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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A UK forum is encouraging a desperate parent of a trans identified male to seek out DIY hormones, without consulting health care professionals, how is this dangerous advice legal?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 17/03/2026 09:52

OP "If anyone could help me to understand, I would be extremely grateful. I just want my daughter to be alive and happy in her own skin as much as possible ."

Responses: "diy is reliable and safe, there are communities that will be able to help, and really all it is getting a blood test every now and then to check how low or high a couple numbers are and adjusting accordingly."

Full details here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1rw0bac/please_help_parent_to_a_16_year_old/

How is this even slightly legal? The pro anorexia sites were shut down right? The pro suicide?

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SabrinaThwaite · 20/03/2026 00:21

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 23:50

Sexed body cues are not highly reliable anymore?

Oh maaate, you still have all the male sexed body cues.

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:21

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:18

a mumsnet-faith answer would have me answer yes.

Spouting bollocks and pretending you don’t really mean it is an interesting hobby.

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:22

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:12

I have my beliefs, which are not valid in this space. So I've constructed what seem to be equally ridged assumptions to present as an opposing force. Ta da.

The reason your beliefs are not ‘valid’ in this ‘space’ is because they are not reflective of material reality. You seem to be continuing with your flawed premise that your beliefs are not valid on a feminism board due to prejudice which is not accurate or truthful.

You also seem to be under the mistaken belief that other people are obligated to treat your subjective reality as if it is material reality when your beliefs are not reflective of material reality when it comes to accessing female single sex provision. No one is obligated to do this for you.

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:23

“I have a nuanced answer to this question, it’s all well-thought out but it goes to different school so you can’t meet it”

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:24

It's a pity we won't get to hear all those beliefs tho

SternJoyousBeev2 · 20/03/2026 00:26

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:18

Do I get my choice of synonym now? Is that how it works?

You might as well as gender delulus want their own choice in everything else.

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:28

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:16

I 100% agree. Thank you for your answer.

You will no doubt have male sexed body cues because your body was exposed to testosterone and due to genetics.

It doesn’t matter whether someone has had the ability to produce small gametes removed. The categorisation still remains accurate nonetheless.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 20/03/2026 00:30

WearyAuldWumman · 20/03/2026 00:19

When you're a little girl, your mother teaches you to scream if you're attacked. She teaches you to use your elbow, your fist, your knee.

She tells you that if you're in trouble then you should only approach a woman and not a strange man. You don't quite understand why until it happens to you.

And yet we have some people telling us that anyone who claims to be a woman should be accepted as one—which was what led to Tiffany Scott nearly being allowed into the women's prison estate (until the scandal surrounding the Isla Bryson debacle erupted).

We now have Tiffany Scott being lauded as a trans martyr and Paris Green looking for sympathy in the Scottish press. We're well through the looking glass.

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Worse than that. Girls are being taught to ignore their natural instincts when it comes to these blokes. Girls are being told that these men are the most vulnerable marginalised folk in the world. Girls are being told that anyone who does not agree that these men are in fact women are evil bigots who must be shunned.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:31

noblegiraffe · 20/03/2026 00:21

Spouting bollocks and pretending you don’t really mean it is an interesting hobby.

My life is unaffected by this obsession over trans people.

I believe people deserve a happy life. I know there to be trans children, adolescents and youth. There are minors who for whatever reason acquire trans-oriented care when they shouldn't. I believe everyone should receive healthcare regardless of their age and embodiment.

I believe trans boys and trans girls deserve a long life free of abuse. This website impedes that belief.

The majority of posts made on mumsnet about trans people are from people who have no connection to trans people or their lives. Who knows what motivates them. Therefore some of my posts respond in the same level of personal connection.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:32

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:22

The reason your beliefs are not ‘valid’ in this ‘space’ is because they are not reflective of material reality. You seem to be continuing with your flawed premise that your beliefs are not valid on a feminism board due to prejudice which is not accurate or truthful.

You also seem to be under the mistaken belief that other people are obligated to treat your subjective reality as if it is material reality when your beliefs are not reflective of material reality when it comes to accessing female single sex provision. No one is obligated to do this for you.

Thank you for sharing your belief.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:33

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:28

You will no doubt have male sexed body cues because your body was exposed to testosterone and due to genetics.

It doesn’t matter whether someone has had the ability to produce small gametes removed. The categorisation still remains accurate nonetheless.

Of course. As was destined by my father's sperm and my mother's ovum and their parents and so on for millennia.

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:35

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:31

My life is unaffected by this obsession over trans people.

I believe people deserve a happy life. I know there to be trans children, adolescents and youth. There are minors who for whatever reason acquire trans-oriented care when they shouldn't. I believe everyone should receive healthcare regardless of their age and embodiment.

I believe trans boys and trans girls deserve a long life free of abuse. This website impedes that belief.

The majority of posts made on mumsnet about trans people are from people who have no connection to trans people or their lives. Who knows what motivates them. Therefore some of my posts respond in the same level of personal connection.

You seem to know an awful lot about people you've never met. How do you know what connections we have? It's all just assumption and prejudice on your part, coupled with a lack of critical thinking and empathy.

We do know what motivates you, however.

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:36

The reaction to being told ‘no, you should respect female people’s needs for single sex provisions and the EA2010’ is coming across as very familiar.

Alexandra Billings here .

https://x.com/gaynotqueer1/status/2032811484271817092?s=46

Then the chilling and menacing response to women saying 'no' here.

https://x.com/knownheretic/status/2032639781658833142?s=46

Once you see it, it cannot be unseen.

Amy E. Sousa, MA Depth Psychology (@KnownHeretic) on X

Alexandra Billings is another entitled man who thinks his cosmetic purchases buy him an all access pass to violate women’s boundaries. I respond to his snarky video point for point.

https://x.com/knownheretic/status/2032639781658833142?s=46

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:37

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:35

You seem to know an awful lot about people you've never met. How do you know what connections we have? It's all just assumption and prejudice on your part, coupled with a lack of critical thinking and empathy.

We do know what motivates you, however.

This board is not one overflowing with critical thinking or empathy.

FranticFrankie · 20/03/2026 00:37

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:50

You will have your beliefs. Your relatives and offspring will be ashamed of those beliefs. I'm sorry you were ensnared by whatever forces you to obsess over those of us who change sex. I hope you live a good life.

I do. I am neither obsessed nor ensnared. Neither does the gorgeous, beautiful and sensitive transperson that is in my life 😍
You cannot change sex
Yes we are both living a good life (TP and me)

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:37

"I believe people deserve a happy life."

Except for the female people who don't want me in their space

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:37

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:37

This board is not one overflowing with critical thinking or empathy.

Not in your case, I agree

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:38

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:36

The reaction to being told ‘no, you should respect female people’s needs for single sex provisions and the EA2010’ is coming across as very familiar.

Alexandra Billings here .

https://x.com/gaynotqueer1/status/2032811484271817092?s=46

Then the chilling and menacing response to women saying 'no' here.

https://x.com/knownheretic/status/2032639781658833142?s=46

Once you see it, it cannot be unseen.

Thank you for your book recommendation. Sadly, I have a stack of unread books that will hopefully be visited and diminished before I die.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/03/2026 00:38

ElenOfTheWays · 19/03/2026 23:14

I agree with him. I always have.
And the answer has NEVER been surgery and cross sex hormones.
It's all such bullshit.

As far back as the '90s I was baffled by the idea of transsexuals.

Why was surgery etc. considered the treatment for an obvious mental health condition? A delusion?
What fuckwit came up with that?

I agree with him on that too. I think it’s worth understanding the comorbid conditions and personality disorders which often accompany a “trans” identity. There’s nothing all that astonishing.

Helleofabore · 20/03/2026 00:39

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:33

Of course. As was destined by my father's sperm and my mother's ovum and their parents and so on for millennia.

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Great. So you understand that there is a very high likelihood that most people correctly identify you as being a male person when they see you and interact with you.

I mean, you acknowledged that you don’t pass earlier in the thread if I remember correctly.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:39

FranticFrankie · 20/03/2026 00:37

I do. I am neither obsessed nor ensnared. Neither does the gorgeous, beautiful and sensitive transperson that is in my life 😍
You cannot change sex
Yes we are both living a good life (TP and me)

I love this for you.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 20/03/2026 00:39

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:31

My life is unaffected by this obsession over trans people.

I believe people deserve a happy life. I know there to be trans children, adolescents and youth. There are minors who for whatever reason acquire trans-oriented care when they shouldn't. I believe everyone should receive healthcare regardless of their age and embodiment.

I believe trans boys and trans girls deserve a long life free of abuse. This website impedes that belief.

The majority of posts made on mumsnet about trans people are from people who have no connection to trans people or their lives. Who knows what motivates them. Therefore some of my posts respond in the same level of personal connection.

Gender delulus like to ignore their instincts when fact the women have rights and that includes the right to single sex spaces. Gender delulus also like to ignore that women on the FWR board are focused on women’s rights and the welfare and wellbeing of children.

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:40

Two more.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 20/03/2026 00:40

onepostwonder · 20/03/2026 00:33

Of course. As was destined by my father's sperm and my mother's ovum and their parents and so on for millennia.

Edited

By Jove, he’s got it!

Greyskybluesky · 20/03/2026 00:40

Anyone born male is never a woman

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