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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Katy Montgomerie

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niadainud · 24/07/2025 19:35

Just wondering what people think about her. I was sent a link by someone, and I do occasionally try to watch the views of pro-trans people for "balance", but I really struggled with this one.

I find her excessively pleased with herself, incoherent, ageist and of course prone to flinging around insults such as "TERF", "transphone" and "bigot" every few minutes.

I'm not quite sure what gives her the confidence to "diss" people like Helen Joyce, Richard Dawkins et al, as if they're idiots and she is some sort of intellectual giant.

She says things like this: "The UK's Supreme Court ruled on "biological sex", but they have absolutely no idea what they're talking about. The "Gender Critical" position on biology is just factually wrong. Finally hundreds of experts in the field come together to call out all this anti-science rubbish"

Other than being trans herself, does she have any justifiable claim to the superior knowledge she purports to have?

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MyQuirkyTraybake · 28/07/2025 00:59

A youtuber made a video of how much one of the bigger trans youtubers made. It was about 80k a year.

So I think the more controversial and outrageous, the better. At the end of the day, he's an influencer. So of course he will say anything to be popular.

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 05:36

so you condemn the TW who complained to the train company that their wifi wouldn’t let him access porn also? I mean, he publicly complained. He wanted to access porn whilst on a train so you’ll be posting and condemning him right?
But as I said previously. You are a proven liar. I wouldn’t trust you to tell me the sky was blue.

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

Shitstix · 29/07/2025 01:29

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

You're here defending the men parading their fetishism. That's creepy and quiet frankly irresponsible.

Annoyedone · 29/07/2025 05:27

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

Well just noticed you called out the woman doing it but not the man? Why?

unwashedanddazed · 29/07/2025 05:45

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

IIRC she was researching fanfic and 'shipping'. It was Harry Potter fanfic, not porn. A dishonest TRA spread the porn rumour and other dishonest TRAs perpetuate it.

No one believes your lies.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/07/2025 08:11

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

What unwatched said

but you are quite right IF someone is doing that in a public space then no matter who they are its creepy and irresponsible

Greyskybluesky · 29/07/2025 09:15

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

Why would anyone go into a women's public toilet, take a photo of themselves, post it online and caption it as "infiltrating" a women's toilet?

I DO give a damn who does it. It's creepy and weird. No woman would ever do that.
Why did you you do that?

OldCrone · 29/07/2025 10:46

ButterflyHatched · 28/07/2025 23:09

Why would anyone read porn on public transport surrounded by families with children to begin with? I don't give a damn who does it - it's creepy and irresponsible

I posted this link for you earlier, which explains that, as others have said, she was looking at fanfic, not porn. You don't seem to have read it, so here it is again.

https://mailchi.mp/sex-matters/memo-2024-9?ref=thehelenjoyce.com

This is the relevant part. The person who was in the wrong here was the creep who stalked her.

If you are on Twitter/X, you may have seen the bullying and smears targeted at Helen Joyce after a man posted photographs on social media that he had taken of her while she was travelling on an evening train.

Harassment is defined as behaviour intended to cause alarm or distress. Harassing someone by spying on them, tracking their internet use or publishing material about them is stalking. Every decent person knows this is wrong. The perpetrator himself wrote that he knew he “looked like a massive creep”, but he excused his behaviour by saying that Helen and our colleagues were not ordinary women but “TERFs”. He was so proud of spotting them and spying on them that he boasted to the world about it and sought to whip up a storm of shame and innuendo. Helen has reported the crime to the police.

The thing that the creep zoomed in on, accusing Helen of looking at pornography on her phone, was a website of “fan fiction”. This is something she first researched and wrote about at The Economist and more recently in her newsletter (this is recommended reading).

Sex Matters Memo 🚻

https://mailchi.mp/sex-matters/memo-2024-9?ref=thehelenjoyce.com

Helleofabore · 29/07/2025 12:37

OldCrone · 29/07/2025 10:46

I posted this link for you earlier, which explains that, as others have said, she was looking at fanfic, not porn. You don't seem to have read it, so here it is again.

https://mailchi.mp/sex-matters/memo-2024-9?ref=thehelenjoyce.com

This is the relevant part. The person who was in the wrong here was the creep who stalked her.

If you are on Twitter/X, you may have seen the bullying and smears targeted at Helen Joyce after a man posted photographs on social media that he had taken of her while she was travelling on an evening train.

Harassment is defined as behaviour intended to cause alarm or distress. Harassing someone by spying on them, tracking their internet use or publishing material about them is stalking. Every decent person knows this is wrong. The perpetrator himself wrote that he knew he “looked like a massive creep”, but he excused his behaviour by saying that Helen and our colleagues were not ordinary women but “TERFs”. He was so proud of spotting them and spying on them that he boasted to the world about it and sought to whip up a storm of shame and innuendo. Helen has reported the crime to the police.

The thing that the creep zoomed in on, accusing Helen of looking at pornography on her phone, was a website of “fan fiction”. This is something she first researched and wrote about at The Economist and more recently in her newsletter (this is recommended reading).

Thanks OldCrone. I do think however, that some posters live in an evidence free zone.

I also think that Hatched has shown a distinct lack of ability to judge appropriateness of behaviour as per the posts on this very thread if not even taking into account past threads.

It does send a message to any readers about the group of male people who demand access to female single sex spaces though. (Note: I have made a distinction here using behaviour and have not said this is a generalised trait of all male people who describe themselves as having a transgender identity.)

lcakethereforeIam · 29/07/2025 13:21

I've seen people reading Fifty Shades in public. Not read it myself but I believe it's quite graphic, possibly pornographic. What I didn't do was read over their shoulder to find out for myself. That would be weird possibly stalker-ish.

Watching porn is a different kettle of fish. You'd only need to catch a glimpse 🤢

I think Butters agrees watching porn in public is beyond the pale and is wisely staying silent on the subject.

ZestFest · 29/07/2025 13:25

I know this individual as my DH works at the same place.

Deeply damaged, paranoid, childhood issues, no surprises really.

niadainud · 29/07/2025 14:18

ZestFest · 29/07/2025 13:25

I know this individual as my DH works at the same place.

Deeply damaged, paranoid, childhood issues, no surprises really.

That is sad, but not surprising.

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niadainud · 29/07/2025 15:34

ZestFest · 29/07/2025 13:25

I know this individual as my DH works at the same place.

Deeply damaged, paranoid, childhood issues, no surprises really.

I do wonder what he is like "irl". I imagine he's either obnoxious and opinionated to the point it's impossible to spend five minutes in his company, or conversely he doesn't say boo to a goose.

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ZestFest · 29/07/2025 17:06

niadainud · 29/07/2025 15:34

I do wonder what he is like "irl". I imagine he's either obnoxious and opinionated to the point it's impossible to spend five minutes in his company, or conversely he doesn't say boo to a goose.

Very quiet as far as I know. Mostly an online troll.

PurpleAxe · 30/07/2025 05:54

The dude is a dumb as a brick. Dunno whether he started that way or whether he is a good demonstration of why it is a bad idea to take large doses of cross sex hormones.

Nevertheless, all part of the rich and amusing tapestry that is Twitter/the Internet.

PurpleAxe · 30/07/2025 05:58

GirlsInGreen · 24/07/2025 19:54

I actually love Monty😁 Of all the TRAS he is a complete dafty & has been a gift to "Let them speak" - there was a time I was convinced he was an inside man.
Talks complete bobbins & not a working brain cell to back it up.

To be fair, I have thought this about quite a few prominent men who pretend to be women.

Like, surely they are taking the piss, yeah? Not actually serious and are making the point at how bloody ridiculous the whole thing has gotten...😁😁

Helleofabore · 31/07/2025 20:01

Well fuck! The twitter account who posts pics of JK Rowling as a sick gotcha is now posting pics of Helen Staniland.

The misogyny of this action is off the fucking chart!

Greyskybluesky · 31/07/2025 20:07

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