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Boomboom22 · 05/07/2023 22:58

Grow up. You are being really really rude and ridiculous. You have mo concept of what feminism is and seem obsessed with stereotypes. And I don't believe your stories about your friends parents, sounds like manufactured drama fed from their rainbow families online.
Although I'd imagine when mn see that post you'll be banned from mn. How you can not see what you have written is a huge concern I have no idea. Schools teach this so you should know better.

RealityFan · 05/07/2023 22:59

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:49

This sounds like a soap opera at this point but this is the world we live in right now. This is the world you can create and I really thought I might finally find a place I could call home but all the feminist boards in the UK seem to be the same

Evie, you need to bring something to the party, to flounce out is so not cool.

How do you think GC feminists feel on boards like Reddit/trans? Told they're transphobic c*nts, any lesbian told they're a sexual racist for turning down TW attention. All GCs are praying for trans teen suicide and a general trans apocalypse.

There's zero dialog there.

You tell me this board approaches the toxicity of those?

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 23:00

I knew when I saw the wide-eyed false naivete ("oh noes! I didn't mean to derail!") that it would go this way.

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 23:00

@evieowlette you called child sex abuse child pornography. You said it wasn't like sexual offences or rape.

As someone who as a child was forced to be the child in those images yes it bloody well is like rape and sexual offences as those things happen whilst making those images for perverts around the world to sank off to.

and it's not Fucking child pornography. How Fucking dare you call it that like the children have a Fucking choice. How Fucking dare you!

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:01

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:55

If you want a list of Cisgender female sexual assault offences you can have them to be honest i'm sick of trying to make any kind of sense.

- Georgia Bilham (Sexual Assault)

  • Rachel Geraghty (Sexual Assault, Paedophilia)
  • Sarah Bennett (50, Sexual Abuse)
  • Kirstyann Kavanagh (23, Sexual truth or dare, Children)
  • Sonia Chivers (29, Performing sex acts next to child and recording)
  • Irene Torrie (42, Groping & Exposure)
  • Beverley Dean (54, Indecent exposure)
  • Ellee Nicoll (26, Groomed child into sex acts)
  • Jodie Tucker (27, Molested in public)
  • Louise Smith (43, Sex acts, child)
  • Laura Stephenson (29, Sex with a schoolboy)
  • Carol White (40, Molested kids)
  • Rebecca Williams (22, Molested child)
  • Shanon Anderson (25, Grooming, child)
  • Hannah Harris (24, Sexual Activity child)
  • Carole Taylor (36, Grooming, child)
  • Vicki Bevan (38, Rape, Child)
  • Carly Dear (47, Sexual Abuse)
  • Serena Marie Emily Ransom (28, Sexual Abuse, Child)
  • Jaqueline Milne (34, Sex, Minor)

It's too much to check individually but this is just from looking today. I also counted other cases for Trans Women and men because i'm an idiot and clearly I should have spent today doing something better.

  • Lexi-Rose Crawford (24, Rape, Previous conviction as a man, changed gender in prison) - Bristol
  • Jane Beck (53, Sexual Assault, Previous assault as a man) - Glasgow
  • Sally Dixon (58, indecent assault and Indecency, Previous assault as a man) - Sussex
  • Britnee Aitken (48, Molested, Previous conviction as a man) - Manchester
  • Colin Norfolk (68, Indecent exposure) - Sheffield
  • Claire Goodier (61, Assault as a man, Crossdressing) - Cheshire
  • Andrew Miller (53, Previous assault as a man) - Melrose
  • Marcia Walker (45, Previous assault as a man) - Oxford
  • Karen White (56, Previous assault as a man) - Yorkshire

Wtf is a ‘cisgender female’?

Hepwo · 05/07/2023 23:01

i'm sick of trying to make any kind of sense.

You won't while you are caught up in the confused bubble you are in.

You can't bluster your way out of saying that the photographing of children being raped and sexual abused is not sexual abuse and rape by posting a list of women offenders.

Just admit you made a mistake and didn't really understand that children don't make pornographic.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:02

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 22:57

Yes. Feminists are full of feminists who recognise that while you fully believe all you say, you have been wrong on so many things.

However, entering into a board and ‘educating’ feminists was your aim. I don’t believe you wanted discussion or you would have actually taken the time to read the board first.

I didn't mean to trust me. This is the last thing I want to do on a Wednesday, especially trying to prove my case a theme in Sexual Assault charges for Trans Women and crossdressers it sucks but this board is just full of all the same opinions so when can I stop. I have to defend the people I love and there experiences

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:03

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:01

Wtf is a ‘cisgender female’?

If you mean ‘female human’ then there are 30 million of us in the U.K. and only a teeny tiny fraction are sex criminals.

All of whom deserve criminal prosecution, btw.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 23:04

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:48

Ok now think about all the experiences they will miss out on from not going on puberty blockers and the irreversible harm that will come from the wrong puberty.

I'm not a mum myself. I hope I can be one day but I know from all the Trans people I know at university one was dumped at there graduation for wearing a suit and left homeless to go on a go fund me campaign. One currently lives in Japan after moving out because her Mum was so toxic they had to get away. They control her finances and she is considering killing herself this month. I've been trying to convince her not to.
Another trans girl I know personally as a friend online has been physically attacked by her dad and constantly gets demands from her mum to live with her rent free.
The last trans person I know who is non-binary and I studied with in Electronics, they are a christian and tries to get along with there mum but she refused to speak because of her religion.

In what world is any of this fair

Ok now think about all the experiences they will miss out on from not going on puberty blockers and the irreversible harm that will come from the wrong puberty

You are so far entrenched you cannot see past it.

Do you actually understand what happens to a female body on puberty blockers, while they are taking them? As a peri menopausal woman, I can attest to how brutal it is to the body. Now condense that into a young body and you have just condemned that teenager to incredible side effects. And then decades later, they will feel the rest of the side effects.

You seem oblivious to any of this. You wish this on children, on teenaged girls. You honestly think they are going to thank you for activating for that? When there is alternatives?

Oblahbla · 05/07/2023 23:08

evieowlette, not sure what your last post was trying to show. Women are guilty of sexual assault offences, certainly. But if you tried to list the male offenders it wouldn't be a dozen or so lines, it would be thousands upon thousands. And as it's proven transwomen offend at the same rates as men, your post is ineffectual.

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:09

Imagine missing out on:

Fertility
orgasm
10 IQ points
Normal bone density
a healthy body into midlife and beyond
Not being a medical patient for life

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:09

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 23:04

Ok now think about all the experiences they will miss out on from not going on puberty blockers and the irreversible harm that will come from the wrong puberty

You are so far entrenched you cannot see past it.

Do you actually understand what happens to a female body on puberty blockers, while they are taking them? As a peri menopausal woman, I can attest to how brutal it is to the body. Now condense that into a young body and you have just condemned that teenager to incredible side effects. And then decades later, they will feel the rest of the side effects.

You seem oblivious to any of this. You wish this on children, on teenaged girls. You honestly think they are going to thank you for activating for that? When there is alternatives?

There we go again. Who gives a shit about the teenage boys right transitioning from MtF. I think hatred is the wrong word. Complete apathy for AMAB people in here and infantilizing of AFAB people as if they have no idea what they are doing.

Oblahbla · 05/07/2023 23:11

'infantilizing of AFAB people as if they have no idea what they are doing.'

In many cases, they don't.

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 23:12

AMAB and AFAB - you really are deep into it, aren't you?
Sex isn't assigned at birth. It is observed.

Froodwithatowel · 05/07/2023 23:12

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:02

I didn't mean to trust me. This is the last thing I want to do on a Wednesday, especially trying to prove my case a theme in Sexual Assault charges for Trans Women and crossdressers it sucks but this board is just full of all the same opinions so when can I stop. I have to defend the people I love and there experiences

You don't seem to understand that women here care about women in the way that you care about trans people. Although getting sucked into meeting other people's needs and emotions is a very common theme on the relationships board and something many women struggle with, particularly younger ones. It's one of the things women here help each other with.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:14

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:09

Imagine missing out on:

Fertility
orgasm
10 IQ points
Normal bone density
a healthy body into midlife and beyond
Not being a medical patient for life

Seriously where are you getting this information from lmao. -10 IQ points specifically, just the word "orgasm", fertility despite the fact that puberty blockers do not affect fertility. HRT does!

Then when people are denied puberty blockers more expensive operations to counteract the wrong puberty, more drugs pumped into there systems to counteract increased levels of testosterone or Estrogen. What you are saying makes no sense at all.

The only part of that with any shred of evidence is the effects long term on bone density and nobody actually knows the effects yet because there hasn't been enough time available to study them

Hepwo · 05/07/2023 23:14

*In what world is any of this fair"

In the world outside of university where no one has to pretend.

I'm sure it's a bit of a shock that the bubble you are in is not replicated worldwide but it isn't and that's actually completely fair.

I feel sorry for students caught up in this awful mess. They have a big comedown coming.

Less sympathy for the boy pursuing his manga dreams in Japan complaining that mummy daddy might cut off the cash flow.

The problems of the privileged!

MavisMcMinty · 05/07/2023 23:14

AMAB and AFAB - is someone beside you scribbling notes on how to best wind up all the intelligent educated feminists on MN?

We are assigned our sex at conception. We are observed to be a male or a female baby at birth. The sperm that won the race to the egg “assigns” the sex of any resulting baby, not the doctor or midwife.

Anything else we can help you with?

NicCageisnotNickCave · 05/07/2023 23:14

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:09

There we go again. Who gives a shit about the teenage boys right transitioning from MtF. I think hatred is the wrong word. Complete apathy for AMAB people in here and infantilizing of AFAB people as if they have no idea what they are doing.

The side effects for puberty blockers are much harsher on a female body (and relatively pointless, seeing as the vast majority of female transitioners are relatively passable after a couple of years on testosterone).

Women are born with all their eggs. Men make sperm all the time.

the repercussions of medical transition are far more onerous for natal females, I’m surprised you don’t know that, what with all your ‘trans friends’ and all.

Besudes, this is a feminist board so obvs feminism means putting females first

🤦‍♀️

(I don’t think boys should be chemically castrated at puberty either, btw).

PatatiPatatras · 05/07/2023 23:15

A teenage boy is raped by two men and the thread has gone on a "they just want to pee" tangent.

Why didn't anybody call me for bingo? The day job is distracting me from the real stuff! Grumble...

Hepwo · 05/07/2023 23:15

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:14

Seriously where are you getting this information from lmao. -10 IQ points specifically, just the word "orgasm", fertility despite the fact that puberty blockers do not affect fertility. HRT does!

Then when people are denied puberty blockers more expensive operations to counteract the wrong puberty, more drugs pumped into there systems to counteract increased levels of testosterone or Estrogen. What you are saying makes no sense at all.

The only part of that with any shred of evidence is the effects long term on bone density and nobody actually knows the effects yet because there hasn't been enough time available to study them

You could look up Jazz Jennings for a start!

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 23:15

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:02

I didn't mean to trust me. This is the last thing I want to do on a Wednesday, especially trying to prove my case a theme in Sexual Assault charges for Trans Women and crossdressers it sucks but this board is just full of all the same opinions so when can I stop. I have to defend the people I love and there experiences

And that is your very own prejudice talking. I bet you consider yourself open minded and tolerant. You have come across as indoctrinated.

It is laughable. You just said the board is full of all the same opinions, yet you almost followed the extreme trans activist script. We could have predicted (some did) your next posts.

You still haven’t understood. Most of what you post is factually incorrect. You have believed misinformation. Had you actually read this board and then discussed things, we would have provided you with studies and reports that show your posts were incorrect. We would have talked you though then, but you were not interested. You were only interested, it seemed, in educating people who you reckon couldn’t think critically.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 23:16

MavisMcMinty · 05/07/2023 23:14

AMAB and AFAB - is someone beside you scribbling notes on how to best wind up all the intelligent educated feminists on MN?

We are assigned our sex at conception. We are observed to be a male or a female baby at birth. The sperm that won the race to the egg “assigns” the sex of any resulting baby, not the doctor or midwife.

Anything else we can help you with?

OMFG SHUTUP I have never met a bunch of girls who are so obsessed with fucking semantics. You're more woke than the people who use neo pronouns

Froodwithatowel · 05/07/2023 23:16

You might also want to look at the thread with the video of a group of detransitioners talking about how they needed adults in their life to hold boundaries, to slow them down and protect them because they made choices they feel happened too fast, without their being able to see the consequences, which they now bitterly regret.

Are you surprised that women and mothers especially would want to protect teenagers of both sexes from that kind of distress later on? That they wouldn't feel a responsibility to have the boundaries when those transitioners say that because of the lack of boundaries they were enabled into this disaster rather than protected by the adults who should have been there for them?

We're all on this board operating out of a sense of responsibility and care for others, we may have different perspectives on how best to act on that sense, but that is what underlies it.

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 23:17

OMFG SHUTUP I have never met a bunch of girls who are so obsessed with fucking semantics. You're more woke than the people who use neo pronouns

We're adult women, not girls.

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