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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

teenage girls and middle-aged men

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onlytherain · 04/09/2025 22:18

I have read a few times here and elsewhere that the two groups with the highest rates of being trans or highest increase in transitioning are teenage girls and middle-aged men. I can only find data for teenage girls. Could someone please point me to data supporting the claim that middle-aged men are a group with high transitioning rates?

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Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 08:47

Shortshriftandlethal · 06/09/2025 08:42

More likely because older lesbians didn't grow up with the pressures of social media and also before 'being trans' became a fad.

That's like saying more options = 'pressure'

I suspect having the option to fully embrace one's disposition/masculinity/femininity is attractive for many. Kind of like men & women who embrace breast implants/ lip filler/gym 'restructuring' now its more widely available.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 06/09/2025 08:57

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 08:47

That's like saying more options = 'pressure'

I suspect having the option to fully embrace one's disposition/masculinity/femininity is attractive for many. Kind of like men & women who embrace breast implants/ lip filler/gym 'restructuring' now its more widely available.

None of that changes your sex though.

Men are free to contemplate their gender identities and caress their fake boobs whilst in the men's toilets.

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:02

Sorry to have to break the news to you, but the word 'sex' isn't what you need to believe it means.

'Sex' specifically denotes characteristic distinctions between the sexes that include born characteristics, those that are attained later & behavioural ones.

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sex

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:02

Sorry to have to break the news to you, but the word 'sex' isn't what you need to believe it means.

'Sex' specifically denotes characteristic distinctions between the sexes that include born characteristics, those that are attained later & behavioural ones.

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sex

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:08

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:02

Sorry to have to break the news to you, but the word 'sex' isn't what you need to believe it means.

'Sex' specifically denotes characteristic distinctions between the sexes that include born characteristics, those that are attained later & behavioural ones.

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sex

Do you understand how babies are made?

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:13

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:11

Is this some sort of "words create reality" nonsense?

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:15

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 08:12

I was referring to more women born in the 50's 60's & 70's as 'older women'. The reason for that is parents of their time would have most likely influenced their children's understanding of cultural mores & expectations. It's possible that might extend to the eighties particularly for immigrant demographics.

Clearly it's not just about culture changing past that point but access to information. With the advent of the internet & later social media knowledge gives a better understanding of phenomena.

I suspect the mistake many people make with this issue is the assumption of 'social contagion' (an unproven theory) as if monkey see monkey do is all it takes to 'trans' oneself or partake in any other life changing pursuit but it's probably a combination seeing AND connecting AND feeling more comfortable that others have.

I think you’ll find that there are plenty of ‘cultural norms’ that were against male cross dressers in that time frame as well so that doesn’t work as a theory either.

None of this explains the lack of older women NOW discovering their trans identity in proportionate numbers.

Social contagion is a known issue especially among young girls and, oh look at the group expanding disproportionately - young girls. Social media sites were forced to take down content promoting anorexia, then the contagion moved to self harming so that gad to be shut down. Now gender ideology is being heavily promoted at many schools as well as social media and we can see the results among young girls.

As the Tavistock found, the number of girls is disproportionately increased compared to the boys. They also found that the relevant factors for the girls were largely autism, internalised homophobia, mental health issues, misogyny and abuse.

It is no coincidence that in areas with a high number of activist teachers and organisations, there is a disproportionate number of young girls adopting a trans identity. In other areas (like mine) the numbers are far lower.

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:15

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:13

Is this some sort of "words create reality" nonsense?

Um, as the link states words depend on social usage. Try reading before commenting perhaps?

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:15

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 08:47

That's like saying more options = 'pressure'

I suspect having the option to fully embrace one's disposition/masculinity/femininity is attractive for many. Kind of like men & women who embrace breast implants/ lip filler/gym 'restructuring' now its more widely available.

You can embrace your disposition/masculinity/femininity without pretending you've changed sex. We were all doing it in the 80s.

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:17

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:15

You can embrace your disposition/masculinity/femininity without pretending you've changed sex. We were all doing it in the 80s.

As already shown, 'sex' is about distinctions that aren't limited to reproductive differences.

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:17

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:15

You can embrace your disposition/masculinity/femininity without pretending you've changed sex. We were all doing it in the 80s.

As already shown, 'sex' is about distinctions that aren't limited to reproductive differences.

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:17

None of this explains the lack of older women NOW discovering their trans identity in proportionate numbers.

@BundleBoogie you must have missed the post where @Howseitgoin explained that that's because us older women are all shrinking violets who are too meek to have the confidence to "come out" as trans.

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:18

Howseitgoin · 05/09/2025 23:18

As the link mentions, its a lot less socially restrictive to come out as a trans man than a trans woman.

So if it’s less socially restrictive, where are the older ‘transmen’ coming out in their droves?

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:20

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:15

Um, as the link states words depend on social usage. Try reading before commenting perhaps?

But it's still only women who can get pregnant, no matter how much word salad you read. Funny that.

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:20

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:17

As already shown, 'sex' is about distinctions that aren't limited to reproductive differences.

Bollocks.

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:20

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:18

So if it’s less socially restrictive, where are the older ‘transmen’ coming out in their droves?

They come out at a similar rate to the 'old women' if you bother to check the graphs on the research linked.

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:23

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:20

They come out at a similar rate to the 'old women' if you bother to check the graphs on the research linked.

That is, in very low numbers compared to men of the same age. Also in very low numbers compared to younger women.

I'm not sure that you actually understand what's shown in those graphs. Would you like me to explain?

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:23

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:17

None of this explains the lack of older women NOW discovering their trans identity in proportionate numbers.

@BundleBoogie you must have missed the post where @Howseitgoin explained that that's because us older women are all shrinking violets who are too meek to have the confidence to "come out" as trans.

🤣🤣 so THAT’S what it is. Hmm….

So according to howse it’s LESS socially restrictive for women to come out as a ‘transman’ but somehow they are such HUGE shrinking violets that even that that isn’t happening.

This is fascinating - it’s like a child trying to lie to their parents and coming up with more elaborate lies to cover each time the smaller lie is exposed.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 06/09/2025 09:24

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 08:12

I was referring to more women born in the 50's 60's & 70's as 'older women'. The reason for that is parents of their time would have most likely influenced their children's understanding of cultural mores & expectations. It's possible that might extend to the eighties particularly for immigrant demographics.

Clearly it's not just about culture changing past that point but access to information. With the advent of the internet & later social media knowledge gives a better understanding of phenomena.

I suspect the mistake many people make with this issue is the assumption of 'social contagion' (an unproven theory) as if monkey see monkey do is all it takes to 'trans' oneself or partake in any other life changing pursuit but it's probably a combination seeing AND connecting AND feeling more comfortable that others have.

The impact of social contagion teenagers in the grip of mental illnesses such as anorexia / self harm is exceptionally well evidenced. Extreme transactivists have a lot invested in denying that these mentally vulnerable children in the grip of the delusion that their developing bodies are flawed but will be cured by a sex change, can be vulnerable to social contagion, gaslighting online and grooming by dodgy adults.

Proving the existence of a "trans child" is important to the interests of these men as it obscures the sexual fetish aspects of this ideology.

It's a bit surprising to see social contagion in children denied on a feminist board on a parenting site, but it takes all sorts I suppose.

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:24

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:20

They come out at a similar rate to the 'old women' if you bother to check the graphs on the research linked.

Eh? What are ‘old women’ coming out as?

I think you’ve got a bit confused.

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:26

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:23

🤣🤣 so THAT’S what it is. Hmm….

So according to howse it’s LESS socially restrictive for women to come out as a ‘transman’ but somehow they are such HUGE shrinking violets that even that that isn’t happening.

This is fascinating - it’s like a child trying to lie to their parents and coming up with more elaborate lies to cover each time the smaller lie is exposed.

It's hilarious. He's talking about women born in the 50s, 60s and 70s as though we know nothing about actually being those women.

OldCrone · 06/09/2025 09:27

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:24

Eh? What are ‘old women’ coming out as?

I think you’ve got a bit confused.

Old women are coming out as terfs.

Do keep up 😂

BundleBoogie · 06/09/2025 09:34

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:02

Sorry to have to break the news to you, but the word 'sex' isn't what you need to believe it means.

'Sex' specifically denotes characteristic distinctions between the sexes that include born characteristics, those that are attained later & behavioural ones.

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sex

But we’re not talking about definitions or discourse around ‘sex’ and ‘gender’ as made up by activists at a dictionary.

They can make up whatever nonsense they like, it doesn’t change reality and just undermines their integrity.

We are talking about sex - the verifiable immutable human characteristic that has existed and not changed since the dawn of humans.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 06/09/2025 09:36

Howseitgoin · 06/09/2025 09:02

Sorry to have to break the news to you, but the word 'sex' isn't what you need to believe it means.

'Sex' specifically denotes characteristic distinctions between the sexes that include born characteristics, those that are attained later & behavioural ones.

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sex

We use real dictionaries, not Yank ones.

America is a country where even the clever people are stupid. They should listen to us, not the other way round.