Spot on. Pronouns are anti-safeguarding lies. If adults do it, children are expected to do it too.
Wrong-sex pronouns place the person who's getting them above the person providing them. The person providing them is supposed to put the trans person's wants above their right to use language that comes naturally / is easy and which is accurate / true according to their own perception.
In KCSIE, statutory safeguarding guidance for schools, one of the definitions of emotional abuse of a child is where they are valued only insofar as they meet another's wants/needs. It may involve conveying to a child that they are worthless or unloved, inadequate, or valued only insofar as they meet the needs of another person
Let's not forget those who don't use 'preferred' wrong sex pronouns are often told they are worthless bigots.
Using wrong sex pronouns is not a matter of being kind, it is an assertion of superiority, dominance and control. As we've seen in this court case - there are ever more demands. It doesn't stop at she/her and woman now we're supposed to give up 'biological female'.
Also, if children are taught that some adults' wants override their need for accurate language it weakens safeguarding. If children can't say what's true and are trained to put someone else's needs first, how are they supposed to disclose abuse? Abusers will already be saying about all the dire consequences if they 'tell'. Gender ideology and preferred pronouns very much reinforces this type of dynamic, where the child's needs come last.