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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A UK forum is encouraging a desperate parent of a trans identified male to seek out DIY hormones, without consulting health care professionals, how is this dangerous advice legal?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 17/03/2026 09:52

OP "If anyone could help me to understand, I would be extremely grateful. I just want my daughter to be alive and happy in her own skin as much as possible ."

Responses: "diy is reliable and safe, there are communities that will be able to help, and really all it is getting a blood test every now and then to check how low or high a couple numbers are and adjusting accordingly."

Full details here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1rw0bac/please_help_parent_to_a_16_year_old/

How is this even slightly legal? The pro anorexia sites were shut down right? The pro suicide?

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Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:40

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:39

Trans men are men. Trans women are women.

Shame the SC doesn't think so

FranticFrankie · 19/03/2026 22:40

@onepostwonder you are always rude and resort to insults cos you know the arguments you and your fellow posters who identify as women are rubbish. You'd all be perfectly safe in the men's loos
You are offensive - if you and your 'friends' were serious about identifying as women you'd try for more solidarity, more empathy, more understanding. But no- just shout 'terf' or 'right-wing' at us
You'll never be women
You don't have vaginas
And yes this is my belief so I'll save you the trouble of saying it.
Just happens to be truth
And please stick to your name ffs

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:40

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:10

Women's single sex spaces are not yours to violate or individual women's to give away.

Trans women do not violate womens spaces.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:41

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:12

Are you asking for the GRA to be repealed? Are you an advocate for trans healthcare to be withdrawn?

These have nothing to do with single sex spaces and are things I’ve seen on this forum.

I don’t believe that you should be able to change official documents to alter reality. If you want to have a new document produced that uses ‘Gender’ instead of sex then go for it. Or gave your own copy that you can frame and put on the wall go for it, but no, I don’t think you should be able to falsify official documentation. Be proudly trans, don’t try and deceive others about your sex.

i don’t give a shit what hormones you use or what you do surgically as an adult. The only caveat should be that anyone receiving what you call trans healthcare should have to acknowledge that they understand that they are not and cannot change sex and that they cannot access single sex spaces or use services or take opportunities intended for the opposite sex. Children should not have their puberty blocked nor given cross sex hormones.

Trans people are not the only group who struggle to access treatment that they want. I have no ability to demand specific treatment or tests from the NHS. Young women regularly get refused elective hysterectomy or breast reduction. I am currently waiting on a referral appointment to come through after adverse blood work last year that indicated that I could have a female only cancer. Lots of people would like weight loss jabs on the NHS to improve not only their physical health but also their mental health but they can’t get it. There are huge backlogs for mental health services. We should explore all possible options including talking therapies (that gender delusion want to smear as conversion therapy) before anyone undergoes any medical interventions for gender issues. Michael Kerr’s story as well as Ritchie Herron and Keira Bell show the dangers of the current validation approach.

CheesemongersApprentice · 19/03/2026 22:42

I have no idea whether @ATranssexualWoman, @TiredOfYourLies or @onepostwonder pass all of the time, some of the time or none of the time as they are just randoms on the internet. I cannot be arsed to engage with their idea that they have somehow jumped into a definition of woman that ignores the requirement of a body constructed around the production of large gamates. What does amuse me is their willingness to throw 90% of their sisters brothers under the bus to claim their special entitlement to womanhood.

WearyAuldWumman · 19/03/2026 22:42

ArabellaScott · 19/03/2026 18:04

I've been out all day oppressing people with my big womanly boots. Have I missed anything?

I can only refer to the cases in my locality. Was Tiffany Scott an oppressor or one of the oppressed?

I believe that that was the only Scot named on the list for Transgender Day of Remembrance. Before anyone asks, the reason that Scott's name comes to my mind is that that particular person lived in the adjacent village, while he was still called Andrew Burns.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:42

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:40

Trans women do not violate womens spaces.

Gender delulus not understanding words is a real thing

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:42

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:40

Trans women do not violate womens spaces.

They are men in women's spaces

It's violation

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:43

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:40

Trans women do not violate womens spaces.

Men in women's spaces violate those spaces. Of course they do. Enough of the gaslighting, we can all see right through your predatory behaviour.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:45

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:22

No one is offended that there are men who like to wear clothes/makeup more associated with women.

We are, however, outraged, that anyone would think this means they should have access to women's spaces

Thankfully your beliefs are held by a small number of people and your characterisations of trans people are so outlandish to be laughable. The rest of us live in the real world.

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:45

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:39

Trans men are men. Trans women are women.

This is nonsense. You know that. Why are you lying about it?

borntobequiet · 19/03/2026 22:46

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:39

Trans men are men. Trans women are women.

And that is literally all the gender fantasists have. Meaningless words.

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:47

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:45

Thankfully your beliefs are held by a small number of people and your characterisations of trans people are so outlandish to be laughable. The rest of us live in the real world.

In the real world everyone knows that men can't become women and men who think they should have access to women's spaces (contrary to the law) are predators

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:47

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 22:38

Well, loads of people did it for many years, it was sold over the counter without a prescription, so it must be safe, right?

Or is that not how safety is really established?

I wasn't discussing smoking. I hope that helps?

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:47

borntobequiet · 19/03/2026 22:46

And that is literally all the gender fantasists have. Meaningless words.

And surgery. Of a kind that no woman would ever need.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:48

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:40

Shame the SC doesn't think so

We live in an evolving world. Exciting, right?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:48

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:13

How often do sex realists claim to speak on behalf of all women, but especially all mothers? More than trans people speak of relationships with their mothers.

How often to gender delulus boringly try to talk over women, don’t listen to women and ignore women’ boundaries? All the damn time.

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:49

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:48

We live in an evolving world. Exciting, right?

Women's rights to single sex spaces have not 'evolved' 🙄

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:49

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:48

How often to gender delulus boringly try to talk over women, don’t listen to women and ignore women’ boundaries? All the damn time.

Their behaviour is exactly the same as incels. Tedious beyond words 🙄

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:50

FranticFrankie · 19/03/2026 22:40

@onepostwonder you are always rude and resort to insults cos you know the arguments you and your fellow posters who identify as women are rubbish. You'd all be perfectly safe in the men's loos
You are offensive - if you and your 'friends' were serious about identifying as women you'd try for more solidarity, more empathy, more understanding. But no- just shout 'terf' or 'right-wing' at us
You'll never be women
You don't have vaginas
And yes this is my belief so I'll save you the trouble of saying it.
Just happens to be truth
And please stick to your name ffs

You will have your beliefs. Your relatives and offspring will be ashamed of those beliefs. I'm sorry you were ensnared by whatever forces you to obsess over those of us who change sex. I hope you live a good life.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:51

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:14

That’s all well and good, but we know it doesn’t end there.

Christ on a bike! Quit with the hyberbolic bullshit. Respect women! Be a proud trans identifying man and stop appropriating our shit!

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:51

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:50

You will have your beliefs. Your relatives and offspring will be ashamed of those beliefs. I'm sorry you were ensnared by whatever forces you to obsess over those of us who change sex. I hope you live a good life.

No one changes sex. Fact, not belief

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 22:51

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:47

I wasn't discussing smoking. I hope that helps?

You said

"Based on the numbers of doses consumed worldwide, sex hormones are much safer than other prescribed medications. They are even sold over the counter in many countries as any other self-administered remedy."

Loads of people smoked and self administer cigarettes. So based on the number of doses consumed worldwide, smoking must be safe, right?

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:52

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:48

How often to gender delulus boringly try to talk over women, don’t listen to women and ignore women’ boundaries? All the damn time.

If you want to exclude trans women, then define and advertise your collective space as trans woman free.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:53

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:26

Sex hormones are sex hormones, there's nothing wrong about them. Only sex realist moralising.

Gender delulus refusing to accept material reality

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