SkyandSurf, imagine that white people regularly augmented themselves Rachel Dolezal-style to present themselves as black, and were everywhere in black spaces, insisting all genuinely black people addressed them as black.
Imagine adults IDing as kids, ditto.
Imagine fully-able individuals IDing as having disabilities and taking opportunities away, gaslighting those truly disabled.
Throw in the psychological distress of your group identity being nothing more than currency.
And the ramifications in wider society from the egress into safe spaces.
So the anger with DM is not just Nike BudLight Maybelline per se, it's this most visible manifestation of the total grind that females are subjected to, and the industry wide corporate slap in the face.
You're welcome to not see this is an issue, any woman can wear a Nike sports bra in the morning and get pissed on Bud Light while applying Maybelline as poorly as DM does in this video, just don't judge other women for feeling their core group identity is under sustained assault.