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Rape and Hamas and the denial of rape.

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ThereAreNoSloesOnThere · 22/05/2024 19:28

There have been a few threads on FWR about this before. I have lurked. We knew and know this is and was happening yet apparently it's okay if it is is happening to Jewish women or Israeli women.

I have long had a horrifying suspicion that the reason why so many of the women and girl hostages have continued to be held is until they are released with the evidential products of their rapes- the babies.

I fail completely to understand how this is being brushed aside and ignored.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13447359/Hamas-terrorists-taunt-young-Israeli-women-threat-rape-footage.html

Horrifying new footage shows Hamas kidnappers threatening women

WARNING: Graphic content: These are the horrifying first moments in captivity for the five youngest women held in Gaza by sick Hamas fanatics since October 7.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13447359/Hamas-terrorists-taunt-young-Israeli-women-threat-rape-footage.html

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ohthejoys21 · 22/05/2024 22:47

RebelliousCow · 22/05/2024 20:19

To be honest I'm thoroughly disgusted that some are so keen to dismiss or minimise what happened., or else engage in whataboutery...rather than face up to the events of October 7th that precipitated the current situation in Gaza.

I have no idea if you are Jewish or not, it doesn't even matter.. but thank you so much. I think some people have developed an incredibly thick skin when it comes to the terror of the 7th. I do feel as though people have now distanced themselves thinking "They're all killing each other in the Middle East".

The truth is, these girls could be any of our daughters or daughter's friends. They're no different. One minute having Friday night dinner with their families, the next being raped.

That's not to minimise rape elsewhere in the world. It's to acknowledge THIS rape.

TomeTome · 22/05/2024 22:53

I don’t know anyone who denies the horrifying atrocities of October 7th.

Leftie99 · 22/05/2024 22:58

Just to say I agree with you OP.

The images and videos sicken me. I am angered when people say that it's a lie, it didn't happen, what about Gazan children dying etc, as though we cannot be repulsed by multiple atrocities at once.

Nanalisa60 · 22/05/2024 23:02

This is rape and these beautiful young women have had to endure this every day for the past seven months. Just imagine this was one of your family tell me that you would not want your government to send in the army to eliminate these monsters.

downwiththatsortof · 22/05/2024 23:23

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This 100%.

I can't get my head around student protests - seemingly mostly women supporting this shit - I just honestly can't believe that they see this and know what these evil evil bastards do and stand up for them. You really couldn't make it up!

TheSpicyOne · 22/05/2024 23:30

TBH just to add to my previous post, I don’t think I’ve EVER seen the mass rape, torture and barbaric murder of anybody, let alone civilians, women, children and babies minimised and seen as somehow deserved on such a scale as Oct 7th has been by people in the West (as seen in the mass demonstrations and protests on the streets and University campuses).

To say it has shocked me to the core is an understatement.

I often wonder if all those young women protesting even think about what it must be like to have their Achilles tendons sliced open so they can’t run before being beaten and raped, and held hostage by a terrorist government (and civilians) capable of pouring petrol on babies and burning them alive, for months enduring unimaginable horrors. Or being raped and murdered in absolute terror and their naked dead bodies paraded (and filmed) for people to cheer at, hit and spit on.

Most of the young girls in that video were 18-19. A similar age to most of the University protestors who have the luxury of living in safe countries with Mummy and Daddy funding them.

TomeTome · 22/05/2024 23:36

I don’t think opposing the slaughter in Gaza means you don’t condemn the assaults of October 7th.

TempestTost · 23/05/2024 00:41

RebelliousCow · 22/05/2024 20:32

There you go again. In plain sight.

Deal with the topic of the thread. -or start another of your own to discuss what you'd like to discuss, because right now your attitude is simply astonishing and shocking........You seem to want to minismise what happened. Why? Be honest.

I really don't understand what you are getting at here.

SpiritAdder suggested that the reason it's not talked about in this particular conflict is the same reason it's not talked about in other conflicts - people don't care much about rape.

Even if you thought there was a different reason, I have no idea how you think that's minimizing. It's a reasonable suggestion.

Ramblingnamechanger · 23/05/2024 00:49

Men rape in war and peace. It is always minimised. Where are the women of Hamas? And it doesn’t seem that the IDF have been successful in either getting rid of Hamas or returning these hostages. We care, we notice, we know.

79Helene · 23/05/2024 01:24

TomeTome · 22/05/2024 22:53

I don’t know anyone who denies the horrifying atrocities of October 7th.

You might not know them but they exist. They're all over social media and some have turned up on Mumsnet.

BezMills · 23/05/2024 02:29

It's horrendous and certainly would be counted as a war crime. I support the families in their desire to bring all the hostages home safely.
There's clearly disagreement inside Israel about the military operations in Gaza, and all I can do is hope for the best.

IwantToRetire · 23/05/2024 02:51

I fail completely to understand how this is being brushed aside and ignored.

Has it not occured to you that to constantly bring up what might be happening to these women is considered not to be supportive of the families, and indeed the women themselves. You demand that we all speculate about whatever private hell they are going through is quite strange.

As we all know, in areas of conflict and natural disasters women (and too often children) become victims of male violence including sexual violence.

And as a PP said, did you spend any time wonder about the women kidnapped by Boko Haram and the fact that some of these women have returned with children as a result of rape. And many are now leading wretched lives.

I started a thread about women who have been victims of war, and why countries are still not acting on international promises to try and stop this.

Can you explain why you are only concerned about Israeli women.

If of course you have started other threads in the past about women who have suffered in a similar way, eg the Yazidi women who have and continue to face horrendous situtation.

Of course if you have started threads about them please do provide links.

And just to add because some women who are left aligned make silly comments on twitter, it surely isn't worth while starting a thread about such a deliquent minority. Why are you obsessed with these baby politicos?

IwantToRetire · 23/05/2024 02:59

Just so that we can stick to facts, here are some extracts from a newspaper based in Israel.

The women in the video are / were civilian employees of the IDF, who alerted the army to a potential attack and were ignored. The result was that as unarmed civilians they were captured. (And not to minimise what has happened to them, it is quite likely that male civilians captured in those circumstances would have faced similar violence.)

The utter failure of the IDF has in fact led to a law suit against them.

From the article:

It was an agonizing decision for the families of the five young female soldiers kidnapped on October 7: Exposing their daughters' ordeal to the world by releasing a three-minute video showing them herded into trucks bloody, battered, brutalized and terrified while at the mercy of cruel and scornful kidnappers – who then, once in Gaza, displayed them like trophies of war.

The fact that the parents of these young women abducted from their army base on Kibbutz Nahal Oz were driven to take this step points to their anger and desperation in the face of the Netanyahu government's callousness when it comes to prioritizing the lives of the hostages.

The families made that clear, in a statement calling the video "an indictment for a national failure, and the abandoning of the hostages" and pushing the government to "wake up" and save their daughters – along with <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.ph/o/zPHqu/www.haaretz.com/haaretz-explains/2023-10-22/ty-article-magazine/hostages-held-by-hamas-the-names-of-those-abducted-from-israel/0000018b-55f8-d5d2-afef-d5fdd04e0000" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">the other 123 hostages who have been held in captivity for 229 days.

It is shameful that families of kidnapped Israelis feel they have to resort to these tactics – just as they have resorted to <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.ph/o/zPHqu/www.haaretz.com/israel-news/2024-04-02/ty-article/.premium/police-hostage-families-clash-as-hundreds-rally-outside-pm-home-in-jerusalem-5-arrested/0000018e-9feb-d4f2-a9cf-bfff4a830000" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">civil disobedience at countless demonstrations in order to receive what should be their inalienable right: intensive and uninterrupted sympathy, attention and respect from the country's elected leaders.

Their feeling of abandonment cuts to the heart of the ethos of the Israel Defense Forces. In an unwritten contract, parents in Israel entrust their most precious assets and hopes for the future to the state. They have done so throughout Israel's history with the understanding that leaders will be careful with their children's lives – only risking them when there is no other choice, and doing anything possible to get them back if they are taken prisoner.

What the video depicts is visual evidence of the violation of that contract. The five young women in the video were not combat soldiers – they were left unarmed and vulnerable on a remote kibbutz adjacent to the Gaza border to do their job. No one was there to defend and protect them. They were not even provided with weapons to protect themselves.

Full article at https://www.haaretz.com/israel-news/haaretz-today/2024-05-22/ty-article/.highlight/israeli-government-responds-to-brutal-film-of-women-hostages-with-shameless-arrogance/0000018f-a0cf-d639-a5bf-f3ffef930000

Can also be read at https://archive.ph/zPHqu

Israeli government responds to brutal film of women hostages with shameless arrogance

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https://www.haaretz.com/israel-news/haaretz-today/2024-05-22/ty-article/.highlight/israeli-government-responds-to-brutal-film-of-women-hostages-with-shameless-arrogance/0000018f-a0cf-d639-a5bf-f3ffef930000

gestroopd · 23/05/2024 04:49

This footage was available from October 7th-8th. I saw it then. Not sure why it's being said to be released now.

The DM article linked in the OP says, "Just hours earlier they had been taken from the Nahal Oz base on the Gaza border doing mandatory national service as observation lookouts."

They were not civilians, they were soldiers. Or are, if they're still alive. There are conscientious objectors in Israel, so they had another choice, although that involves prison and being socially outcast, so at 18/19 I'm not sure how much of a decision it really is.

Female soldiers run MASSIVE risks of being raped in combat (and by colleagues). Female civilians too, but for soldiers it's huge. That does not make it ok. It's simply a fact, a horrible fact. It's one reason people don't want them on the front line - if they're captured rape is a certainty.

Should female Israeli soldiers be raped? Of course fucking not! But are they in any way unique if they have been? Very, very sadly, no.

I'd like someone to find me a war, a combat zone, in any point in history, where women were captured, military or civilians, where they were not raped or in any way sexually threatened, at any point in history. Combatants tend to be male and rape and sexual torture is a weapon of war. Even if women are kidnapped and it's not war, they're under MASSIVE threat of rape. Groups of men do not kidnap groups of women - especially soldiers - and then say, "Let us protect you, we respect you."

Rape and threat of it, as well as sexual assault, is used - and been documented well before October 2023 - in Israeli military prisons on Palestinian detainees. On women AND men. Americans sexually torture detainees in Abu Ghraib. I'd be very surprised to hear British soldiers haven't done it. Ever. I mean, it's not like British men don't rape British women. So why not rape female prisoners nobody can see? Do men suddenly behave with stricter morals when they don a military uniform and have an enemy than in civilian life?!

Anybody who thinks it's unacceptable for Israeli women to be raped or sexually assaulted, must surely think it's unacceptable across the board. Unless they think that some women count, and others don't, that some women's lives are more important than other women's, or that some women actually deserve to be raped?

Rape is a common weapon of war. Rape is a common weapon against women. It's horrendous.

Maaate · 23/05/2024 07:15

Can't believe some are still missing the point. Must be deliberate because surely nobody can be that stupid 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ritadidsomethingbad · 23/05/2024 07:21

gestroopd · 23/05/2024 04:49

This footage was available from October 7th-8th. I saw it then. Not sure why it's being said to be released now.

The DM article linked in the OP says, "Just hours earlier they had been taken from the Nahal Oz base on the Gaza border doing mandatory national service as observation lookouts."

They were not civilians, they were soldiers. Or are, if they're still alive. There are conscientious objectors in Israel, so they had another choice, although that involves prison and being socially outcast, so at 18/19 I'm not sure how much of a decision it really is.

Female soldiers run MASSIVE risks of being raped in combat (and by colleagues). Female civilians too, but for soldiers it's huge. That does not make it ok. It's simply a fact, a horrible fact. It's one reason people don't want them on the front line - if they're captured rape is a certainty.

Should female Israeli soldiers be raped? Of course fucking not! But are they in any way unique if they have been? Very, very sadly, no.

I'd like someone to find me a war, a combat zone, in any point in history, where women were captured, military or civilians, where they were not raped or in any way sexually threatened, at any point in history. Combatants tend to be male and rape and sexual torture is a weapon of war. Even if women are kidnapped and it's not war, they're under MASSIVE threat of rape. Groups of men do not kidnap groups of women - especially soldiers - and then say, "Let us protect you, we respect you."

Rape and threat of it, as well as sexual assault, is used - and been documented well before October 2023 - in Israeli military prisons on Palestinian detainees. On women AND men. Americans sexually torture detainees in Abu Ghraib. I'd be very surprised to hear British soldiers haven't done it. Ever. I mean, it's not like British men don't rape British women. So why not rape female prisoners nobody can see? Do men suddenly behave with stricter morals when they don a military uniform and have an enemy than in civilian life?!

Anybody who thinks it's unacceptable for Israeli women to be raped or sexually assaulted, must surely think it's unacceptable across the board. Unless they think that some women count, and others don't, that some women's lives are more important than other women's, or that some women actually deserve to be raped?

Rape is a common weapon of war. Rape is a common weapon against women. It's horrendous.

A very long post excusing the rape of females.

‘but she was a solider..’

Maaate · 23/05/2024 07:37

Yeah, she's a soldier. Which makes her a PoW and Hamas guilty of breaching the Geneva Convention

Additionally, Israel has mandatory military service for men and women from the age of 18, so these girls are likely to be conscripts doing their 2 years.

MultiPolarista · 23/05/2024 07:38

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Maaate · 23/05/2024 07:42

No, it's in response to the videos of the bloodstained female Israeli PoWs and how some people are minimising and excusing what is happening to them

CwmYoy · 23/05/2024 07:42

Disgusting replies from rape apologists. Not surprised though, given previous posts.

Why not just condemn without whataboutery?

I think we all know the answer to that.

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ArabellaScott · 23/05/2024 07:52

Maaate · 23/05/2024 07:15

Can't believe some are still missing the point. Must be deliberate because surely nobody can be that stupid 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sometimes yes it's deliberate. The only other thing I'll say is that we recoil instinctively from such abject horror - nobody wants to believe its true, humans have great capacity for denial, and sometimes whataboutery is part of that. I can notice it in myself looking at the picture in the OP. I don't want to see or believe it, I would prefer to be angry or think about something else.

Because it is just about unbearable to think about what the girls in the picture are going through, have gone through.

EllaDisenchanted · 23/05/2024 07:54

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or you could read the OP - the thread is in reaction to the footage released by the families of the 5 19 year old girls still being held hostage by Hamas, the violence against whom the world continues to ignore, minimise, deny, or worse, justify, in the name of resistance. The girl stumbling to the vehicle, with her top ripped and bra exposed, blood on her pyjama trousers, Naama Levy's bloodied trousers, the Hamas terrorist looking at the girls and commenting that "these are the ones that can get pregnant" - the footage explicitly highlights what Jewish and Israeli women have been shouting into the wind since October.

https://x.com/drewpavlou/status/1788563608710066267?s=46
Australian students : Today I interviewed two students at the University of Queensland anti-Zionist camp in Brisbane Australia.
I asked: ''How many civilians would it be justified to kill in order to liberate Palestine?'' They answered ''As many as necessary.''
''We 100% support Hamas and their right to resist. We want Hamas to succeed in their resistance movement.''
Or as others have catchily put it "Resistance is justified, when people are occupied".

Or even better, actively calling for October 7th to happen again and again/ standing with Hamas terrorists ""Remember the 7th of October!" shouted a man with a red keffiyeh over his face in a video published by Columbia Sundial editor-in-chief Jonas Du on social media on Friday. "That will happen not one more time, not five more times, not 10 more times, not 100 more times, not 1000 more times, but 10,000 times!"
"Never forget the 7th of October," said another masked man wearing a Palestinian flag, standing outside the campus gates on Thursday night. "Are you ready? 7th of October is about to be every day. Every day. 7th of October is going to be every day for you.":
https://m.jpost.com/diaspora/antisemitism/article-798049

The violence in this video are what these people are justifying, supporting, and calling for.

"These claims have been debunked many times by many different sources." What claims are you saying have been debunked?

It is possible to hold two truths at once. You can support Gaza, and Palestinians, and highlight their plight, but it does not have to be done by standing on the blood of Jewish and Israeli girls.

x.com

https://x.com/drewpavlou/status/1788563608710066267?s=46

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And the warrants for Hamas leaders, of course.

RebelliousCow · 23/05/2024 08:01

Sloejelly · 22/05/2024 20:56

Rape is an act of violence and the wider context for this situation is indeed very complex but these girls need to be freed and to be allowed to go home.

No one is suggesting they should not be freed and allowed to go home. But what next for the discussion? What is to be learnt from considering this case in isolation from any other sexual violence in conflict by the many other Islamic terrorist groups? Hamas is not unique. Nor is the line from Hamas to the Rochdale Grooming gangs a long one. If we are to get the answer to why Oct 7th rapes are ignored then we also need to look at why the girls Rochdale were silenced, it is the same answer.

The the rapes of Ocber are being denied, minimised or ignored because they don't fit the preferred narrative of glorious reistance against oppression. some people clearly still don't want to face that terrble things were done in the name of 'liberation'.

The Rochdale grooming case was purely because peeople were frightened or cowed into denial and minimisation, firstly, because the girls were thought to have "brought it on themselves" ( typical rape apology), but also, and very importantly because the perpertrators were Muslims and the police and other organisations didn't want to stoke community tensions.

Of course, many people people also choose to believe that the raped and brutalised Israeli women, and children, brought it on themselves, or that they somehow deserved it because they belong to a supposed " oppressor group".