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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Róisín Murphy 2

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WarriorN · 13/09/2023 16:58

New thread as lots of deeper discussions going on

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MarieDeGournay · 24/10/2025 09:30

BonfireLady · 24/10/2025 09:00

OMG. She's amazing. What a roast, as my kids would say 😂😂😂

I really hope that other people in the public eye in the music industry (and arts industry in general) are watching her refusal to kowtow to the DARVO and coercion... and gaining the confidence to do the same.

Go Roisin 💪🔥💪🔥💪🔥

(And sorry that I called you Resin. I can't remember where the accents go, but I know I've seen it somewhere. I didn't want to put them in the wrong place and accidentally create a different word that was worse!)

Roisin vs Róisín isn't too bad - better than caca vs. cáca - 'cáca' means 'cake', the first word doesn't need translation..
Or lon vs lón - blackbird vs lunch!
Very confusing if you're having four and twenty blackbirds baked in a pie for lunch😄

The accent is called a 'fada' [fahdah] and that means long, so it goes over a vowel to show that it is long rather than short.
So Roisin would be pronounced rushin, Róisín is rowsheen.

Biffo, I love CEEFAX for CMAT, it's nicely out of date😁

I quite like what I've heard of CMAT's music, and she's certainly an interesting person and artist. She could be 'grand' as we say here if she wasn't so steeped in genderwoo, and the intolerance and nastiness that seems to goes with it.

lcakethereforeIam · 24/10/2025 10:16

It seems nowadays to earn a living in the arts you need to come from privilege. It's not just the nepo babies, it's the sprogs of wealthy parents who have the cushion of their parents money. This may intersect with all the trans identifying kids that celebrities seem to be sporting. Even if they're not trans themselves they're going to move in the same circles and they will be desperate to avoid getting 'cancelled'.

Róisin's music isn't to my taste unfortunately, I wish it was, but I'm not the biggest fan of Harry Potter either. I've said of JKR that she's not my favourite writer, but she's my favourite writer. So I can say Róisin Murphy isn't my favourite musician, but she's my favourite musician.

NettleandBramble · 24/10/2025 10:46

I loved Róisin's show. I wouldn't have been if it wasn't for another Mumsnetter, but will definitely go again. She has great showmanship and there was a fantastic atmosphere. Everyone enjoying themselves and not bothered that she was supposed to be cancelled.

libertineagain · 24/10/2025 16:21

That reply to IW 🔥🔥🔥

I couldn't love her more - I very much enjoyed her supporting New Order last year and look forward to seeing her in the future.

Biffology · 24/10/2025 22:17

I’m beginning to get the impression that the most fanatical tg activists are actually mentally unstable in some way. Your thoughts ?

BonfireLady · 24/10/2025 22:41

My thoughts: lots of people are mentally unstable.

There are people who have been pushed to the edge of their own sanity on the "GC" side of everything as well e.g. parents who have been fighting hard to keep their children safe, detransitioners who recognise that their previous decisions now carry a life-long consequence, women fighting to be heard about why they needed single-sex spaces while they were dismissed as bigots.

But yes, on the face of it, the most ardent of the TRAs do seem to struggle with this.

NettleandBramble · 24/10/2025 22:52

I watched someone start off fairly reasonable but as time went on and they became more and more upset by 'misgenderings' then they started to get a bit funny with people who were probably just completely bamboozled by the whole situation.

Biffology · 24/10/2025 23:08

They don’t seem too eager to practice the tolerance and acceptance that they expect from everyone else.

All too happy to stand in judgement on everyone else but a big blind spot over their own attitudes and behaviour.

Thing is, Twitter/X is providing the rest of us with ample black-and-white evidence of their toxicity. They appear to have overlooked this fact.

Biffology · 24/10/2025 23:09

In a nutshell, they claim to be great people and regard themselves as such but provide little evidence of that greatness.

Biffology · 24/10/2025 23:43

Twitter, in particular, seems to exacerbate the paranoiac aspects of the ideology, where all thought or opinion which diverges from their dogma, must be eliminated.

It’s almost no longer about anything that relates to the real world - just a compulsive desire to destroy, which overtakes them.

They basically set women an impossible expectation. Why ? I suspect it’s to shift blame onto women, for the punishment that gets meted out, when those impossible expectations are not met.

Opportunists can then weaponise that mechanism, of expectation and punishment, to serve their own sociopathic ends.

WarriorN · 25/10/2025 09:07

im going to install a self imposed SM ban on myself today but I believe that answers lie in some research around how some individuals have a basic leaning towards authoritarian tendencies or fixed thinking about some aspects the world and others have a natural inquisitiveness around exploring ideas, debate and the ability to change their ideas based on new evidence.

you have these people on both the “left” and “right” from a political point of view.

Helen Lewis did a radio 4 prog on it and also an article somewhere iirc. We had a thread here too.

Twitter exacerbates that basic psychological premise

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WimbledonWhites · 25/10/2025 21:07

This is so great to see from Róisín. And I loved her saying she doesn’t want be to be “mother” or “queen” to her fans. I really hate that kind of thing and it seems ubiquitous.

Lottapianos · 25/10/2025 22:36

'And I loved her saying she doesn’t want be to be “mother” or “queen” to her fans. I really hate that kind of thing and it seems ubiquitous.'

Me too! She's obviously completely fucking had it up to here and I am right behind her. I cried reading her latest tweet earlier. Absolutely magnificent stuff - really glorious. She's going to need a lot of support in the coming days and weeks

WarriorN · 26/10/2025 05:10

She is, but I think she’d got it in spades ….

JKR and her have been tag teaming dame Katy

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/10/2025 07:15

Hahaha go Roisin! 🤣

biddyboo · 26/10/2025 07:26

Lottapianos · 25/10/2025 22:36

'And I loved her saying she doesn’t want be to be “mother” or “queen” to her fans. I really hate that kind of thing and it seems ubiquitous.'

Me too! She's obviously completely fucking had it up to here and I am right behind her. I cried reading her latest tweet earlier. Absolutely magnificent stuff - really glorious. She's going to need a lot of support in the coming days and weeks

Me too. Trans activists try to blackmail people into compliance. Basically do what we say or we will destroy your career. I'm glad she told them to get fucked. I do hope the repercussions aren't too severe for her though because we know how toxic the music and arts scene is when it comes to this issue,. She is very brave.

BonfireLady · 26/10/2025 07:59

WarriorN · 26/10/2025 05:10

She is, but I think she’d got it in spades ….

JKR and her have been tag teaming dame Katy

😂😂😂😂

This woman is phenomenal 👏👏👏👏

As a related aside, Boy George seems to consistently put the word "trans" in quote marks when he writes it - I've added a screenshot of a couple of examples below.

I wonder why he's writing it like that. Surely the mob that descended on RM can't be far off coming for him too if he carries that on. At the very least, I imagine one of them will ask him why he's genociding trans people by implying their existence isn't a real thing etc etc.

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MarieDeGournay · 26/10/2025 08:18

WarriorN · 26/10/2025 05:10

She is, but I think she’d got it in spades ….

JKR and her have been tag teaming dame Katy

Combining politics, intelligence, wisdom, and wicked wit - RM and JKR make a fine teamSmile

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/10/2025 10:01

WarriorN · 23/10/2025 15:40

Not seen that but my god, the trolls are really out in force

I read an article a few years ago about gay male 'stanning' culture, whereby gay men idolise a female pop star, actress or other' diva'. This adulation and obsessiveness has a inevitable dark side when they turn against their idol.

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2018/sep/04/they-just-wanted-to-silence-her-the-dark-side-of-gay-stan-culture

'They just wanted to silence her': the dark side of gay stan culture

For gay men, ‘stanning’ – being a super fan of – female pop stars can be a valuable part of your identity. But too often this fandom lapses into misogyny and body shaming

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2018/sep/04/they-just-wanted-to-silence-her-the-dark-side-of-gay-stan-culture

poids · 26/10/2025 12:11

Roisin posted on X that Madonna sent trolls over to her instagram. What did Madonna do?

Lottapianos · 26/10/2025 12:24

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/10/2025 10:01

I read an article a few years ago about gay male 'stanning' culture, whereby gay men idolise a female pop star, actress or other' diva'. This adulation and obsessiveness has a inevitable dark side when they turn against their idol.

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2018/sep/04/they-just-wanted-to-silence-her-the-dark-side-of-gay-stan-culture

I absolutely recognise this. Women being put on a pedestal and 'adored', but only as long as they behave a certain way. The second they show signs of being a real human being - saying no, asserting an opinion - they're torn to shreds

libertineagain · 26/10/2025 13:38

poids · 26/10/2025 12:11

Roisin posted on X that Madonna sent trolls over to her instagram. What did Madonna do?

It's the DJ The Blessed Madonna not Madonna.

MarieDeGournay · 27/10/2025 08:57

libertineagain · 26/10/2025 13:38

It's the DJ The Blessed Madonna not Madonna.

Thank you, that's important info. I didn't know there was a third Madonna, so I was worried that the Virgin Mary had trolled Róisín😨
😃

ArabeIIaScott · 27/10/2025 11:48

Here we fucking go.

https://archive.ph/sfWt0

'Róisín Murphy Replaced As Istanbul Festival Headliner Over Latest Transphobic Post'

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