Transgender hate on mum's net

[Steph2002]

I'm just wondering, I see so much hate on here about transgender woman and not a lot about transgender men. Does everyone on mum's net hate Transgender women and if so why? I don't mind sharing a toilet space with a transgender woman in fact my best friend is a transgender woman and she is the nicest person you could ever wish to meet and will protect any woman no matter where they are. I would hate to be sharing a toilet with a hairy masculine transgender man, which seems the way people want to go why? Am I the only person on here that supports trans gender women, if so I need to leave. How many people that hate Transgender women have actually met one and had issues with one I'd love to know.

I posted up thread a link to him confirming he has the SRY gene.

Exactly, part of the fun for them is violating women’s boundaries and making us feel uncomfortable - it’s a power play.

And the handmaidens that cheer them on don’t seem to realise they are part of a sexual fetish.

Steph won't be back. They never are, bar the persistent ones like the charming man who threatened women with rape with a splintered rolling pin. How he's allowed to continue to post baffles me.

What has the fact they're gorgeous got to do with anything? Why is it hateful that women want to retain their single sex spaces for reasons of safety and privacy?

So the pretty ones get to do what they like? What about the ugly/non-passing ones? Very transphobic of you.

No one said Imane Khelif was a transwoman

Can you please quote the hate and the comments which have gone too far?

I have never seen any.

It always boils down to the most misogynistic, regressive and stereotypical characteristics with the trans lobby.

My dress goes swish swish so I’m a pretty girl…

Of course men should obey the law. But that's not the point - this is a question about the lived reality of the application of the law.

Under the old laws - bad man / rapist can pop on a dress, go in the women's changing rooms and say he identifies as female so is allowed.

We all agreed that was a bad vibe.

New law - same bad man doesn't bother to buy a dress, still goes in the changing rooms and says he was born female, knowing no one has the power to challenge him.

Of course the answer is we need to make the men follow the law. But if they are intent on not, I'm not convinced the current legal framework gives us any more protection than we had before against bad actors.

I’m not very gorgeous. Does this mean im not a woman? I’m also pretty hairy.

We all know why you avoid the debate.

But we do have the power to challenge. That’s the point of not having self ID and a free for all and the reason the SC ruling is a good thing.

edit for spelling and to add. The old law was never what you are stating it as. That’s the point.

It doesn't matter how lovely and gorgeous they are, you can't change sex.

But that's no reason to do away with the law and let traswomen in, is it? So I'm not sure what you're getting at.

You're not the only one, I support them too. The nastiness around trans people on here is off the scale though, some are relentless in their posting and seem to genuinely believe that they are 100% right to speak with such hate and that any one who disagrees in anti-women. The issue of trans men seems to be avoided as they don't fit the narrative on here of all trans people being perverts who only transition so they can get in women's spaces and abuse them.

Right, everyone always said he was a man. Which he is. And men who call themselves trans are just men too of course - so I suppose that's why misognystic trans activists (like the one you are replying to) get confused.

Quote the hate. Word for word. Reality is not hate.

The only 1 i know spends most of their time in the shop where they work, flirting with men who’re trying to browse. Can easily be loudly short tempered if i encounter them at the till especially if they find they’ve typed in an incorrect digit of my membership no. Fortunately I don’t have to visit that particular shop much in summer!

You should check out terfislur.com if you want to see real hate. I don't remember seeing any of the women on here issuing rape and death threats to transpeople, but plenty of transpeople wishing just that to us.

I'm sorry trans activists are so offended that women have rights. But its your problem.

Trans "women" are not actually women and therefore should not be permitted in women's toilets, changing rooms, sports etc. It's not hate, just commonsense.

But they arent. Identify as you like but the reality does not change.

As an aside i do wish they'd rename this unnecessary surgical procedure. 'Healthy body part mutilation' would seem more apt.

Sorry can't find it. Would be genuinely interested as I am a boxing fan and (of course) against men being allowed to compete against women. All I have seen so far is links to articles which link to articles which link to tweets and suspicion.

HOWEVER.

When JK Rowling posted her tweet, none of this had come out. She posted based on a picture of a not feminine looking person having won at sport, referring to them as a man. With no evidence.