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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

NHS challenged by women forced to share changing room with transwoman

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 26/05/2024 07:02

The Daily Mail reporting on a group of 36 nurses complaining that they're forced to share an open plan changing room with a man who claims to be a woman, behaves inappropriately, is sexually active (trying for a baby with his partner) yet is given access to women undressing as he claims to be trans.
Following two formal written complaints where the response was that they needed to be be "more inclusive', 'broaden their mindset' and 'be educated and attend training" six of the nurses are now going to an employment tribunal claiming sexual harassment and sexual discrimination.
Note the article uses he pronouns.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13459927/NHS-chiefs-legal-action-female-nurses-changing-room-transgender.html

Nurses made to share changing room with trans colleague to sue NHS

In a formal complaint, the nurses say they were stunned after the 'sexually active' trans nurse admitted to trying for a baby with a female partner and had stopped taking female hormones.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13459927/NHS-chiefs-legal-action-female-nurses-changing-room-transgender.html

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ArabellaScott · 26/05/2024 11:15

Wattnow · 26/05/2024 10:59

Well, Mridul Wadhwa is still in his job...

😶

SinnerBoy · 26/05/2024 11:23

Wattnow · Today 09:02

The HR approach must be informed by this dodgy tribunal verdict:

I wondered initially if it were the same hospital, but it seems not. As I read it, the trust threw the fight, so to speak, when they could and should have challenged it.

Citrusandginger · 26/05/2024 11:24

Is it worth pointing out that the Sheffield case related to catering staff? The catering manager (although very important in with regard to patients) is likely a comparatively junior member of staff in the hospital hierarchy.

Asking about underwear was clumsy - and not necessarily something that someone with more experience would have done, but it's such a shame the handling of this allowed a man with an agenda to win a legal case.

I hope the Nurses win and that the wider NHS learn lessons.

Wattnow · 26/05/2024 11:30

Yes they did 'throw' it and here we predictably are.

The claimant in the Sheffield case was the one who brought up the subject of his underwear - he said it was so hot he'd taken them off and did a 'wringing out' mime. His colleagues also reported him naked from the waist down in the changing room. This is why his manager asked about underwear.

The Equal Treatment Bench Book is v relevant - Anya Palmer's article is v clear.

Thread about the case at the time: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4593138-transwoman-wins-employment-discrimination-case-against-nhs-for-being-treated-differently-from-women-in-changing-room?page=1

Transwoman wins employment discrimination case against NHS for being treated differently from women in changing room | Mumsnet

I thought there was a thread on this but I can't find it. Maybe it was deleted? I shall choose my words very carefully. The court found that the unn...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4593138-transwoman-wins-employment-discrimination-case-against-nhs-for-being-treated-differently-from-women-in-changing-room?page=1

StealthSpinach · 26/05/2024 11:30

lcakethereforeIam · 26/05/2024 10:53

They should sue their fucking union too! I admit I thought the scolding would be for the DM link. Iirc regarding the previous case, the bulk of the bloke's allegations were unsubstantiated, no other witnesses, no-one corroborated or admitted saying them.

Concerning this case, perhaps he could use the same changing room as the HR person?

Oh, and one other thing...this never happens.

The situation described in the article! That poor woman, if he's that blatant with his colleagues I dread to think what he tries with the patients.

He should use the office of the HR person to change in. After all, that person doesn’t see an issue with his behaviour, and it’s their chance to be inclusive, etc…

oolovelycuppa · 26/05/2024 11:31

The is rage inducing.

Rightsraptor · 26/05/2024 11:32

How could this man's 'birth sex' ever be confidential, @theilltemperedclavecinist, when he's standing in front of his female colleagues in his boxers with holes in them (according to the article and I think we know what's implied by that 🍆) and he's talking about getting his partner pregnant?

No hiding place there.

Toddlerteaplease · 26/05/2024 11:33

At least they have a changing room. During Covid we were having g to chafe in a store cupboard. Which our male member of staff was very uncomfortable with.

Lilacdew · 26/05/2024 11:35

Why are people so unwilling to see that reasonable trans rights are effortlessly manipulated and abused by sexual predators? I can't help wondering if there is a degree of glee in all this - finally a legitimate loophole for telling women to know their place and be subservient to the sexual whims of any man at any time.

ArabellaScott · 26/05/2024 11:36

Lilacdew · 26/05/2024 11:35

Why are people so unwilling to see that reasonable trans rights are effortlessly manipulated and abused by sexual predators? I can't help wondering if there is a degree of glee in all this - finally a legitimate loophole for telling women to know their place and be subservient to the sexual whims of any man at any time.

Some might even consider that was the actual aim in the first place.

It's an abuser's dream.

oolovelycuppa · 26/05/2024 11:38

ArabellaScott · 26/05/2024 11:36

Some might even consider that was the actual aim in the first place.

It's an abuser's dream.

I don’t think they were ever ‘reasonable’.

SneezedToothOut · 26/05/2024 11:38

I’m sure there was an ET that found in favour of a trans woman using a NHS female changing room because they used the wrong comparator (a female, rather than a male).

Will be good to see where this one goes. It’s clearly
utter madness.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 26/05/2024 11:41

Rightsraptor · 26/05/2024 11:32

How could this man's 'birth sex' ever be confidential, @theilltemperedclavecinist, when he's standing in front of his female colleagues in his boxers with holes in them (according to the article and I think we know what's implied by that 🍆) and he's talking about getting his partner pregnant?

No hiding place there.

It's a case of what's accepted as evidence in court versus common sense. Plus, how do you prove he's really a man when that's no longer recorded anywhere and doesn't have a legal definition? He's just a bundle of attributes, that you have to prove from first principles shouldn't be in the women's changing room. I say bring it on!

334bu · 26/05/2024 11:43

Predators always find a way to exploit progressive movements; PIE's infiltration of Liberty and the Labour party is a prime example of predators using a progressive ideal; the lowering of the age of consent for homosexuals in line with that for heterosexuals, to try to get policy changed to allow them to exploit children. The Savilles of this world using well meaning charities as cover for their activities is another prime example.

Boiledbeetle · 26/05/2024 11:52

God! This shit still raises my blood pressure.

Enough now! Women have had enough!

Men know your place. And I'll give you a clue it isn't in any place that is women only.

SkateboardingDog · 26/05/2024 11:54

Toddlerteaplease · 26/05/2024 11:33

At least they have a changing room. During Covid we were having g to chafe in a store cupboard. Which our male member of staff was very uncomfortable with.

What? So they should think themselves lucky then? And it’s the men we should feel for? Ffs

oakleaffy · 26/05/2024 12:27

A Gay man {XY} I know said he worked with a woman {XX} who self I'D'd as a ''Man'' But dressed as a female...and the 'pronouns' were 'he/him'......but this woman wanted to actually be a Gay Man!....

He {the XY friend} said it was baffling, and no way could she possibly be a ''Gay Man'' as she was a woman.

So it;s not just women {XX} who find the whole thing bonkers.

Brainworm · 26/05/2024 12:44

Whether this nurse is really trans, is gay or straight, a good guy or deprived fetishist isn't the key issue and this info, whilst key to the upset the female nurses experience, are used by TRAs to obfuscate.

The issue is whether he should be able to change in single sex provision for females (be he a respectful and lovely person or not). The likes of LOJ will be queuing up to highlight another DM article that paints a transwomen as a predator. The will froth and shout about this.

It wouldn't matter if the t

Justme56 · 26/05/2024 12:49

Isn’t it weird when anyone brings up separating anything by sex it’s all you are bigot or some accusation of similarities to racial segregation but when it’s separate by self identified gender it’s all inclusion and being kind. Both include some form of separation by category.

Ofcourseshecan · 26/05/2024 12:51

I thank OP and everyone else who posts news stories about the demolition of women’s rights. And thank you Mumsnet, which is one of the few places we can share and discuss this information. (I even have to thank the Daily Mail — a sentence I never thought I would write!)

Every case that gets into the news shines a bit more light on what’s trying to hide under the ‘be kind’ stone.

JellySaurus · 26/05/2024 13:00

Lilacdew · 26/05/2024 11:35

Why are people so unwilling to see that reasonable trans rights are effortlessly manipulated and abused by sexual predators? I can't help wondering if there is a degree of glee in all this - finally a legitimate loophole for telling women to know their place and be subservient to the sexual whims of any man at any time.

In what world is it 'reasonable' for men to demand ad lib access to women in vulnerable situations? In what world is it reasonable for men to demand opportunities set aside for women - set aside because men already have access to these opportunities by virtue of being men.

In what world is it 'reasonable' for these demands to be framed as 'rights'?

Dramalady52 · 26/05/2024 13:05

On a side note, we often say how hard it can be to recognise dangerous men because they don't come with a warning label. I'm beginning to think that some of them do 😂

mrshoho · 26/05/2024 13:06

The muppet management gaslighting the female nurses are a disgrace. What sort of world are we in where women are expected to put up and shut up when all they ask is for a safe space to change into and out of their uniforms. I just don't understand how people cannot see the absurdity of expecting women to just accept this crazy shit. They better win this tribunal.

Lilacdew · 26/05/2024 13:06

JellySaurus · 26/05/2024 13:00

In what world is it 'reasonable' for men to demand ad lib access to women in vulnerable situations? In what world is it reasonable for men to demand opportunities set aside for women - set aside because men already have access to these opportunities by virtue of being men.

In what world is it 'reasonable' for these demands to be framed as 'rights'?

It isn't. You have completely misread my post. I am saying that some trans rights are reasonable, but the right for biological males to access all female spaces can never be allowed because of the dangers. Surely you can see that trans people are due rights, just not ones that impinge on the freedom and safety of others.