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Glinner Bullseye comment on X

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Thatcatsaflippingnightmare · 09/01/2026 20:41

Always trying to explain Glinner to DH, today he showed me on X JD Vance defending murder of the woman by ICE. Glinner had replied something like 'bullseye', as in agreement. I tried to comprehend with "satire?" but he said no he's on Liz truss show these days. I said well he's always been about protecting women and children, he's not suddenly supporting femicide, but the post convinced DH otherwise. Any insights? I'm not on social media

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persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:08

Sorry my picture didn't load. It was one of his many retweets already posted in this thread (the one spoofing a romance novel and implying upset over her death came from women's secret desire to be dominated by ICE agents. Hah hah hah so funny).

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:09

TheKeatingFive · 13/01/2026 21:51

No one needs to 'own' anything.

You do, however, need to face facts.

The Dems lost hundreds of thousands (millions?) of votes to Trump in 2024. Now why do you think that might be?

Michael Jochum, on a Facebook post on his profile put it better than I ever could. Here you go:

’I used to wonder how it was possible that Trump could have won in 2016, and this second time in 2024 given how emotionally toxic and depraved he is.

I no longer do. I actually think he won, for that precise reason. Because he had at least one fucked-up part to mirror the fucked-up parts of millions.

If you are a racist, you found your guy. If you are a misogynist, you found your guy. If all you care about is money, you found your guy. If you have an emotionally armored heart, you found your guy. If you make fun of disabled people, you found your guy. If you hate intelligent people, you found your guy. If you are a rapist, you found your guy. If you like golden showers with Russian sex-workers, you found your guy. If you have not done a stitch of work on your emotional issues, you found your guy. If you are a serial cheater, you found your guy. If you are a perpetual bankrupt, you found your guy. If you don’t pay people for their honest work, you found your guy. If you are a hustler and a conman, you found your guy. If you mock people’s physical appearances, you found your guy. If you long for a toxic Daddy, you found your guy. If you are dissociated and disembodied, you found your guy. If you are unconscionable in all your economic dealings, you found your guy. If you lie day and night, you found your guy. If you have never eaten green vegetables, you found your guy. If you are a white supremacist, you found your guy. If you have a hole in your ego so big that not even the presidency could fill it, you found your guy. If you are a sociopath, and care not one iota about other humans, you found your guy. If you...
If he only had two of these issues, he never would have won. It was the fact that he had hundreds of them, that made him the winner. Because millions of humans are toxic. So they could relate to him, in one form or another.

It's never been about trump. It's always been about the people who finally have their twisted feelings about others validated. trump has given "those people" permission to disparage and hate their fellow human beings.

trump is only symptomatic of a much larger issue of a collective toxicity. If there is a single sentence that characterizes trump it is this: “He says the things I’m thinking.”

That may be what is so terrifying. Who knew that so many tens of millions of Americans were thinking unconscionable things about their fellow Americans?

Who knew that tens of millions men felt so emasculated by women and challenged by minorities? Who knew that after years of seeming progress on race and gender, tens of millions of white Americans lived in seething resentment, waiting for a demagogue to arrive who would legitimize their worst selves and channel them into political power?

Perhaps we had been living in a fool’s paradise.

Now we aren’t.’

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/01/2026 22:13

Irkeddancer · 13/01/2026 19:38

That's not the instances I'm talking about. I'm talking about instances of women raising a feminist concern about a harm to women as a cost of right wing policy and putting forth a reasonable opinion that it's possible for policy to for example stop puberty blockers without cutting funding to abortion services and being accused of supporting harming children, simply because they continue to push back on blithe acceptance of some right wingers pushing protections for children but harming women in other ways. And these are posters who have been long time regular GC posters.

In theory, it's possible to invest in NHS, safeguard abortion, stop deporting people who work and whose only crime is not having a visa whilst also stopping child transitioning and keeping prisons single-sex. In practice, there's no one to vote for on the left who will safeguard women and girls, unless you live in Rosie Duffield's constituency. It's tedious being told to throw female prisoners and autistic girls under the bus because the scolder considers other issues more important.

TheKeatingFive · 13/01/2026 22:16

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:09

Michael Jochum, on a Facebook post on his profile put it better than I ever could. Here you go:

’I used to wonder how it was possible that Trump could have won in 2016, and this second time in 2024 given how emotionally toxic and depraved he is.

I no longer do. I actually think he won, for that precise reason. Because he had at least one fucked-up part to mirror the fucked-up parts of millions.

If you are a racist, you found your guy. If you are a misogynist, you found your guy. If all you care about is money, you found your guy. If you have an emotionally armored heart, you found your guy. If you make fun of disabled people, you found your guy. If you hate intelligent people, you found your guy. If you are a rapist, you found your guy. If you like golden showers with Russian sex-workers, you found your guy. If you have not done a stitch of work on your emotional issues, you found your guy. If you are a serial cheater, you found your guy. If you are a perpetual bankrupt, you found your guy. If you don’t pay people for their honest work, you found your guy. If you are a hustler and a conman, you found your guy. If you mock people’s physical appearances, you found your guy. If you long for a toxic Daddy, you found your guy. If you are dissociated and disembodied, you found your guy. If you are unconscionable in all your economic dealings, you found your guy. If you lie day and night, you found your guy. If you have never eaten green vegetables, you found your guy. If you are a white supremacist, you found your guy. If you have a hole in your ego so big that not even the presidency could fill it, you found your guy. If you are a sociopath, and care not one iota about other humans, you found your guy. If you...
If he only had two of these issues, he never would have won. It was the fact that he had hundreds of them, that made him the winner. Because millions of humans are toxic. So they could relate to him, in one form or another.

It's never been about trump. It's always been about the people who finally have their twisted feelings about others validated. trump has given "those people" permission to disparage and hate their fellow human beings.

trump is only symptomatic of a much larger issue of a collective toxicity. If there is a single sentence that characterizes trump it is this: “He says the things I’m thinking.”

That may be what is so terrifying. Who knew that so many tens of millions of Americans were thinking unconscionable things about their fellow Americans?

Who knew that tens of millions men felt so emasculated by women and challenged by minorities? Who knew that after years of seeming progress on race and gender, tens of millions of white Americans lived in seething resentment, waiting for a demagogue to arrive who would legitimize their worst selves and channel them into political power?

Perhaps we had been living in a fool’s paradise.

Now we aren’t.’

So what do you propose to do about all these heinous racists?

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:17

TheKeatingFive · 13/01/2026 22:16

So what do you propose to do about all these heinous racists?

Honestly? I think it’s too late and we’re in a terrifying spiral that will impact the whole world, regardless of your views. I hope I’m wrong. Did you stop at the ‘racist’ bit, by the way?

TheKeatingFive · 13/01/2026 22:18

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:17

Honestly? I think it’s too late and we’re in a terrifying spiral that will impact the whole world, regardless of your views. I hope I’m wrong. Did you stop at the ‘racist’ bit, by the way?

Ok well that's that settled then

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:21

TheKeatingFive · 13/01/2026 22:18

Ok well that's that settled then

Ok…?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/01/2026 22:21

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 21:45

No. The whole ‘look what you made us do’ defense for voting for Trump and his like is getting a little tired now.

I have to say that if you are standing up for Trump in any way, you really need to own it a little more than that.

I repost:

The left, in public: "The people are stupid, easily-manipulated, sexist, racist, and greedy."
The people: <see what the left are saying about them and vote accordingly>
The left: "Why did we lose the election?"

Pretending that we are invoking the "look what you made us do" argument is dishonest. As Brown's Labour party found out, calling people "bigots" makes sure that they'll vote for someone else.

When a man calls his wife names repeatedly, we describe his behaviour as abusive and we encourage her to leave him.

When a political faction calls the electorate names repeatedly, how is that not also abusive?

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:22

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:17

Honestly? I think it’s too late and we’re in a terrifying spiral that will impact the whole world, regardless of your views. I hope I’m wrong. Did you stop at the ‘racist’ bit, by the way?

Are you including the former Democrats in that too? Or just anyone you disagree with?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2026 22:22

persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:08

Sorry my picture didn't load. It was one of his many retweets already posted in this thread (the one spoofing a romance novel and implying upset over her death came from women's secret desire to be dominated by ICE agents. Hah hah hah so funny).

That was grim, absolutely agree.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/01/2026 22:24

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:09

Michael Jochum, on a Facebook post on his profile put it better than I ever could. Here you go:

’I used to wonder how it was possible that Trump could have won in 2016, and this second time in 2024 given how emotionally toxic and depraved he is.

I no longer do. I actually think he won, for that precise reason. Because he had at least one fucked-up part to mirror the fucked-up parts of millions.

If you are a racist, you found your guy. If you are a misogynist, you found your guy. If all you care about is money, you found your guy. If you have an emotionally armored heart, you found your guy. If you make fun of disabled people, you found your guy. If you hate intelligent people, you found your guy. If you are a rapist, you found your guy. If you like golden showers with Russian sex-workers, you found your guy. If you have not done a stitch of work on your emotional issues, you found your guy. If you are a serial cheater, you found your guy. If you are a perpetual bankrupt, you found your guy. If you don’t pay people for their honest work, you found your guy. If you are a hustler and a conman, you found your guy. If you mock people’s physical appearances, you found your guy. If you long for a toxic Daddy, you found your guy. If you are dissociated and disembodied, you found your guy. If you are unconscionable in all your economic dealings, you found your guy. If you lie day and night, you found your guy. If you have never eaten green vegetables, you found your guy. If you are a white supremacist, you found your guy. If you have a hole in your ego so big that not even the presidency could fill it, you found your guy. If you are a sociopath, and care not one iota about other humans, you found your guy. If you...
If he only had two of these issues, he never would have won. It was the fact that he had hundreds of them, that made him the winner. Because millions of humans are toxic. So they could relate to him, in one form or another.

It's never been about trump. It's always been about the people who finally have their twisted feelings about others validated. trump has given "those people" permission to disparage and hate their fellow human beings.

trump is only symptomatic of a much larger issue of a collective toxicity. If there is a single sentence that characterizes trump it is this: “He says the things I’m thinking.”

That may be what is so terrifying. Who knew that so many tens of millions of Americans were thinking unconscionable things about their fellow Americans?

Who knew that tens of millions men felt so emasculated by women and challenged by minorities? Who knew that after years of seeming progress on race and gender, tens of millions of white Americans lived in seething resentment, waiting for a demagogue to arrive who would legitimize their worst selves and channel them into political power?

Perhaps we had been living in a fool’s paradise.

Now we aren’t.’

The left, in public: "The people are stupid, easily-manipulated, sexist, racist, greedy, sexually-depraved, work-shy, sociopathic, lying, disablist criminals."
The people: <see what the left are saying about them and vote accordingly>
The left: "Why did we lose the election?"

persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:25

TheKeatingFive · 13/01/2026 22:18

Ok well that's that settled then

It's not a particularly out there idea. The original writers of the American constitution (themselves racists to be fair but those were different times) were fully aware of the tendancy for groups of people to be swayed by their worst impulses. Thats why the constitution had so many checks and balances. It was carefully designed to prevent the "tyranny of the majority" even if it also made politics more slow and unwieldy. Unfortunately a lot of the checks and balances aren't proving to be enough to prevent Trump because of political partisanship (and cowardice and bootlicking). But they tried.

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:26

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:22

Are you including the former Democrats in that too? Or just anyone you disagree with?

Perhaps, who knows. I just know what the current outcome is and frankly it’s heading in a horrifying direction for everybody. Save for a few billionaires and dictators.

Heather Cox Richardson is a good read if you’re looking for an educated historian’s take on what’s happening in America.

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:27

persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:25

It's not a particularly out there idea. The original writers of the American constitution (themselves racists to be fair but those were different times) were fully aware of the tendancy for groups of people to be swayed by their worst impulses. Thats why the constitution had so many checks and balances. It was carefully designed to prevent the "tyranny of the majority" even if it also made politics more slow and unwieldy. Unfortunately a lot of the checks and balances aren't proving to be enough to prevent Trump because of political partisanship (and cowardice and bootlicking). But they tried.

Yes. It’s been quite shocking how easily the checks and balances put in place to prevent that tyranny have just been steamrollered by Trump.

persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:32

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/01/2026 22:24

The left, in public: "The people are stupid, easily-manipulated, sexist, racist, greedy, sexually-depraved, work-shy, sociopathic, lying, disablist criminals."
The people: <see what the left are saying about them and vote accordingly>
The left: "Why did we lose the election?"

Edited

"The spirit of encroachment tends to consolidate the powers of all the departments in one, and thus to create whatever the form of government, a real despotism. A just estimate of that love of power, and proneness to abuse it, which predominates in the human heart is sufficient to satisfy us of the truth of this position"
George Washington. He really hated people.

Apart from Jesus (if you are a Christian) every person ever born has a capacity for hate and grievance. It's possible for skilled manipulators to speak to that. The best way to avoid being manipulated is to acknowledge that those parts of us exist. Where I think the right in America was correct was when they said that there was a modern tendancy to see all negative feelings or criticism as bad. Where they go really wrong is in failing to see it also applies to themselves.

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:34

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:26

Perhaps, who knows. I just know what the current outcome is and frankly it’s heading in a horrifying direction for everybody. Save for a few billionaires and dictators.

Heather Cox Richardson is a good read if you’re looking for an educated historian’s take on what’s happening in America.

If it’s what you’ve based your extremely dim view of most of humanity then I think I’ll pass thank you. I don’t believe that most Americans are horrendous human beings. Ditto Brits.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/01/2026 22:35

persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:32

"The spirit of encroachment tends to consolidate the powers of all the departments in one, and thus to create whatever the form of government, a real despotism. A just estimate of that love of power, and proneness to abuse it, which predominates in the human heart is sufficient to satisfy us of the truth of this position"
George Washington. He really hated people.

Apart from Jesus (if you are a Christian) every person ever born has a capacity for hate and grievance. It's possible for skilled manipulators to speak to that. The best way to avoid being manipulated is to acknowledge that those parts of us exist. Where I think the right in America was correct was when they said that there was a modern tendancy to see all negative feelings or criticism as bad. Where they go really wrong is in failing to see it also applies to themselves.

That's a lot of words to say "power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely".

I'm not sure what any of that has to do with not slagging off the electorate if you want to be elected. Did you quote the wrong post?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2026 22:36

HopeSpringsEternally · 13/01/2026 21:24

We do know he didn't read it properly and google the 19th amendment to find out that it refers to the right of women to vote.

How do we know? It's called common sense.

No man stands up for women's rights against his own best interest for nearly a decade only to pivot to "let's remove the right to vote from women".

If anyone can point me in the direction of any other well-known man who's sacrificed as much as the Glinner to go to bat for women, please let me know who this mystery man is. Graham has more balls on his own than the majority of men combined, most of whom have not just turned a blind eye but stepped out of the way to allow men with a fetish invade women only spaces and sports.

As for having faults - "let he who is without sin cast the first effing stone".

I've no time for pearl clutchers or women who demand perfect heroes while sitting safely and anonymously behind their own keyboard.

Edited

Aargh removing duplicate post

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2026 22:36

HopeSpringsEternally · 13/01/2026 21:24

We do know he didn't read it properly and google the 19th amendment to find out that it refers to the right of women to vote.

How do we know? It's called common sense.

No man stands up for women's rights against his own best interest for nearly a decade only to pivot to "let's remove the right to vote from women".

If anyone can point me in the direction of any other well-known man who's sacrificed as much as the Glinner to go to bat for women, please let me know who this mystery man is. Graham has more balls on his own than the majority of men combined, most of whom have not just turned a blind eye but stepped out of the way to allow men with a fetish invade women only spaces and sports.

As for having faults - "let he who is without sin cast the first effing stone".

I've no time for pearl clutchers or women who demand perfect heroes while sitting safely and anonymously behind their own keyboard.

Edited

I know women I deeply respect who have issues with Glinner and I understand those reasons fully, but I broadly agree with you on his GCness and completely agree that it’s not likely that he actually meant to endorse the message that women should have the vote. I think people are blinded by their hate for him, as pp said.

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:36

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:34

If it’s what you’ve based your extremely dim view of most of humanity then I think I’ll pass thank you. I don’t believe that most Americans are horrendous human beings. Ditto Brits.

Fair enough. Your loss.
.

persephonia · 13/01/2026 22:38

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:34

If it’s what you’ve based your extremely dim view of most of humanity then I think I’ll pass thank you. I don’t believe that most Americans are horrendous human beings. Ditto Brits.

I think the point of that very long list is not that everyone posseses all those negative traits. But that everyone posseses at least one of them. I feel very insecure about my intelligence for example and can react badly if I think someone's trying to show of they have more education than me. If I was to focus on that I would be swayed by JD Vance's and Trump's anti-intellectualism. But knowing I'm like that, I can gain perspective on it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2026 22:38

@WowFantastic you'd better find an island with only turtles for company if you can’t stand the majority of your fellow humans.

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:39

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/01/2026 22:35

That's a lot of words to say "power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely".

I'm not sure what any of that has to do with not slagging off the electorate if you want to be elected. Did you quote the wrong post?

Persephone appears to be suggesting that most Americans chose to be hateful when they voted for Trump. Whereas I think in reality they were stuck between a rock and a hard place and had to choose the least worst option and make the best of it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2026 22:40

BundleBoogie · 13/01/2026 22:39

Persephone appears to be suggesting that most Americans chose to be hateful when they voted for Trump. Whereas I think in reality they were stuck between a rock and a hard place and had to choose the least worst option and make the best of it.

Exactly.

WowFantastic · 13/01/2026 22:42

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2026 22:38

@WowFantastic you'd better find an island with only turtles for company if you can’t stand the majority of your fellow humans.

Edited

Under my past usernames, you and I have actually had some great respectful conversations on feminism, fundamental points where we agreed, actually.

It doesn’t really matter what you think about my views, but again I do really recommend Heather Cox Richardson. American politics are complex and I don’t think we are often educated on them in the UK, speaking for myself, anyway. She has a very educated, clear-eyed view of how we have got to where we are today and what it means. So where I’m being called ‘very dim’ on here fair enough, but she really is worth the read. I think you might find it interesting.

And FWIW I don’t hate my fellow humans, I’m in tears most days seeing what’s happening to people in the US, right now. @persephonia is making some really great points, better than I have, on this.

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