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NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #10

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nauticant · 10/02/2025 15:51

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 February 2025 and is expected to continue for 2 weeks. The hearing commenced with Sandie Peggie giving evidence. Dr Beth Upton started giving evidence on Thursday 6 February.

Access to view the hearing remotely can be obtained by sending an email request to [email protected] headed Public Access Request (Peggie v Fife Health Board) 4104864/2024 and requesting access.

The hearing is being live tweeted by https://x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.is/xkSxy.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: https://nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

Thread 1: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5186317-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse
Thread 2: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5267591-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-thread-2
Thread 3: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268347-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-3
Thread 4: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268942-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-4
Thread 5: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269149-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-5
Thread 6: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269635-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-6
Thread 7: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5270365-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-7
Thread 8: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271511-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-8
Thread 9: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271596-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-9

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themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 11/02/2025 08:19

rebmacesrevda · 11/02/2025 07:22

24 hours ago, I had no issue with pronouns either. I thought, what's the harm? Let people call themselves what they want; live and let live.

After following the case yesterday, I now believe that pronouns are the thin end of the wedge. Pronouns are lies, albeit small and seemingly harmless ones. But pronouns are the start of the brainwashing that culminates in the complete denial of reality. Thank god NC was allowed to use male pronouns yesterday. If she had been forced to use female pronouns, everyone in the room and everyone watching would have been subjected to the denial of reality. Last week SP was asked if she realised that referring to Dr Upton as male would be hurtful. SP replied "It's the truth". She's not wrong, and this is the crux of everything. We are all being asked to avert our eyes while a small group of predatory men dismantle the rights of women that have been fought for and died for. This "debate" is not about identity. It's about power and control.

Spot on. Pronouns are anti-safeguarding lies. If adults do it, children are expected to do it too.

Wrong-sex pronouns place the person who's getting them above the person providing them. The person providing them is supposed to put the trans person's wants above their right to use language that comes naturally / is easy and which is accurate / true according to their own perception.

In KCSIE, statutory safeguarding guidance for schools, one of the definitions of emotional abuse of a child is where they are valued only insofar as they meet another's wants/needs. It may involve conveying to a child that they are worthless or unloved, inadequate, or valued only insofar as they meet the needs of another person

Let's not forget those who don't use 'preferred' wrong sex pronouns are often told they are worthless bigots.

Using wrong sex pronouns is not a matter of being kind, it is an assertion of superiority, dominance and control. As we've seen in this court case - there are ever more demands. It doesn't stop at she/her and woman now we're supposed to give up 'biological female'.

Also, if children are taught that some adults' wants override their need for accurate language it weakens safeguarding. If children can't say what's true and are trained to put someone else's needs first, how are they supposed to disclose abuse? Abusers will already be saying about all the dire consequences if they 'tell'. Gender ideology and preferred pronouns very much reinforces this type of dynamic, where the child's needs come last.

QueenProtea · 11/02/2025 08:22

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 10/02/2025 23:50

Uh, this is awful. I feel so sorry for Sandie Peggie. She is incredibly brave putting her head above the parapet and standing up for what imo the majority of people do think/believe (even if they aren’t always open about it for fear of being called Terfs or bigoted) - that a woman’s right to have same sex spaces is not trumped by someone’s belief that their gender overrides their biological sex.

Please can we stop mentioning the “male” pattern baldness though? Many biological women including myself suffer from androgenic alopecia - and often in photos it actually doesn’t look that different from the male version (we usually keep our hairline but it can still thin everywhere on top just like men).

From all the mentions on these threads of Beth Upton’s appearance, I was expecting her not to look at all female. To me in the photos I’ve seen she does - but that’s by the by as either way, I have no issue at all with her wanting to aesthetically present as a “woman” or using the name Beth or even wanting female pronouns.

But all that doesn’t actually make her a woman! The earth isn’t flat even though some people believe it is. That is the point imo, protecting our spaces and safety- not what Beth Upton looks like or even what she or others call herself.

Please don’t use she and her to refer to this man. After the complete shitshow yesterday where he made it clear his complete and utter contempt and hatred of women, I find it INCREDIBLY offensive for you to use female pronouns for him.

And the fact that you have done this on a feminism board is especially galling. There will be many women on here who have suffered, in many ways, at the hands of men, no matter how these men identify.

anyolddinosaur · 11/02/2025 08:23

Some comments were made about the judge sometimes saying "he". Legally Dr Upton is male. The judge is perfectly entitled to refer to him as male, since that is the legal position, but has opted to be kind because that was the advice given to judges to avoid accusation of bias.

Personally I think there is an argument that the initial advice given only to one side to consider what pronouns they use was prejudging the case. Add that to the judge's slip in using victim and he is edging closer to appeal threshold.

eulittleb831 · 11/02/2025 08:24

fanOfBen · 11/02/2025 08:11

Can any legal bods say, does anything we've seen so far look like grounds for SP to appeal if it goes against her? Most obviously, would all the late disclosures count as "did not follow the correct procedures" in this list?
https://www.gov.uk/appeal-employment-appeal-tribunal

I am confident the ET will determine these matters properly and correctly.

In terms of (alleged) "Sexual Discrimination," inherent in the Law and the wording is discrimination based on....... sexual characteristics.

For a twerp to claim to be a female, when having no sexual characteristics of a female, does not impact on SP's claim.

Theodore is painfully irritable. But it is the employer who is responsible for exposing her to this, if Theodore was told to use the female changing rooms because he said he was a female then SP should not have been exposed to being confronted or having to confront a male in a female changing room.

rebmacesrevda · 11/02/2025 08:25

anyolddinosaur · 11/02/2025 08:15

@rebmacesrevda There is nothing that peaks people faster than listening to trans activists. It's why NHS Fife tried so very hard to have this heard in private. I read a lot of discussion by TRAs when doing my initial research.

Many of the young people being affected are autistic and/or same sex attracted. Some have experienced child sex abuse. There are disproportionate numbers who are in care. These are often troubled young people who find a community that tells them they are wonderful and that they wont be troubled if they change their body. For a while it may work - and if it doesnt then you just need to change your body further or cut out of your life anyone not entirely supportive.

Yes it's a medical scandal to rival contaminated blood or thalidomide.

Yes, I knew about the correlation between neurodivergence and gender non-conformity. I am ND myself, and I don't internally identify with a gender. I was born female but I don't feel it's part of my identity. However, I fully accept my biological sex is female, because I'm not delusional! I certainly don't feel a need to change my body, or to force other people to say I'm something I'm not.

If this tribunal had been kept private as NHS Fife wanted, I would be continuing my life in blissful ignorance. People on here are talking about peaking ten years ago, and I can't believe how long I've been walking around with my eyes closed. Multitudes of people still are, while the authorities are pandering to this GI nonsense and eroding legal protections for women right under our noses. It's horrifying.

BezMills · 11/02/2025 08:26

I think letting Respondant 2 speak first was a good idea. Now we get to see what NHS Fife have to say.

hholiday · 11/02/2025 08:28

Weirdly, one of the only questions he permitted himself to answer (the question of his height) is actually one of the most relevant. Women do not fear men because they sometimes say stuff that hurts our feelings. We fear them because they generally have bigger, stronger bodies than we do and they frequently use that superior brute force to hurt us or kill us. I feel as if that point needs to be made more often - if a man decides to attack us, there is often very little that even the fittest and most agile of us can do about it. And it breaks my heart to think of SP trying to assert her rights in the face of this controlling individual. She is a remarkably brave woman.

RethinkingLife · 11/02/2025 08:29

Our regular reminder that only last year, women who objected to inappropriate pronoun usage were derided labelled as "ultras".

And this present proceeding is a manifestation of the harms. It's an outstanding example of where #BeKind and "Where's the harm?" have, logically and inevitably, have brought us.

JumpingPumpkin · 11/02/2025 08:29

First it was calling men "she" and "her" out of politeness for their feelings. What about the confusion it causes? Or that everyone is then trying to make sure they don't make a "mistake" and get called transphobic?

Then it was redefining the word woman as a social term that includes women and men who say they're women. Because we still had "female" to express someone's sex.

Then we have a nurse suspended for objecting to her single sex space being mixed sex. The man in her space said he's a "biological female" IN COURT.

Can you really not see where pronouns for politeness lead?

Datun · 11/02/2025 08:30

HarpyOfACertainAge · 11/02/2025 07:32

I haven't watched, just followed things on here. How do people think things will go for Sandie? The thing that worries me is that we can all see through his manipulation and his science-denying obfuscation because it's what TRAs do and we've seen it all before. But how will the judge view it? Perhaps he will be really convinced by what he is saying? We are watching on in horror, but maybe the judge will buy it all?

Because if this goes in DU's favour, then it is a judgement against biological reality, and we're f*cked. It is really worrying me.

Don't be worried. Win or lose, this has put the true extent of the batshit in front of mainstream media and therefore the country.

It's one thing for a lone individual to be this deluded, it's quite another to be supported by the NHS.

If the judge rules in this man's favour, the judge looks utterly idiotic, not to mention misogynistic.

And if Sandie loses, she can appeal. Maya Forstater lost the first time.

Trans ideology is running out of road, bit by bit. I sincerely hope Sandie wins, too. I can't imagine a world where she doesn't. But we'll get there in the end.

NebulousDog · 11/02/2025 08:31

I was trying to catch up in dribs and drabs, yesterday, so missed the legal admin.

Is NC doing day 2 of Upton today or are they slotting in the NHS lady with limited availability?

NotAGentleReminder · 11/02/2025 08:31

rebmacesrevda · 11/02/2025 07:22

24 hours ago, I had no issue with pronouns either. I thought, what's the harm? Let people call themselves what they want; live and let live.

After following the case yesterday, I now believe that pronouns are the thin end of the wedge. Pronouns are lies, albeit small and seemingly harmless ones. But pronouns are the start of the brainwashing that culminates in the complete denial of reality. Thank god NC was allowed to use male pronouns yesterday. If she had been forced to use female pronouns, everyone in the room and everyone watching would have been subjected to the denial of reality. Last week SP was asked if she realised that referring to Dr Upton as male would be hurtful. SP replied "It's the truth". She's not wrong, and this is the crux of everything. We are all being asked to avert our eyes while a small group of predatory men dismantle the rights of women that have been fought for and died for. This "debate" is not about identity. It's about power and control.

💯

fanOfBen · 11/02/2025 08:32

NebulousDog · 11/02/2025 08:31

I was trying to catch up in dribs and drabs, yesterday, so missed the legal admin.

Is NC doing day 2 of Upton today or are they slotting in the NHS lady with limited availability?

I think in summary we're confused. I think NHS person (Kate Searle) has been asked to be available this afternoon, but my money's on the whole of today being spent with Upton.

RayonSunrise · 11/02/2025 08:32

Taytoface · 11/02/2025 07:55

Have so been mulling on this overnight. I have not come across a legal issue before that seems to be being legislated not through the statute books, but via crowd sourced employment tribunal after employment tribunal.

This is such a shitty way to fix bad law. It depends on people like MF and SP having the gumption to go through it. It can only ever address a small number of issues at one time, e.g. the primacy of sex in single sex space, that GC beliefs are WORIADS,

As yesterday demonstrates we are so far down the GI rabbit hole, we need to do something about the law otherwise we will still be doing this shit a decade from now.

I actually think this is a huge strength of our pushback. Gender identity started off as a grassroots questioning of gender roles combined with growing acceptance of same-sex attraction - that's why it made its way into institutions with little resistance, because though people didn't understand EXACTLY what was being demanded we were all emerging from a genuinely oppressive set of attitudes towards gayness and gender nonconformity. So a lot of people were prepared to not understand, but to accept and get along.

Our kindness on that has now been proven to have been abused. Institutions have mindlessly undone women's rights to safety, dignity and privacy, when all they thought they were doing was letting a few unusually dressed people get on with their lives.

So I think it's good that the pushback is happening from the grassroots - a sensible course-correction from real people filtered through our laws, with more and more people now having the scales drop from their eyes about what' been allowed to happen. This is the sort of change that LASTS. Having a few politicians swan in and issue a few orders might have made things go faster, but it also would have brought out a counter-backlash from well-meaning people who just put it all down to transphobia.

Everyone needs to SEE, and cases like this are spelling out the problem far better than anything else. It also shows that the resistance is coming from real women, not just political talking heads and pundits with profiles to raise.

Skyellaskerry · 11/02/2025 08:33

Case being covered shortly on LBC.

OhBuggerandArse · 11/02/2025 08:33

Kevin McKenna's latest Herald article, here (sorry if it's already been posted, this is an archive link)

Does the judge have to refrain from reading media coverage or is it likely that he will be aware of how this is coming across in the papers?

https://archive.is/0tbiE

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/02/2025 08:34

Worse, it's for everyone to convincingly pretend to do so. Even while they and the doctor know they don't actually. Its about control and coercion. The 1984 analogy was absolutely perfect.

Exactly. I'm not sure he cares all that much that people believe it, just that they are forced to go along with it.

nauticant · 11/02/2025 08:34

BezMills · 11/02/2025 08:26

I think letting Respondant 2 speak first was a good idea. Now we get to see what NHS Fife have to say.

Yes. I think the case against R1 is the most significant one and the one with the best prospects and so setting that up with showing what Sandie Peggie had through no fault of her own walked in to with R2 (Upton) seems like a good way to present the case.

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EasternStandard · 11/02/2025 08:35

hholiday · 11/02/2025 08:28

Weirdly, one of the only questions he permitted himself to answer (the question of his height) is actually one of the most relevant. Women do not fear men because they sometimes say stuff that hurts our feelings. We fear them because they generally have bigger, stronger bodies than we do and they frequently use that superior brute force to hurt us or kill us. I feel as if that point needs to be made more often - if a man decides to attack us, there is often very little that even the fittest and most agile of us can do about it. And it breaks my heart to think of SP trying to assert her rights in the face of this controlling individual. She is a remarkably brave woman.

In all the nonsense his height question struck clarity

A 28 year old 6 ft male

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/02/2025 08:37

Kevin McKenna's latest Herald article, here (sorry if it's already been posted, this is an archive link)

That really is an excellent article.

FriedGold32 · 11/02/2025 08:37

I see the self proclaimed Ultras are on Twitter again moaning about Naomi's use of language, incredibly. I really find some of these people unbearable.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 11/02/2025 08:40

BonfireLady · 11/02/2025 07:43

This (and the post you quoted) is a key point for me in a nutshell: now that I've settled on atheism, I find much of religious belief to be non-sensical.

Transubstantiation, creationism, the idea that a virgin can give birth etc etc. If someone was in court expressing either a heartfelt or feigned belief that this was all true - much like Dr U and his belief that it's possible to be a female by way of self-ID and that biological sex is nebulous - then IMO it would sound completely mad. Not remotely WORIADS. Therefore, from an objective point of view, I'll accept that Dr U and others say that they hold a belief in gender identity and that it's just as WORIADS as any other belief that lots of people hold, or say they hold. But in both cases, "respectfully"** accepting that people hold a belief doesn't involve being forced to accept it as true.

Just as I wouldn't accept transubstantiated wine in blood banks, science lessons replacing the big bang with creationism, biology lessons teaching children that under some circumstances a human child can be conceived without sperm etc, I won't accept the Dr Us of this world forcing their belief onto society as if it's fact.

Thankfully Catholics, Protestants and others stopped all the religious enforcement in the UK a long time ago. Unfortunately, the radicalisation and harm (to self and others) associated with gender identity belief is more akin to how religion was historically enforced than the way that it fits in the UK today. Personally, I'd like to see gender identity belief viewed through a Prevent lens when it comes to children and young people being drawn towards it and how it might impact them.

But on the theme of this thread, the idea that the NHS thinks it makes sense to force non-believers to accept Dr U as a woman in women's changing rooms is appalling. Hopefully what we're seeing gradually happening in the UK is people waking up to the fact that gender identity belief is inherently extreme in and of itself, unlike common or garden religious belief, and it has tramped all over women's rights (men's too but to a lesser degree e.g. freedom of association for gay men where transmen are now self-IDing as gay men), freedom of speech and the safety of children and young people. Isla Bryson, women's sports, the Edinburgh Rape Crisis centre debacle, this NHS case and more all show it up for exactly what it is in relation to women's rights.

**I'll accept that it wasn't particularly respectful that I called both religious belief and gender identity belief mad when examined in detail. FWIW I don't do this IRL with either of them - I just say that I don't believe in god and I don't believe that we all have a gender identity.

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I need an "I agree with nearly all of this" icon!

myplace · 11/02/2025 08:40

@rebmacesrevda people have been heavily invested in you walking around in ignorance, to be fair. Hence the various deceptive headlines and news reporting where ‘women’ have committed appalling crimes and been sent to women’s prison with very little awareness of what was happening because- she/her/woman.

You may not be aware the feminism board was divided in two so that some people could avoid seeing the conversation.
Threads on AIBU and chat were moved to feminism, aka the naughty corner, so our ‘bigotry’ wasn’t exposed.

Now to see several threads in trending and on active while still being in feminism- it’s a triumph for visibility and education.

FWR has been fighting censorship and heavy handed moderation for years. Women have left and started other platforms over it.

However, gradually the ground has stabilised and we have been allowed to talk almost freely. We still have ‘monitors’ who rush to report if you use an incorrect pronoun or make a sweeping statement about men who like to wear women’s clothes for any reason at all. There are even code words. 🤣

Priddy · 11/02/2025 08:40

FriedGold32 · 11/02/2025 08:37

I see the self proclaimed Ultras are on Twitter again moaning about Naomi's use of language, incredibly. I really find some of these people unbearable.

Who? I'm on Twitter, I hadn't noticed. I'd call myself an ultra, in that I think there's no compromise possible with TRAs.

Waitingfordoggo · 11/02/2025 08:41

Thanks brilliant MNers for these threads. Have been dipping in and out but so hard to keep up! I've got access now so I'll be logging in for a look later this morning after work and errands!

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