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evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:29

Oblahbla · 05/07/2023 23:28

People are countering with facts. Many posters on this thread are countering your claims with actual facts. Have a wee think about that.

Now come up with an original thought or solution. One solution, that's all i'm asking. It could be to the bathroom problem, the changing rooms, male sex offenders

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 23:29

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Oblahbla · 05/07/2023 23:29

'You just stated a fact'

And you just list your argument.

Third spaces - there's an idea for you to play with.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 05/07/2023 23:30

"Give me a solution"

"No, not that one"

😂

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:30

Third spaces.

Female Only
Male Only

Unisex (for trans and non binary people and anyone else who doesn’t actively want single sex spaces).

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:31

What I mean is yes sex and gender are different but you aren't even trying to come up with solutions that benefit Cisgender or Transgender Women other than keep the status quo which obviously isn't working.

RealityFan · 05/07/2023 23:31

Oblahbla · 05/07/2023 23:27

'What are the solutions. In-fact what is one solution. Not all of them just one. In actual detail instead of just a criticism of what I have to say'.

Admitting that humans can't change sex would be a good start.

Watching Helen Joyce with Peter Boghossian, reminding us all in crystal clarity, that the trans agenda falls at the very hurdle, there are males, there are females, one billion years of evolution leading to this forum on at 23.31 on 5th July 2023. And still, after all that time, no ability to change from one to the other.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 23:32

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:09

There we go again. Who gives a shit about the teenage boys right transitioning from MtF. I think hatred is the wrong word. Complete apathy for AMAB people in here and infantilizing of AFAB people as if they have no idea what they are doing.

If you quit throwing shit around maybe you would have read that I already discussed hours ago some of the effects on males.

Many of us are fucking parents and no, we don’t hate our children. That is just shit you are trying to fling.

And I can tell you that the teenagers you are telling us we are ‘infantilising’ are our children and our loved ones. Do you think we are uneducated bigots? Because I reckon some posters in here have read most available studies on this and listened to more hours of content from clinicians, trans people and detransitioners. Yet you fall back on mantra like trope. Everytime.

No. I mentioned effects for both sexes before I posted that last post. But accuse away!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 05/07/2023 23:32

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Sorry Beetle - my laughing wasn't aimed at your comment.
I understand how awful it is when people minimise child sex abuse and don't have the insight to recognise it or apologise for their ignorance.

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:32

Oh, and outlawing medical transition until the age of majority would solve the poor little chemically-castrated-boys-who-will-never-orgasm (a la Jazz Jennings) problem.

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 23:33

MrsOvertonsWindow · 05/07/2023 23:32

Sorry Beetle - my laughing wasn't aimed at your comment.
I understand how awful it is when people minimise child sex abuse and don't have the insight to recognise it or apologise for their ignorance.

Oh i wouldn't assume it was don't worry!

Hepwo · 05/07/2023 23:33

The best thing we can do right now is define sex in the equality act 2010 as biological.

That means we can have both single and mixed sex services and facilities without activists trying to shut down all single sex services.

That's fair isn't it ?

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:34

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:32

Oh, and outlawing medical transition until the age of majority would solve the poor little chemically-castrated-boys-who-will-never-orgasm (a la Jazz Jennings) problem.

This is in the US which has different laws and they performed GRS and the doctor that performed it was using an "experimental" procedure that hadn't been tested yet. It's awful and it shouldn't have happened and the doctors that performed it shrugged it off in there own incompetence but it's a very rare case

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:35

Hepwo · 05/07/2023 23:33

The best thing we can do right now is define sex in the equality act 2010 as biological.

That means we can have both single and mixed sex services and facilities without activists trying to shut down all single sex services.

That's fair isn't it ?

Ok good start. So how do you stop people of the wrong sex getting into these places? How do you protect them?

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 23:35

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:25

You incorrectly assume i have the time to look back at it. I have no doubt i've said something stupid, you try replying to 15 people at once. It's impossible.

Yet you took to time to be very offended at me when I have pointed it out to you repeatedly now.

I suggest you go back and read what you wrote and fucking give an apology to Boiled.

Hepwo · 05/07/2023 23:36

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:35

Ok good start. So how do you stop people of the wrong sex getting into these places? How do you protect them?

Same as we do now.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:36

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Do I have the repeat the point i'm dyslexic and I get things wrong, especially word associations. Christ on a stick. You know what I mean don't be an idiot please

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 23:36

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Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 23:37

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:36

Do I have the repeat the point i'm dyslexic and I get things wrong, especially word associations. Christ on a stick. You know what I mean don't be an idiot please

Nope not good enough

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:37

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:31

What I mean is yes sex and gender are different but you aren't even trying to come up with solutions that benefit Cisgender or Transgender Women other than keep the status quo which obviously isn't working.

That’s because we gender atheists, you big dafty!

There is no such thing as blue or pink souls. You can believe in souls if you like but we cannot arrange society around something that we cannot see, sex is material. To translate into language you might understand, Penis-people in one toilet, vagina -people in the other.

And no, amputating a penis doesn’t make a penis-person into a vagina-person, it makes them a penisless-penis-person (because humans cannot change sex and single sex facilities are divvied up on the basis of sex, the clue is in the name).

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 23:38

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:35

Ok good start. So how do you stop people of the wrong sex getting into these places? How do you protect them?

Are you saying that transitioned males cannot be trusted to uphold female single sex spaces if they have been told under legislation they are not to use those spaces?

If the law states it, why do you think that people will use the ‘wrong sex’ facility? What do you think we did before males decided that they could use our spaces?

Dumbo12 · 05/07/2023 23:40

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:36

Do I have the repeat the point i'm dyslexic and I get things wrong, especially word associations. Christ on a stick. You know what I mean don't be an idiot please

Well at least you do now appear to accept that pornography is associated with abuse, so at least there's that, I suppose. BTW dyslexia doesn't usually lead to such awful statements as child pornography isn't abuse and rape. As a person who is also dyslexic I have never made that error

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 23:40

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:37

That’s because we gender atheists, you big dafty!

There is no such thing as blue or pink souls. You can believe in souls if you like but we cannot arrange society around something that we cannot see, sex is material. To translate into language you might understand, Penis-people in one toilet, vagina -people in the other.

And no, amputating a penis doesn’t make a penis-person into a vagina-person, it makes them a penisless-penis-person (because humans cannot change sex and single sex facilities are divvied up on the basis of sex, the clue is in the name).

I'm beginning to think you may have to explain via diagrams

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:40

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:35

Ok good start. So how do you stop people of the wrong sex getting into these places? How do you protect them?

Why do they need protecting? Trans people won’t try and break the rules, will they?

Third spaces for anyone who doesn’t want to use their single sex space (so no, transmen aren’t a problem)

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:41

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I have. I've been doing research since I made friends with other Trans people at University and will continue to. I will continue to research better ways of protecting Cisgender women without compromising on progress and the freedoms of other people but so far all the solutions I see are. Keep things the same as always and hope people stop transitioning. If they don't restrict there freedoms and segregate them even if there isn't a reasonable cause to do so.

In some cases there are, in others there aren't. In women's shelters for example there should be a choice in whether Cisgender women are happy to be around those with different sex characteristics, but you can't police toilets, you can't ask to see someones genitals and you certainly don't want to bother installing gender neutral toilets / changing facilities or at least so what do you want to do. Transgender people wont stop transitioning just because you don't like it. I don't see how any of this helps other than to stoke the fire

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