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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Girlguiding - Supreme Court Decision email

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ProfMummBRaaarrrTheEverLeaking · 02/12/2025 14:07

Have just had an email from them...

As the parent of a young member in Girlguiding, following April’s Supreme Court decision relating to sex and gender, we wanted to give you an update. Many organisations across the country have been facing complex decisions about what it means for girls and women and for the wider communities affected, including us.

Girlguiding’s governing charity documents set out that the membership and people who benefit from our organisation are girls and women. In April, the Supreme Court ruled that girls and women are defined in the Equality Act 2010 by their biological sex at birth.

Following detailed considerations, expert legal advice and input from senior members, young members and our Council, Girlguiding’s Board of Trustees has made the difficult decision that Girlguiding must change Girlguiding must change, following the Supreme Court’s ruling.

From today, 2 December, it is with a heavy heart that we are announcing trans girls and young women will no longer be able to join Girlguiding. This is a decision we would have preferred not to make, and we know that this may be upsetting for members of our community.

There will be no immediate changes for current young members but more information will be shared next week.

Most adult roles, including unit helpers, district helpers and administrative support, are already open to all, so we are confident that no volunteers will have to leave the organisation.

Girlguiding believes strongly in our value of inclusion, and we will continue to support young people and adults in marginalised groups. Over the next few months, we'll explore opportunities to champion this value and actively support young people who need us.

You can find our full statement and updated policy on our website.

We are proud to be the UK’s largest youth organisation dedicated to girls and is focused on creating an equal world for girls and young women. For over 100 years, we have been a welcoming space for all girls to have new experiences, support their communities, build friendships and grow their confidence.

While Girlguiding may feel a little different going forward, these core aims and principles will always be the same. We remain committed to treating everyone with dignity and respect, particularly those from marginalised groups that have felt the biggest impact of this decision.

If you have any immediate questions, we have our special support team in place, to give volunteers, parents and carers the best support we can. We are asking Girlguiding HQ, trading and country/region staff to refer any volunteer or parent who has questions about this announcement.

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medievalpenny · 05/12/2025 12:20

Datun · 05/12/2025 11:46

So it's entirely parent lead?

parents are allowed to say I want my son to sleep in the same tent as the 14-year-old girls, and if the girls' parents don't mind, it's all fine?

Only if the parents realise that "single gender" doesn't mean "single sex" in order to challenge.

TheNightingalesStarling · 05/12/2025 12:26

The kids tell their parents. I knew a lot more about DDs friends transition from DD than from my position as one of the leaders.

(They still continue to use the facilities for their sex at school and Scouts, several years into this)

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 12:51

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 11:59

Hi,
My daughter no longer would like to go given this decision so my trans son would like to join, who was assigned female at birth would he be welcomed?

many thanks
a concerned parent

Your daughter no longer wants to go given a decision that supports her rights as a girl? How much influence have you had over that? Since you have a trans child. It sounds like you are brainwashing your daughter in to accepting the idea that she shouldn't have rights to safe single sex spaces.

Btw, please don't use Gender Ideology cult talking points here, no one is 'assigned a sex at birth'. As a mother, you must know this. Sex is assigned the moment the sperm enters the ova, and is OBSERVED at birth and also on pregnancy ultrasounds.

As your trans child is female, they are welcome to attend. This about male vs female. And the protection of female only spaces. Not 'trans'.

Here, you might be interested in why this happened. You should pass this on to your daughters. As it was about Girl Guides not wanting to enact protections for your daughter. Any comments? Do you see now why the rule was changed? For some reason screenshots are not attaching at all so I have to add a link. Any comments? Do you see now why the rule was changed?

https://x.com/fairplaywomen/status/1043739310325936129 (for some reason screenshots are not attaching at all so I have to add a link)
From as far back as 2018. It states:
"Hundreds of parents signed our open letter asking
@Girlguiding
to review their policy that allows boys who identify as girls to sleep in tents with other girls without telling patents. Two guide leaders have now been thrown out and their units closed."
"2) Girl Guiding refused to answer basic questions about safeguarding and parental informed consent. We cannot ignore the obvious that a trans child who identifies as a girl is still a male child with a body. https://fairplayforwomen.com/guide-leaders-call-for-halt/ "
and other tweets. GG were asked to enact safeguards, they REFUSED.

FairPlayForWomen (@fairplaywomen) on X

1) Hundreds of parents signed our open letter asking @Girlguiding to review their policy that allows boys who identify as girls to sleep in tents with other girls without telling patents. Two guide leaders have now been thrown out and their units close...

https://x.com/fairplaywomen/status/1043739310325936129

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 12:54

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 13:18

For decades, infants born with intersex traits faced irreversible “normalizing” genital surgeries in their first years. Doctors declared ambiguous genitalia a “social emergency,” pressuring parents to quickly choose male or female and consent to clitoral reduction, vaginoplasty, or gonadectomy. procedures often done for cosmetic, not medical, reasons.

so yes I suppose it is assigned and it is sometimes a coin flip. Could anyone expand on where these children fit in, even if a small minority they deserve to be safe guarded and have a safe place for them to socialise and not be stigmatised

Sex is determined by chromosomes. And that is set when the sperm enters the ova. No coin-flipping needed.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 12:56

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 13:30

This claim currently appears to be a statement without supporting evidence. If you have a specific safeguarding concern backed by verifiable data or peer-reviewed studies showing genuine harm that isn’t directly funded or produced by overtly anti-trans advocacy groups, I’d genuinely be interested in reviewing it

Any time a fully intact MALE child is in a FEMALE child's space, the risk is obvious.

You should not need this explained to you.

TheKeatingFive · 05/12/2025 12:57

Great to see so much push back against the scientifically illiterate language of the TRAs.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 12:58

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 13:36

So we can say it as it is, it’s anti LGBTQIA+ and there is no 2 ways about it. How long before people say no lesbians as they might attack someone or look at another girl in a single sex space

Oh the old HOMOPHOBIC trope. Lesbians don't have penises. And female against female is not the same as male against female.

And it's not anti-'LGB', please stop falsely associating T with LGB thinking it will give your position validity. It won't work.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 12:59

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 13:39

If we are on about safety and trauma and this risks faced by these girls look at Brianna Ghey

Brianna Ghey was a MALE. Not a girl. He was a fully intact male and male in every single way. Females are not responsible for the murders of males.

TheKeatingFive · 05/12/2025 12:59

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 12:56

Any time a fully intact MALE child is in a FEMALE child's space, the risk is obvious.

You should not need this explained to you.

It is absolutely extraordinary to me how many people seem to have parked their brains on this issue and forgot all the sensible basics that presumably they once knew.

What the hell happened?

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:02

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 13:52

I just thought this was a place for mums to share concerns and I was sharing concerns about my Daughter and Son. Didn’t expect a load of TERF replies, was hoping for support

Mumsnet and the womens rights section is 99% GC and pro-female single sex spaces. You are not going to get many if any (except for the rare Mens Rights Activist) agree with you that female children don't have the right to single sex spaces that were so hard won by our foremother feminists. Maybe a Mens Rights forum might agree with you. But we here are feminists that believe in womens rights. Sorry that bothers you.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:04

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 13:56

That these changes are making some of the most vulnerable in society even more vulnerable.

and if we are happy to exclude a group and make there life worse for what in essence is little to no gain apart from perceived safe guarding concerns with no evidence then I hope you are happy as if one trans girl dies as a result of your hatred towards them it’ll be on all your hands (this has probably already happened)

Males are not vulnerable. They are the predator and oppressor sex class.

No males are made 'more vulnerable' by females having single sex spaces. You are gaslighting and DARVOing.

The only vulnerable ones are the females.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:05

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 14:07

would you let Ghislaine Maxwell join all your women only groups?

Has Ghislaine Maxwell herself attacked any women?

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:09

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 14:17

Consider the stark realities: trans girls endure “gender minority stress” that sends mental health crises through the roof. In the 2024 LGBTQ+ Youth Mental Health Survey, 72% of trans and non-binary young people who faced discrimination had thought about suicide, more than double the rate for their cisgender peers. A 2014 UK study found that 48% of trans people under 26 had attempted suicide, compared with just 6% of all young people. The Trans Mental Health Study recorded lifetime attempt rates of 35%, seven times the national average. After the 2020 Bell v Tavistock judgment restricted access to puberty blockers, suicides among trans youth on NHS waiting lists leapt from one in the previous seven years to sixteen in less than three. Whistle-blowers repeatedly warned NHS leaders, including Dr Hilary Cass, yet the evidence was buried. That is not oversight; it is outrageous negligence that costs young lives. Almost half of all trans people in Britain have seriously considered suicide, according to the Mental Health Foundation.
Schools, which should be places of safety and growth, too often become battlegrounds. One in three trans children experiences violence or bullying severe enough to make them miss months of education or leave mainstream schooling altogether. Two-thirds of trans girls face harassment that feeds straight into depression. A 2023 study of thirty socially transitioned children laid bare the rising tide of transphobia that leaves them feeling unsafe from primary school onwards. Yet we know that gender-affirming environments cut the risk of suicidality by up to 73%. Why on earth are we denying them that lifeline?
The NHS waiting lists only deepen the pain. More than 5,700 children and adolescents are stuck waiting for a first appointment, a rise of two hundred in a single year. Young people now face delays of two years; adults wait up to ten. Nearly 48,000 people, two-thirds of them under twenty-five, are on lists that grow by 12.5% every year. Some will wait a quarter of a century from first dysphoria to treatment. The indefinite ban on puberty blockers for under-eighteens flies in the face of the nuanced Cass Review and blocks the very care that could ease their distress.
Discrimination is relentless: 62-73% of trans people experience harassment, a quarter suffer physical violence, two-thirds are verbally abused, and 84% no longer feel safe in public. In schools trans girls are segregated, forced to change alone or barred from the correct facilities. Post-2025 EHRC guidance effectively requires exclusion, breeding more bullying. In refuges they are turned away to male wards despite half of them having survived domestic or sexual abuse themselves. There is simply no evidence that trans inclusion increases risk in single-sex spaces; exclusion, however, fuels prejudice and despair.
These policies do not protect anyone; they destroy young lives. They force children to out themselves, spike anxiety, drive school drop-out and breach basic privacy rights. We have better answers: individual assessment, more gender-neutral facilities, proper staff training. Affirmation saves lives. Let us build a Britain where every girl, trans or cis, can simply be herself and thrive. Trans girls deserve nothing less than our wholehearted support; their happiness is our shared victory.

All of that hyperbolic ChatGPT word salad is nonsense is absolute lies. The suicide myth in order to threaten and manipulate and control women. The guilting that a male will 'kill himself' if he isn't let into a female space. The lies about the NHS. The misogynistic guilting of women and girls to give up our happiness, safety and our spaces to make males feel better. It's gaslighting, DARVO, it's emotional manipulation, it's abuse.

Males happiness is not the responsibility of women and girls. FEMALES deserve our wholehearted support to have female only spaces. Their happiness is the only thing that matters.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:13

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 14:26

I agree that the UN Women UK report, revealing 71 per cent of women experience sexual harassment in their lifetimes, increasing to 86 per cent for those aged 18 to 24, strongly supports the case for exclusive single-sex spaces to protect women’s safety and dignity.
Yet, facts about transgender girls complicate this. Studies show transgender people face sexual assault at rates around 47 per cent lifetime, often exceeding cisgender women, with US surveys indicating 37 per cent for transgender women specifically.

How does this change the approach to inclusive or separate provisions for trans girls?

No studies show transwomen face sexual assaults that exceed actual women.

If you believe a fully intact male in a dress is more likely to be sexually assaulted than an ACTUAL WOMAN, (just because the fully intact tall brick shithouse male claims to be trans) you are gaslighting and DARVOing in your attempt to convince us that no matter what happens to females, 'it's the males that have it worse'.

Indeed and in fact, studies show transwomen sexually offend 5 times higher than other males, and are more likely to murder than be murdered.

Helleofabore · 05/12/2025 13:13

DuchessFaceRobbin · 04/12/2025 18:04

I’m not sure why I’m posting here. It seems mostly people who are happy that transgirls will be banned from Guides are voicing their excitement over the announcement and displaying their bigotry here. I’m saddened by these voices, but genuinely curious about people’s views, perceptions, and knowledge of the trans community.

My daughter and her friends (ages 11/12) in Girl Guides are saddened by the announcement and will be discussing it with their troop leaders next week. Many parents I know are equally upset that the WI and GG have had to make these statements this week to avoid legal action. Protests and petitions will be forthcoming and the fight for trans rights will continue.

I’d like to ask if and why are you afraid of trans people and what threat you think a transgirl poses to a troop. I’m 50 years old and have known people from all the letters of the LGBTQ+ community most of my life and have not ever felt threatened by them. No one is trying to ‘convert’ heterosexuals or get people to change their gender. Given the current climate of hatred towards trans and gender non-conforming people (stirred up by billionaires, politicians, and the christian right), why would any child, teen, or adult “choose” to be trans? Certainly not to “infiltrate” toilets and girl’s only spaces. These people are marginalised as it is. Heterosexual cisgender men continue to be the biggest threat to each other, women, trans people…

Do any of you know anyone who is trans, non-binary, intersex? Biological sex is not as simple as you’d like it to be. 1.7% of the population is intersex - as common as twins. Approximately 1 in 4500 assigned female at birth women are born without wombs.

Ok, done rambling…

"Do any of you know anyone who is trans, non-binary, intersex? Biological sex is not as simple as you’d like it to be. 1.7% of the population is intersex - as common as twins. Approximately 1 in 4500 assigned female at birth women are born without wombs."

Please stop spreading misinformation on a parenting site.

1.7% of the population are not 'Intersex'. It has been clarified since 2002.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12476264/

How common is intersex? a response to Anne Fausto-Sterling
Leonard Sax, August 2002

Abstract
Anne Fausto-Sterling s suggestion that the prevalence of intersex might be as high as 1.7% has attracted wide attention in both the scholarly press and the popular media. Many reviewers are not aware that this figure includes conditions which most clinicians do not recognize as intersex, such as Klinefelter syndrome, Turner syndrome, and late-onset adrenal hyperplasia. If the term intersex is to retain any meaning, the term should be restricted to those conditions in which chromosomal sex is inconsistent with phenotypic sex, or in which the phenotype is not classifiable as either male or female. Applying this more precise definition, the true prevalence of intersex is seen to be about 0.018%, almost 100 times lower than Fausto-Sterling s estimate of 1.7%.

There have been many other documented rebuttals of this statistic. I suggest that if you are going to attempt to use statistical evidence to support your highly emotional reasoning, you should at least check that statistic thoroughly.

And just as a side note, if the sources for that statistic you are using is wrong and they are spreading misinformation, what else are they wrong about?

"Approximately 1 in 4500 assigned female at birth women are born without wombs."

I think you will find that the key piece of information that a medical team uses to establish whether someone is a female or not is the presence of ovaries, functional or not, with no presence of testes. And if no ovaries or testes are present, they will access that person using other key identifiers of sex.

That a female person is born without a womb, does not make them not a female person. And what the fuck has their medical condition to do with someone having a transgender identity or not. To suggest that this in any way is some kind of explanation of transgender identity is offensive.

If you would like to know more about DSDs, this is a pretty good place to start:

https://theparadoxinstitute.org/watch

How common is intersex? a response to Anne Fausto-Sterling - PubMed

Anne Fausto-Sterling s suggestion that the prevalence of intersex might be as high as 1.7% has attracted wide attention in both the scholarly press and the popular media. Many reviewers are not aware that this figure includes conditions which most clin...

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12476264/

Helleofabore · 05/12/2025 13:19

DuchessFaceRobbin · 04/12/2025 18:04

I’m not sure why I’m posting here. It seems mostly people who are happy that transgirls will be banned from Guides are voicing their excitement over the announcement and displaying their bigotry here. I’m saddened by these voices, but genuinely curious about people’s views, perceptions, and knowledge of the trans community.

My daughter and her friends (ages 11/12) in Girl Guides are saddened by the announcement and will be discussing it with their troop leaders next week. Many parents I know are equally upset that the WI and GG have had to make these statements this week to avoid legal action. Protests and petitions will be forthcoming and the fight for trans rights will continue.

I’d like to ask if and why are you afraid of trans people and what threat you think a transgirl poses to a troop. I’m 50 years old and have known people from all the letters of the LGBTQ+ community most of my life and have not ever felt threatened by them. No one is trying to ‘convert’ heterosexuals or get people to change their gender. Given the current climate of hatred towards trans and gender non-conforming people (stirred up by billionaires, politicians, and the christian right), why would any child, teen, or adult “choose” to be trans? Certainly not to “infiltrate” toilets and girl’s only spaces. These people are marginalised as it is. Heterosexual cisgender men continue to be the biggest threat to each other, women, trans people…

Do any of you know anyone who is trans, non-binary, intersex? Biological sex is not as simple as you’d like it to be. 1.7% of the population is intersex - as common as twins. Approximately 1 in 4500 assigned female at birth women are born without wombs.

Ok, done rambling…

"I’d like to ask if and why are you afraid of trans people and what threat you think a transgirl poses to a troop."

The 'threat' is one of safeguarding and of consent (which is of course, part of safeguarding). If you don't understand the safeguarding issues then start with the fact that it is impossible to have strong safeguarding for female people if all those female people and the adults in charge of children have to act as if a male person is female for the purposes of safeguarding.

And if no parent or female child can be told that a male child is going to be in the group then those parents and female children do not have full knowledge of what they need to know to give informed consent.

If any male child cannot be treated as if they are male for the purposes of safeguarding, how can a female single sex provision operate?

There are ex-leaders who are publicly saying that they were told by GG that they had to act as if male children were female children and even as teens, allow male children to sleep in the same tent as female children. And that they were not allowed to tell the parents.

If you seriously cannot see the fucking huge safeguarding issues with this, then perhaps you are wilfully blind to it.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:20

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 18:28

I never once implied that only “cis” women deserve to know someone’s trans status while lesbians somehow don’t. That’s nonsense.

My point was simple: any woman having sex with another woman has the right to know her partner’s body and history if that information is relevant to her own boundaries and consent. That applies whether the woman on the receiving end identifies as a lesbian, bisexual, queer, or anything else.

Trans women are women. Full stop. They belong in women’s spaces, including lesbian bars.

But consent isn’t conditional on who you are; it’s universal. If someone has a penis, or had one and has had surgery, or whatever the situation is, and that matters to the person they’re about to sleep with, then it needs to be disclosed. Pretending otherwise isn’t progressive; it’s just ignoring basic bodily autonomy.

This isn’t about “cis” privilege. It’s about not gaslighting women into bed under false pretences.

Lesbians aren’t a special exempt category and neither is anyone else. Everyone gets to decide what they’re comfortable with. That’s it.

Trans women are women. Full stop. They belong in women’s spaces, including lesbian bars.

WRONG!! Transwomen are males with penis and testicles. Nothing about them is 'woman'. They are the opposite of women. Transwomen are male. Only adult human females are women. So says the LAW. And BIOLOGY. A male with a male body has NO RIGHT being in female only safe intimate single sex spaces. Transwomen are MEN. Full stop.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:25

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 18:36

Lesbians aren’t a monolith, and the idea that every single lesbian is repulsed by trans women is a myth pushed by a loud minority.

Real life isn’t a YouGov poll from 2019 or a Detroit study that conveniently only asked people who already hate the idea. Plenty of lesbians are perfectly happy dating, sleeping with, and loving trans women. You only have to look at actual relationships to see it.

Thousands of lesbians are partnered with trans women right now. They post on Reddit (r/actuallesbians has been full of happy trans/lesbian couples for years), they’re on TikTok, they’re at Pride holding hands, they’re getting married. The lesbian scene in cities like London, Manchester, Brighton and Glasgow is full of cis lesbians who actively seek out trans girlfriends because they’re attracted to women, full stop, not to a specific surgical history or chromosome checklist.

Sexual orientation is about gender, not genitals. The whole “nobody is attracted to a piece of paper” line from FWS was about legal sex for single-sex spaces, not about who you fall in love with.

Attraction is messy and individual. Some lesbians love trans women pre-op, some prefer post-op, some don’t care either way. Insisting every lesbian must reject trans women is just trying to police women’s sexuality all over again.

Lesbian bars and dating apps that are genuinely welcoming to trans women don’t “collapse”; they thrive. L-Word nights in Soho, the Her app’s trans-inclusive filters, Club Revenge in Brighton, they’re packed. The venues that struggle are the ones that deliberately exclude trans women and then wonder why younger lesbians walk away.

Being a lesbian means loving women. Trans women are women. If a lesbian is into her, great. If she isn’t, also fine, nobody is forcing anyone into bed. But pretending trans women have no place in lesbian spaces at all is gatekeeping, not protecting homosexuality. It just leaves happy, real-life lesbian/trans couples on the outside looking in, and that’s the actual homophobia.

Yes, there are studies and surveys showing that a notable portion of lesbians are open to dating trans women, though rates vary and attraction is always individual.

The most cited one is Blair and Hoskin’s 2019 study on dating preferences, with 958 participants (mostly young adults in North America). It found that 29 per cent of lesbians were willing to consider trans partners, though many showed a bias towards trans men over trans women (likely due to social stigmas around transfemininity). Still, that means nearly one in three lesbians in the sample were open in principle, and real-world anecdotes from the study and beyond confirm actual relationships happen.
A 2025 vignette study echoed this, finding 28.8 per cent of lesbian women interested in dating a transgender person.

A 2023 YouGov poll in the UK showed 84 per cent of cis lesbians holding a positive view of trans people, far higher than the general public, with many expressing support for trans inclusion in lesbian spaces and relationships.

A 2023 Reddit discussion in r/actuallesbians referenced a UK poll where 84 per cent of lesbians supported trans women (higher than any other cis group), and another stat showing 96 per cent of Gen Z lesbians are trans-positive, with a “significant chunk” willing to date trans women if they present femininely. Users there shared stories of long-term partnerships with trans women, pre- and post-op.
Justin Lehmiller’s 2018 survey of over 4,000 Americans found one in four women (including lesbians) had fantasised about sex with a trans partner, suggesting underlying attraction exists even if not always acted on.

These aren’t huge majorities, but they debunk the idea that no lesbians date trans women. Plenty do, as seen in communities like TikTok, Pride events, and apps like Her. It’s not about forcing attraction, just recognising that for many lesbians, trans women are women they can love.

so please see that you are speaking for Gen Z and my guess is you’re a 50 year old lady behind a keyboard who knows little.

Reddit has long been known as a haven for misogynist and Mens ('trans') Rights.

Sexual orientation is about gender, not genitals. The whole “nobody is attracted to a piece of paper” line from FWS was about legal sex for single-sex spaces, not about who you fall in love with.

Wow are you ever homophobic and delusional. SEXual orientation is about SEXual preference. Which is yes, based on genitals. It is homophobic to deny that lesbians are sexually attracted to females. 'Gender' is a misogynistic man-made fantasy 'identity'. And the word "attracted" proves it's about who you fall in love with, not single sex spaces. We are not "attracted" to single sex spaces, are we? 🙄

TheKeatingFive · 05/12/2025 13:31

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:20

Trans women are women. Full stop. They belong in women’s spaces, including lesbian bars.

WRONG!! Transwomen are males with penis and testicles. Nothing about them is 'woman'. They are the opposite of women. Transwomen are male. Only adult human females are women. So says the LAW. And BIOLOGY. A male with a male body has NO RIGHT being in female only safe intimate single sex spaces. Transwomen are MEN. Full stop.

I find it so strange that people keep parroting the TWAW line. They know it is false. Why do they keep lying about it?

Greyskybluesky · 05/12/2025 13:33

They have very little else @TheKeatingFive

The world is moving on and they're not. Some people struggle with change. Wasn't that what we dinosaurs were told not so long ago? To move with the times? Accept change? I offer the same advice to TRAs now. Shame it didn't go the way you wanted.

nicepotoftea · 05/12/2025 13:35

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 18:42

Stop forcing your views on other people, you don’t have a right to tell people what they should identify as. It’s like saying I think all TERFs are just closeted trans men complete crap both statements

Identity is a personal matter.

Sex is an objective classification that has absolutely nothing to do with identity.

nicepotoftea · 05/12/2025 13:40

I don't think there is anything stopping anyone setting up an organisation for everyone who believes they have a female gender identity, as long as they include girls and boys equally.

What they can't do is include all girls regardless of their feelings about their identity, but only boys who comply with more narrow criteria.

I don't understand why this is a problem for them.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:40

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 18:45

Trans people in the UK do not have the same rights as everyone else in several concrete ways.

A trans woman (even with a Gender Recognition Certificate) can be legally excluded from women’s refuges, hospital wards, prisons, changing rooms, toilets and support groups whenever the provider wants. A cis woman cannot be excluded from those same spaces.

A trans woman is banned from competing in the female category of virtually every elite sport. Cis women face no such blanket ban.

Trans people under 18 are banned from accessing puberty blockers or hormones on the NHS and now privately too, no matter what doctors or parents think is best. Cis teenagers with medical needs get treatment.

Adult trans people wait five to ten years for a first NHS appointment and many GPs still refuse to prescribe hormones even when told to by a specialist. Cis patients do not face that delay or refusal for comparable healthcare.

There is still no self-ID. Changing your birth certificate requires a panel, a dysphoria diagnosis and two years of evidence. Most countries in Europe ditched that system years ago.

Even with a GRC your legal sex for the purposes of the Equality Act remains your birth sex, as confirmed by the Supreme Court this year. So the certificate changes almost nothing in practice.

Trans pupils can be forced to use facilities matching their birth sex and schools are now told to prioritise teaching “biological sex” over social transition.
Those are not theoretical gaps. They are daily,
enforceable differences in rights that no cis person has to deal with.

It is NOT a 'human right' for a MALE to enter female single sex spaces.

A trans woman (even with a Gender Recognition Certificate) can be legally excluded from women’s refuges, hospital wards, prisons, changing rooms, toilets and support groups whenever the provider wants. A cis woman cannot be excluded from those same spaces.

A MALE can of course and understandably be excluded from FEMALE ONLY SINGLE SEX spaces. It is not a human right to enter opposite sex spaces.

A trans woman is banned from competing in the female category of virtually every elite sport. Cis women face no such blanket ban.

A MALE is banned from competing in the female category because as we play sports with our PHYSICAL BODY, that post-pubertal male has insurmountable physical advantage, and could literally kill a female if they slam into them on the field. A girl has already been partially paralysed from a transwomen on the field. Male bodies slamming against female bodies and stealing medals and awards from females is not a human right.

Trans people under 18 are banned from accessing puberty blockers or hormones on the NHS and now privately too, no matter what doctors or parents think is best. Cis teenagers with medical needs get treatment.

Women are banned from getting Thalidomide now. Lobotomies are now banned. So are puberty blockers based on expert advice. Giving dangerous drugs that caus narrowing of the spinal cord, lower IQ, Osteoporosis at age 24, and fecal and urinary incontinence is not a human right any more than accessing Thalidomide or Cyanide is.

Adult trans people wait five to ten years for a first NHS appointment and many GPs still refuse to prescribe hormones even when told to by a specialist. Cis patients do not face that delay or refusal for comparable healthcare.

Bullshit. Trans people can get an appointment within a month. Where as a female needing HRT for menopause has to wait over a year. If a person is trans, it's a fact they get medical help before non-trans. It is not a human right for males to jump the queue.

There is still no self-ID.

As their shouldn't be. The only people pushing for self ID are predator enablers that want males in female spaces. No male should be able to self ID, that's a safeguarding risk. That is not a human right.

Changing your birth certificate requires a panel, a dysphoria diagnosis and two years of evidence. Most countries in Europe ditched that system years ago.

It shouldn't even be legal to change a legal medical document. It is not a human right.

Even with a GRC your legal sex for the purposes of the Equality Act remains your birth sex, as confirmed by the Supreme Court this year. So the certificate changes almost nothing in practice.

As it should be. You can't change your physical biology. It is not a human right.

Trans pupils can be forced to use facilities matching their birth sex and schools are now told to prioritise teaching “biological sex” over social transition.
Those are not theoretical gaps. They are daily,
enforceable differences in rights that no cis person has to deal with.

Males can be forced to use male facilities. That is common sense. Social transition leads to males invading female safe spaces. Males entering female only intimate safe single sex spaces is not a human right.

Every one of your point is extra (male) privileges, none, not...one, is a 'human right'.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:42

OneLoftyPombear · 04/12/2025 18:47

This is my concern but obviously given My circumstances I’m also passionate about rights for trans people

No, you are passionate about Mens Rights and hiding it behind 'trans'.

ThatBlackCat · 05/12/2025 13:43

spannasaurus · 04/12/2025 18:52

Has any one noticed how many of the scolders seem to know a trans 4 year old.

Yeah, it's an obscure number to land on. What happens at 4 that these children start thinking they're the wrong gender.