@ButterflyHatched
I want to try and make a point in good faith. So I'm going to try and do it step by step and give you the benefit of the doubt where our world outlook differs.
I want to avoid putting words in your mouth and strawmanning you.
If I was to summarise what I believe you are saying as the below would you think that was a fair respresentation?
You are a woman and female. You body may not have started out as female, but with all the modifications you are now. You are just as much a woman as any other woman. Because the law being discussed doesn't treat you the same as other women your transness is being discriminated against.
Does that sound fair summation?
On page 18 at 14:19 ( forgive me I just caught up on a few pages ) you said this:
The law says that a trans woman who earnestly believes she is engaging in consensual sex with someone who perceives her to be a woman in line with her daily presentation is a sex criminal if that person secretly harbours transphobic views and hasn't made them clear to her.
Do you not see how that person secretly harbours transphobic views and hasn't made them clear could also be from the other point of view that person secretly harbours trans status and hadn't made that clear?
It's my belief that you believe that you are a woman/female.
Not everyone shares that belief, but there are many beliefs in life that people are strongly opposed on. That's fine. But you also have to understand and acknowledge that some people have very strong sexual preferences. Some people have much more fluid sexual preferences. Both are fine.
If you want you gender and sex respected as inate and at the very core of your being you also have to respect that some people's sexual preference and wants are just as core to their being as your identity is to you.
To call that inate sexuality transphobic views is to deny the other person the respect that you yourself want. The only logical solution is that both people should get the same respect from each other. You can't call someone transphobic just because they don't want what goes against their inate sexuality.
You know what would solve this conflict where you secretly harbour trans status fromn the other person, and they secretly harbour transphobic views from you? Talking about it. Once you tell them your secret you will find out if they secretly aren't sexually interested in you. You don't even have to make it about you, you could ask some off hand questions well in advance to try and gague their reaction. You have a woman's brain after all don't you?