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This is why so many women voted Trump

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BabyLlamaZen · 07/11/2024 22:13

I’m not saying it’s right, I’m not saying it’s worth the horrors of the Trump administration (and what other women’s rights will be abolished). However, I can also empathise. Books like this are everywhere in baby sections of bookshops in USA. My american friend is naturally more conservative than myself although hated Trump and didn’t vote for him previously (she abstained and then she went Biden although she says she seriously regrets) and this time she voted Trump. She said this stuff is now everywhere and it’s constant. She also showed me a baby’s ABC book which included B for bisexual (and literally then described it as people who are sexually attracted to either gender). For babies.

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TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:28

Tandora you are doing good public service work here today.

Yes. We're nearly on 40 pages and still going on.
Admirable.

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:28

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:26

It's got nothing to do with acronyms and everything to do with biology.
Transwomen are just that.

If they were actually women, they wouldn't need the prefix.

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It has everything to do with acronyms and language more broadly.

No one is denying that trans women's bodies are materially different from non-trans women's bodies. Everybody knows this.

You are arguing about the word "woman" which is a label - a word - used to describe people. You want jurisdiction over the use of this label. You don't have it.

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:29

RedToothBrush · 10/11/2024 12:26

Oo look more faux ignorance.

And if it isn't faux ignorance, it's a fab demonstration in tone deafness.

Tandora you are doing good public service work here today.

I have no idea what "woosh" meant in response to my comment.

Datun · 10/11/2024 12:29

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:17

"Some people are boys, some people are girls, some people are neither, some people are both.
So some people do not have a sex."

No this does not follow. You do not understand the book.

Furthermore in one of my earliest posts, I clarified that I think that particular statement is an over simplification which endeavours to explain trans experience in a way that a small child might understand.

You've expended hundreds and hundreds of words, and failed utterly to explain it to grown up women.

Kids don't stand at chance

RedToothBrush · 10/11/2024 12:29

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:26

"Some people are boys, some people are girls, some people are neither, some people are both.

That sentence is a simplified way to capture a range of trans experience in language simple enough for a small child to understand.

The first statement of the book about 'boy' and 'girl' being labels to describe someone who has a penis or a vagina, is accurate and helpful.

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How can the children understand bollocks?

The adults understand it to be bollocks and are questioning why children are being taught bollocks.

It's just confusing the issue further.

How about we wait until children are much older before resorting to bollocks to try and explain a concept far above their actual ability to understand.

Adultification of young children is harmful.

Maybe try listening to the wisdom of your partner...

lifeturnsonadime · 10/11/2024 12:30

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:28

It has everything to do with acronyms and language more broadly.

No one is denying that trans women's bodies are materially different from non-trans women's bodies. Everybody knows this.

You are arguing about the word "woman" which is a label - a word - used to describe people. You want jurisdiction over the use of this label. You don't have it.

Edited

Men can't have a the 'human experience' of being a woman unless you see being a woman as simply a set of stereotypes. Most women don't see women as being a walking set of stereotypes.

That is regressive.

There is nothing progressive about it at all.

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:30

No-one is denying that transwomen's bodies are materially different from non-transwomen's bodies

You are, though.
And "non-transwomen" are women.

I am not giving my word away.

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:31

Datun · 10/11/2024 12:29

You've expended hundreds and hundreds of words, and failed utterly to explain it to grown up women.

Kids don't stand at chance

Actually I find that children understand these things much more easily as they haven't yet fully learned socially ingrained forms of prejudice that block understanding.

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:32

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:30

No-one is denying that transwomen's bodies are materially different from non-transwomen's bodies

You are, though.
And "non-transwomen" are women.

I am not giving my word away.

You are, though.

I'm not and I have no idea why you think this.

I'm not giving my word away

You don't own it.

RedToothBrush · 10/11/2024 12:32

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:29

I have no idea what "woosh" meant in response to my comment.

It's the sound of a coherent sentence going over your head.

Its funny that someone so educated failed to understand this when everyone else did.

It's almost as if we talk a different language whilst you talk gobbledegook and say that book makes sense and is completely factual m

wincarwoo · 10/11/2024 12:32

@Tandora women certainly do have jurisdiction over a word for biological woman.

Otherwise you are subverting its meaning to suit your own agenda. Which is what you are doing.

Circumferences · 10/11/2024 12:32

You are arguing about the word "woman" which is a label used to describe human experience.

Nope. It's a word to describe a female human. Specifically an adult female human, as opposed to a child female human, the word for which is "girl". It's an observation based on what the thing actually is.

Didn't we do this on page 1?

BabaYagasHouse · 10/11/2024 12:32

Tandora · 10/11/2024 10:07

The majority of children who go on PBs continue onto CSH because PBs are being accurately prescribed to children who are trans and in desperate need of healthcare. This is because PBs are only prescribed after careful assessment to those children who need them.

I'm not sure how you get to this, if you say you have read the Cass Review?

These are just some of the relevent key findings from the Cass Review:

- There is no simple explanation for the increase in the numbers of predominantly young people and young adults who have a trans or gender diverse identity, but there is broad agreement that it is a result of a complex interplay between biological, psychological and social factors. This balance of factors will be different in each individual.

- The rationale for early puberty suppression remains unclear, with weak evidence regarding the impact on gender dysphoria, mental or psychosocial health. The effect on cognitive and psychosexual development remains unknown.

- Clinicians are unable to determine with any certainty which children and young people will go on to have an enduring trans identity.

- For the majority of young people, a medical pathway may not be the best way to manage their gender-related distress. For those young people for whom a medical pathway is clinically indicated, it is not enough to provide this without also addressing wider mental health and/or psychosocially challenging problems.

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:32

You want jurisdiction over the use of this label. You don't have it

The word "woman" isn't a label, and as a woman myself, I damn well do have jurisdiction over the word.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/11/2024 12:33

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:31

Actually I find that children understand these things much more easily as they haven't yet fully learned socially ingrained forms of prejudice that block understanding.

'prejudice' = sensible boundaries and understanding that there are times humans need protections based on their sexed bodies.

You are literally advocating for the removal of boundaries and saying it's prejudiced to have them.

NO THANK YOU.

Grammarnut · 10/11/2024 12:33

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:28

It has everything to do with acronyms and language more broadly.

No one is denying that trans women's bodies are materially different from non-trans women's bodies. Everybody knows this.

You are arguing about the word "woman" which is a label - a word - used to describe people. You want jurisdiction over the use of this label. You don't have it.

Edited

'Woman' means a female of the species homo sapiens. The sex which conceives, carries and bears young - or has/had/could have had the potential to do that (i.e. has/had all, some, most of the relevant biology). Transwoman just means a man who identifies (for whatever reason) as a woman. He's not a woman and the epithet does not apply to him. Do learn some proper science - not to mention a bit of epistemology.
NB I am a woman. I am not a non-transwoman.

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:33

wincarwoo · 10/11/2024 12:32

@Tandora women certainly do have jurisdiction over a word for biological woman.

Otherwise you are subverting its meaning to suit your own agenda. Which is what you are doing.

No one has jurisdiction over a word. That's not how language works.

RedToothBrush · 10/11/2024 12:33

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:31

Actually I find that children understand these things much more easily as they haven't yet fully learned socially ingrained forms of prejudice that block understanding.

You mean 'if we get in early enough, we can brainwash them before they work out what immutable means and how humans reproduce'.

Fair enough.

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 10/11/2024 12:34

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:31

Actually I find that children understand these things much more easily as they haven't yet fully learned socially ingrained forms of prejudice that block understanding.

That is the single most worrying thing you've said.

=children are easily indoctrinated

😱

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:34

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:32

You want jurisdiction over the use of this label. You don't have it

The word "woman" isn't a label, and as a woman myself, I damn well do have jurisdiction over the word.

Edited

of course it's a label. It's a word used to describe certain persons.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/11/2024 12:34

Agreed it's about lowing boundaries for children. Vile.

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 10/11/2024 12:34

RedToothBrush · 10/11/2024 12:33

You mean 'if we get in early enough, we can brainwash them before they work out what immutable means and how humans reproduce'.

Fair enough.

Ha! Snap!

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2024 12:34

Tandora · 10/11/2024 12:32

You are, though.

I'm not and I have no idea why you think this.

I'm not giving my word away

You don't own it.

Women do own the word, and we're not going to give it away to men.

Circumferences · 10/11/2024 12:35

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