Welcome to womanhood Dylan where women are judged on their appearance, life choices, over the years being bought and sold like cattle (some still are to this day), endure FGM, denied access to education, had to fight for the right to vote, in some US states are still fighting for rights over their bodies, still fighting for equal pay just about everywhere, will most likely get sexually abuse and/or sexual comments hurled at them from men they do not know whilst walking down the street or using public transport etc.
This is all part of 'being a girl' - welcome to the club, dry your eyes and toughen up. Compare your struggle to the women in Iran, Africa, America etc and get some perspective.
p.s. as a hint some of the backlash is probably based upon your ever so slightly misogynistic and stereotyping of 'women' which is incorrect and one we have worked hard to move on from.