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NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #10

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nauticant · 10/02/2025 15:51

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 February 2025 and is expected to continue for 2 weeks. The hearing commenced with Sandie Peggie giving evidence. Dr Beth Upton started giving evidence on Thursday 6 February.

Access to view the hearing remotely can be obtained by sending an email request to [email protected] headed Public Access Request (Peggie v Fife Health Board) 4104864/2024 and requesting access.

The hearing is being live tweeted by https://x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.is/xkSxy.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: https://nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

Thread 1: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5186317-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse
Thread 2: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5267591-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-thread-2
Thread 3: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268347-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-3
Thread 4: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268942-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-4
Thread 5: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269149-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-5
Thread 6: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269635-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-6
Thread 7: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5270365-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-7
Thread 8: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271511-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-8
Thread 9: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271596-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-9

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bluenova · 10/02/2025 16:45

It's subtle but in my experience men are more vulgar than women so he was right to notice his vernacular didn't match his "identity"

frenchnoodle · 10/02/2025 16:45

SernieBanders · 10/02/2025 16:43

Can anyone, give an unbiased estimate of who is likely to come out on top with this? Finger in the air?

No one can say. But I'd say there's enough here already for an appeal if it does go sp's way.

FallenSloppyDead · 10/02/2025 16:45

CorruptedCauldron · 10/02/2025 16:41

Reading these threads, it sounds like DU is coming across as a tub-thumping activist and not a poor sweet little TW just trying to live a quiet life. Stubborn, entitled, openly denying biological reality, and trying to assert his “dominance” over NC. It sounds like he’s not afraid of anyone or anything. Will he lose sympathy as a result I wonder, or will he become a folk hero for the pronoun posse?

Folk hero for the pronoun posse, useful tool for the gender theorists, dangerous narcissist for all the women he treats and, hopefully, mad as a box of frogs to everyone else

Hereagaintoday · 10/02/2025 16:45

WhatAMessWales · 10/02/2025 16:14

I think both can be true. I think he has handled these questions very well, by his own standards. It's been very interesting to hear the completely insane Twitter/Reddit activist positions expressed so articulately. I imagine he'll be feeling very pleased with himself for having laid out his position without compromising anywhere on language or any points. I don't think that's going to work in his favour though.

Yes, like the disastrous TV interview Prince Andrew which he came out of thinking he had done really well.

BraveFacesEveryone · 10/02/2025 16:46

Are we still going? Just finished some calls
and wondering if it’s worth rejoining at this stage. Looks like I’ve missed quite a bit…

CriticalCondition · 10/02/2025 16:47

Until today I was 'just' angry at him. Today he scared me. His refusal to answer and insistence that NC stop using her language and use his instead was utterly chilling.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/02/2025 16:47

Having heard the unbelievable level of entitlement, self righteousness smuggery & arguing black was white, I’m assuming Searles defence will be “did you hear him?? He’s obvious off his rocker and there’s no way I could upset him, I mean look what he does!”

dr Upton not understanding that women give on to him because he has a very male level of confidence and entitlement

frenchnoodle · 10/02/2025 16:47

BraveFacesEveryone · 10/02/2025 16:46

Are we still going? Just finished some calls
and wondering if it’s worth rejoining at this stage. Looks like I’ve missed quite a bit…

They have been told to wrap things up.

FallenSloppyDead · 10/02/2025 16:47

Taytoface · 10/02/2025 16:43

I am just thinking, how exactly would a patient avoid having him physically examine them if they want a female physician.

I want a woman doctor , he is a woman, so he's in

I want a literal woman, yep, he is that too

I want a biological female, he can tick that box

I don't want a man. Nope, he ain't no man.

It would have to be something along the lines of I want a female doctor but not one who was assigned male at birth. Then, maybe then, he would concede.

Edited

They want us to use their language.

WearyAuldWumman · 10/02/2025 16:47

HedgeSplodge · 10/02/2025 16:42

I keep seeing posters saying this, so I'll say that in my experience the word pee is used universally by Scottish men and women. Wee is never used. Wee means little.
Not arguing he doesn't speak a load of rubbish, but on this point he is correct to say pee.
(Unless there are variations within Scotland which I'd of course possible).

I'm older - in my 60s - so I cringe any time a doctor asks me about 'pee' or 'peeing'. I was well schooled by my working-class mother (Fife) that you refer to 'passing water' when you're at the doctor's.

Certainly 'wee' in the context of urinating sounds very middle-class English [as in 'emanating from England'] to me.

I loathe the use of the word 'pooh' on NHS Scotland websites and information leaflets these days. (Yes, had to do my 3 yearly bowel cancer test before Christmas.) My mother would not have approved at all!

fanOfBen · 10/02/2025 16:47

SernieBanders · 10/02/2025 16:43

Can anyone, give an unbiased estimate of who is likely to come out on top with this? Finger in the air?

I don't know who will win the case - I think that will turn quite a lot on legal definitions (what exactly is harrassment etc). In the court of public opinion, we'll come out on top, for certain sure. People are peaking all round the country with every news item about the case.

AlisonDonut · 10/02/2025 16:48

Oh my christ.

I was very glad to have spent most of this afternoon slam wedging clay because the whole 'I'm a biological woman' schtick was infuriating. It really is hard to know how to say any words when they are twisted and contorted so much. Anyone who knows anything about control and domination can see this a mile off. Well done to NC for pointing that out.

fanOfBen · 10/02/2025 16:50

frenchnoodle · 10/02/2025 16:45

No one can say. But I'd say there's enough here already for an appeal if it does go sp's way.

Edited

Do you mean if it does, or if it doesn't? I'm not seeing what the argument would be on Upton's side for an appeal?

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 10/02/2025 16:50

Datun · 10/02/2025 16:37

Well if Naomi wanted to demonstrate that this man is controlling, dominating, brooks no argument, doesn't give a shit about consent, doesn't understand sex discrimination, has absolutely no affinity with or for women, and believes that the feelings in his head trump reality, then I'd say she's done a bloody bang up job.

Back from picking up small humans grown in and birthed from my female body.

Thank you for this summary Datun.

I would say I'm sorry i had to miss it but it wasn't doing my blood pressure any good.

Is it safe to say he's given a good explanation of why women particularly don't want this kind of man in their spaces?

I want single sex spaces, but more than that, I want organisations to stop lying to me and their female employees about spaces that they've labelled single sex but actually are mixed sex - this is a massive safeguarding failure and it takes the ability of women to risk assess for themselves and their children away.

I definitely don't want to have to share mixed sex spaces with only the type of man that thinks woman is a feeling at best and a porn category at worst and that women should always be subservient to his needs and beliefs and that their beliefs - even if a majority belief - don't matter. I don't want to share spaces with men who are so completely untethered from reality that they'll put me and my children in danger rather than accept reality exists.

I'd rather just have a completely mixed sex and honestly so with at least a reasonable chance that there will be some decent blokes in there too to act as a buffer and reduce the chance that the males that don't recognise a female's right to say 'no' will overstep and bully. Because we know that this happens and apparently, with the encouragement of the NHS in this case.

frenchnoodle · 10/02/2025 16:50

fanOfBen · 10/02/2025 16:50

Do you mean if it does, or if it doesn't? I'm not seeing what the argument would be on Upton's side for an appeal?

Sorry I meant doesn't.

NotAGentleReminder · 10/02/2025 16:52

Chrysanthemum5 · 10/02/2025 15:58

I can only imagine he wore down his family by endless repetition of his politics. We've only had to listen for a few days to him and I am heartily sick of him and his pedantic nature

Still catching up. All the TRA shite that has come out of Upton's mouth today in response to NC's questions, I have heard come out of my own trans-identifying now adult child's mouth (except 'you have to say I am a man because I say so' as she is female). The change in personality, this smug controlling persona I don't recognise, it's all very familiar. I've noticed the girls who adopt trans identities appear to aspire to be like the men who claim to be women. The whole thing is male-dominated.
Reading it all on here today has been quite hard. It's been going on here for over three years. I have not capitulated. She stopped talking to me four months ago. I am the only person as far as I am aware that has not affirmed my daughter's male identity and I hold everyone who has done so responsible for her ongoing dependence on identifying this way and her brainwashed state. And the internet.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2025 16:52

Well if Naomi wanted to demonstrate that this man is controlling, dominating, brooks no argument, doesn't give a shit about consent, doesn't understand sex discrimination, has absolutely no affinity with or for women, and believes that the feelings in his head trump reality, then I'd say she's done a bloody bang up job.

She underlined it by pretty much summing it up like that just before the end today.

MarieDeGournay · 10/02/2025 16:53

NotAGentleReminder · 10/02/2025 16:52

Still catching up. All the TRA shite that has come out of Upton's mouth today in response to NC's questions, I have heard come out of my own trans-identifying now adult child's mouth (except 'you have to say I am a man because I say so' as she is female). The change in personality, this smug controlling persona I don't recognise, it's all very familiar. I've noticed the girls who adopt trans identities appear to aspire to be like the men who claim to be women. The whole thing is male-dominated.
Reading it all on here today has been quite hard. It's been going on here for over three years. I have not capitulated. She stopped talking to me four months ago. I am the only person as far as I am aware that has not affirmed my daughter's male identity and I hold everyone who has done so responsible for her ongoing dependence on identifying this way and her brainwashed state. And the internet.

That sounds really difficult NotAGentleReminderFlowers

popefully · 10/02/2025 16:54

Whoever said 'at least he's internally consistent' - well he's not even that. He has said several times he's female and biologically female, then denied there is such a thing.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 10/02/2025 16:54

CriticalCondition · 10/02/2025 16:47

Until today I was 'just' angry at him. Today he scared me. His refusal to answer and insistence that NC stop using her language and use his instead was utterly chilling.

Yes, I'd agree. Before I left to pick up small humans, I was scared.

THIS is the type of man who the left think we should have rule over us. Utterly terrifying. It's absolutely Orwellian. He wants biological women to have no right to self define at all.

RaspberryScrubs · 10/02/2025 16:55

NotAGentleReminder so hard, big hug for you.

FallenSloppyDead · 10/02/2025 16:55

@themostspecialelfintheworkshop I'd rather just have a completely mixed sex and honestly so with at least a reasonable chance that there will be some decent blokes in there too to act as a buffer and reduce the chance that the males that don't recognise a female's right to say 'no' will overstep and bully.

I think that the queer theorists are using the TWAW crowd to push us to a position where we give up our separate- and single-sex spaces for the very reason you outline. The Malaga crowd won't be happy, but the queer theorists want to remove all boundaries

Taytoface · 10/02/2025 16:55

popefully · 10/02/2025 16:54

Whoever said 'at least he's internally consistent' - well he's not even that. He has said several times he's female and biologically female, then denied there is such a thing.

It is. He is female, and is biological. Therefore he is a biological female. It is bonkers, but I think there is some internal consistency there.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 10/02/2025 16:55

I think DU really showed everyone that gender ideology is inherently abusive with no respect for anyone who does not agree to going along with its demands. It's comply or be damned.

FiveBarGate · 10/02/2025 16:56

If you are a fan of the JKR Strike books (and not watching directly) is your metal image also Will Ensor lecturing Robin about church doctrine on the vegetable patch.

Feels like DU has suppressed all sense to buy in fully to things that contradict each other and make no sense, but uses an above average intelligence to argue ferociously with anyone questioning any of it.

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