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Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces

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user08101988 · Yesterday 12:32

Started because a thread on Girlguiding was getting too off topic.

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Gengha · Yesterday 14:07

Cool story bro

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 14:08

Quick spot-the-difference competition. One of these is a male brain. One of these is apparently a female brain. Can you tell which is which?
ETA assuming the images get approved.

Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces
Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces
Ethelspagetti · Yesterday 14:08

The man who wishes to be a woman can NOT use a female safe space.

BoredZelda · Yesterday 14:09

PrettyPickle · Yesterday 14:06

I think part of the problem is the way these discussions get framed. When you start with “Trans women are real women and should have access to women’s spaces”, you’re not actually asking a question, you’re presenting a conclusion and expecting everyone to agree with it.

For me, the more useful conversation is: how do we make sure everyone is included and everyone is safe? That’s a very different starting point.

There are lots of practical solutions that don’t require redefining womanhood or removing boundaries that exist for safeguarding reasons. Things like unisex single‑occupancy toilets, individual changing cubicles, mixed‑gender facilities alongside women‑only ones, clear safeguarding policies that apply to all users
These options include trans people without removing the spaces that many women rely on for privacy, dignity, and safety. It doesn’t have to be framed as “all or nothing”, or “you’re either inclusive or you’re not”.

The current framing forces people into ideological corners. A more constructive approach is looking at practical design and policy that meets everyone’s needs without erasing anyone’s boundaries.

Single sex sporting events and such like are more complicated but a lot of the issues people are arguing about are easily solvable in the long-term if we are of a mind to make it happen. And lets face it, as a woman, I object to large queues for the women's toilets and there never are for men, so unisex cubicles would be a big improvement for us ladies (whether dressed as ladies from birth or not).

I said the same to my daughter as we were discussing this yesterday. There are loud voices at either extreme, but the compromises are really simple and those loud voices aren’t interested in it.

EwwStew · Yesterday 14:09

Transwomen are men.

Only men can be transwomen.

Men are not allowed in womens's spaces.

Perhaps in the form of an equation?

If a = b, and b is not allowed in womens spaces, in what reality would a?

HelenHywater · Yesterday 14:10

"The Brain Sex of transgender women was estimated as 0.75 ± 0.39, thus hovering between cisgender men and cisgender women, albeit closer to cisgender men (see also Figure 1). The follow-up post hoc tests revealed that transgender women were significantly more female than cisgender men (Cohen’s d = 0.64, t(46) = 2.20, p = 0.016), but significantly less female than cisgender women (Cohen’s d = 1.87, t(46) = 6.48, p < 0.001)."

This doesn't prove anything. In fact it states that the brains of the transgender women are not female? Perhaps I'm missing something?

Brain Sex in Transgender Women Is Shifted towards Gender Identity - PMC

Transgender people report discomfort with their birth sex and a strong identification with the opposite sex. The current study was designed to shed further light on the question of whether the brains of transgender people resemble their birth sex or .....

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/#jcm-11-01582-f001

tokennamechange · Yesterday 14:10

wonder where OP's gone? Is it too much to hope that it's to actually read the super special (and completely definitive with it's 24 participants and 88% accuracy, with no alternative comparators, for example 24 male-attracted men/female attracted women, etc.) magic study that actually says the exact opposite of what it was supposed to prove?

Even if words " The Brain Sex of transgender women was...hovering between cisgender men and cisgender women, albeit closer to cisgender men" are complicated, the accompanying diagram makes it pretty obvious. Even if the TW sample was coloured pink!

Hoardasurass · Yesterday 14:11

SidewaysOtter · Yesterday 13:38

A trans identified man barged into a space that wasn't designed for him and then proceeded to make everything all about him?

Colour me astonished.

Twice 1st on the girl guiding thread and when he got his arse handed to him, he then tried to get us to email him and when that didn't work he started this thread on a board he hoped would be his echo chamber, then linked to this thread from the GG one, even after we suggested he ask to have it moved he refused.
But thats apparently feme coded behaviour 🤔

Wishiwasincornwall · Yesterday 14:11

What does it actually mean to be a woman to you? What makes someone a woman? Not the stock "a woman is anyone who identifies as a woman." but an actual tangible answer.

What does living as a woman entail day to day? And how does that contrast to how living as a man is?

TwoLoonsAndASprout · Yesterday 14:12

BoredZelda · Yesterday 14:07

I did ask, when she was in Guides, my daughter said she’d be fine with it. One of her school friends is trans so she can’t see what any of the fuss is about.

Is your daughter also old enough or self aware enough to understand that consent is not transferable? That is, does she understand that just because she’s ok sharing with a boy who says he’s a girl, she doesn’t get to override the wishes of any girls who do not wish to share with a boy who says he’s a girl?

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 14:12

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 14:08

Quick spot-the-difference competition. One of these is a male brain. One of these is apparently a female brain. Can you tell which is which?
ETA assuming the images get approved.

Edited

I imagine this would be a trans-identifying man’s brain. Image attached.

Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces
lifeinthemidlands · Yesterday 14:12

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:42

So, trans women are women. I have the evidence too. This is a study done by the NIH looking into the neuro-anatomy of 24 trans women pre-hormone therapy. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/

There are also currently a total of 92 sex offenders who are trans women (this is 0.000135% of the population btw).

CNN did research into bathroom issues in the USA comparing states with inclusive laws vs. bans for trans women. They called various police departments and asked for crime data to do with trans people in the bathrooms that correspond with their perceived gender in both types of state. The conclusion showed that the inclusive law states had significantly lower instances of sexual assault in bathrooms as a whole. In the inclusive law states, many police departments reported 0 crimes.

This study said that trans women's brains were somewhere between the male and female on a continuum, but still closer to the male so I really don't see how that can be evidence - in fact if anything it's evidence against. And there is evidence the brains of gay men are more similar to women's in some ways, so the really interesting study would be to compare trans women's brains with gay men's brains.

Vaxtable · Yesterday 14:13

Nope and the law says no as well

ladylioness · Yesterday 14:14

Nope, a biological man will always be a man. If one comes into a toilet I am using they would get short sharp shrift.

AimsAndObjectives · Yesterday 14:14

HelenHywater · Yesterday 14:10

"The Brain Sex of transgender women was estimated as 0.75 ± 0.39, thus hovering between cisgender men and cisgender women, albeit closer to cisgender men (see also Figure 1). The follow-up post hoc tests revealed that transgender women were significantly more female than cisgender men (Cohen’s d = 0.64, t(46) = 2.20, p = 0.016), but significantly less female than cisgender women (Cohen’s d = 1.87, t(46) = 6.48, p < 0.001)."

This doesn't prove anything. In fact it states that the brains of the transgender women are not female? Perhaps I'm missing something?

Quite. In addition, the authors didn't control for sexual orientation. They basically discovered effeminate gay men🙄

Jenkibuble · Yesterday 14:14

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:32

Started because a thread on Girlguiding was getting too off topic.

No !

Women who have been victims of abuse need safe places.

I'm with JK Rowling

Tana433 · Yesterday 14:14

BoredZelda · Yesterday 14:07

I did ask, when she was in Guides, my daughter said she’d be fine with it. One of her school friends is trans so she can’t see what any of the fuss is about.

Oh dear. No, one of her school friends is a male and just happens to want to share tents etc with females most who im sure would object. Does what 'he' wants trump what these girls want? No it doesnt and you should be asking your daughter why she feels happy with this, it is the thin end of the wedge im afraid, she should be ashamed of herself.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 14:14

@PrettyPickle

It doesn’t have to be framed as “all or nothing”, or “you’re either inclusive or you’re not”.

The current framing forces people into ideological corners.

It's the main feature, not a bug at all. TRAs don't want solutions; they just want to scream at women and force them to submit. It's all about one ideological side getting to present themselves astThe Goodies opposed to the horrible Baddies, and being allowed to abuse them to their hearts' content.

If it were really about trans people getting what they need, the TRAs would have been asking for trans or gender-neutral spaces for more than a decade.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 14:15

PrettyPickle · Yesterday 14:06

I think part of the problem is the way these discussions get framed. When you start with “Trans women are real women and should have access to women’s spaces”, you’re not actually asking a question, you’re presenting a conclusion and expecting everyone to agree with it.

For me, the more useful conversation is: how do we make sure everyone is included and everyone is safe? That’s a very different starting point.

There are lots of practical solutions that don’t require redefining womanhood or removing boundaries that exist for safeguarding reasons. Things like unisex single‑occupancy toilets, individual changing cubicles, mixed‑gender facilities alongside women‑only ones, clear safeguarding policies that apply to all users
These options include trans people without removing the spaces that many women rely on for privacy, dignity, and safety. It doesn’t have to be framed as “all or nothing”, or “you’re either inclusive or you’re not”.

The current framing forces people into ideological corners. A more constructive approach is looking at practical design and policy that meets everyone’s needs without erasing anyone’s boundaries.

Single sex sporting events and such like are more complicated but a lot of the issues people are arguing about are easily solvable in the long-term if we are of a mind to make it happen. And lets face it, as a woman, I object to large queues for the women's toilets and there never are for men, so unisex cubicles would be a big improvement for us ladies (whether dressed as ladies from birth or not).

Happily, I don't think single sex sport is at all complicated.

I object to large queues for the women's toilets and there never are for men, so unisex cubicles would be a big improvement for us ladies (whether dressed as ladies from birth or not).

The problem is that there is a trade off between safety and privacy in a public/private space, and unisex facilities take up more space.

I think unisex toilets are sometimes appropriate, but there are downsides to putting an inaccessible room in a public space. The increased privacy makes it easier to use the space for criminal purposes, and more difficult to help somebody who is in distress.

28andgreat · Yesterday 14:15

As a transwomen, can you;

  • Grow a foetus and birth it?
  • Can you breast feed it?
  • Can you menstruate?

The above answer's are no. So you are not a Woman. It's literally that simple.
Identify however you want, doesn't bother me in the slightest, but don't discredit Women by saying you are the same, you are not.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 14:15

BoredZelda · Yesterday 14:07

I did ask, when she was in Guides, my daughter said she’d be fine with it. One of her school friends is trans so she can’t see what any of the fuss is about.

Then her parents, teachers and leaders should be pointing out the very obvious safeguarding issues.

JamesKirkupReviewWritersFund · Yesterday 14:15

Do we think that the redditors are sitting and watching with pride as numbersguy makes his valiant effort to convince women to agree with his fervent belief or are the redditors sitting there cringing and thinking 'maybe we should a sorting hat approach to identify who may be able to represent us on MN - truly the brightest and the best'

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 14:16

Do we think the OP is an “effeminate gay man, possibly still closeted”-type of transwoman, or the “likes to wear frilly underwear and gets aroused when women refer to him as she”-type transwoman?

Vaxtable · Yesterday 14:16

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:45

They are called women, much like women who were assigned female at birth are cisgender women. Trans is just an adjective

Nope you are either male or female with a small percentage intersex.

i am a woman, I was assigned female at birth, and my anatomy is that of a female

i am not a cisgender woman, just a women

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