I find it hard because I see it as an erasure of lived experience having been through it.
I know of a number of people who actively and openly are supportive of their family members but privately really struggle with the psychological impact of it. It's taboo and not something people share out of stigma and a sense of failure or being judged by others. They know where I stand on it but it doesn't make it easier tbh. It's almost easier to just put on a front and pretend everything is ok. Even when it's obvious to others that they are not ok. There's almost a Stockholm syndrome going on for some I think.
Back in the day the Beaumont Society said that the wives of those who transitioned had a huge rate of mental breakdown. That's a pro trans group that was on record saying this.
Yet to date no one has actively looked at the psychological impact on family members of the disruption to their own identity. Identity is not individual, it's also collective with the collective group identity of being part of a family and your place within that family being one of the most important layers of identity. We know disruption to this type of identity can cause psychological problems. Yet there is no research on family members changing identity and the disruption this causes. The lack of research in this area bothers me precisely because we know about issues about disruption to identity in other areas.
So to see a male doctor who is currently specialising in psychiatry say, that they are both biologically female and a transwomen, is something in itself I find somewhat concerning in its own right quite aside from the circumstances of where it's been said. For multiple reasons.
I think about the family a lot. It can not be easy for them regardless of what their opinions are.