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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A UK forum is encouraging a desperate parent of a trans identified male to seek out DIY hormones, without consulting health care professionals, how is this dangerous advice legal?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 17/03/2026 09:52

OP "If anyone could help me to understand, I would be extremely grateful. I just want my daughter to be alive and happy in her own skin as much as possible ."

Responses: "diy is reliable and safe, there are communities that will be able to help, and really all it is getting a blood test every now and then to check how low or high a couple numbers are and adjusting accordingly."

Full details here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1rw0bac/please_help_parent_to_a_16_year_old/

How is this even slightly legal? The pro anorexia sites were shut down right? The pro suicide?

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onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:05

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:05

So you want to exclude men from women’s spaces however all they have to do is say they are a woman and they are therefore a trans woman and should be granted immediate access?

That’s your only requirement for a man to gain access?

I don't make the rules.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:06

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 23:59

Anyone who says they're a trans woman, ofc.

You can't be serious?

Katie Dolatowski is a trans woman? You can't mean that, surely.

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:06

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:05

I don't make the rules.

I’m literally asking you what your rule would be.

Datun · 20/03/2026 00:07

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:05

So you want to exclude men from women’s spaces however all they have to do is say they are a woman and they are therefore a trans woman and should be granted immediate access?

That’s your only requirement for a man to gain access?

I think you'd have to read from that that he doesn't pass in a month of Sundays.

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:07

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:06

You can't be serious?

Katie Dolatowski is a trans woman? You can't mean that, surely.

People are who they say they are, Weary.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:08

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:06

You can't be serious?

Katie Dolatowski is a trans woman? You can't mean that, surely.

Again, I don't make the rules. It seems as valid as calling all non-large gamete people men.

SabrinaThwaite · 20/03/2026 00:09

borntobequiet · 19/03/2026 22:46

And that is literally all the gender fantasists have. Meaningless words.

It’s very 1984.

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:10

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:08

Again, I don't make the rules. It seems as valid as calling all non-large gamete people men.

You think men should be excluded from women’s toilets but actually you don’t think men should be excluded from women’s toilets, any of them can legitimately gain access by saying some words..

Make that make sense.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:10

Well, Katie Dolatowski's second victim obviously recognised Dolatowski's sexed body cues and knew to punch Katie in the nuts. Thank goodness.

Datun · 20/03/2026 00:10

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:05

I wish I had a bio element I could add 'desperate violator.' That's funny.

Edited

Sorry, desperate to violate women's boundaries and find it funny.

Heggettypeg · 20/03/2026 00:12

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:02

Those cultures were also developed from other interpersonal assumptions, belief systems and gender attributions that are outside of western moralisation. Many 'third gender' people have westernised identities these days.

Well, their societies are going to have some interesting problems in the future, then.

CassOle · 20/03/2026 00:12

SabrinaThwaite · 20/03/2026 00:09

It’s very 1984.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:12

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:10

You think men should be excluded from women’s toilets but actually you don’t think men should be excluded from women’s toilets, any of them can legitimately gain access by saying some words..

Make that make sense.

I have my beliefs, which are not valid in this space. So I've constructed what seem to be equally ridged assumptions to present as an opposing force. Ta da.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:13

As soon as you say that anyone who claims to be a "trans woman" is one, then you lose what little credibility you have.

Datun · 20/03/2026 00:13

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:10

You think men should be excluded from women’s toilets but actually you don’t think men should be excluded from women’s toilets, any of them can legitimately gain access by saying some words..

Make that make sense.

It's a tightrope for sure.

You want to be the only one, but you can't provide any criteria, because you won't fit it.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:13

Heggettypeg · 20/03/2026 00:12

Well, their societies are going to have some interesting problems in the future, then.

As comes with westernisation as a whole.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:14

Datun · 20/03/2026 00:10

Sorry, desperate to violate women's boundaries and find it funny.

I understand your context, thanks. I just find it funny from my reality.

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:15

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:10

Well, Katie Dolatowski's second victim obviously recognised Dolatowski's sexed body cues and knew to punch Katie in the nuts. Thank goodness.

It's just sickening. That young girl should have been safe in that single sex space. She wasn't. But I suppose some people would find that funny.

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:16

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 23:59

I was confused because I've been reading that it is large gametes matter. Now sexed body cues are just as useful and I'd say arguably more practically understood by people.

Well, sexed body cues are those which will be the ones that when someone looks at a male person will indicate they are male. Based on a combination of testosterone exposure, even as a child, to genetics. Those male people who many people use as examples of the success of puberty blockers still retain male sex body cues.

Those male sex body cues come about because of the male body being formed around the production of small gametes. Regardless of whether those small gametes have been produced.

It isn’t rocket science and male sexed body cues do not contradict the categorisation based on having a male body formed around the production of small gametes. They are part of it.

Not sure why you think your post is some kind of gotcha.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:16

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:16

Well, sexed body cues are those which will be the ones that when someone looks at a male person will indicate they are male. Based on a combination of testosterone exposure, even as a child, to genetics. Those male people who many people use as examples of the success of puberty blockers still retain male sex body cues.

Those male sex body cues come about because of the male body being formed around the production of small gametes. Regardless of whether those small gametes have been produced.

It isn’t rocket science and male sexed body cues do not contradict the categorisation based on having a male body formed around the production of small gametes. They are part of it.

Not sure why you think your post is some kind of gotcha.

I 100% agree. Thank you for your answer.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 20/03/2026 00:17

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:08

Again, I don't make the rules. It seems as valid as calling all non-large gamete people men.

Synonyms of Valid:

  • Legitimate/Legal: Binding, authorized, lawful.
  • Sound/Logical: Reasonable, well-founded,cogent, valid argument.
  • Effective/Genuine: True, bona fide, authentic, credible

Gender delulus not understanding the meaning of ‘valid’.

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:18

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:12

I have my beliefs, which are not valid in this space. So I've constructed what seem to be equally ridged assumptions to present as an opposing force. Ta da.

Defining a woman as someone who is female rather than male is an unreasonably rigid assumption?

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:18

SternJoyousBeev2 · 20/03/2026 00:17

Synonyms of Valid:

  • Legitimate/Legal: Binding, authorized, lawful.
  • Sound/Logical: Reasonable, well-founded,cogent, valid argument.
  • Effective/Genuine: True, bona fide, authentic, credible

Gender delulus not understanding the meaning of ‘valid’.

Do I get my choice of synonym now? Is that how it works?

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:18

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:18

Defining a woman as someone who is female rather than male is an unreasonably rigid assumption?

a mumsnet-faith answer would have me answer yes.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:19

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:15

It's just sickening. That young girl should have been safe in that single sex space. She wasn't. But I suppose some people would find that funny.

When you're a little girl, your mother teaches you to scream if you're attacked. She teaches you to use your elbow, your fist, your knee.

She tells you that if you're in trouble then you should only approach a woman and not a strange man. You don't quite understand why until it happens to you.

And yet we have some people telling us that anyone who claims to be a woman should be accepted as one—which was what led to Tiffany Scott nearly being allowed into the women's prison estate (until the scandal surrounding the Isla Bryson debacle erupted).

We now have Tiffany Scott being lauded as a trans martyr and Paris Green looking for sympathy in the Scottish press. We're well through the looking glass.

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