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Glinner Bullseye comment on X

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Thatcatsaflippingnightmare · 09/01/2026 20:41

Always trying to explain Glinner to DH, today he showed me on X JD Vance defending murder of the woman by ICE. Glinner had replied something like 'bullseye', as in agreement. I tried to comprehend with "satire?" but he said no he's on Liz truss show these days. I said well he's always been about protecting women and children, he's not suddenly supporting femicide, but the post convinced DH otherwise. Any insights? I'm not on social media

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lechiffre55 · 12/01/2026 19:56

People from all over the political spectrum can agree on a given topic without needing words like appropriated.
To be for free speech does not mean your 'side' and people who think like you, left or right owns it.
To be gender critial does not mean your 'side' and people who think like you, left or right owns it.
There are certain topics can srongly agree on whilst just as strongly disagreeing on other topics. Nobody owns ideas.
Trying to paint a topic as belonging to the left or right is stupid in my opinion, it encourages the tribalism approach.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:57

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 19:22

I do think an issue has been the severe reluctance to criticise KJK for going on podcasts & posing for self-esteem with white nationalists like Jean François Gariepy. Call it respectability politics if you want, but her actions there are the basis for every TRA article telling impressionable young trans identified teens & early 20s that GC people are influenced by the far right. People say things like, 'KJK has risked her life!' Soldiers risk their lives - does that mean soldiers or firefighters etc can't call someone out when they're pursuing a bad strategy? Even if she doesn't agree morally with these people (I'm sure she doesn't) it was highly damaging tactically.

I can't be dealing with all this guilt by association stuff.

I simply think sex based rights are important and need to be protected. KJK thinks that too and we have that much in common.

But I do not vouch for any of her other opinions nor am I responsible for them. She's coming from a very different position than me and she's always been clear about how she sees herself.

This has to be the most brain dead period I've lived though. All this tribal nonsense is anathema to actual discussion and engagement

I'm not being tribal, saying you & other GC people agree with KJK on everything

What I'm saying is not a moral protest but a tactical one. Tactically, KJK's actions gave ammunition to people who want vulnerable trans teens to think GC activists are scary far right white nationalists/neo Nazis they should avoid.

Of course this is illogical, but the point is it made it harder to reach out to young people who have been brainwashed by this movement.

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 20:03

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:57

I'm not being tribal, saying you & other GC people agree with KJK on everything

What I'm saying is not a moral protest but a tactical one. Tactically, KJK's actions gave ammunition to people who want vulnerable trans teens to think GC activists are scary far right white nationalists/neo Nazis they should avoid.

Of course this is illogical, but the point is it made it harder to reach out to young people who have been brainwashed by this movement.

But I just said I DONT agree with her on everything.

If people can't comprehend such a basic concept, then God help us all. Debate is not going to be possible.

Strage · 12/01/2026 20:10

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/01/2026 18:20

Do you think of FWR anymore as a feminist GC space?

No. Its a forum on Mnet that has some interesting feminist content but I do not consider it a feminist, gender critical space.

There's too many men in here nowdays to be able to call this a feminist forum.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:14

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 20:03

But I just said I DONT agree with her on everything.

If people can't comprehend such a basic concept, then God help us all. Debate is not going to be possible.

Sorry, I'm quite tired. I didn't mean to misunderstand- would you mind clarifying-

I was saying that I'm frustrated with people's reluctance to criticise KJK's tactics.

I thought you had misunderstood my post to mean I was unfairly accusing KJK of actually being white nationalist & you of agreeing with her.

So, to clarify : You're actually saying that you don't agree with KJK's tactics. So you don't oppose criticism/discussion of her tactics?

I'm sorry for the misunderstanding.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:19

CrossPurposes · 12/01/2026 00:41

Well they are there. I also found it via Nitter. I'm not sure why it's so hard to believe he would retweet something like this. He is prolific and careless.

https://nitter.net/Glinner/with_replies?cursor=DAAHCgABG-bERU___xkLAAIAAAATMjAwOTgwMjQyMTAwNzIwMDY1MAgAAwAAAAIAAA (scroll down)

Ah, I see. I hadn't seen the 19th amendment bit at the bottom when I first read it.

I still don't think he should have retweeted it even if he missed the 19th amendment bit.

Why is he retweeting a post denigrating 'liberal white women', let alone a dead woman, whose death is still unclear, and who is the mother of several including a 7 year old, as well as leaving a grieving wife and ex husband? Why?

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 20:21

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:14

Sorry, I'm quite tired. I didn't mean to misunderstand- would you mind clarifying-

I was saying that I'm frustrated with people's reluctance to criticise KJK's tactics.

I thought you had misunderstood my post to mean I was unfairly accusing KJK of actually being white nationalist & you of agreeing with her.

So, to clarify : You're actually saying that you don't agree with KJK's tactics. So you don't oppose criticism/discussion of her tactics?

I'm sorry for the misunderstanding.

I agree with some things KJK says and does. I don't agree with others.

I woukd have though that was perfectly normal. That most adults do not have an expectation of wholly agreeing or wholly disagreeing with anyone.

persephonia · 12/01/2026 20:41

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 20:21

I agree with some things KJK says and does. I don't agree with others.

I woukd have though that was perfectly normal. That most adults do not have an expectation of wholly agreeing or wholly disagreeing with anyone.

I think that's healthy. But I have limits.
For example, I would happily agree to disagree with say someone who though trans women are women. Even if they had opinions I found very objectionable (like Isla White belongs in a women's prison) I could be civil and maybe there would be unrelated issues we did agree on. But, for example, the TRAs who were actively celebrating the way KJK was attacked in New Zealand. I wouldn't want to share a platform with them on any unrelated issues. It's not about disagreement. There's a deep rooted meanness and resistance to civilised discussion I would want to keep a distance from.

Likewise, people might have different views on ICE etc to me. But when it gets to laughing a/celebrating the idea of immigrants in distress for example, I don't trust people likes that. That also applies to some of the things said about the shooting victim including by GL... It puts me off on a much deeper level than just disagreement about politics.

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 20:41

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:14

Sorry, I'm quite tired. I didn't mean to misunderstand- would you mind clarifying-

I was saying that I'm frustrated with people's reluctance to criticise KJK's tactics.

I thought you had misunderstood my post to mean I was unfairly accusing KJK of actually being white nationalist & you of agreeing with her.

So, to clarify : You're actually saying that you don't agree with KJK's tactics. So you don't oppose criticism/discussion of her tactics?

I'm sorry for the misunderstanding.

Why on earth should I criticise KJKs 'tactics'? She speaks for herself. This is utter tribalism. And so what if she's right wing? Why do you think she shouldn't be? Must every woman be on the left for their views to be acceptable to you?

I believe sex is real and humans can't change sex. That's it. KJK also believes that. So does JKR. So does anyone who has engaged their brain.

I'm not part of a game of 'tactics' about reality. I cannot fathom why believing in reality is a left/right issue.

I'm sorry, but this level of discussion reminds me of the playground.

Oh and to the previous poster who thinks TRAs don't actually believe people change sex - they really do. If they didn't, why would they be changing sex markers in passports?

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 20:46

Sorry that came across as harsh! I'm not usually so arsey! Really not personal @Carla786 .

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 12/01/2026 20:49

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 20:46

Sorry that came across as harsh! I'm not usually so arsey! Really not personal @Carla786 .

It was spot on I’d say.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:53

Strage · 12/01/2026 20:26

I do think a related issue has been the severe reluctance to criticise KJK for going on podcasts & posing for selfies with white nationalists like Jean François Gariepy

Turns out that not only was he a white nationalist when she went on there, he was also receiving funding from Jeffrey Epstein.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/peteraldhous/jeffrey-epstein-science-donations-apologies-statements

That's valuable information. Epstein's Web goes deep...

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 20:58

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 20:41

Why on earth should I criticise KJKs 'tactics'? She speaks for herself. This is utter tribalism. And so what if she's right wing? Why do you think she shouldn't be? Must every woman be on the left for their views to be acceptable to you?

I believe sex is real and humans can't change sex. That's it. KJK also believes that. So does JKR. So does anyone who has engaged their brain.

I'm not part of a game of 'tactics' about reality. I cannot fathom why believing in reality is a left/right issue.

I'm sorry, but this level of discussion reminds me of the playground.

Oh and to the previous poster who thinks TRAs don't actually believe people change sex - they really do. If they didn't, why would they be changing sex markers in passports?

This. I could not agree more.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:59

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 20:41

Why on earth should I criticise KJKs 'tactics'? She speaks for herself. This is utter tribalism. And so what if she's right wing? Why do you think she shouldn't be? Must every woman be on the left for their views to be acceptable to you?

I believe sex is real and humans can't change sex. That's it. KJK also believes that. So does JKR. So does anyone who has engaged their brain.

I'm not part of a game of 'tactics' about reality. I cannot fathom why believing in reality is a left/right issue.

I'm sorry, but this level of discussion reminds me of the playground.

Oh and to the previous poster who thinks TRAs don't actually believe people change sex - they really do. If they didn't, why would they be changing sex markers in passports?

I will take this point by point.

Where have I criticised KJK for being 'right wing'?

The issue I am discussing is KJK's podcast interviews/selfies etc with far right people like Jean François Gariepy. I mean actually far right, Gariepy is a white nationalist. Not right wing.

I'm not saying she agrees with them on race etc I don't think she does.

My point is that I think it was tactically unwise for her to do that, not that she agrees with them.

So 'criticising her for being right wing' is very far from the point I was making.

I will address your other points in a little while.

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 21:06

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 12/01/2026 20:49

It was spot on I’d say.

Thank you. I'm finding this thread utterly exasperating.

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 21:10

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 20:59

I will take this point by point.

Where have I criticised KJK for being 'right wing'?

The issue I am discussing is KJK's podcast interviews/selfies etc with far right people like Jean François Gariepy. I mean actually far right, Gariepy is a white nationalist. Not right wing.

I'm not saying she agrees with them on race etc I don't think she does.

My point is that I think it was tactically unwise for her to do that, not that she agrees with them.

So 'criticising her for being right wing' is very far from the point I was making.

I will address your other points in a little while.

Edited

I'm not saying she agrees with them on race etc I don't think she does.
My point is that I think it was tactically unwise for her to do that, not that she agrees with them.

If you have managed to figure out that appearing with someone with different views doesn't necessarily mean KJK endorses them, why do think others can't?

Is it that some people are incapable of this level of thinking? Don't you think this might be a problem that is not KJKs to solve?

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:23

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 21:10

I'm not saying she agrees with them on race etc I don't think she does.
My point is that I think it was tactically unwise for her to do that, not that she agrees with them.

If you have managed to figure out that appearing with someone with different views doesn't necessarily mean KJK endorses them, why do think others can't?

Is it that some people are incapable of this level of thinking? Don't you think this might be a problem that is not KJKs to solve?

Because I've been on a lot of forums with young people who are identifying as trans. The movement inculcates wider woolly woke thinking which means yes, a lot of these people do not think beyond 'X did this, X must be bad'. Cultlike movements encourage that kind of binary thinking.

Of course it's not KJK's fault that people are thinking that way, but I think any GC campaigner with such a large platform should tailor their message partly with an eye to getting young people away from this movement.

I'm Gen Z myself so I probably see the issue a bit differently due to that. Of course legal gains are the top priority but trying to get young people away from it is another. I think people like JKR, Kathleen Stock, Helen Joyce and many other GC campaigners are more effective at combining both aims imo.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:24

deadpan · 11/01/2026 21:48

I said a similar thing a while ago on a thread about flags. I was mauled by about 5 mumsnetters who said they didn't believe I was GC.
There's a difference between acknowledging biology and trolling victoria coren Mitchell because a trans person is on Only connect, or agreeing with Vance that the woman effectively deserved to be shot.
Jk Rowling has been criticised in the past by not openly supporting him, I think she kept the right amount of distance.

Yes, the insistence from some that any criticism of KJK or Glinner means someone is not GC is unhelpful purity testing.

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:28

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:23

Because I've been on a lot of forums with young people who are identifying as trans. The movement inculcates wider woolly woke thinking which means yes, a lot of these people do not think beyond 'X did this, X must be bad'. Cultlike movements encourage that kind of binary thinking.

Of course it's not KJK's fault that people are thinking that way, but I think any GC campaigner with such a large platform should tailor their message partly with an eye to getting young people away from this movement.

I'm Gen Z myself so I probably see the issue a bit differently due to that. Of course legal gains are the top priority but trying to get young people away from it is another. I think people like JKR, Kathleen Stock, Helen Joyce and many other GC campaigners are more effective at combining both aims imo.

To be fair, the TRAs have tried to destroy the credibility of every one of these women. If they don't have anything to actually base that on, they'll make up some bullshit. Remember the 'JKR is a holocaust denier' nonsense?

The TRAs fight dirty, they use every trick in the book. We can't stop them doing that. What we can do is not get pulled into these weeds. It's a debate about policies, not about people's 'worthiness'

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:28

HopeSpringsEternally · 11/01/2026 17:23

Renee Good appears to have been a vulnerable adult who was swayed by her partner (a former US veteran) to engage in a dangerous political protest despite having a six-year-old child with no father.

Her son's father (also a former veteran who suffered with PTSD) died 2 years ago from an unspecified cause at the young age of 36.

The ICE officer who shot her is also a former US veteran.

This is a tragedy all round.

I think blaming her partner is a bit much.

Good was bereaved 7 years ago but I don't think that automatically means she was too vulnerable to decide for herself what to do.

Why do you assume her political views were mainly influenced by her partner? They might have been long-held for all we know. It feels patronising to assume that she was only protesting because of partner pressure, ad well as unfair to her partner.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:31

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:28

To be fair, the TRAs have tried to destroy the credibility of every one of these women. If they don't have anything to actually base that on, they'll make up some bullshit. Remember the 'JKR is a holocaust denier' nonsense?

The TRAs fight dirty, they use every trick in the book. We can't stop them doing that. What we can do is not get pulled into these weeds. It's a debate about policies, not about people's 'worthiness'

I agree it shouldn't be a debate about people's worthiness, but to young trans people, the people we are trying to help, it is often seen in those terms.

I agree that TRAs fight dirty & smeared JKR etc with fake stuff but that's precisely why it's better to campaign more like JKR, so you don't give them more ammunition, rather than platforming Gariepy etc, which was handing them ammunition on a plate.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:32

Tadpolesinponds · 11/01/2026 18:30

Do you think that moving to the US where there's such a massive political divide has pushed him over the edge - his gender critical views aligning him with the hard right in America? I imagine it must be very difficult to be a gender critical liberal over there. Not making excuses for him though. I wonder how thought-out this change in direction is. Is he messed up psychologically or is it about finding popularity and money in his new life?

I agree.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:33

5128gap · 11/01/2026 10:17

I think as a strategy you're correct. There is no value in hard right voices at this point in the fight. Anyone who will find their other views acceptable will be on board already and many will be alienated from being actively GC by the package deal they percieve to go with it.

Exactly

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:35

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:31

I agree it shouldn't be a debate about people's worthiness, but to young trans people, the people we are trying to help, it is often seen in those terms.

I agree that TRAs fight dirty & smeared JKR etc with fake stuff but that's precisely why it's better to campaign more like JKR, so you don't give them more ammunition, rather than platforming Gariepy etc, which was handing them ammunition on a plate.

I have no interest in engaging with young TRAs purity tests. For no other reason than we will never win
in their eyes. They think JKR is the devil incarnate, regardless of her behaviour.

We can only keep the debate to facts and reason. Luckily TRAs suck at this

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