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The Bluestocking Women's Pub, in which Gosie returns to the trail

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Magpiecomplex · 27/07/2026 20:46

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AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 20:55

Here's Mama Begonia (just repotted her this year, for the first time in 20 years!) in her giant pot that I cannot now lift (I didn't think this through, did I?). So she's looking a bit wild!

The Bluestocking Women's Pub, in which Gosie returns to the trail
AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 20:56

And Baby Begonia, who is actually blooming!

The Bluestocking Women's Pub, in which Gosie returns to the trail
Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 21:43

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 20:56

And Baby Begonia, who is actually blooming!

Just lovely !!!!

FuzzyPuffling · 02/08/2026 21:47

Beautiful begonia family. They look very happy.

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:03

We will all what a cutting now, baggy first!!!!

ChristmasStars · 02/08/2026 22:06

MarieDeGournay · 02/08/2026 17:03

Thank you Myrtle. A goldfinch in overalls! Love it!💛

“It’s a maybe,” said Christmas Stars, with the confidence of someone who had decided this was good news and did not intend to be talked out of it

I like that attitude, Stars, 'don't stop believing/hold on to that feeling'😃

Thank you. I like to keep a bit of optimism 😀

ChristmasStars · 02/08/2026 22:12

AsWithGlad · 02/08/2026 19:07

Sorry this is late, I’m catching up.

Gosie and ChristmasStars were in Cambridge and I didn’t know? It’s quite close to where I live, had I known I could actually have seen them. From a respectful distance, of course, I would not like to have distracted them from their quest.

I’m very impressed that they got into Trinity. Their porters are reputed to be very fierce.

It's the place to be, clearly 😊

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:23

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:03

We will all what a cutting now, baggy first!!!!

The cuttings really didn't do very well at all. I only did them because I was sure that my begonia couldn't live to be 40 years old, so it was an insurance policy. All the other cuttings died. Possibly overwatered. Possibly just never had a strong root system to begin with. I'm not very good with houseplants, so Mama Begonia is a real achievement for me!

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:29

When did you do the cuttings, and how. Did you put them in water? Or a pot?

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:29

Sleep gerbils, I'm counting on you tonight! Nos da, everyone! 🌙⭐😴

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:34

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:29

When did you do the cuttings, and how. Did you put them in water? Or a pot?

I always do them in water, because I'm too lazy to buy rooting powder. It does often make for weaker roots, so it's a gamble. Once I have a good root system, pot into small pot with very gritty compost. Water just enough to keep it moist. Watch for new leaves. Once it has had several months in the small pot, and a decent tree of leaves, pot up into a pot not too large, with less grit in compost.

Once it's a decent "plant size", I chop it down so it grows more healthy roots and then when it grows back, it's a bushier plant, too.

The flowering is random. Don't ask me when or why. I think Mama Begonia has bloomed only twice in 30 years.

Forgot: house plants you can do cuttings anytime, depending on the type of plant (Christmas cactus has a very regimented growing/flowering period).

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:36

Put a spot of sugar in the water thats how i do it

AsWithGlad · 02/08/2026 22:38

ChristmasStars · 02/08/2026 22:12

It's the place to be, clearly 😊

As long as you don’t go into the JCR bar, where the signs on the loo doors are problematical - nothing to do with trans, though.

I imagine you and Gussie make your own arrangements in a far better place.

edit: I replied thinking you meant Trinity rather than Cambridge as the place to be 😀

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:39

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:36

Put a spot of sugar in the water thats how i do it

Sugar, I've never heard of that! My mother just used to snip things off and pop them into the nearest container with water in it. Everything grew for her! I'm the opposite. Aside from a few plants (including impossible-to-kill jade plants and my spiky cactus), houseplants hate me.

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:42

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:39

Sugar, I've never heard of that! My mother just used to snip things off and pop them into the nearest container with water in it. Everything grew for her! I'm the opposite. Aside from a few plants (including impossible-to-kill jade plants and my spiky cactus), houseplants hate me.

What you on about that Begonia clearly loves you xx

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:50

Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:42

What you on about that Begonia clearly loves you xx

😊

I'm taking better care of her now! Imagine not being repotted for 20 years ! (I'm surprised she's still speaking to me)

Off to bed now, night night! Thanks for the sugar tip, I shall try that next time.

MarieDeGournay · 02/08/2026 22:52

AngleofRepose · 02/08/2026 22:29

Sleep gerbils, I'm counting on you tonight! Nos da, everyone! 🌙⭐😴

The Sleep and Dream Gerbils are being scrambled tonight with reinforcements - you're on the schedule Angle, of course, and so too is Magpie and there's a special run scheduled chez Pasta, to give her a restful healing night🌛

The Bluestocking Women's Pub, in which Gosie returns to the trail
Hedgehogforshort · 02/08/2026 22:54

Off to find some dry leaves.

RumNotRun · 02/08/2026 22:59

For those if you who like history, The Dark Queens by Shelley Puhak is fantastic. I thought it was going to be fictional but it wasn't. The queens in the book were absolute feminist icons. They smashed the patriarchy of the early medieval period but have mostly been forgotten.

ChristmasStars · 02/08/2026 23:32

AsWithGlad · 02/08/2026 22:38

As long as you don’t go into the JCR bar, where the signs on the loo doors are problematical - nothing to do with trans, though.

I imagine you and Gussie make your own arrangements in a far better place.

edit: I replied thinking you meant Trinity rather than Cambridge as the place to be 😀

Edited

I was thinking Cambridge really! Not had much to do with Trinity...

Chickadeeinme · 02/08/2026 23:32

Just to give you all a late evening treat I took a photo of a cat with a mouse.

The Bluestocking Women's Pub, in which Gosie returns to the trail
AsWithGlad · 03/08/2026 00:13

ChristmasStars · 02/08/2026 23:32

I was thinking Cambridge really! Not had much to do with Trinity...

Then yes, Cambridge is definitely the place to be for those of us who can.

Plenty of stained glass for all, and now visits from you and Gosie 🫟🔎

EmpressaurusKitty · 03/08/2026 04:52

RumNotRun · 02/08/2026 22:59

For those if you who like history, The Dark Queens by Shelley Puhak is fantastic. I thought it was going to be fictional but it wasn't. The queens in the book were absolute feminist icons. They smashed the patriarchy of the early medieval period but have mostly been forgotten.

I’d forgotten about that!

ChristmasStars · 03/08/2026 07:13

RumNotRun · 02/08/2026 22:59

For those if you who like history, The Dark Queens by Shelley Puhak is fantastic. I thought it was going to be fictional but it wasn't. The queens in the book were absolute feminist icons. They smashed the patriarchy of the early medieval period but have mostly been forgotten.

Not heard of this so just looked it up. Will try and get hold of a copy, thanks.

FuzzyPuffling · 03/08/2026 07:22

ChristmasStars · 03/08/2026 07:13

Not heard of this so just looked it up. Will try and get hold of a copy, thanks.

World of Books has it for £7.40.
I love WOB!

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