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Glinner Bullseye comment on X

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Thatcatsaflippingnightmare · 09/01/2026 20:41

Always trying to explain Glinner to DH, today he showed me on X JD Vance defending murder of the woman by ICE. Glinner had replied something like 'bullseye', as in agreement. I tried to comprehend with "satire?" but he said no he's on Liz truss show these days. I said well he's always been about protecting women and children, he's not suddenly supporting femicide, but the post convinced DH otherwise. Any insights? I'm not on social media

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nicepotoftea · 12/01/2026 18:40

FastBiscuit · 12/01/2026 18:05

They know that no rational person believes humans can change sex

TRAs don't think people can change sex. They think people can change gender, which is not the same thing. I think you are aware of this.

GC people continually pretending that trans people and trans allies are talking about changing sex is disingenuous and deploying that argument so you can call people stupid just makes you look foolish. And not worth engaging with.

TRAs don't think people can change sex. They think people can change gender, which is not the same thing. I think you are aware of this

I think you have that wrong - from what I understand trans people believe that gender identity is innate, and your suggestion that it changes is rather offensive.

Gender is a rather vague concept, but if you want to provide services that are segregated according to gender identity go ahead. (Maybe don't tell people that their identity used to be something different though). Gender and gender identity are not protected characteristics so as long as you can find a way to do it without unlawfully discriminating on the basis of sex, nobody will mind.

NotTerfNorCis · 12/01/2026 18:42

Some trans people do believe they have changed sex. India Willoughby for instance refers to himself as a biological female. He's not the only transwoman to do so.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 18:43

lcakethereforeIam · 09/01/2026 23:05

Brendan O'Neill, of all people(!), nails it

Why can’t the right say Renee Good’s death is a tragedy? - spiked https://share.google/cX5zuCu92ZXO0cqZP

The parallel between the reactions to this death and the murder of Charlie Kirk, spot on.

I've seen right wingers argue it's different because Good was driving at the officer, but what I've seen so far supports that she was driving away when she was shot three times.

Tadpolesinponds · 12/01/2026 18:46

I've seen lots of people online claim that it's possible to change sex. Taking female hormones takes you part way to changing sex, as does growing breasts. And you're psychologically a woman if you feel like a woman, apparently, and probably have a female brain. Add all that kind of thing together and you probably are a biological woman. It's that kind of argument.

Heggettypeg · 12/01/2026 18:52

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/01/2026 18:20

Do you think of FWR anymore as a feminist GC space?

No. Its a forum on Mnet that has some interesting feminist content but I do not consider it a feminist, gender critical space.

Longstanding users of FWR will know more about this than I do, but as far as I am aware, it has never been any kind of curated "space" for a particular kind of person.

It's a board for a particular topic. I gather that sex and gender got its own board because some people didn't want it on the general feminism board - but people can and do wander off topic in threads and that's ok.

It operates under Mumsnet guidelines, and people can get banned for breaking them, but in general they're about behaviour, not ideologically-prescribed standpoints. I would qualify that insofar as I'm aware that in the past, the guidelines had bought into gender ideology to some extent, and posts would be deleted for mentioning certain things - AGP I think was one of them. But that has eased up now. (Older posters may be able to give you the history of how this came about).

So basically anyone can come here and raise or discuss topics relating to sex and gender as it affects women. And they can stay here as long as they don't break Mumsnet guidelines for posting.

Battytwatty · 12/01/2026 18:54

ByWorthyLimeDuck · 10/01/2026 04:40

He does spend almost all day every day sexually harassing trans identifying individuals many of whom are as young as my own children talking at length to them about porn and posting nudes of people he believes to be underaged trans ID'd people often for the terrible crime of....being male and putting a dress on, something this movement used to claim it was fine with

That is utter bollocks.

eatfigs · 12/01/2026 18:54

OldCrone · 12/01/2026 18:21

Of course they're talking about changing sex.

Genders are feminine and masculine. Sexes are male and female.

If TIMs were talking about changing gender, they'd call themselves 'feminine men', and stay out of women's spaces, because they know they haven't changed sex.

But they don't. They call themselves 'transwomen', or sometimes even 'women', and pretend they think this gives them the right to be in women's spaces as though they have changed sex.

I'm not so sure, I think it's a bit of both. Some of them seem to genuinely believe that people can change sex through manipulation of hormones and surgeries. Others talk about concepts like "female gender identity" which I think indicates they're not talking about sex.

Heggettypeg · 12/01/2026 18:57

Tadpolesinponds · 12/01/2026 18:46

I've seen lots of people online claim that it's possible to change sex. Taking female hormones takes you part way to changing sex, as does growing breasts. And you're psychologically a woman if you feel like a woman, apparently, and probably have a female brain. Add all that kind of thing together and you probably are a biological woman. It's that kind of argument.

We had one of those on here the other day. When posters told them that no, despite all those things, a man is still a man, they simply wouldn't have it.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 18:59

JamieCannister · 12/01/2026 13:00

It is hard to express sympathy with left wing parties when left wing parties are advocating to sterilize children, castrate young gay men, end women's rights spaces and language, telling straight men and lesbians that they are bigoted scum if they are not willing to suck c**k and who literally claim a mentally ill person's feelings are more important than reality. And are doing all of the above whilst suppressing truth and free speech.

I have never voted Tory. I despise Farage. The only times I have not voted labour are, IIRC, one vote for the greens and one vote for the Lib Dems [which was when the Lib Dems were advocating for higher taxes than labour and I was in an incredibly safe labour seat where there was no risk of the tories getting in.]

Yet I find myself defending Tommy Robinson (or rather asking for evidence from people who are accusing him of bad things) and finding that Rupert Lowe talks a lot of sense... people who see me online might well assume I am a lifelong Tory who is moving to the right because of the way I criticize the things labour are doing wrong.

What do you think about these issues with Tommy?

He's got a battery of crime accusations, including violent ones, and convictions stretching up to recently, including allegedly harassing a journalist who reported negative information about him, as well as decidedly unpleasant treatment of a Syrian refugee boy. Not to mention the recent vile incident where he spread false & malicious information about a mixed-race family which left them in fear.

www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 19:00

God this thread is making me despair. I'm sick of all the lunatics on both sides. Where have all the normal people gone? 🤦‍♀️

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:02

Grammarnut · 12/01/2026 13:38

She was on the Unite the Kingdom march, which my step-grandson also attended. His report was clear; there was no violence and those attending included ethnic minorities in the UK and people from across the class spectrum. There is nothing wrong in wanting to put our country back together again, punish rape gangs, remove criminals who have also entered the country illegally, and to celebrate our culture of tolerance, liberty, anti-slaving (Lancashire cotton workers starved and sent money to show their support for the North and anti-slavery during the US's civil war, for example, and Britain spent treasure and lives ending the Triangular Trade and stopping slavery wherever they found it and had influence), Parliamentary democracy, great literature etc. I also follow Birdy Rose and KJK, too. I don't agree with everything they say or do but one cannot agree with someone on everything. We agree on some things that I believe to be important.

I agree on all those issues, however is Tommy Robinson really the right figurehead for them? (Re my post to JamieCannister upthread detailing things he's done) And Elon Musk?

I'm glad there was no violence where you stepson was but there does seem to have been violence in other parts of the March.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:04

FastBiscuit · 12/01/2026 13:45

spineless, cowardly, captured, venal and thick

followed by

grow up

make it make sense 😂😂😂

If non GC women are going to be labelled thick I see no need to continue that discussion.

Let us bring focus back to Glinner who is now retweeting people who think women shouldn't vote, and now thinks thr word ret*rd is acceptable language from a 60 year old lol

He's been leeching off women for years time to cut him loose.

Glinner retweeted someone saying women shouldn't vote?

Do you have a link?

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 19:05

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:04

Glinner retweeted someone saying women shouldn't vote?

Do you have a link?

Did he?

I'm no fan of Glinner, but this seems unlikely

nicepotoftea · 12/01/2026 19:12

eatfigs · 12/01/2026 18:54

I'm not so sure, I think it's a bit of both. Some of them seem to genuinely believe that people can change sex through manipulation of hormones and surgeries. Others talk about concepts like "female gender identity" which I think indicates they're not talking about sex.

It's really interesting to compare these views to the examples given in this article about Republican men creating abortion legislation.

https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/alabama-abortion-law-republican-ignorance-female-reproduction.html

There's the the one who thinks an ectopic pregnancy can be re implanted and the one who thinks that women can't get pregnant if they are raped. The problem is not that they think sex doesn't exist, but that they think that the consequences of having a female anatomy are so insignificant and uninteresting that they can just be ignored.

"To men in this cohort, the female body is more symbol than fact, more allegory than flesh and blood"

So much mirroring on left and right.

GOP Lawmakers Think They Don’t Have to Understand Women’s Bodies to Police Them

Supporters of Alabama’s extreme abortion law weren’t just confused over what exactly it does—they were proud of their ignorance.

https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/alabama-abortion-law-republican-ignorance-female-reproduction.html

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:13

Irkeddancer · 12/01/2026 11:20

I don't think GC beliefs are inherently right wing at all however I do think most online GC spaces are right wing or right wing leaning. I mainly lurk on FWR nowadays as it doesn't feel like the feminist space it used to. I still see posters claim the majority of users are left wing and/ or women but it's increasingly clear that for a space apparently frequented by a lot of left wingers any critique or concern about the right wing aren't engaged with in any sort of good faith on here. The response to any feminist concern about the right wing (which does intersect with GC concerns for women) seem to be:

  • this isn't relevant, why is this being posted here
  • what even is right wing now
  • accusing anyone posting about right wingers in GC spaces or prominent GC voices rubbing shoulders with the far right must be a TRA trying to smear GC views
  • GC feminists need to "use" the right wingers who are amplifying GC views and drop them when we've achieved progress (the most bizarre one)
  • or many posters just fully parroting right wing conservative views that aren't compatible with feminism and any critique of this is against weaponised as troll or TRA behaviour
  • Any concerns about right wing or conservative men using the GC cause with I'll intent is treated as completely posted in bad faith as seen earlier in this thread

I also think from the tone and devil's advocate type responses that are increasing in these anonymous forums I'm not actually convinced that I'm mostly talking to women let alone feminists anymore, which can't be proven before but there's a lot of tone and lines of argument that you mostly see from men or MRAs, and even posters who have declared themselves as men doing as Glinner does which is better misogynistic to women who don't agree with them or aren't GC,.which still isn't excusable to be misogynistic.

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I agree strongly with this.

or many posters just fully parroting right wing conservative views that aren't compatible with feminism and any critique of this is against weaponised as troll or TRA behaviour- can I ask what kind of views- can you give any examples?

Any concerns about right wing or conservative men using the GC cause with I'll intent is treated as completely posted in bad faith as seen earlier in this thread- this definitely.

I do think a related issue has been the severe reluctance to criticise KJK for going on podcasts & posing for selfies with white nationalists like Jean François Gariepy. Call it respectability politics if you want, but her actions there are the basis for every TRA article telling impressionable young trans identified teens & early 20s that GC people are influenced by the far right. People say things like, 'KJK has risked her life!' Soldiers risk their lives - does that mean soldiers or firefighters etc can't call someone out when they're pursuing a bad strategy? Even if she doesn't agree morally with these people (I'm sure she doesn't) it was highly damaging tactically.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:16

nicepotoftea · 12/01/2026 12:36

Perhaps this is partly caused by the fact that posters aren't supposed to post on this subject elsewhere?

You mean they don't want to discuss criticism of GC campaigners etc as this is the only space GC can really be discussed freely?

I get that issue but there needs to be critical discussion too, it shouldn't just be shut down or that will harm the movement.

RachelFanshawe · 12/01/2026 19:20

It’s so hard when you agree so strongly with someone on one issue but not necessarily other issues. Or if you find them unlikeable.

I’m just about as GC as it’s possible to be. I’m probably verging on actually anti-trans.

But Glinner often says things that make me cringe with an inward “ooooh…”

And I find Posie Parker very unpleasant at the same time as vehemently agreeing with her 🤷‍♀️

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 19:22

I do think an issue has been the severe reluctance to criticise KJK for going on podcasts & posing for self-esteem with white nationalists like Jean François Gariepy. Call it respectability politics if you want, but her actions there are the basis for every TRA article telling impressionable young trans identified teens & early 20s that GC people are influenced by the far right. People say things like, 'KJK has risked her life!' Soldiers risk their lives - does that mean soldiers or firefighters etc can't call someone out when they're pursuing a bad strategy? Even if she doesn't agree morally with these people (I'm sure she doesn't) it was highly damaging tactically.

I can't be dealing with all this guilt by association stuff.

I simply think sex based rights are important and need to be protected. KJK thinks that too and we have that much in common.

But I do not vouch for any of her other opinions nor am I responsible for them. She's coming from a very different position than me and she's always been clear about how she sees herself.

This has to be the most brain dead period I've lived though. All this tribal nonsense is anathema to actual discussion and engagement

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 12/01/2026 19:25

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 19:00

God this thread is making me despair. I'm sick of all the lunatics on both sides. Where have all the normal people gone? 🤦‍♀️

Yep, and how inconceivable it is for some to grasp that you can agree with individuals and be appreciative of their stance (right or left leaning) on certain issues such as sex based rights, and disagree with them on others, as is life.

Edited to add - me liking Big Macs, and Donald Trump also stating he likes Big Macs and will defend the existence of Big Macs, doesn’t automatically make me a big Trump loving supporter and defender of everything he stands for.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 12/01/2026 19:28

RachelFanshawe · 12/01/2026 19:20

It’s so hard when you agree so strongly with someone on one issue but not necessarily other issues. Or if you find them unlikeable.

I’m just about as GC as it’s possible to be. I’m probably verging on actually anti-trans.

But Glinner often says things that make me cringe with an inward “ooooh…”

And I find Posie Parker very unpleasant at the same time as vehemently agreeing with her 🤷‍♀️

I don’t find it hard at all. It’s life! I don’t know one person that I agree with 100% entirely on every single issue in life.

dinodart · 12/01/2026 19:33

ByWorthyLimeDuck · 10/01/2026 04:19

In all honesty I'm not certain why people are surprised, gender critical is as a whole an incredibly right wing ideology, the majority of its major supporters are explicitly or implicitly incredibly righting using a veneer of the minority of left wing gender criticals to make their desire of total control and acess to female bodies and public presentation more appealing. The movement is primarily funded by American evangelicals, particularly anti-abortion extremists who don't believe women deserve control of their own bodies.

Regardless of how we feel about transgender people in single sex spaces the truth is that they were, have been and will continue to use those spaces unnoticed and its gender non conforming females that are going to be victimised over and over by rightwing men who feel entitled to try and look at our parts under the guise of 'helping us'. I'm still uncertain how I feel about it all and would consider myself gender critical but as the mask for those fronting this movement slips more and more I find I care far more about the much higher percentage of females getting attacked and assaulted for looking 'too manly' than I care about preventing the odd male in a dress quietly using a cubicle.

Though in all honesty I find some people involved in the gender critical movement care far more about wanting to hurt and be cruel to trans identified individuals than they do about protecting women. What purpose does glinner have with a harassment campaign against a 17 year old. Why did so many people in this movement react with pure glee at a teenagers brutal murder because the child was on 'the wrong side of the movement' I dont know. I'm a mother and if my children were hurting in such a way I wouldn't want them treated like that regardless of political opinion and my own lesbian daughter has already been assaulted twice for not looking 'feminine enough' to use the toilets

Being gender critical was originally tied to feminism and radical feminism, literally why they call us "TERFS", radical feminist is literally in the term.

Right wing people just conveniently appropriated it. If you can't even define the word "woman" you can't protect them as a class.

Basic biology about sex differences is not right-wing, neither is gender critical feminism.

Pretending that being GC is inherently right-wing does way more harm than good, and we'll never solve the issues if people actually believe this.

HereForTheFreeLunch · 12/01/2026 19:39

Right wing people just conveniently appropriated it. If you can't even define the word "woman" you can't protect them as a class.

True. And if you can't define women, you can't kick them as a class either - voila the right wing gender critic.

Irkeddancer · 12/01/2026 19:52

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:13

I agree strongly with this.

or many posters just fully parroting right wing conservative views that aren't compatible with feminism and any critique of this is against weaponised as troll or TRA behaviour- can I ask what kind of views- can you give any examples?

Any concerns about right wing or conservative men using the GC cause with I'll intent is treated as completely posted in bad faith as seen earlier in this thread- this definitely.

I do think a related issue has been the severe reluctance to criticise KJK for going on podcasts & posing for selfies with white nationalists like Jean François Gariepy. Call it respectability politics if you want, but her actions there are the basis for every TRA article telling impressionable young trans identified teens & early 20s that GC people are influenced by the far right. People say things like, 'KJK has risked her life!' Soldiers risk their lives - does that mean soldiers or firefighters etc can't call someone out when they're pursuing a bad strategy? Even if she doesn't agree morally with these people (I'm sure she doesn't) it was highly damaging tactically.

Edited

I'm not going to link threads or names but it happens a lot on any thread involving Trump or any republican figures usually. I've seen long-standing posters critique support for cuts to women's services on threads that descend into accusations that GC posters must therefore support PBs and harming children or being a TRA simply because they won't support policy that will harm also women and therefore want changes brought in through other means.

It's all "we don't have to agree with right wingers on everything to agree that sex is immutable" but when someone shares a perfectly reasonable left wing feminist opinion they can still get jumped on by several posters. Even posters claiming not to support the right wing but still joining the mob to apply bad faith to them raising their feminist concern.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:53

PerkyBlueZebra · 12/01/2026 07:33

This is disturbing but I'm not clear what actually was reweeted..Did he reweet an actual tweet saying women shouldn't vote? Or just a tweet saying other things by a person who separately called for the 19th to be repealed in another tweet?

HopeSpringsEternally · 12/01/2026 19:53

FastBiscuit · 12/01/2026 00:52

I didn't say women are responsible for glinners behaviour. Nice strawman.

However i stand by what i said, GC views are right wing. They're grossly oversaurated by right wing figures, parties and media. Trans people are the political football gay people were in the 80s. First they came for the trans people..........

glinner going more right wing because he wants to tap into the MAGA grift well isn't the fault of women. But it's also not unrelated. Do you think if the it crowd episode debacle didnt get him into the GC rabbit hole he'd have ended up liking the tories or trump? Not a chance.

Gender critical views are not right-wing - that's phoney baloney.

Gender critical views only recently become partisan in the USA because Trump realized that the Democrats had tied themselves in knots supporting trans ideology (a predominantly white middle-class phenomenon) while ignoring the more pertinent cost-of-living concerns of their traditional voting base:
blue-collar workers.

According to exit polls in 2024, Trump won:

  • 13% of the black vote compared to John McCain’s 4% against Obama
  • 46% of the Latino vote this time, while McCain got 31% in 2008
  • 43% of voters under 30 against the 32% for McCain
  • 56% of those without a college degree - back in 2008, it was Obama who won a majority
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