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Trans remembrance flags and SNP renews support for LGBTYS

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WandsOut · 26/12/2024 22:57

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14226129/Trans-remembrance-flags-flown-public-buildings.html

What is going on here.
Why are they so determined to support LGBTYS and trans young people - who is driving this?

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sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 10:53

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 10:40

And asking why - when it's not done for any other community, save for war veterans (which is obviously right and appropriate as they have their lives for others).

Asking why does not mean the asker thinks the group are awful people/ deserve to die/ whatever other words you want to put in our mouths.

It's a genuine question. Because comemoratiing this thing that doesn't happen lends weight to the false narrative that trans people are more at risk from violence and suicide than other groups and therefore need special treatment (women's rights) because they have such a hard time.

I don't understand why you can't see this false narrative at work. Perhaps the cognitive dissonance is too painful.

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But it does happen during pride month with rainbow/progress flags? and there is also usually an official response during other special "days" (black history, holocaust memorial, int day of the child, etc) for groups who dont have flags that are so recognisably associated with them so flying a flag would be inappropriate?

This isnt a pile on, im not trying to put words in anyones mouth! i just dont see the issue with this particular decision

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 10:53

Reetpetitenot · 29/12/2024 07:11

'A total of nine trans people were murdered in the UK between 2008 and 2017 using unofficial data according to 4 news. That’s an average rate of one victim per year. Again the UK is not Scotland but does include it so you can't say no Scottish trans people have been murdered truthfully without any evidence.'

By your figures therefore trans people are far less likely to be murdered than any other group..

Surely if a trans person had been murdered in Scotland, TRAs would be hollering from the rooftops? Yet there's not a peep.

And i suspect that one murder involved an intimate partner...and was not a random street attack.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 11:05

sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 10:53

But it does happen during pride month with rainbow/progress flags? and there is also usually an official response during other special "days" (black history, holocaust memorial, int day of the child, etc) for groups who dont have flags that are so recognisably associated with them so flying a flag would be inappropriate?

This isnt a pile on, im not trying to put words in anyones mouth! i just dont see the issue with this particular decision

You can create a 'community' out of any shared characteristic. Why not have a community of those whose homes have been destroyed by flooding; or perhaps one for men over the age of 60 with autism; or one for business owners whose businesses were destroyed by the lockdown?

Each group can have a flag and a motto - to really solidify their group identity.....and then they can each demand additional funding from the government to deal with their particular disadvantage; plus maybe better representation in films and TV and more favourable treatment by the mainstream media - resulting in their unique special needs being recognised and validated. New laws could be created to punish anyone who makes light of their particular suffering......

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

MarieDeGournay · 29/12/2024 11:22

Nobody condones murder, and all violent deaths are tragedies to the loved ones of the deceased. So SparklyTurtle's
'Wow, an open admission that people here don't care about violence against transgender people because people speak up against transphobia.'
is unsubstantiated.

The issue is the flying of a flag on public buildings to commemorate a group or event. The range of permitted flags is restricted by planning regulations, as a PP pointed out.

I'm not a UK subject, so it's not my call, but I'd be quite happy for The Town and Country Planning (Control of Advertisements) (England) Regulations 2007 to be enforced strictly. So no pride, progress or trans flags on public buildings full stop.

But according to SparklyTurtle
Civilised nations have been flying flags, remembering people of oppressed groups and standing against discrimination for years. Why should the transgender people murdered for being transgender be any different?
and seems to be answering that question with 'because, wow, transphobia'.

Here are three more realistic answers :

  1. transgender people are not an oppressed group in Scotland.
  2. transgender people are not officially discriminated against in Scotland.
  3. there have been no recorded cases of people being murdered for being transgender in Scotland.
AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 12:08

sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 10:53

But it does happen during pride month with rainbow/progress flags? and there is also usually an official response during other special "days" (black history, holocaust memorial, int day of the child, etc) for groups who dont have flags that are so recognisably associated with them so flying a flag would be inappropriate?

This isnt a pile on, im not trying to put words in anyones mouth! i just dont see the issue with this particular decision

OK, so you are lumping celebrations (pride, black history , etc) in with memorials?

Can you see that even in this conversation we have an issue, which is defining what, exactly, we are talking about and why.

The issue was that some people believe, myself included, that there is no need for a public memorial to something that didn't happen.

I can't believe you're now suggesting that because holocaust Memorial day is remembered by some organisations, we should remember the trans non genocide?

Can you not see that by conflating the two, you yourself are giving credence to the false 'trans genocide' narrative?

Dear God it's like pulling teeth. Don't they teach critical thinking in schools these days?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 12:10

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 11:05

You can create a 'community' out of any shared characteristic. Why not have a community of those whose homes have been destroyed by flooding; or perhaps one for men over the age of 60 with autism; or one for business owners whose businesses were destroyed by the lockdown?

Each group can have a flag and a motto - to really solidify their group identity.....and then they can each demand additional funding from the government to deal with their particular disadvantage; plus maybe better representation in films and TV and more favourable treatment by the mainstream media - resulting in their unique special needs being recognised and validated. New laws could be created to punish anyone who makes light of their particular suffering......

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This, with bells on!

Greyskybluesky · 29/12/2024 12:22

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Where are you quoting from?

SinnerBoy · 29/12/2024 13:28

Christinapple · Today 11:14

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Mention of homosexuality wasn't forbidden. It was covered on more than one occasion, when I was at high school, during the 80s.

PinkoPonko · 29/12/2024 13:35

The SNP can pay lip service to the alphabet soup all they want, but we all know how most same-sex attracted people and women who question the Gender Identity Cult are treated.

Hoardasurass · 29/12/2024 13:38

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 12:21

Not true. Granted the statistics in the article only mention Europe as a whole but you can't categorically state that no one in Scotland has been killed.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/jamiewareham/2024/11/16/350-transgender-people-murdered-in-2024-will-the-violence-ever-end/

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Yes we can there has be zero recorded murders of transgender persons in Scotland since records began

Rainuntilseptember15 · 29/12/2024 13:43

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

This doesn't reflect what teaching was actually like in the 90s. I was never prevented from teaching about homophobia, for example.

Hoardasurass · 29/12/2024 13:56

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 16:46

The fact that transgender people are victims of violence is not a bold claim it is true. As evidenced by the link.

I didn't say that that there were definitely trans deaths in Scotland, I said there were trans deaths in Europe as a whole and it cannot be asserted that none of these were in Scotland. You can't know because the statistics on transgender people being murdered are not officially recorded.

A total of nine trans people were murdered in the UK between 2008 and 2017 using unofficial data according to 4 news. That’s an average rate of one victim per year. Again the UK is not Scotland but does include it so you can't say no Scottish trans people have been murdered truthfully without any evidence.

But as I said, even if it is not in Scotland it's on the doorstep so why should Scotland not care about this issue?

Nothing I have said is untrue. You just decided it is because you didn't like what I said.

Every single 1 of those deaths can be named and their place of death is recorded none were in Scotland. Oh and we do keep records of trans murders in Scotland as was admitted in the Scottish Parliament by the then justice secretary humza yousef. So please stop trying to twist facts to paint a false narrative of trans murders in Scotland when none have ever occurred. Trans people are the only group never to have been murdered in Scotland and as such are the safest and have no right to a flag being flown or a day of remembrance but women and children do

CrossPurposes · 29/12/2024 14:17

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Not at all true. Maybe you'll read what Peter Tatchell had to say in 1998: www.petertatchell.net/lgbt_rights/section28/hype/

Yes, section 28 was absolutely homophobic but the topic was never forbidden in schools.

SinnerBoy · 29/12/2024 14:52

It was the "promotion" which was forbidden, not any mention.

SkiingonKaraSea · 29/12/2024 17:28

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 10:53

And i suspect that one murder involved an intimate partner...and was not a random street attack.

If I remember correctly at least two were murdered by transgender partners, others were murdered for drug debts. None due to ‘transphobia’.

IwantToRetire · 29/12/2024 17:50

Just to repeat but in a different way what I said at the start of this thread.

Why is Scotland, or any where else deciding that trans issues are important when (as many have suggested) there are any number of communities who dont get the recognition.

And in the instance of women, has anyone seen any council, government or whatever fly a flag of rememberance for women on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. Women are killed in their homes, when walking down roads to get home, and are the first victims in areas of war and famine.

That is what this is about.

What sort of statement does that say to the community as a whole. That only some violent deaths are important.

And, as said earlier, what message is Scotland thinking it is sending by promoting one group above all others.

It is ridiculous and insulting.

FrippEnos · 29/12/2024 18:31

IwantToRetire · 29/12/2024 17:50

Just to repeat but in a different way what I said at the start of this thread.

Why is Scotland, or any where else deciding that trans issues are important when (as many have suggested) there are any number of communities who dont get the recognition.

And in the instance of women, has anyone seen any council, government or whatever fly a flag of rememberance for women on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. Women are killed in their homes, when walking down roads to get home, and are the first victims in areas of war and famine.

That is what this is about.

What sort of statement does that say to the community as a whole. That only some violent deaths are important.

And, as said earlier, what message is Scotland thinking it is sending by promoting one group above all others.

It is ridiculous and insulting.

Just to add to this

Is there any actual evidence of trans people being a marginalised group?

When you see footage of Trans people marching there is rarely any group of people vocally abusing them, yet when you look at let women speak you can see actual violence and abuse being hurled at the speakers.

The same goes for toilets, is there any evidence that they are unsafe in men's toilets or is it just feels?
There is a lot of evidence that women are not as safe from trans women as some would have us believe with some trans women attacking women in toilets and plenty of YouTube videos by the trans lobby threatening people with violence if they are prevented from using women's toilets.

But we are just supposed to ignore this?

Datun · 29/12/2024 18:39

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

What topic? Homosexuality?

Like telling lesbians they're sexual racists for being homosexual?

Oh no, wait, that's genderists, not LGB people.

lcakethereforeIam · 29/12/2024 20:12

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Kicked off Tinder for saying she's not interested in men, even if those men claim to be lesbians

That homophobia?

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TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 30/12/2024 04:40

SinnerBoy · 29/12/2024 14:52

It was the "promotion" which was forbidden, not any mention.

Sec 28 was a very clever piece of rhetoric.

It's worth queer activists remembering, when they try to make reality all about language in politics and law, that conservatives have proven better at that than progressives.

sadmillenial · 30/12/2024 07:11

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 12:08

OK, so you are lumping celebrations (pride, black history , etc) in with memorials?

Can you see that even in this conversation we have an issue, which is defining what, exactly, we are talking about and why.

The issue was that some people believe, myself included, that there is no need for a public memorial to something that didn't happen.

I can't believe you're now suggesting that because holocaust Memorial day is remembered by some organisations, we should remember the trans non genocide?

Can you not see that by conflating the two, you yourself are giving credence to the false 'trans genocide' narrative?

Dear God it's like pulling teeth. Don't they teach critical thinking in schools these days?

i don't think i ever described a trans genocide or even alluded to it, that's a very unfair suggestion. i just said there was precedent for govt action (including flags on building) for other global days of remembrance/advocacy for other communities.

its hard enough to talk about this because of the strength of feeling on all sides of the discussion, we shouldn't make it harder by misrepresenting what has been said.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/12/2024 09:24

i don't think i ever described a trans genocide or even alluded to it, that's a very unfair suggestion. i just said there was precedent for govt action (including flags on building) for other global days of remembrance/advocacy for other communities.

Where there is actually something coherent and significant to commemorate. There is no reason for the whole country to observe a "day of remembrance" for the non existent trans murder epidemic. And including suicide as well is moving the goalposts. It's agenda-pushing, and it's used to create a false narrative.

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 30/12/2024 09:56

@sadmillenial I appreciate you trying to bridge the gap in understanding.

But there really is such a gap. I've done my darndest to understand where queer / trans rights people are coming from but I fear it may be an unbridgeable gap.
I was thinking about your posts, really trying to make a fair equivalence in my mind between these trans rememberance flags and flags that might commemorate something close to my heart.
It lead me to think about a friend, who lost his mum when she was killed by his step dad.

If some local council "commemorated" this (and other, similar) awful murder by flying a shiny (♀) flag or something I rekon I'd be furious.
Absolutely furious.
I'd want to rip it down and force them to spend ten times the money it cost on a women's shelter, on DV training for cops and other service providers, on self esteem classes for teenage girls, anything other than posturing, trivialising, flag waving bullshit.
So, the question OP asked remains: What is going on here?

sadmillenial · 30/12/2024 10:01

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/12/2024 09:24

i don't think i ever described a trans genocide or even alluded to it, that's a very unfair suggestion. i just said there was precedent for govt action (including flags on building) for other global days of remembrance/advocacy for other communities.

Where there is actually something coherent and significant to commemorate. There is no reason for the whole country to observe a "day of remembrance" for the non existent trans murder epidemic. And including suicide as well is moving the goalposts. It's agenda-pushing, and it's used to create a false narrative.

Its a global day, for the global trans community - its not UK or Scotland specific!

there is very well documented violence and discrimination against the trans community globally, and I don't think its unreasonable that trans people in Europe would want to act in solidarity with people around the world?

For example/illustration (before anyone falsely says I am saying these are a "like for like" )...
We mark world AIDS day in so many different and visible ways in the UK, because while the lived experience in the UK is now very much changed for the better this isn't the case for the vast majority of people around the world who dont have access to PEP/PreP or antivirals. Similarly with LGBTQ+ Pride, while the month might be celebratory in tone for a lot of the community, it is a global event and you will see people working hard to advocate for people outside of the UK

I just don't see how this is giving the trans community "special treatment", if anything its giving exactly the same as other communities who have globally designated days?

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