Yes, I would agree there are some real differernces of viewpoint around the best way to help people, and also state control.
What's not differernt is seeing the need for people to be helped. And putting your money where your mouth is, or pitching in personally.
And that was really my point, that the differernces between left and right wing thinking aren't about being nice, kind, helpful, etc, they are about differernces in views about how to accomplish these things, what the necessary conditions are to have a functioning society (conservatives seem, imo, to see economic prosperity as foundational to some extent,) how best to help people, what people need to thrive, even.
And there is actually a lot of overlap. Look at health care - in the UK, most conservatives are suggesting something closer to a European model. That is not far out, most people on the left in the UK are happy to move to France or Germany and use their health system.