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Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions

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ArabellaSaurus · 08/11/2025 21:12

New survey

19% of people say 'trans rights have not gone far enough' in the UK.
39% say 'trans rights have gone too far'.

That's a really big change in the past five years.

'The proportion who say transgender rights have gone too far in the UK has more than doubled since 2020, from 17% to 39%, though overall there is still no public consensus on the issue, with 19% now saying transgender rights have not gone far enough, 27% saying they’ve gone as far as they should, and a further 15% not giving an opinion.
The proportion of people who say transgender rights have gone too far has doubled among all age groups – even 16-24s, where one in five (19%) now feel this way, compared with around one in 10 (9%) in 2020. However, young people are still more likely to say transgender rights have not gone far enough (36%).'

https://www.ipsos.com/en-uk/uks-sense-division-reaches-new-high-culture-war-tensions-grow-study-finds

Article:

https://unherd.com/newsroom/growing-number-of-britons-think-trans-rights-have-gone-too-far/

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Bluemin · 10/11/2025 00:23

I don't really mind debating someone who turns out to be a fake lier or whatever as they just help to show up the logical fallacies of the TWAW faction. It takes some patience and I need to be in the right frame of mind but I genuinely believe that we show our true colours by engaging with integrity and they show their true colours by being themselves....

Bluemin · 10/11/2025 00:24

I've explained that badly but I'm full of pork stroganoff and red wine so content to leave it there 😁

CohensDiamondTeeth · 10/11/2025 00:33

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/11/2025 00:13

Honestly I don't think it matters if their personas are fake, because who you think you are talking to shouldn't change your position. Maybe you'd be a little more careful of phrasing if someone seems fragile or likely to misinterpret/misrepresent, but the fundamental content won't change.

My arguments are strong and stand up and are the same whether I believe I am talking to a TW or a young #bekind woman or a patronising man or a mum who dosn't understand why people don't just let her lovely TW collegue pee where he wants.

I went away and had a wee think and had just come back to say something like this.

I think yes, inconsistencies in personal details given can sometimes be indicative of a TRA, but on reflection, I'm mostly paying attention to the quality of the argument than who is making the argument.

Although I do give less weight immediately to posters like Gnasher who are male and talking out of their bum, and frankly I skim past most of Hows posts these days because I can't be arsed with any of his particular flavour of stupid games right now 😂

I was thinking as well about how it's always good online safety practice to change small details when talking about yourself. I've done this with inconsequential details before, and I know it's fairly common practice here on MN in general. I appreciate that's more from the perspective of personal and children's online safety, rather than being anything to do with spotting a TRA because they can't keep their story, argument or logic straight 😂

CohensDiamondTeeth · 10/11/2025 00:36

Bluemin · 10/11/2025 00:23

I don't really mind debating someone who turns out to be a fake lier or whatever as they just help to show up the logical fallacies of the TWAW faction. It takes some patience and I need to be in the right frame of mind but I genuinely believe that we show our true colours by engaging with integrity and they show their true colours by being themselves....

Yes I agree with this too!

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · 10/11/2025 00:38

I hope peeps dont think i am being critical of the valiant efforts to give nitwits a good mauling.

i just want to contribute but end up on the norty step when i engage cos i get very cross.

CohensDiamondTeeth · 10/11/2025 00:47

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · 10/11/2025 00:38

I hope peeps dont think i am being critical of the valiant efforts to give nitwits a good mauling.

i just want to contribute but end up on the norty step when i engage cos i get very cross.

I haven't taken it that way, discussion about how to deal with these bad faith posters is something that comes up quite a lot and I think it's always a worthwhile discussion to have Flowers

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 05:53

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:14

I don't think trans rights have gone too far; I feel the movement is more about being able/allowed to fit in to society though.
Needing the laws to change so a trans person has a legal right to defend themselves when attacked is what this is about.
Trans people do not 'choose' to be this way, why would someone choose to be such a targeted demographic?
I know a few and they are all really nice people.

Just because you and I do not understand what they are going through, didn't mean it is not genuine.

Needing the laws to change so a trans person has a legal right to defend themselves when attacked is what this is about.

Eh what?? This is a stunning act of DARVO. It is females that are attacked. Not trans. Trans are the most celebrated, powerful, privileged and most protected group out. It's a fact that trans are the ones doing the attacking, not being attacked. And women have lost our legal right to defend ourselves. Because of trans. Your post is a stunning example of gaslighting and completely reversing victim/offender, DARVO.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 05:58

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:53

I would have no problem with this scenario.

In fact my sister said she was given tampon in the ladies loo by a trans person because she ran out and the trans person had them on her as she had seen so many women in that situation.

Women helping women.

Wow. You've really been brainwashed and desensitised so much that you genuinely don't see how sick and predatory it is for males to hang around in female toilets offering women and girls tampons? Truly your post is deeply disturbing. This is grooming writ large.
If a male dressed like a male and identifying a male did that, I'm sure you're attitude would be different. But, because this male wears a dress, you've been desensitised to think it's ok?

That male that did that is filthy predator and the police should have been called. A male with a penis and prostate has no need for tampons or to carry them, and there is only one reason a male would do it. For a sexual fetish. Please wake up.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:00

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:32

A trans man is a man and a trans woman is a woman.
You can disagree all you want, but if you are going to hate on them for their identity and are constantly trying to take away their right to be themselves then you are being abusive.

A transwoman is a male with penis and testicles. He has no lived experience remotely of being a woman. You can disagree with biology and facts all you want, but it is what it is.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:02

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:39

Trans women are women and should be free to use women's spaces.
This is not going too far, it's seeing them for who they are.

Transwomen are MALE with PENIS AND TESTICLES and most certainly should not be free to expose themselves in FEMALE only single sex spaces.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:04

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:45

Nobody is forcing rape victims call their abusers "she", and using this example to attack the trans community is disingenuous.
A trans woman is a woman and compairing them to rapists is why there needs to be more laws; to stop your abusive rhetoric.

Wrong, rape survivors have been told they must refer to a male's pronouns in court.

Transwomen are fully intact males with male socialisation, male privilege and zero experience of a girl getting her period and growing into a woman and the lived experience as a member of the oppressed sex.
Once again, a transwomen is a FULLY INTACT MALE.

No one is comparing transwomen to rapists. What we are saying is that they are male, and transwomen, as males, have used their male body to rape women, so stop being disingenuous and abusive of rape survivors like me.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:05

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:47

It is not an illness. Just like with homosexuallity, you can't 'treat' it or pray it away, like backwards people thought we could in the past.

Gender Dysphoria is listed in the DSMV.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:08

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:51

Because, statistically, cis men are far more likely to commit violent or sexual assault than trans women.
I know a few trans people and they are all very nice and non abusive, whereas I know plenty men who should not be allowed to leave the house unsupervised.

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False!!! Transwomen sexually offend at least 5 times higher than other males. Transwomen are the most dangerous group there is.

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:14

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 10:04

I agree with most of what you just posted.
I do agree that in medicine we should recognise male and female biology.

Children should not be operated on for this issue, although they should be allowed to choose their own identity (although i don't think 'choose' is the right word here).
It has been shown the woman who won Olympic boxing is in fact a cis female.
A trans woman should he allowed to use a lady's changing room or toilet..
They have not 'stolen' anything from cis women, they are fighting for their right to exist.

Get your facts right. You are way behind. MEDICAL DOCUMENTS prove the male who won Olympic Boxing is a biological male with a micropenis, internal testes, a prostate, no female sex organs, and has 5-ARD. A male specific DSD. You are very misinformed and way, way, way behind. You're embarrassing yourself here. This is why people like you post without even knowing what you're talking about, and we here have the receipts. None of you ever do the slightest research before posting here.

https://www.francsjeux.com/en/short/A-medical-report-relaunches-the-Imane-Khelif-case

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:16

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 10:07

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41386-020-0666-3
This article discusses how men and women's brains are different, as how a trans person's brain is wired the same as there 'identity ' gender.
I'd say a woman is someone who identifies as a woman..

Edited

That 'article' has been debunked over and over and over again.

If there was a 'test', don't you think trans people would jump at it and use it a proof?

A little common sense and critical thinking wouldn't go astray.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:17

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 10:12

When you compare those numbers to those of cis men in prison you'll see that is a very small number.
Nobody said all trans people are innocent, we are saying 'stop tarring them with the same brush as sexual preditors'.

This is not about 'trans' people. This is about MALES. And males in dresses are no different than males in a suit and tie.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:21

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 10:54

I mean they get abuse whether they in to men's or women's spaces.
But I feel you knew what i meant and just like to use semantics to throw off a conversation.

Edited

There is zero evidence they get any abuse. And even if they did, male on male abuse is not our problem to solve. Women are not human shields for males.

You're just making up lies on the spot now to defend an indefensible position. Even transwomen have said themselves that the worst they might get is a smirk.

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
MistyGreenAndBlue · 10/11/2025 06:28

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:53

I would have no problem with this scenario.

In fact my sister said she was given tampon in the ladies loo by a trans person because she ran out and the trans person had them on her as she had seen so many women in that situation.

Women helping women.

It's like they don't realise we are old hands at this and have heard this particular fairy tale numerous times. As well as many others of course.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 10/11/2025 06:31

Helleofabore · 09/11/2025 18:57

This is creepy! Absolutely creepy!

No male person should be carrying tampons ‘just in case’. No male person needs tampons so they are carrying these to establish a connection to female people. And the female people accepting this has not thought this through.

Women helping women

Absolutely not!

This is predatory behaviour by any male person doing this!

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Don't worry. It didn't happen. This is a popular fairy tale among TRAs

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:32

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 12:25

I have been in many unisex toilets and there have been zero problems, including with cleanliness.
To say you're worried about trans people transmitting pathogens is ridiculous.

I have been in the men's and there has been a lone woman in there cleaning, on other occasions there have been women using the men's without any problems; i feel these show it's not about being anti biological men but being anti trans.
Who washes their hair in public loos?
And why on earth would you would want gaps in the loo doors?

Women wanting to enter the henhouse does not mean other hens want the foxes in our house.

It's more anti-male than it is anti-'trans'. That's what you don't understand. You don't get to rebadge built like a brick shithouse men a 'trans' and tell us it's ok, they're wearing a dress Little Red Ridinghood, it's all ok.... They are fully intact males. Just with a different 'label'.

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
nicepotoftea · 10/11/2025 06:35

MistyGreenAndBlue · 10/11/2025 06:31

Don't worry. It didn't happen. This is a popular fairy tale among TRAs

Weirdly always tampons…

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:36

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 13:13

There is a difference between sex and gender.

Yes, gender is a misogynistic man-made social construct. Only sex is immutable and real.

And female only spaces are based on sex. Not 'gender identity' in a person's brain. Because females are oppressed and vulnerable based on our sex. Not an 'identity'.

Hence the need to keep all males out of female spaces.

ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:42

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 13:38

This is a difficult one to answer. You are entitled to your opinion, I can't change that.
I have asked many women how they feel about trans women in female changing rooms and, mostly, they support it.
There are many articles agreeing that trans is a real thing; just because you and I don't understand it that doesn't mean it's not real/genuine.
Much like allowing black children into white schools, until it happens there will always be those who think it bad and harmful.
The only way forward, in my opinion, is to let it happen, then the world will see there is nothing wrong with trans women in female changing rooms.

You are advocating to allow fully intact males with PENIS AND TESTICLES where women and girls are getting undressed.

Don't you understand that?

And on race....

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions
ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:45

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 13:42

I am not forcing anyone to do anything, I would say you are denying people their right to be who they identify as due to you not understanding.
Other than existing, how does a trans woman affect you?

By exposing their male genitals in female only spaces.
By taking female awards, medals, scholarships.
By having us redefined to 'birthing parent', 'menstruator' and 'cervix haver'.
By having male crimes listed as womens crimes. I could go on and on and on and on.

What you are asking, is how do males in female only intimate safe single sex spaces affect women and girls and rape survivors like me? Erm.... how about you have a think about that one.

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ThatBlackCat · 10/11/2025 06:49

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 13:56

It doesn't affect me at all, other than being sad at the abuse another marginalized groups receives.

It wasn't that long ago women were fighting for the right to vote and have bodily autonomy because a lot of men thought women were incapable and found the very idea offensive.

Males are not 'marginalised'.

It wasn't long ago women were fighting for female only spaces. Now, the likes of you are telling us our foremother feminists' achievements were all for nothing and not needed.

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