And now for a reply from me personally;
I’m saddened by these voices, but genuinely curious about people’s views, perceptions, and knowledge of the trans community.
I work with young people. Around 1/3 of them identify as trans or non-binary. Around 2/4 of them are neurodiverse (as am I) (this is relevant). I am bisexual and have experience of dating men and women and of having non-binary identifying and trans identifying friends. I have experienced having my voice as a member of the LBGT+ shut down and silenced. I have experienced male bodied people who identify as women behaving exactly as you would expect entitled male louts, to behave - towards me and towards the LGBT+ youth who I was responsible for at a Pride event.
I’d like to ask if and why are you afraid of trans people and what threat you think a transgirl poses to a troop.
I'm not afraid of trans identifying people. I believe that it is important for female bodied people (commonly known as women and girls) that they have a right to single-sex groups and spaces.
I’m 50 years old and have known people from all the letters of the LGBTQ+ community most of my life and have not ever felt threatened by them.
I'm 47 years old, a member of the LGBT+ community, and I have. Or don't I count?
To be honest, the so-called allies who think I'm a bigot for having a different opinion from them on what makes somebody female are a much bigger threat to women and girls, in my experience. The trans identifying men "just" threaten me with violence for having a belief that sex is immutable and gender identify doesn't make you female. The "Allies" want to strip me and all women and girls of women's hard-won rights.
No one is trying to ‘convert’ heterosexuals or get people to change their gender.
On the threads that I linked to there are several articles about how some children are being steered towards identifying as transgender because their families can't stomach the idea of them being gay. Sounds unbelievable; is being reported by generally reliable sources. Religious people sometimes really don't want their children to be gay.
Given the current climate of hatred towards trans and gender non-conforming people (stirred up by billionaires, politicians, and the christian right), why would any child, teen, or adult “choose” to be trans?
Honestly, my answer to this is too long and complicated for this post.
Certainly not to “infiltrate” toilets and girl’s only spaces.
Of course there are men who would love an easy loophole to access to female only spaces when women and girls are in a state of undress or vulnerability (e.g. emotional)! Or just because they are entitled men and boys who don't like being told no, you're not allowed in here. They don't have to have gone through any gender reassignment treatment - there is a whole movement, of which you may be a part of, that believes that a man saying that he is a woman should be enough to allow him access to women's only spaces. When men are allowed into women's spaces, those spaces might as well be reclassified into mixed-sex.
Heterosexual cisgender men continue to be the biggest threat to each other, women, trans people…
Trans identifying men (transwomen) offend at the same rate as men.
Do any of you know anyone who is trans, non-binary, intersex?
I know and am friends with several people who are trans ifentifying or non-binary. Nobody that I know is openly intersex. FYI, organisations representing people who are intersex have asked that they stop being used as a puppet to argue about trans-identifying people. One is an identity, the other is a disorder of sexual development. I studied DSDs at university, oddly enough! The overwhelming majority of people (and animals) with DSDs can still be classified as biologically male or female.
Biological sex is not as simple as you’d like it to be. 1.7% of the population is intersex - as common as twins. Approximately 1 in 4500 assigned female at birth women are born without wombs.
As I say, I studied the foetal development of sex, and DSDs at university.
The 1.7% figure is widely disputed.
Sex is a classification based on a number of characteristics.
Variation from binary sex is present in a really tiny proportion of the population.
Most of those people can still be classified as male, or female.
There is currently NO evidence that DSDs are linked to transgender or non-binary identities in the majority of the population who identify as such. "Intersex," or DSDs, and gender identity are two different issues.