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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trans patient records medical team during cancer surgery

239 replies

junipery · 10/02/2026 14:28

www.nytimes.com/2025/12/01/nyregion/transgender-patient-records-during-cancer-surgery.html?smtyp=cur&utm_social_post_id=611783878&utm_social_handle_id=5281959998&smid=fb-nytimes

https://archive.ph/z8uok

Has this been shared? These pieces always reveal so much.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/02/2026 14:37

You'll need an archive link

https://archive.ph/z8uok

And the guy recording sounds like a wazzock.

"She had decided on an open-casket funeral.
“I was going to be a pretty corpse,” she said."

He's a dude. Cancer doesn't stop that.

dreichluver · 10/02/2026 14:39

They took a phone? Into theatre? Where they were having major surgery? Because 'knowledge is power'?

What the hell have I just read?

ProfessorRedshoeblueshoe · 10/02/2026 14:41

I couldn't even be arsed to read all that.

TheQuickCat · 10/02/2026 15:00

dreichluver · 10/02/2026 14:39

They took a phone? Into theatre? Where they were having major surgery? Because 'knowledge is power'?

What the hell have I just read?

Where the hell did they put it!?

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/02/2026 15:02

TheQuickCat · 10/02/2026 15:00

Where the hell did they put it!?

tucked under the testicles I should think.

Hoardasurass · 10/02/2026 15:04

Well his medical records need to be accurate and the fact that he still has testicles is also relevant information especially when his cancer has metastatisised as it could well spread to them.

TheSpidermanIsHavingMeForDinnerTonight · 10/02/2026 15:06

Having cancer surgery but is concerned about pronouns. Says it all really.

lcakethereforeIam · 10/02/2026 15:09

Whoever did his FFS should give him his money back. Also, he was asked to take a pregnancy test. He should be concerned that his true sex is known and he's getting the medications and dosages appropriate for a man. If he's inappropriately or under medicated because his records state he's female he could die. He should just tell himself that M is ma'am and F is fella.

solerolover · 10/02/2026 15:14

TheQuickCat · 10/02/2026 15:00

Where the hell did they put it!?

In the bag for his belongings that the hospital provided him with.

solerolover · 10/02/2026 15:16
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She was back at Memorial Sloan Kettering, the hospital she was suing. She said she had chosen it in the first place because “they’re the best.” Her opinion of the hospital’s cancer care hasn’t changed.
“I’m still alive,” she said. “I can’t complain.”

ERthree · 10/02/2026 15:16

He had cancer, you would think that would be a priority not his fairy tale.

loislovesstewie · 10/02/2026 15:21

I think, unfortunately, that some people live in cloud cuckoo land, where because they think they become female it actually happens. Knowing a person's biological sex seems to be important when accessing health care, especially if the patient can't /won't bring the subject up themselves. And of course, litigation and huge awards are often the way to go in the USA.

RedToothBrush · 10/02/2026 15:26

TheSpidermanIsHavingMeForDinnerTonight · 10/02/2026 15:06

Having cancer surgery but is concerned about pronouns. Says it all really.

Yep. It's not about politeness or health care. It's about controlling others.

SinnerBoy · 10/02/2026 15:38

He's upset because the surgical team spoke to each other about what they found and could see? What did he expect, for goodness sake?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 10/02/2026 15:49

RedToothBrush · 10/02/2026 15:26

Yep. It's not about politeness or health care. It's about controlling others.

Nail on the head.

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 10/02/2026 15:51

absolutely bizarre to want to exert that level of control....

RedToothBrush · 10/02/2026 15:51

You also have to be a vindictive piece of work to do this to people who are literally trying to save your life.

Why would you want to treat a trans patient if this was the risk? Honestly there's a void between ears going on here.

TheAmusedQuail · 10/02/2026 16:01

I'm shocked at some of the attitudes and comments on here.

MsGreying · 10/02/2026 16:01

I think surgeons have a right to know what type of body they're operating on. Biology gets really important when open people up.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/02/2026 16:02

TheAmusedQuail · 10/02/2026 16:01

I'm shocked at some of the attitudes and comments on here.

which ones?

Greyskybluesky · 10/02/2026 16:09

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/02/2026 16:02

which ones?

The ones that are in any way critical of the sacred caste, I shouldn't wonder

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/02/2026 16:12

Greyskybluesky · 10/02/2026 16:09

The ones that are in any way critical of the sacred caste, I shouldn't wonder

I was hoping it was my phone case / ball bag combo mental picture.

RedToothBrush · 10/02/2026 16:19

TheAmusedQuail · 10/02/2026 16:01

I'm shocked at some of the attitudes and comments on here.

What you think it's ok to entrap staff because they refer to you in the correct sex when performing an operation?

ElementalPicnicTable · 10/02/2026 16:20

Knowledge is indeed power, mate.

The knowledge that you are male, and should be treated as such when undergoing lifesaving surgery.

Shedmistress · 10/02/2026 16:24

TheAmusedQuail · 10/02/2026 16:01

I'm shocked at some of the attitudes and comments on here.

Episode 2 Whatever GIF

#SadTimes