@hotdiggetydog but the Starbucks employee didn't say that they are a woman (as far as I know), they are very obviously male, and you have stated that the only way you would think they were a woman is if they stated that themselves, so why on earth do you see two women?
Do you really not see how nonsensical it is to just accept that someone is what they say they are, regardless of any empirical evidence?
If the Starbucks employee said they were a banana, or an alien, or something equally ridiculous and clearly untrue, would you suddenly see a woman and a banana, or a woman and an alien?