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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #10

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nauticant · 10/02/2025 15:51

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 February 2025 and is expected to continue for 2 weeks. The hearing commenced with Sandie Peggie giving evidence. Dr Beth Upton started giving evidence on Thursday 6 February.

Access to view the hearing remotely can be obtained by sending an email request to [email protected] headed Public Access Request (Peggie v Fife Health Board) 4104864/2024 and requesting access.

The hearing is being live tweeted by https://x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.is/xkSxy.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: https://nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

Thread 1: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5186317-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse
Thread 2: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5267591-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-thread-2
Thread 3: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268347-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-3
Thread 4: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268942-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-4
Thread 5: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269149-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-5
Thread 6: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269635-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-6
Thread 7: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5270365-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-7
Thread 8: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271511-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-8
Thread 9: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271596-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-9

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yourhairiswinterfire · 10/02/2025 16:56

Taytoface · 10/02/2025 16:43

I am just thinking, how exactly would a patient avoid having him physically examine them if they want a female physician.

I want a woman doctor , he is a woman, so he's in

I want a literal woman, yep, he is that too

I want a biological female, he can tick that box

I don't want a man. Nope, he ain't no man.

It would have to be something along the lines of I want a female doctor but not one who was assigned male at birth. Then, maybe then, he would concede.

Edited

Based on his performance today, he'd probably stand there wearing that hideous smirk of his pretending he doesn't understand what they mean and won't do unless they use the language of his daft ideology.

MarieDeGournay · 10/02/2025 16:57

There have been a couple of posters who talked about difficult things going on in their lives, like caring for a mother with dementia. In a less frenetic thread, you'd have received expressions of support, but it all moved on so fasts!
so sending retrospective Flowerss to anybody going through hard times x

Bluebootsgreenboots · 10/02/2025 16:57

@NotAGentleReminder
I'm in the same situ. I've had all these conversations in the kitchen with my TI DC, and am still stunned at the rapid personality change, as well as the nonsensical insistence on so many things. So today's evidence has been a bit upsetting, but at least DU has to answer the questions. My DC would just escalate the conversation into an argument and then run away.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2025 16:57

There is @Taytoface I agree, because to him "female" means mystical ladyfeelz which are unknowable by anyone else. He doesn't accept that sex exists.

NotAGentleReminder · 10/02/2025 16:57

Taytoface · 10/02/2025 16:06

Amazing viewing tho this is, I am not sure citing him as a respondent will pay off. He has not put a fucking foot wrong. Most would have crumbled under this questioning. He has been largely calm and collected. He is a true believer, so has been entirely internally consistent. He is very articulate, and precise in his answers.

To some people he will seem to be so very reasonable. And Sandie maybe a bit of a bigoted harridan who could have handled herself differently.

I wonder whether going up just against the Trust would have been better?

Surely he's only going to seem reasonable to fellow zealot lunatics?

RaspberryScrubs · 10/02/2025 16:58

Bluebootsgreenboots hug for you, too.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2025 16:59

I think that the queer theorists are using the TWAW crowd to push us to a position where we give up our separate- and single-sex spaces for the very reason you outline. The Malaga crowd won't be happy, but the queer theorists want to remove all boundaries

Exactly this. There is a fundamental conflict there.

Manxexile · 10/02/2025 16:59

ickky · 10/02/2025 16:25

After watching quite a few of these hearing, it does not surprise me in the least all the time wasting.

It is infuriating and boring, but they all with the exception of Judge Goodman dilly dally and waste astronomical amounts of time.

I can understand why it takes so long to get a court date.

I don't understand why UK court times seem to be 10am to 4pm with an hour for lunch and a couple of 10 minute breaks.

I watch quite a lot of US trials livestreamed on You Tube and they mostly seem to run from 9am to 5pm, but some go from 8am to 5pm

Also Youtube much better audio and visual cover in general, but audio sometimes a problem. Judges constantly telling witnesses and counsel to speak into the microphone.

EasternStandard · 10/02/2025 17:00

It really is a glimpse into an awful scenario where women lose language and the ability to talk about basic sex clearly

I think having him on the stand has shown his need to dominate

His male behaviour writ large

WhatterySquash · 10/02/2025 17:00

Taytoface · 10/02/2025 16:55

It is. He is female, and is biological. Therefore he is a biological female. It is bonkers, but I think there is some internal consistency there.

However he also says sex is complicated/nebulous/there's no agreed definition. In that case why does he think there is a women's CR, surely that makes no sense according to his beliefs? if it's all so nebulous, a spectrum, undefined etc how can he define himself as female if females can't? And if sex is so unimportant and nebulous, why does it matter to him that he's in one CR and not another?

The consistent approach whould be that everyone belongs in one big CR, or in a private room on their own.

Taytoface · 10/02/2025 17:01

NotAGentleReminder · 10/02/2025 16:57

Surely he's only going to seem reasonable to fellow zealot lunatics?

You'd hope so, but we got to this place because some people swallow this tripe, and men like Dr U do a good show of being reasonable and just wanting to pee in peace.

Whether we like it or not, there are many people who either agree with him, or just think women should shut up and budge up.

Seeing him in action has helped me understand how we have gotten to this batshit mental place.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 10/02/2025 17:01

FiveBarGate · 10/02/2025 16:56

If you are a fan of the JKR Strike books (and not watching directly) is your metal image also Will Ensor lecturing Robin about church doctrine on the vegetable patch.

Feels like DU has suppressed all sense to buy in fully to things that contradict each other and make no sense, but uses an above average intelligence to argue ferociously with anyone questioning any of it.

No. Will was clinging to a doctrine that had become part of him, he had doubts deep down, and was at heart a good person.

Upton has no doubts and no redeeming features.

nauticant · 10/02/2025 17:01

Let's see if this ends up being relevant:

https://www.dacbeachcroft.com/en/What-we-think/Tribunal-practice-Employment-tribunal-hearings-will-be-recorded-and-transcribed-from-20-November

A transcript, if available, will cost a great deal but would be worth it.

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EasternStandard · 10/02/2025 17:02

I'm glad the biological female line is leading the headline

Although BBC won't I'm guessing

NotAGentleReminder · 10/02/2025 17:03

Enough4me · 10/02/2025 16:14

If he's a true believer he needs to be removed from the GMC records and given psychiatric help as sex change does not exist.

Unfortunately the GMC would allow him to be on their register as female.

Datun · 10/02/2025 17:03

MarieDeGournay · 10/02/2025 16:43

As I said upthread, I can't wait for NC to find out how this man was reduced to being a weeping wilting flower by SP walking out. Or was it staying in? And not saying anything to him. Or was it saying something to him?....

Yes, the cognitive dissonance is going to be pretty spectacular.

This guy? This is the same guy??

OhBuggerandArse · 10/02/2025 17:04

NotAGentleReminder · 10/02/2025 16:52

Still catching up. All the TRA shite that has come out of Upton's mouth today in response to NC's questions, I have heard come out of my own trans-identifying now adult child's mouth (except 'you have to say I am a man because I say so' as she is female). The change in personality, this smug controlling persona I don't recognise, it's all very familiar. I've noticed the girls who adopt trans identities appear to aspire to be like the men who claim to be women. The whole thing is male-dominated.
Reading it all on here today has been quite hard. It's been going on here for over three years. I have not capitulated. She stopped talking to me four months ago. I am the only person as far as I am aware that has not affirmed my daughter's male identity and I hold everyone who has done so responsible for her ongoing dependence on identifying this way and her brainwashed state. And the internet.

Oh that must be so hard. This ideology poisons everything it touches. Thoughts with you.

peakedtraybake · 10/02/2025 17:04

Listening to him made me wonder if the TRA viewpoint can possibly be WORIADS. It feels Alice in wonderland - words mean exactly what I want them to, and there's not a word for what used to be known as women because it's undefinable.

But, although it seems crazy to me, perhaps it is consistent?

Only though if there are no exceptions ever to self ID. Any exceptions, and there is no consistency and it falls apart. Hence big hairy Pete being she, if he just says he's a she. But was there a hint of Isla Bryson being rapist gender? In which case, BU's beliefs can't be WORIADS?

MarieDeGournay · 10/02/2025 17:04

Thank you Nauticant who started this thread - I had to check, I thought it was Hellebore this time, maybe that was the last one, thank you both anyway!- and to all you nimble-fingered reporters.
Did your parents say to you, as mine did to me 'Learn how to type - it will stand you in good stead later'? I bet they didn't have this in mind😄

rebmacesrevda · 10/02/2025 17:05

I've always been one for "Live and Let Live", but I have to draw the line at the denial of reality exhibited today. I'm astounded this person got through medical school while clearly being a delusional fantasist. There's so much I want to say but I'm simultaneously lost for words.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 10/02/2025 17:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2025 16:59

I think that the queer theorists are using the TWAW crowd to push us to a position where we give up our separate- and single-sex spaces for the very reason you outline. The Malaga crowd won't be happy, but the queer theorists want to remove all boundaries

Exactly this. There is a fundamental conflict there.

Obviously the logical and fair solution is three spaces - two single sex (not gender) one mixed sex and gender neutral / fluid / whatever.

Edited to add: though I'd still draw the line at any HCP who doesn't recognise that the reality of biological sex matters and will not respect patients requests for same sex HCPs, which given DU is claiming he's female, he clearly wouldn't do.

Lunde · 10/02/2025 17:06

CorruptedCauldron · 10/02/2025 16:41

Reading these threads, it sounds like DU is coming across as a tub-thumping activist and not a poor sweet little TW just trying to live a quiet life. Stubborn, entitled, openly denying biological reality, and trying to assert his “dominance” over NC. It sounds like he’s not afraid of anyone or anything. Will he lose sympathy as a result I wonder, or will he become a folk hero for the pronoun posse?

DU's evidence to the ET today about the conflict in the changing room came across as robust, argumentative, intransigent and refused to back down - quite the contract to the "poor vulnerable TW" who minutes later ran around A&E to find the consultant on duty - crying and shaking - to complain that this incident was a "hate crime" and needed to be escorted to their car because they were "afraid".

chilling19 · 10/02/2025 17:06

What struck me the most was when NC said he was trying to dominate her (over the language issue). I am sure all women could immediately imagine Sandie standing in that changing room asking him to try and understand. She must have been terrified.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2025 17:07

Obviously the logical and fair solution is three spaces - two single sex (not gender) one mixed sex and gender neutral / fluid / whatever.

It is, but many of these people consider it traumatic to be reminded that sex exists at all.

WhatterySquash · 10/02/2025 17:08

Bluebootsgreenboots · 10/02/2025 16:57

@NotAGentleReminder
I'm in the same situ. I've had all these conversations in the kitchen with my TI DC, and am still stunned at the rapid personality change, as well as the nonsensical insistence on so many things. So today's evidence has been a bit upsetting, but at least DU has to answer the questions. My DC would just escalate the conversation into an argument and then run away.

I sympathise too. My DD although young is very GC, though tolerant of her friends' pronouns. My older DS is on the GI side and it really shocks me because he has a very incisive mind and a good nose for logical fallacy in most situations. Talking to him about it is beyond frustrating because he will not listen, or accept that any evidence-based view could just be about reality and fairness rather than being "anti-trans", or that I have no issue with trans people per se, it's only because I'm being expected to lose my rights and change definitions that I'm not happy. He's swallowed all kinds of pseudoscience and it's so unlike him. I just hope he'll grow out of it but it's so disconcerting to see.

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