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Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?

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Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:09

This is a feminist forum. It’s in the name. I’m a feminist, therefore logically atheist and frankly anti-religion. Certainly against any kind of religious nationalism (Christian, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, etc.)

But surely feminism is about liberation for all women, not just the ones we agree with? The destruction of patriarchal structures, not of women and children who are conditioned by them?

I constantly see snarky comments in GC articles about Gaza and dehumanizing comments about Palestinians and Muslims generally on this board. And minimizing of the suffering of the tens of thousands of people being murdered in an internationally recognized genocide. I don’t get it. It seems out of sync with the general mumsnet feeling too - I get the impression most people on mumsnet are pretty horrified by Israel’s actions.

Does anyone else get the same impression? If so, what is the connection between being Gender Critical and being anti-Palestine? Is it just that the leftist terfs aren’t so represented here?

I’m in a feminist group in Spain and it doesn’t have the same issue at all.

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quantumbutterfly · 24/08/2025 18:40

Imnobody4 · 24/08/2025 15:30

Sorry discredited by who? Are you denying Russia's meddling in the ME?

Discredited by various people who lay the blame for ME (and their own) antisemitism at Israeli feet.
I am superficially aware of 'the great game' and also somewhat aware of Russia's historic efforts to exert ideological influence in 'the west' via unions and universities. It is not my area of 'expertise'.

ladybirdsanchez · 24/08/2025 18:41

I'm GC and I'm neither pro Israel nor pro Palestine.

Netanyahu is a war-monger and Hamas is a death cult.

BlakeCarrington · 24/08/2025 18:47

You are completely ridiculous OP

YourAmplePlumPoster · 24/08/2025 18:50

ElizaMulvil · 24/08/2025 18:37

I guess the people of Israel and the people in Gaza, the West Bank etc have to come to some sort of agreement like the Good Friday Agreement in Northern Ireland. Ie when both sides are sick of the blood shed and the price both sides are paying is no longer acceptable. Democracy and consideration .needs to be offered to everyone. I hope there is a large number of people on both sides who are now thinking of a ceasefire and a compromise solution.

Privilege for anyone set of people over another must be deemed unfair. There will no doubt still be people who don't agree but if their own people ie the population in Israel and the population in Gaza, the West Bank etc vote for the settlement hopefully it leaves those who won't agree isolated and voted out of power.

It may take outside guarantors or intervention to guarantee it. As the US and Britain and the Irish Government guaranteed the GFA. It must be put to a vote of all the people on both sides.

The truth is that the IRA were comprehensively defeated by the British security services and their own people fed up with them, which is when they sat down for serious peace talks. Wars end when one side gives up. Towards the end, the IRA had more informers than activists. The same is going on in Gaza. Only comfortably off middle class students on Western campuses and in academia want this. They are like ghouls.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 24/08/2025 18:55

I recommend Son of Hamas, obtainable on Amazon, for serious background information on this conflict and the mentality involved. I would like to add, I think Netanyahus actions are barbaric and do not reflect what the general population in Israel want: an end to the war and release of the remaining hostages. I have friends in Israel and that is what they've told me.

quantumbutterfly · 24/08/2025 19:05

YourAmplePlumPoster · 24/08/2025 18:50

The truth is that the IRA were comprehensively defeated by the British security services and their own people fed up with them, which is when they sat down for serious peace talks. Wars end when one side gives up. Towards the end, the IRA had more informers than activists. The same is going on in Gaza. Only comfortably off middle class students on Western campuses and in academia want this. They are like ghouls.

fanghouls.

ArabellaScott · 24/08/2025 20:54

ArabellaScott · 24/08/2025 12:47

That's a grim read.

Has a paragraph that is pertinent given recent actions proscribing Palestinian Solidarity:

'P is for the Palestine Solidarity Campaign. Manchester PSC released a statement on 7 October, with the pogrom ongoing and before Israel had responded,, titled ‘Manchester Supports The Palestinian Resistance’. It began ‘In a heroic move today, the Palestinian freedom fighters … broke Zionist colonial barriers and entered settlements built on stolen Palestinian land inside 48 Palestine.’ The statement continued: ‘The brave fighters gave us all a glimpse of a liberated Palestine as they took hold of entire Israeli settlements … It is our duty here to express our unconditional support to the Resistance until Palestine is free.’ A speaker at a PSC rally in Brighton said the actions of Hamas had been ‘beautiful and inspiring … we need to celebrate these acts of resistance … revolutionary violence by Palestinians is not terrorism.’ (The middle class crowd whooped.) At a PSC rally in Manchester on 8 October participants shouted for the terrorists who had been slaughtering Jews and called for the annihilation of Israel. They waved banners reading ‘Glory To Palestinian Freedom Fighters’.'

(I think the government have handled the PSC demos badly, for what its worth, but this gives a bit of background to the organisation's history).

I have confused the Palestine Solidarity Campaign with Palestine Action, here. Entirely my mistake and poor memory.

TempestTost · 24/08/2025 23:28

quantumbutterfly · 24/08/2025 12:47

No moral conflict among Gazans?

No moral conflict for people in 'liberal western' UK about celebrating what happened on 7/10 or smearing faeces on a memorial book to the victims?

The sentiments you posted are admirable but sadly not universal, not even in the UK - it troubles me (and possibly those who want a stable, functioning society) how widespread the hate is.

I really have no clue what you are talking about here, it doesn't seem to have anything to do with what I said.

AliasGrace47 · 25/08/2025 00:42

TempestTost · 24/08/2025 12:16

Honestly I'm not really sure what you are getting at here? It's clear Israelis are already morally conflicted.

I think she's implying that the Palestinians probably mostly don't feel guilt. I'm sure Hamas doesn't.

But I feel very uncomfortable about implications that non-Westerners in general feel extremely differently. Yes, culture creates huge differences

It almost feels like implying that 1. The war can never be concluded because the Arab world will never want peace

  1. These people are so different from us that we should be less concerned for them.

Yes, ofc we should have no sympathy AT ALL for Hamas. But people in Gaza being v different, having hateful opinions, true for many...they should still be treated with basic human dignity. I don't know enough to know if Israel's approach right now is the only possible one, maybe...

quantumbutterfly · 25/08/2025 01:18

AliasGrace47 · 25/08/2025 00:42

I think she's implying that the Palestinians probably mostly don't feel guilt. I'm sure Hamas doesn't.

But I feel very uncomfortable about implications that non-Westerners in general feel extremely differently. Yes, culture creates huge differences

It almost feels like implying that 1. The war can never be concluded because the Arab world will never want peace

  1. These people are so different from us that we should be less concerned for them.

Yes, ofc we should have no sympathy AT ALL for Hamas. But people in Gaza being v different, having hateful opinions, true for many...they should still be treated with basic human dignity. I don't know enough to know if Israel's approach right now is the only possible one, maybe...

I refute the extrapolated implication that 'the Arab world' does not want peace or 'these people' are so different we should not be concerned. That is a subjective interpretation.

Krakinou · 25/08/2025 02:30

SidewaysOtter · 23/08/2025 17:08

What about religions that don't solely have male deities (either because there is a mix of male and female, or non-gendered deities), such as Hinduism, Jainism and Paganism? Or even Dianistic traditions within Paganism which are goddess-worshipping?

Religions are man-made. They reflect and shape the societies they are in. So it really doesn’t matter if there is a female or sexless god running the universe after all. What matters is how religions are practiced.

I read that in societies where gods are female, childcare is often evenly shared; less so when gods are mixed sex; and even less where gods are thought of as male. So yeah, I guess you could have a feminist society with a goddess worshiping religion.

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on. I don’t know much about Hinduism but it doesn’t seem to be working out great for Indian women.

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BeLemonNow · 25/08/2025 03:24

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on.

OP 🙁, I'm an atheist. I don't believe in any God, based on science and logical reasoning.

As I tried to explain, although male pronouns are often used the Christian "God" is not male or female...

Why not appreciate that it's more complex than you realised and you can be a religious feminist?

ArabellaScott · 25/08/2025 06:29

They reflect and shape the societies they are in. ...What matters is how religions are practiced.

So, one could argue that Christianity is exactly as "patriarchal' as the society that surrounds it. Why pick on Christians?

MurkyWeather · 25/08/2025 10:44

Why not appreciate that it's more complex than you realised and you can be a religious feminist?

This is why I don't call myself a feminist; so I can't be regularly accused of doing it wrong for one reason or another😁

stealthsquirrelnutkin · 25/08/2025 11:27

"Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?"

Perhaps it is due to our ability to think things through and make up our own minds, without being influenced by the latest omnicause? We've already been traduced for wanting to protect our own sex based rights and the healthy bodies of autistic and homosexual children, so when we see the bodies of raped young women thrown into the back of pickup trucks and driven through howling joyous mobs celebrating their horrible fate we find it easy to pick a side?
Perhaps it is because a lot of us are lesbians, so we respect Israel as the only democratic country in the region that protects the rights of homosexuals?
Perhaps it is because we are female and feel outrage and horror that babies were strangled and burnt alive by mobs of feral armed men who invaded their homes?
I dunno, perhaps we just don't fit in with the baying mobs of Jew haters that have been allowed to spoil London for normal people?

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 25/08/2025 11:38

We can see through BS

SidewaysOtter · 25/08/2025 11:52

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on.

How about you accept that other women have views of religion different from yours? Stop telling other women what to think and how to do feminism “correctly”.

WishSheWouldGoAway · 25/08/2025 12:40

SidewaysOtter · 25/08/2025 11:52

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on.

How about you accept that other women have views of religion different from yours? Stop telling other women what to think and how to do feminism “correctly”.

Or that Christianity has evolved in a way Islam hasnt and wont.

BrunoNoNoMore · 25/08/2025 16:54

I don't agree. Most of the most TERFy women I know in real life are quite sympathetic to Palestinians right now. They know that Palestinian children aren't Hamas and are generally anti-war. People like things to be very black and white but they're not.

BeLemonNow · 26/08/2025 00:43

MurkyWeather · 25/08/2025 10:44

Why not appreciate that it's more complex than you realised and you can be a religious feminist?

This is why I don't call myself a feminist; so I can't be regularly accused of doing it wrong for one reason or another😁

😂best response to a question I've had on here I think!

Fimofriend · 26/08/2025 10:29

Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:37

@Catabogus I think you have a point about a reaction to forced teaming on the other side.

But I think that’s one thing I find especially depressing about it. For me, suddenly finding myself the “bad guy” for being GC made me realize how important it is to think critically about all issues rather than just accept the team view.

"Team view"????? What team? There is no team, no organization, no GC council, no secret GC cells!!! FFS! People from all over the political spectrum are gender critical because most people have common sense!!!

There is no correlation and you should stop listening to the crap the trans activists spew!

Valeriekat · 28/08/2025 22:42

Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:24

@WishSheWouldGoAway I think it should be obvious that I’m against sexual violence of any form especially as a weapon of war. I don’t think 50 deaths per person in revenge is proportionate response. You do?

Anyway, I’m not trying to make an argument about Palestine here. I’m asking for people’s feelings on the correlation (or not) on this board.

The total lack of sympathy for the young people who were kidnapped and raped was horrible. Even the BBC were reluctant to call it what it was. Sexual violence is reprehensible.

Howseitgoin · 28/08/2025 22:56

Gender Criticals being more likely to be authoritarian minded may be related.
www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09589236.2024.2431569#abstract

ScrollingLeaves · 28/08/2025 23:32

Krakinou · 25/08/2025 02:30

Religions are man-made. They reflect and shape the societies they are in. So it really doesn’t matter if there is a female or sexless god running the universe after all. What matters is how religions are practiced.

I read that in societies where gods are female, childcare is often evenly shared; less so when gods are mixed sex; and even less where gods are thought of as male. So yeah, I guess you could have a feminist society with a goddess worshiping religion.

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on. I don’t know much about Hinduism but it doesn’t seem to be working out great for Indian women.

Mary is extremely important to a lot of Catholics. Secretly more than Jesus sometimes. She is also recognised by Muslims.

Catholicism is patriarchal but puts women on a pedestal in many ways.

ScrollingLeaves · 28/08/2025 23:36

stealthsquirrelnutkin · 25/08/2025 11:27

"Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?"

Perhaps it is due to our ability to think things through and make up our own minds, without being influenced by the latest omnicause? We've already been traduced for wanting to protect our own sex based rights and the healthy bodies of autistic and homosexual children, so when we see the bodies of raped young women thrown into the back of pickup trucks and driven through howling joyous mobs celebrating their horrible fate we find it easy to pick a side?
Perhaps it is because a lot of us are lesbians, so we respect Israel as the only democratic country in the region that protects the rights of homosexuals?
Perhaps it is because we are female and feel outrage and horror that babies were strangled and burnt alive by mobs of feral armed men who invaded their homes?
I dunno, perhaps we just don't fit in with the baying mobs of Jew haters that have been allowed to spoil London for normal people?

babies were strangled and burnt alive by mobs of feral armed men who invaded their homes?

Sorry, this is not supposed to be another Conflict in the Middle East Thread but that burnt babies story was debunked long ago.

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