsexuals...

I think this is just the number of people with a GRC (men and women). I'm not sure anyone knows how many post-op transsexuals there are. Happy to be corrected on this.

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