Just going back to this in the email to Upton
“You have the full support of the consultant and senior nursing team, and you can contact any of us any time you need to” (on top of the walking him out to the car park).
I remember a day when I’d been aggressively physically assaulted by a male patient, was bruised on my arms and chest, and had been in tears because he’d belittled me about being upset. My consultant knew, I was due to be on call that night, and I really hoped my consultant would send me home and arrange for the shift to be covered. Instead he said (paraphrasing) “crack on - oh, and do feel free to call me if you have to”
And I have many many colleagues (of both sexes) who have had similar responses, which seem far short of the overwhelming support for Upton after his terrible experience (of a woman standing up to him).
None of this “contact ANY of the senior consultant/nursing team”.
I’m kind of out of WTFs, but WTF?!?