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Glinner Bullseye comment on X

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Thatcatsaflippingnightmare · 09/01/2026 20:41

Always trying to explain Glinner to DH, today he showed me on X JD Vance defending murder of the woman by ICE. Glinner had replied something like 'bullseye', as in agreement. I tried to comprehend with "satire?" but he said no he's on Liz truss show these days. I said well he's always been about protecting women and children, he's not suddenly supporting femicide, but the post convinced DH otherwise. Any insights? I'm not on social media

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Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:35

NotBadConsidering · 11/01/2026 10:21

Absolutely 100%. And that was what JD Vance said in the video.

“What was he supposed to do?”

Well, he could have:

• let her drive off and organise a controlled pursuit
• shot the tyres
• let her go
• got well out of the way to make sure he couldn’t be hit by a car again

It’s because he was an entitled man with a gun. If it had happened anywhere else, she wouldn’t have been shot. I am sure I have seen similar incidents on tv shows like Highway Patrol or whatever, people on meth who drive off when stopped, clipping officers. They get chased and get charged.

Even IF you think someone is driving their car at you, shooting them is a choice.

Great post

RadKate · 12/01/2026 21:37

The TRAs fight dirty, they use every trick in the book. We can't stop them doing that. What we can do is not get pulled into these weeds

The irony of saying this in the glinner thread 😒

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:38

RadKate · 12/01/2026 21:37

The TRAs fight dirty, they use every trick in the book. We can't stop them doing that. What we can do is not get pulled into these weeds

The irony of saying this in the glinner thread 😒

What irony? I'm not defending Glinner.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:42

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:35

I have no interest in engaging with young TRAs purity tests. For no other reason than we will never win
in their eyes. They think JKR is the devil incarnate, regardless of her behaviour.

We can only keep the debate to facts and reason. Luckily TRAs suck at this

'We will never win in their eyes'- that seems a bit pessimistic.

We have to try. The longer people remain in this cultlike mindset, the more likely we are to have a ticking time bomb of people suffering long term physical damage from hormones & surgery, as well as mental damage from cultlike thinking.

I don't always like the attitude I see on here sometimes to younger trans people. They're not automatically TRAs (as in activists). I've seen posts linking to trans reddits to laugh at 'reality denying' but a lot of people on there seem like young people who are very vulnerable for various reasons.

It's very hard I know as trans people are often a bit like drug users who also deal. Victims but also harming others via encouraging them to think they're also trans or campaigning for things that will harm single sex spaces etc

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:44

BeanQuisine · 11/01/2026 00:45

Some time ago, many people pointed out that although the tide seemed to be turning in favour of sanity in the gender wars, the picture was different in the USA in ways that may be of consequence for the West in general, given that so much of the madness originated there in the first place.

In the US, much of the left is doubling down in expectation that GC and sex realist ideas will be increasingly associated with the Trumpian right, so that when the latter finally fall out of favour, the trans agenda will resume with a vengeance, backed by the new centres of power.

Unfortunately, Glinner has become just the sort of GC commentator who is likely to reinforce such expectations, as he's susceptible to forming overt alliances with very dubious players.

Probably the best strategy for the GC side as a whole would be to distance ourselves from the some of the more eccentric campaigners, and continually emphasise the rational and scientific basis of our perspective, and the straightforward ethics involved, in which the basic rights of women and the health and safety of children come to the fore.

Exactly

persephonia · 12/01/2026 21:45

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:28

To be fair, the TRAs have tried to destroy the credibility of every one of these women. If they don't have anything to actually base that on, they'll make up some bullshit. Remember the 'JKR is a holocaust denier' nonsense?

The TRAs fight dirty, they use every trick in the book. We can't stop them doing that. What we can do is not get pulled into these weeds. It's a debate about policies, not about people's 'worthiness'

TRAs also poured piss over themselves if I recall. I think the more extreme actions of those groups speak louder than words ever could. For quite a few people the sheer level of vitriol that was directed at JKR was so extreme that it made some people go "wait is she actually a Nazi?" And go back and read what she had said and think about it. I know there are plenty of people who still think JKR is evil. But its precisely because she had a reputation of basically being a nice, reasonable person that her involvement had the most impact because it helped cut through some of the lies

Part of why KJKs Let women speak events were effective was because all they had to do was show up and the loud, angry protests from the other side basically made her argument for her. Some of the speakers were very good. But even if they were drowned out by men screaming they still made thei point. Tactically, that was clever. But by the same measure it is probably less tactically clever to appear alongside men who themselves have been violent or extreme in their language, or to go along with people who are also talking about how women shouldn't have the right to vote. If I can say one thing was a genius move tactically, I can also say the other was a poor move tactically. In my opinion. As can other posters. That's not telling KJK what to do. She doesn't come on here anyway.

But overall, just because some people on the other side of a debate are dancing in piss doesn't mean it's a good idea to copy them.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:45

OperationShambles · 11/01/2026 06:09

Probably the best strategy for the GC side as a whole would be to distance ourselves from the some of the more eccentric campaigners, and continually emphasise the rational and scientific basis of our perspective, and the straightforward ethics involved, in which the basic rights of women and the health and safety of children come to the fore.

Totally agree. We can start with KJK and Glinner - they’ve become real liabilities as they move further (and sometimes past) the authoritarian right. I stopped following them once they started retweeting some pretty vile people; it looks like they’ve gone way down the rabbit hole now.

I'm not fully in agreement with how far they've gone, but I agree re unhelpful associations.

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 21:46

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:23

Because I've been on a lot of forums with young people who are identifying as trans. The movement inculcates wider woolly woke thinking which means yes, a lot of these people do not think beyond 'X did this, X must be bad'. Cultlike movements encourage that kind of binary thinking.

Of course it's not KJK's fault that people are thinking that way, but I think any GC campaigner with such a large platform should tailor their message partly with an eye to getting young people away from this movement.

I'm Gen Z myself so I probably see the issue a bit differently due to that. Of course legal gains are the top priority but trying to get young people away from it is another. I think people like JKR, Kathleen Stock, Helen Joyce and many other GC campaigners are more effective at combining both aims imo.

If someone believes that humans can change sex there is no good way to argue with them. Because they are starting from an irrational position.

It is not KJKs responsibility to sort this. Why should she tailor her message? Has tailoring the message worked well so far? Has #bekind worked well?

(Spoiler - It hasn't.)

Why is it your position that a woman should change the way she tells the truth?

The best thing anyone can do at this point is tell the truth loudly and absolutely ridicule those who continue to spout utter bullshit.

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 21:46

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:42

'We will never win in their eyes'- that seems a bit pessimistic.

We have to try. The longer people remain in this cultlike mindset, the more likely we are to have a ticking time bomb of people suffering long term physical damage from hormones & surgery, as well as mental damage from cultlike thinking.

I don't always like the attitude I see on here sometimes to younger trans people. They're not automatically TRAs (as in activists). I've seen posts linking to trans reddits to laugh at 'reality denying' but a lot of people on there seem like young people who are very vulnerable for various reasons.

It's very hard I know as trans people are often a bit like drug users who also deal. Victims but also harming others via encouraging them to think they're also trans or campaigning for things that will harm single sex spaces etc

If they're determined to demonise JKR, what chance does anyone have in passing their purity tests?

Keep to the facts. Men can't become women. Women's rights to single sex spaces need to be upheld. That's the argument and it's hard to refute that.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:49

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Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:54

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 21:46

If someone believes that humans can change sex there is no good way to argue with them. Because they are starting from an irrational position.

It is not KJKs responsibility to sort this. Why should she tailor her message? Has tailoring the message worked well so far? Has #bekind worked well?

(Spoiler - It hasn't.)

Why is it your position that a woman should change the way she tells the truth?

The best thing anyone can do at this point is tell the truth loudly and absolutely ridicule those who continue to spout utter bullshit.

It's not about asking 'a woman to change the way she tells the truth'.

I would criticise a man if he did the same. Glinner's associations seem similarly unhelpful though I know less about that.

Male leaders of movements have been similarly criticised. I think it's fair to say, for instance, that Arthur Scargill's association with communist countries didn't help the cause of the miners' strike. Part of the gay rights movement in the US and UK was showing that supporting gay rights didn't need to ally with radical politics, so those associations were distanced.

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:54

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/01/2026 18:38

There’s usually an investigation after officer-involved shootings so that will uncover some information.

But I would hope that the woman’s family will be able to push for an inquest. Americans have a lot more codified rights as citizens, with regards to their relationship with the state, than people in a lot of other countries, so I’m hoping this will allow this to be investigated properly.

People wanting to make political capital out of this, on both sides, may muddy the water somewhat though which would be very unhelpful in uncovering the truth but seems inevitable given the state of politics these days.

Exactly

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/01/2026 22:05

HereForTheFreeLunch · 12/01/2026 19:39

Right wing people just conveniently appropriated it. If you can't even define the word "woman" you can't protect them as a class.

True. And if you can't define women, you can't kick them as a class either - voila the right wing gender critic.

Bollocks. Totally possible to recognise and fuck over the people with female bodies regardless of whether our status as female is legally recognised or not.

But without legal and social recognition impossible to fight with legislation or even find common ground to understand and communicate to society that what we face is a systemic issue not an individual one.

A similar mechanism played out with the grooming gangs. The men knew exactly who they were abusing and why, but the legal and social framework was not there to connect these individual girls into a coherent group with shared risks so they fell through the crack.

(Also, "gender" means social constructions on top of sex. The social right is not gender critical, it is transgender critical. It's a-ok with gender as long as it's aligned to its traditional sex.)

CCTVwatcher · 12/01/2026 22:08

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 21:54

It's not about asking 'a woman to change the way she tells the truth'.

I would criticise a man if he did the same. Glinner's associations seem similarly unhelpful though I know less about that.

Male leaders of movements have been similarly criticised. I think it's fair to say, for instance, that Arthur Scargill's association with communist countries didn't help the cause of the miners' strike. Part of the gay rights movement in the US and UK was showing that supporting gay rights didn't need to ally with radical politics, so those associations were distanced.

What movement is KJK the leader of?

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 12/01/2026 22:12

Carla786 · 12/01/2026 19:04

Glinner retweeted someone saying women shouldn't vote?

Do you have a link?

I strongly suspect he didn't read the tweet properly before retweeting. He's very impulsive, and doesn't always do enough thinking. I also think his mental state is unsurprisingly not great; not an excuse for some of his actions, but an explanation. He acts out of frustration, and has a conviction as a result, and the fact that he was provoked wasn't sufficient defence.

lechiffre55 · 12/01/2026 23:07

This thread feels to me like a purity spiral.
Measuring how politically right a person is to judge if they should be listened to or shunned.

WowFantastic · 12/01/2026 23:08

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 12/01/2026 22:12

I strongly suspect he didn't read the tweet properly before retweeting. He's very impulsive, and doesn't always do enough thinking. I also think his mental state is unsurprisingly not great; not an excuse for some of his actions, but an explanation. He acts out of frustration, and has a conviction as a result, and the fact that he was provoked wasn't sufficient defence.

Maybe I’d have thought this in the past but he’s posted a lot of extremely questionable stuff recently, he can’t have misread it all.

WowFantastic · 12/01/2026 23:09

lechiffre55 · 12/01/2026 23:07

This thread feels to me like a purity spiral.
Measuring how politically right a person is to judge if they should be listened to or shunned.

I would have thought the same until I read his recent tweets.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/01/2026 23:09

FastBiscuit · 12/01/2026 10:11

Sorry if you don't like being lumped in with the right wing or that your movement attracts them but its the company you're keeping. If reform get a landslide because they know what a woman is, maybe this one issue will look pretty small beer compared to what do in government. Is the NHS worth destroying to own the trans? Is it worth having barely educated grandchildren in terrible schools taught jingoistic drivel as long as GC views are part of that indoctrination?

If its anything like Trumps america which nigel obviously wants to emulate, how will women be treated? I don't hold much hope for our rights being the same and I'm not throwing trans people under the bus to get there either. Just who are the right wingers coming for AFTER trans people?

You can just as legitimately ask whether keeping the crumbling NHS and state school systems is worth giving up women's most basic right to discrimination protection on the basis of sex.

I'm not convinced at all that schools or the NHS are in safe hands with Labour anyway. There's been no attempt to roll back the privatisation of schools known as "converting to academies". PFI, aka the private financing for profit of NHS real estate, was a Labour policy decision.

WowFantastic · 12/01/2026 23:14

UtopiaPlanitia · 12/01/2026 17:06

Look, I don't know what's got up your nose about pragmatic advice based on extensive personal experience.

I (and everyone else where I live) had decades of dealing with armed men on a daily basis. The streets of cities in the USA and GB are nothing like Northern Ireland during The Troubles. People being shot, and blown up by bombs, was a regular occurrence until the ceasefires. People died during those decades at the hands of the army, the police, and the terrorists.

Don't try and tell me that someone aggravating armed men is safe because I know for a fact that it's anything but safe.

It's an absolute disgrace that, in these situations, citizens can't insist on their rights being respected but that's the reality of having an armed police force, they can make you comply via threat of state-sanctioned lethal force and you're at the mercy of their temperament in any fraught encounter.

You seem annoyed yourself, we’re both able to have an opinion here.

Don't try and tell me that someone aggravating armed men is safe because I know for a fact that it's anything but safe.

I haven’t for a moment said anything even approaching that. Jesus.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/01/2026 23:23

Heggettypeg · 12/01/2026 18:52

Longstanding users of FWR will know more about this than I do, but as far as I am aware, it has never been any kind of curated "space" for a particular kind of person.

It's a board for a particular topic. I gather that sex and gender got its own board because some people didn't want it on the general feminism board - but people can and do wander off topic in threads and that's ok.

It operates under Mumsnet guidelines, and people can get banned for breaking them, but in general they're about behaviour, not ideologically-prescribed standpoints. I would qualify that insofar as I'm aware that in the past, the guidelines had bought into gender ideology to some extent, and posts would be deleted for mentioning certain things - AGP I think was one of them. But that has eased up now. (Older posters may be able to give you the history of how this came about).

So basically anyone can come here and raise or discuss topics relating to sex and gender as it affects women. And they can stay here as long as they don't break Mumsnet guidelines for posting.

Edited

I've been here nearly 20 years, back in the day when the forum was a feminist space.

It's interesting that more recent posters don't consider it a feminist or gender critical space either.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/01/2026 23:28

TheKeatingFive · 12/01/2026 20:03

But I just said I DONT agree with her on everything.

If people can't comprehend such a basic concept, then God help us all. Debate is not going to be possible.

This is why all of these threads go the same way. Because for some posters, a performative denunciation is required. It’s not enough to say you don’t agree with individual things that prominent controversial people have said. It’s not enough to be critical of those things, you need to complete renounce your support of that person.

You can see from the comments some FWR hostile posters have made that it’s about a purity spiral, not particularly directed at Glinner or KJK (because frankly they wouldn’t give a fuck) but at any poster on FWR who at any time supported or defended them for different things.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/01/2026 23:35

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 12/01/2026 22:12

I strongly suspect he didn't read the tweet properly before retweeting. He's very impulsive, and doesn't always do enough thinking. I also think his mental state is unsurprisingly not great; not an excuse for some of his actions, but an explanation. He acts out of frustration, and has a conviction as a result, and the fact that he was provoked wasn't sufficient defence.

I also think that. He’s said some unequivocally awful things, but he didn’t retweet a post saying women shouldn’t vote in plain English, he retweeted a post with one line saying the 19th amendment or whatever should be rescinded. I didn’t know what it was without looking it up and it’s perfectly possible neither did he. Yes he should have checked. But he’s chaotic and impulsive like you and other people have said, so he’s just frenziedly retweeting every tweet he vaguely agrees with without reading them properly. People on all sides of all arguments do this. Twitter is that kind of environment. I completely agree that he needs to take a break from social media but I doubt he will.

ShowMeTheSea · 12/01/2026 23:38

I strongly suspect he didn't read the tweet properly before retweeting

Has he said that? As that sounds awfully like trying to explain away and make excuses for him. Maybe it's what he really thinks? Then only backed away from it when he saw the reaction?
Or maybe he didn't read it properly, nobody knows.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/01/2026 23:40

Maybe it is what he thinks. I don’t think so though. That’s my opinion, you are free to have a different one, of course.

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