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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do women in the U.K. know or care about the threat to women’s and girls rights now they’ve voted labour?

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Heylo · 05/07/2024 07:14

i know the tories record on public services are abysmal and bar some genuine believers like Kemi Badenoch the tories would likely go the trans route if they thought it would buy them votes. But, currently it’s the tories who offered to protect women and girls from the trans madness. My question is - which women voted in trans loving, women - hating Labour?

we can look forward to -

  1. continued gender ideology being pumped out in schools
  2. conversion ban - you better hope your child doesn’t start questioning their gender out loud because TRA ridden schools will be referring them to gender clinics and socially transitioning them now they have a mandate
  3. same sex attracted lesbians (myself included) it’s completely game over. Keep your head down and your mouth shut. Trans identified males and their female allies have already closed down every women only night. Same sex attracted women are now labelled bigots. We are no longer welcome in London’s LGBT soup community
  4. prisons - what happens to vulnerable women? They are already disbelieved and dismissed. Now they have to endure the staring and various forms of sexual harrassment that goes with being incarcerated with men

i can only hope our political landscape mirrors America and in the same way Trump will be voted back in this year, we will have The Tories being led by Kemi back in in 4 years time.

omg I can’t believe we have to kiss goodbye to women’s rights - for the next four years

back to my original question. Apart from TRA idealouges, why have women voted these clowns in? Is it that they prioritise the Tories terrible record on public services over this? Do some women not see it as a huge issue? would love to hear from some posters who voted Labour.

Thanks & stay safe out there, as women we have woken up to a a dark chapter in history today

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Shortshriftandlethal · 05/07/2024 08:19

SheSlays · 05/07/2024 08:13

Yes women need safe spaces. ALL women, including trans women, need safe spaces.

Trans women are no more of a threat to me than any other woman. Trans women are disproportionately vulnerable. No need to subject a vulnerable group to discrimination.

I’m currently celebrating that Tory bigots are out of power.

The issue is that TW are men. Single sex spaces are no longer single sex if men are included, no matter how 'lovely' they might be. They are still male, and in being so infringe upon the dignity of women and girls in their intimate and private spaces.

I see lots of cross dressing men around where I live, and it is clear that for most it is a fetishistic sexualised practice. Voyeurs and boundary pushers are not wanted in spaces in which women are in a state of undress or anywhere in which the female body and biology are paramount. This is about basic dignity for women and girls.

If you are happy with mixed space spaces, that is up to you...perhaps you should campaign for third spaces so that all of the other women and girls who don't want this can also retain their dignity?

Cantgetausername87 · 05/07/2024 08:19

The tories were going to scrap the human rights act. That's far more of a threat to women

Cadela · 05/07/2024 08:19

Tinylittleunicorn · 05/07/2024 07:24

I'm concerned about the rights of women to have access to single sex spaces.

But I think poverty, access to education and employment, access to healthcare, social care, childcare, violence and rape perpetrated by "cis" men, access to justice etc - are also issues very important to women on which they have been very badly failed by the Conservatives and are likely to do better under Labour.

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Yes to all this. Women‘s rights and safety are so much more than stopping men using our facilities.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 05/07/2024 08:19

RDMPrules · 05/07/2024 07:24

There shouldn't be. LGB is to do with sexual orientation. T is not. I don't really understand why they were ever linked. And increasingly the T part represents homophobia and misogyny.

Yes. Transactivists got a free ride by linking T with the popular and successful LGB movement. It was a deliberate strategy, dishonest and manipulative.

LunaandLily · 05/07/2024 08:20

Heylo · 05/07/2024 07:14

i know the tories record on public services are abysmal and bar some genuine believers like Kemi Badenoch the tories would likely go the trans route if they thought it would buy them votes. But, currently it’s the tories who offered to protect women and girls from the trans madness. My question is - which women voted in trans loving, women - hating Labour?

we can look forward to -

  1. continued gender ideology being pumped out in schools
  2. conversion ban - you better hope your child doesn’t start questioning their gender out loud because TRA ridden schools will be referring them to gender clinics and socially transitioning them now they have a mandate
  3. same sex attracted lesbians (myself included) it’s completely game over. Keep your head down and your mouth shut. Trans identified males and their female allies have already closed down every women only night. Same sex attracted women are now labelled bigots. We are no longer welcome in London’s LGBT soup community
  4. prisons - what happens to vulnerable women? They are already disbelieved and dismissed. Now they have to endure the staring and various forms of sexual harrassment that goes with being incarcerated with men

i can only hope our political landscape mirrors America and in the same way Trump will be voted back in this year, we will have The Tories being led by Kemi back in in 4 years time.

omg I can’t believe we have to kiss goodbye to women’s rights - for the next four years

back to my original question. Apart from TRA idealouges, why have women voted these clowns in? Is it that they prioritise the Tories terrible record on public services over this? Do some women not see it as a huge issue? would love to hear from some posters who voted Labour.

Thanks & stay safe out there, as women we have woken up to a a dark chapter in history today

What a ridiculous post. The notion that any of these numbered points will be enacted is laughable. Imagine being so removed from reality that you actually think these things are happening, it’s actually quite endearing.

I vote for a better future for the many thousands of children living in poverty - just slightly more pressing a matter than the very very few that YOU think should not be able to live their lives as they choose. It’s always so funny to me when we see these “attacks on women’s rights” and “a dark era for women” posts. Like, how many trans people do you actually know?? None, I bet.

TwigletsAndRadishes · 05/07/2024 08:21

I'm hoping and praying that Kemi doesn't lose her seat. I am banking on her to fight the good fight for women and for common sense in general, and to be the next Tory leader then Prime Minister.

qsforall · 05/07/2024 08:22

zibzibara · 05/07/2024 08:14

That's nice for you. Tell that to the women locked up in prison with these men, see what they think about your disregard for their dignity and safety.

I think she was talking about toilets and changing rooms. Most of the new builds where I live have unisex toilets and changing rooms, if done well it should not be an issue. If you think that some women are too vulnerable for this, then you could lobby for individual units to be supplied for vulnerable people. The issue with prisons is over around abuse of claiming trans, so men who are not taking hormones etc saying they are trans for the wrong reasons. That is what you should be focusing on here, specific things which need attention, not on insulting all trans people or any woman who disagrees with any part of what you say.

I am horrified about how things are handled in schools, that is the key thing I would want revisited. Children should not be being taught about adult sex choices.

Signalbox · 05/07/2024 08:22

Don’t be ridiculous. Your post sounds-to use an old misogynistic term-hysterical.

😂

LunaandLily · 05/07/2024 08:22

LastTrainEast · 05/07/2024 08:16

Apparently in the US some black slaves were pro-slavery so it ought not to be a surprise.

What a disgusting post. How dare you conflate voting for a party that values equality for all with the enslavement of millions of people. Reported.

LastTrainEast · 05/07/2024 08:23

PortiasBiscuit · 05/07/2024 07:48

it would help if the people on this forum didn’t treat the rest of us as if we were imbecilic babies!
I have met precisely two trans women in my life, both seriously fucked in the head but far from dangerous.
As to the rest of them, if we all stopped paying attention to this issue 90% would lose interest and go and indulge in some other attention seeking activity.
I genuinely have no issue sharing any space with the remaining, genuine 10%.

You imagine you will be sharing with a couple of trans?

I'm not trans but if the mood takes me I can watch you (or your daughter if you have one) change and shower and you can't even ask if I'm trans because I could have you arrested. If your daughter competes in any sport any man can put a stop to that.

I don't know if your treatment has been unfair or not. Are you saying it's ok because you are loyal to the Trans Agenda or were not able to follow what's been going on because they used big words?

bluebee17 · 05/07/2024 08:23

At this point I really don't think we had much choice.

zibzibara · 05/07/2024 08:23

Matronic6 · 05/07/2024 08:17

Fucking hell. Millions of children are living in poverty, education is on its knees, the NHS is close to breaking point, sick people are not able to get the help they need, people can't pay to put on heating on winter, young people can't afford homes but OP is concerned about dating events. The fucking privilege from these kind of posts is sickening.

Also all the things you were complaining about, happened under a Tory government.

I'll be surprised if Starmer's Labour solves any of these issues. They're not left-wing enough to make a dent in the root cause of capitalist greed that the Tories moulded this country to. It'll be Blairism and bullshit.

littleburn · 05/07/2024 08:23

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 05/07/2024 07:19

Hmm I'm not sure, I think people are starting to see the nonsense that Trans Ideology has become. Look at Scotland (where I am), the SNP have taken a beating and I'm sure the Isla Bryson incident played a part in that, buoyed up by the mentalist that is Patrick Harvey.

Hopefully women can push on Keir to ensure that women retain sex based spaces and sports and he doesn't make GRC easier, despite saying to the contrary.

I agree. They'll also be under much more scrutiny on this issue now. Gender critical voices aren't going to disappear and they've seen what a shit-show the issue was for the SNP.

Shortshriftandlethal · 05/07/2024 08:23

Katbum · 05/07/2024 08:13

For most people the issue of what rights transgender people have, and its impact on women and girls, is a very minor issue compared to the complete erosion of public services, cost of living, wage stagnation, inflation, Brexit coming home to roost, NHS in disarray, schools and universities on the brink of financial and operational collapse etc etc. I have some sympathy for your views but honestly, you are deluded if you think this issue is in any way the central thing most people are voting on. And that’s as it should be. One issue elections lead to division and hate.

It wasn't a minor issue for those nurses forced to change, at work, with a man - and who were reprimanded for being upset and complaining; nor for the NHS workers in Scotland who were subject to the same just recently.

As more and more women start to be expected to tolerate that which makes them feel very uncomfortanble or distressed - for the sake of ideological dogma - more and more people will start to understand what all of the 'fuss' was about.

Nobody said it was the main issue for most voters......of course it wasn't...that doesn't mean it is not an issue of fundamental importance. Most people are not politically clued up - and tend to vote for bread and butter financial issues, and on things like the NHS ( see nurses above)

Helleofabore · 05/07/2024 08:23

SheSlays · 05/07/2024 08:13

Yes women need safe spaces. ALL women, including trans women, need safe spaces.

Trans women are no more of a threat to me than any other woman. Trans women are disproportionately vulnerable. No need to subject a vulnerable group to discrimination.

I’m currently celebrating that Tory bigots are out of power.

Sure. All people need ‘safe spaces’.

However, female people need single sex spaces. Male people with trans identities should be excluded from those spaces.

You mention discrimination as if it is something to be avoided at all times. This is and overly simplistic and absolutist approach. Not all discrimination is to be avoided, some discrimination is legitimate and is needed for protection and to counter negative sexist discrimination that female people still experience from birth.

Single sex spaces are legitimate forms of discrimination. Male people, regardless of their gender, need to be excluded to allow these spaces to work to protect female people.

LunaandLily · 05/07/2024 08:24

Helleofabore · 05/07/2024 08:00

I have leafleted in the past. It is not ‘only on Mumsnet’. The concerns discussed here are shared by the wider population.

They’re really not. Hence, Labour have won by an absolute landslide. Not sure how much clearer it can be that most people don’t actually care.

Heylo · 05/07/2024 08:24

Hey thank you - I knew reform did well but I didn’t realise that was the statistic interns of labour gains. Whilst I’m not wild about the idea of reform gaining votes I’m glad it isn’t a huge swing towards Labour

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ColinMyWifeBridgerton · 05/07/2024 08:24

"My dream is to be a handmaiden serving a world of men, that's why I voted labour "

Is that what you want to hear?

LunaNorth · 05/07/2024 08:25

DaisyCat33 · 05/07/2024 07:21

You're a lesbian and you don't support trans rights? There's a T in LGBT you know

No I don't see this as a huge issue. I don't see trans people as some sort of dangerous or risky group that are out to get me 🙄

Well, if you’re a lesbian, then some of them are. And even if you’re not, some men are. And now it’s going to be easier for them to do so. All the eye rolls in the world won’t change that.

SheSlays · 05/07/2024 08:26

zibzibara · 05/07/2024 08:16

"Trans women" are men. If you've come to believe these men are women that just shows you have some awfully sexist beliefs.

lol.

I have spent my career campaigning for and working in the VAWG sector. My opinion is based on experience and research.

But yeah, whatever, I must be sexist 🙄😆

TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 · 05/07/2024 08:26

All of the above has happened under our current government.......so no.
Let's face it Starmer can't be any worse, my biggest concern is the fact people have been dying because the absolute shitshow state of the NHS. That's my biggest priority.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 05/07/2024 08:28

SheSlays · 05/07/2024 08:26

lol.

I have spent my career campaigning for and working in the VAWG sector. My opinion is based on experience and research.

But yeah, whatever, I must be sexist 🙄😆

And???

TW are still men

qsforall · 05/07/2024 08:28

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 05/07/2024 08:19

Yes. Transactivists got a free ride by linking T with the popular and successful LGB movement. It was a deliberate strategy, dishonest and manipulative.

Have a look at who funded lobbying for this and who has funded promoting these issues in schools.

DrBlackbird · 05/07/2024 08:28

Spaghetti127 · 05/07/2024 07:43

Mumsnet is an echo chamber for the GC.

A poll carried out by The Rest is Politics found that this is a non-issue for voters.

I would not pay attention to any of bloody misogynistic Campbell’s polls but in any event I’ll counter that characterisation with MN being an information chamber for women concerned (and some men) with their rights and children’s safeguarding.

Like the many women coming onto these boards saying ‘hasn’t happened to me’ or ‘my bff is a TW and she’s lovely’, those polled have not - yet - experienced the impact of GI on their lives or their children’s lives. So remain unaware. Though the awareness has grown.

But if GI continues unabated, then there’s a chance even more will be aware and uncomfortable with allowing our sex to be conflated with a homophobic, misogynistic and regressive gendered construct.

Shortshriftandlethal · 05/07/2024 08:28

LunaandLily · 05/07/2024 08:24

They’re really not. Hence, Labour have won by an absolute landslide. Not sure how much clearer it can be that most people don’t actually care.

Well it is a good job some of us do care...for other women and for girls and children generally. For the girls whose toilets have been made mixed sex at school ( one school in Kent? recently reported 4 sexual assaults in the toiets since they did this)..and for the nurses starting their shift in tears because a man is changing in the women's changing room and is staring at their breasts as he speaks to them, and walking around in tight, little underpants.

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