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Rishi Sunak - "a man is a man, a woman is a woman"

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Ellos · 04/10/2023 21:44

..and how we shouldn't be bullied into believing somebody can be any sex that they want.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJcxUehh/

AIBU to want to give him a round of applause?

I know, it's convenient timing and obviously a strategy move but how good is it to hear that straight from the horses mouth when the country has spent the past god knows how long bowing down to the loud and often disturbed minority.

I still can't stand the Tories and won't be voting for them but cheers for acknowledging the insanity, Rishi.

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Almosthumannow · 04/10/2023 22:38

I’m a grumpy old feminist and have no time for this gender self-identity bollocks, but I’m afraid I balked at this language.

It’s horrible and exclusionary. Gender dysphoria is a thing. Some people are trans.

Polarising the argument does nothing to help.

Ellos · 04/10/2023 22:39

JustBeKinder · 04/10/2023 22:38

As the mother of a transgender daughter who I am extremely proud of for her courage in being who she wants to be I am utterly disgusted by his remarks, and by a lot of the hateful comments on here

Why? What comments disgust you? Can you elaborate?

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Hersecretserviceyourmaj · 04/10/2023 22:39

TRA? Goodness, the lengths some will go to. I'm a 52 year old woman,who is just as sick of other women being guilt tripped into being born a woman. Get a grip with your paranoia.

DivingForLove · 04/10/2023 22:40

@Thinkingofbankruptcy just because he supposedly “knows what a woman is” doesn’t mean he gives a flying fuck about them 🙄. Anyone voting Tory because they defend women is utterly fucking deluded 🤬.

RobynRB · 04/10/2023 22:40

Chuffaluffa · 04/10/2023 22:19

Have you taken a second to think about the impact of him saying that on trans men and women who are just trying to exist, and their existence has just been denied by a PM so desperate for votes he’s appealing to the only possible audiences he’s got left- racists, whatever’s left of the GB news audience, and people who don’t believe trans people should exist.

trans people do and have always existed, for the absolute vast majority without harm to anyone. Unlike men, for what it’s worth.

Lee Anderson knew what he was doing when he said the only things the Tory party could campaign on were ‘culture wars and trans people’- shame on you for proving him right.

that you’d think this was worthy of applause is horrendous, but I guess it’s to be expected on mumsnet.

Laughably ridiculous statement...

the only possible audiences he’s got left- racists, whatever’s left of the GB news audience, and people who don’t believe trans people should exist.

SoIRejoined · 04/10/2023 22:40

I agree OP. I've been a lone voice speaking up in defence of women in my own little sphere. I'm glad to see anyone speaking out on this, regardless of their politics. It makes me feel a bit less alone.

lifeturnsonadime · 04/10/2023 22:40

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tiersta · 04/10/2023 22:41

Didn't hear him say it but totally right.

Fact is fact. Why is it an insult? It's like saying a car is a car and a bus is a bloody bus!

Everyone is a bloody snowflake.

Ellos · 04/10/2023 22:42

Almosthumannow · 04/10/2023 22:38

I’m a grumpy old feminist and have no time for this gender self-identity bollocks, but I’m afraid I balked at this language.

It’s horrible and exclusionary. Gender dysphoria is a thing. Some people are trans.

Polarising the argument does nothing to help.

Of course gender dysphoria exists, I'm yet to hear an argument that it doesn't.

Some people are trans yes, trans.

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ketchup07070 · 04/10/2023 22:42

@Almosthumannow Same. I think single sex services and provisions are essential, but I'm not up for ridiculing vulnerable people, or making them a target.

OvaHere · 04/10/2023 22:42

Ellos · 04/10/2023 22:31

..and it is a good thing because we have become a nation where stating such a fact has become illegal, prohibited, frowned upon and comes with the risk of being arrested and losing your job.

Nobody else has said it. Maybe now they will.

This is exactly why it's a good thing regardless of whether it wins them the election or not (probably not).

Helen Joyce wrote a very good and comprehensive article today (paywalled or I would link) about stories she's collected from women working in media who have lost jobs and freelance work due to writing or talking about this issue in far milder terms than Sunak did.

This ducking stool insanity for women who know that men aren't women has to stop.

Messyhair321 · 04/10/2023 22:43

Abergale · 04/10/2023 21:52

What’s with the start of that clip: “life means life” remark he makes? Does he mean we should all enjoy life or something else?

Maybe he thinks we should all go straight to jail 😅

Patchworksack · 04/10/2023 22:44

Notable that this is not included in the coverage of his speech on the BBC 10pm news

bringbacktheladiesloos · 04/10/2023 22:44

I know what you mean OP.

I am not tory, I never have and never will vote tory. None of my family or friends are tory. Neither my place of birth or home town are tory and probably never will be.

yet - Sunak is the little kid who shouted 'but he's not wearing any clothes!'.

Then all of a sudden everyone felt relieved because they didn't have to pretend anymore.

Ellos · 04/10/2023 22:45

bringbacktheladiesloos · 04/10/2023 22:44

I know what you mean OP.

I am not tory, I never have and never will vote tory. None of my family or friends are tory. Neither my place of birth or home town are tory and probably never will be.

yet - Sunak is the little kid who shouted 'but he's not wearing any clothes!'.

Then all of a sudden everyone felt relieved because they didn't have to pretend anymore.

This with bells on 🙂

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lifeturnsonadime · 04/10/2023 22:45

JustBeKinder · 04/10/2023 22:38

As the mother of a transgender daughter who I am extremely proud of for her courage in being who she wants to be I am utterly disgusted by his remarks, and by a lot of the hateful comments on here

Your daughter will always be male.

I hope you are teaching your daughter boundaries and to respect the fact that her presence in single sex spaces is without consent and will cause others harm.

Because it will.

I am glad your daughter is happy. I think you should work with her to understand the boundaries of women though and that she is not female and has no right to go where she should not be without consent.

Messyhair321 · 04/10/2023 22:46

No YABU he irritates the hell out of me and I won't be voting for him whatever he's spouting this week. Shallow & also a bit or an ignoramus. I am so bored of people who go on about trans people, christ, leave them alone, they're just people ffs

BitOutOfPractice · 04/10/2023 22:46

Sorry @Ellos my outburst was about 4 hours behind the thread. I have been agreeing with you and supporting you throughout. My “Tories are unelectable” outburst was not aimed at you. I know you think that too.

ManyATrueWord · 04/10/2023 22:48

Good for him.

I am no fan of the Conservatives but I can keep fighting for women's rights under them. If Labour get in, they are gone. I have more rights under the Tories than I would under Labour or Lib Dem. I don't know why the Left don't see that is important to me.

Thementalloadisreal · 04/10/2023 22:50

He’s gone full Trump. It’s desperate and dangerous. What a cretin.

Messyhair321 · 04/10/2023 22:50

@lifeturnsonadime yeah you need to stop pushing your beliefs onto other people, because they are outdated and stink of fear & ignorance. Respect other people? really, I would take a long hard look in the mirror. If the worst thing that can happen to you is that a trans person enters into a bathroom you want to piss in, well you have a good life I can tell you that much. Maybe look around at people who are really suffering, because your reality is small.

CreeperBoom · 04/10/2023 22:51

Almosthumannow · 04/10/2023 22:38

I’m a grumpy old feminist and have no time for this gender self-identity bollocks, but I’m afraid I balked at this language.

It’s horrible and exclusionary. Gender dysphoria is a thing. Some people are trans.

Polarising the argument does nothing to help.

This!

It's one thing to be concerned about single sex safe spaces being taken away from vulnerable women, teenagers taking hormones too young, women's sport being ruined, etc.

But putting the boot into people who are just trying to live their lives, is not on. Doing it at a tory conference for cheap applause is just opportunistic. This is an issue with real nuance, not one that should be polarised for headlines.

I also disagreed with the hospital ward policy this week too. Women can't be guaranteed a single sex ward in the first place. It's meaningless.

Hersecretserviceyourmaj · 04/10/2023 22:51

Messyhair321 · 04/10/2023 22:46

No YABU he irritates the hell out of me and I won't be voting for him whatever he's spouting this week. Shallow & also a bit or an ignoramus. I am so bored of people who go on about trans people, christ, leave them alone, they're just people ffs

If only trans people would leave women alone

EasternStandard · 04/10/2023 22:51

Patchworksack · 04/10/2023 22:44

Notable that this is not included in the coverage of his speech on the BBC 10pm news

Nothing about it on BBC radio

lifeturnsonadime · 04/10/2023 22:51

Messyhair321 · 04/10/2023 22:50

@lifeturnsonadime yeah you need to stop pushing your beliefs onto other people, because they are outdated and stink of fear & ignorance. Respect other people? really, I would take a long hard look in the mirror. If the worst thing that can happen to you is that a trans person enters into a bathroom you want to piss in, well you have a good life I can tell you that much. Maybe look around at people who are really suffering, because your reality is small.

Beliefs that people can't change sex and that women are human and have the right to say no to males, however they identify?

Nah mate, I won't put the males first, no matter if you put him in a dress to try to hide the misogyny.

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