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This is why so many women voted Trump

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BabyLlamaZen · 07/11/2024 22:13

I’m not saying it’s right, I’m not saying it’s worth the horrors of the Trump administration (and what other women’s rights will be abolished). However, I can also empathise. Books like this are everywhere in baby sections of bookshops in USA. My american friend is naturally more conservative than myself although hated Trump and didn’t vote for him previously (she abstained and then she went Biden although she says she seriously regrets) and this time she voted Trump. She said this stuff is now everywhere and it’s constant. She also showed me a baby’s ABC book which included B for bisexual (and literally then described it as people who are sexually attracted to either gender). For babies.

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Guavafish1 · 08/11/2024 02:52

There is a problem amongst the youth of today now wanting to accept their sex.

my step nephew has come out as trans … it has shocked his traditional family to the core. We don’t know what to do… it all seems arbitrary the topic until now its hitting home.

Craftymam · 08/11/2024 03:16

I was listening to a talk from a woman who was looking at all the periods of transient madness in history. Super interesting! I had no idea about it previously. Like contagious vagrancy, mass hysteria and multiple personality disorder. Whilst all became suddenly widespread and common in different eras and practically non existent now. I think this trans issue is the same. It’s going to take a hundred years or so until they can look back and say that.

What’s most fascinating is that these illnesses are real. People genuinely had these problems. But it was a societal contagion. So fascinating. I wonder what it is about a person that makes them susceptible to something like this. Or maybe it could happen to anyone if they are surrounded by the right triggers.

jcakey · 08/11/2024 06:04

Tunnocksmallow · 08/11/2024 02:06

If any of you you truly believe that Trump and his moron followers have the best interests of children and women’s rights at heart then you really are the most idiotic bunch of batshit crazies to ever grace the internet!
And the world is fucked; watch on those women’s rights you all care so much about continue to get eroded away and women die from the lack of basic health care, children are taught to treat their fellow human beings with contempt for being a different sex, religion, race, foreign, class.
And then watch it spread even more over here in the UK. But as long as we stop the men wearing a dress eh! Ffs, delusional, the lot of you.

  1. I - and I imagine most - posters on these boards don't believe Trump has the best interests of women and children anywhere near his heart.
  2. Yes, the world is a scary place - most obvious examples being Ukraine and the Middle East. The reemergence of Trump makes it more, not less, terrifying.
  3. But ultimately, nobody cares what I think of Trump. I'm British - I don't get a vote. What we are trying to work out is why, despite point 2 - and a growing economy - people in the US still turned out to hand him a more decisive victory than experts/ polls ever anticipated. And one possible reason is gender ideology. It is a blind spot of Liberal/ Left governments the world over and they need to wake up to the fact that, in adhering to it, they are failing not just women, not just children, but huge swathes of the electorate.

It's one issue. I think there were other reasons the Democrats lost. But it is an issue.

Snowypeaks · 08/11/2024 06:09

jcakey · 08/11/2024 06:04

  1. I - and I imagine most - posters on these boards don't believe Trump has the best interests of women and children anywhere near his heart.
  2. Yes, the world is a scary place - most obvious examples being Ukraine and the Middle East. The reemergence of Trump makes it more, not less, terrifying.
  3. But ultimately, nobody cares what I think of Trump. I'm British - I don't get a vote. What we are trying to work out is why, despite point 2 - and a growing economy - people in the US still turned out to hand him a more decisive victory than experts/ polls ever anticipated. And one possible reason is gender ideology. It is a blind spot of Liberal/ Left governments the world over and they need to wake up to the fact that, in adhering to it, they are failing not just women, not just children, but huge swathes of the electorate.

It's one issue. I think there were other reasons the Democrats lost. But it is an issue.

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Well said.

shockeditellyou · 08/11/2024 07:22

I think it’s a reaction to the shrill hectoring of endless accommodations- not just trans, but all sorts. Trans is acting as a bit of a flashpoint.

There’s a thread running elsewhere where a lecturer is complaining about students not turning up to the scheduled tutorial for feedback and instead demanding she makes herself endlessly available. There were a significant number of voices saying that the lecturer bend over backwards and basically expect nothing of any effort from her students. Not only do I think that a man wouldn’t get those responses, but it’s the attitude of endless bowing at the alter of other people’s self indulgence that is prevalent on the left and REALLY pissing people off.

IDareSay · 08/11/2024 07:54

New York Times on what they call ‘the trans ad’

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TiredEyesSoreHeart · 08/11/2024 07:54

Lostmyusernametoday · 07/11/2024 23:48

1% of people in the USA are trans. If you voted for trump
for this reason you’re a moron. I normally like to make a more intelligent argument but in this case it really is that bloody simple

You don't get it. It's not about 'trans'. It's about males in female spaces, sport, etc. Males are 50% of the population. Not 1%.

TiredEyesSoreHeart · 08/11/2024 07:58

Lostmyusernametoday · 08/11/2024 00:06

its a non issue - there are so many more important issues. Primarily that he’s open about his views on women and he’s a criminal!!!!!

Ok, your ignorance and narrow-minded stubborn refusal to see it is a HUGE ISSUE, is the problem, and until the likes of you get your head out of the sand, we will keep getting far right leaders like Trump. If you think males in female single sex spaces and in sports (3,130 trans female victors, 27 world records, 109 U.S. records, $1.6 million in prize money. Just in the last few yrs. So educate yourself on your ignorance. Trans in womens sports is a fucking EPIDEMIC!) is a 'non-issue', your ignorance is unbelievable. Please wake up!

TiredEyesSoreHeart · 08/11/2024 08:06

Danja2010 · 08/11/2024 01:28

Could you please site an actual medical journal where this is the case ?
No, I don’t think so because you are getting your facts out of thin air.
what you write is faceless none sense .

WPATH Files.
Cass Review.

On sport, the UN Special Rapporteur for women Reem Alsalem who has mentioned how serious the problem is and suggests banning transwomen from womens sports.

This information has been discussed hundreds of times over in this section alone. Not sure why you are incapable of searching.

SquirrelSoShiny · 08/11/2024 08:14

TiredEyesSoreHeart · 08/11/2024 08:06

WPATH Files.
Cass Review.

On sport, the UN Special Rapporteur for women Reem Alsalem who has mentioned how serious the problem is and suggests banning transwomen from womens sports.

This information has been discussed hundreds of times over in this section alone. Not sure why you are incapable of searching.

You would almost imagine a few people on this thread were the worst sort of Gender Zealots and that all the facts in the world will have zero impact on changing their minds. They're not interested in real world impacts, they are ideologues suffering from black and white thinking. You could present all the facts in the world and they will tell you the sky is green when everyone else sees blue. And instead of recognising that maybe they're colour blind, they will tell you to be kind and try and make the rest of the world the problem 🙄

RoyalCorgi · 08/11/2024 08:24

Seventy-four million people voted for Trump. This might sound like a crazy idea, but maybe they didn't all vote for him for the same reason.

I'm not in the US, so I'm not an expert on what those reasons would be. But based on reading commentary from others, it sounds like some of the issues that drew people to Trump were immigration, the economy (rising prices in particular), foreign policy (ie stopping US's involvement in Ukraine), along with his attack on "wokeness", namely the package of identity politics (especially on race and gender) espoused by the Democrats.

I dare say for some that the medical mutilation of children, and the pretence that men can be women, was a factor. Maybe not for everyone, but for some.

And I would guess that another factor underlying all this was the way that people on the progressive side of politics in the US like to make people feel bad about themselves by calling them bigots, racists, sexists and transphobes. No one likes being made to feel bad about themselves. Trump, on the other hand, seems to excel at making people feel good about themselves. You can surely see why that appeals, even if you recognise that Trump is a truly terrible human being.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/11/2024 08:31

So women voted for Trump because he is able to correctly identify what a woman is before he rapes or sexually assaults them?

OK then.

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 08:34

Oh no doubt @CarolinaWren - but if you're the Democrats and trying to portray yourself as the party of truth, science, etc and Trump as a barefaced liar, then it doesn't help your case to be so obviously lying yourselves and also expecting everyone else to buy into the lie or be dismissed as falling for Republican/Russian propaganda.

The Republicans aren't the ones with those signs "In this house, we believe science is real, women's rights are human rights, etc"

Edingril · 08/11/2024 08:38

So how do you know, did you ask each and every woman?

And their collective reason was all the same? Thry did not think for themselves because women are just a vehicle to other people's thinking for them? They don't have permission to think for themselves?

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 08:44

I see a lot of people saying "this isn't a big issue and people didn't vote on gender stuff". I agree that many people didn't vote on gender stuff - I'm a fully paid up sex realist and even I didn't vote on gender stuff.

BUT. All the gender stuff has gone a long way towards making me, personally, trust the Democrats a lot less than I did in the years when I was voting for Obama and Hilary. If they're willing to lie to themselves and to me about gender stuff and crucially, expect ME to actually believe the lies or be accused of bigotry, then what else are they willing to lie to me about. Same for their insistence that Biden was sharp as a tack.

To paraphrase George Jones, who am I to believe: them, or my lying eyes?

This is the kind of thing that makes people talk about "blue MAGA".

UsernameNameUser · 08/11/2024 08:45

Yep, this is exactly why most people voted Trump. At least he’s not delusional and trying to rewrite biology.

i have zero issue with people choosing to live however they choose - so long as it’s their choice and hasn’t been influenced by a predator, and they’re not harming anyone/becoming the predator. That goes for any lifestyle choice tbh

The left has unfortunately gone to the extreme of if a child is claiming to be an airplane, they insist on sticking wheels & wings on them

Helleofabore · 08/11/2024 08:46

RoyalCorgi · 08/11/2024 08:24

Seventy-four million people voted for Trump. This might sound like a crazy idea, but maybe they didn't all vote for him for the same reason.

I'm not in the US, so I'm not an expert on what those reasons would be. But based on reading commentary from others, it sounds like some of the issues that drew people to Trump were immigration, the economy (rising prices in particular), foreign policy (ie stopping US's involvement in Ukraine), along with his attack on "wokeness", namely the package of identity politics (especially on race and gender) espoused by the Democrats.

I dare say for some that the medical mutilation of children, and the pretence that men can be women, was a factor. Maybe not for everyone, but for some.

And I would guess that another factor underlying all this was the way that people on the progressive side of politics in the US like to make people feel bad about themselves by calling them bigots, racists, sexists and transphobes. No one likes being made to feel bad about themselves. Trump, on the other hand, seems to excel at making people feel good about themselves. You can surely see why that appeals, even if you recognise that Trump is a truly terrible human being.

You would think so royalcorgi but it seems that people cannot see this. Which shows how accurate your and other’s assessment is.

The polarised language used by political party influencers (meaning elected representatives, party executives, and so on) to denigrate those who disagree has been concerning. Calling people fascists, morons, nazis, far right etc was never going to be a winning strategy but it does seem to make some people feel good short term. Maybe this result will actually open up lines of discussion again.

Completelyjo · 08/11/2024 08:47

I find it farcical that anyone would vote for a rapist who also speaks so openly about being fine with sexual assault and then claiming you care about women’s rights, but that’s just me.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/11/2024 08:48

Completelyjo · 08/11/2024 08:47

I find it farcical that anyone would vote for a rapist who also speaks so openly about being fine with sexual assault and then claiming you care about women’s rights, but that’s just me.

No, not just you.

EasternStandard · 08/11/2024 08:48

The book is awful and I hope it and others like it go

Idk how much this stuff helped Trump win but it could be part of general push back

nauticant · 08/11/2024 08:49

Completelyjo · 08/11/2024 08:47

I find it farcical that anyone would vote for a rapist who also speaks so openly about being fine with sexual assault and then claiming you care about women’s rights, but that’s just me.

But the Democrats wouldn't have won the election by appealing to you. They needed to appeal to the electorate in general. Trump won because they failed to do that. A big part of this was that their campaigning was over-targeted on voters they already had in the bag.

Haroldwilson · 08/11/2024 08:49

Like it or not, trans people exist and have kids. Those kids will interact with other kids and it helps if the other kids have some basic understanding of the fact that trans people exist.

I think those books look crap but you do kids a disservice if you just pretend this whole issue isn't there.

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/11/2024 08:53

PermanentTemporary · 07/11/2024 22:24

I am going to bet that the number of people who actually switched votes from Democrat to Republican primarily because of this issue isn't zero but is tiny.

What it did do imo was shore up the Republican vote among a group who otherwise might have paid attention to some of the stream of bullshit that Captain Orange was pouring out and stayed at home.

A majority of white women voted for Trump imo because of high prices and high immigration, plus American white women don't seem that keen on the idea of a female president. The much smaller proportion of black women who voted for him probably the same. I don't think they will like the outcome but what do I know?

Yes, this won't be the primary issue, but it does feature as a part of a wider rejection of identity politics and all that goes with it. Campaigns by people like Riley Gaines have been quite prominent in the U.S, and Megyn Kelly has also been very vocal and has quite a profile.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 08/11/2024 08:55

Haroldwilson · 08/11/2024 08:49

Like it or not, trans people exist and have kids. Those kids will interact with other kids and it helps if the other kids have some basic understanding of the fact that trans people exist.

I think those books look crap but you do kids a disservice if you just pretend this whole issue isn't there.

No one cares that trans people exist. They care about males not going into spaces and sports where they have no right to be, regardless of how they 'identify'. Humans can't change sex.

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/11/2024 08:57

PortiasBiscuit · 07/11/2024 23:13

They voted for Trump because he had policies on immigrants and the economy, most people really don’t give this stuff headroom, I’m sorry!

They do, though.......culture has played a very important role, it is not not just economics. People are also rejecting that privileged West/East coast liberalism and all that goes with it.

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