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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

NBC are quoting a police chief in Nashville...

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FusionChefGeoff · 27/03/2023 22:37

That's all I'm saying - Google is your friend and it's in the byline.

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MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:29

It wouldnt surprise me if the NRA were on this very thread, right now, trying to deflect the issue away from "Gun Control" to "Trans Control".

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 28/03/2023 01:30

Well, why are you on the Sex and Gender board, then?

Tbf I suspect we have hit the ‘trending’ section and a bunch of Mumsnetters who don’t usually read the Feminism section are failing to notice where this thread is located before firing off their angry missives.
Then they are doubling down and pretending that of course they checked what section they were in before they started lecturing us about minimum public mourning periods while repeatedly failing to grasp the importance of accurate news reporting for serious crimes.

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 28/03/2023 01:32

If my partner kills me I don't know that him being a transman should be the take away. I would hope the fact he killed me would be the upsetting part. Not that he identifies as a man. If he kills me it's due to some serious mental health issues, not that he has a vagina.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 28/03/2023 01:34

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:29

It wouldnt surprise me if the NRA were on this very thread, right now, trying to deflect the issue away from "Gun Control" to "Trans Control".

For a discussion board on the topic of sex and gender there is a surprising number of new posters trying to deflect the attention away from the murderer’s sex and gender and onto gun control 🤷‍♀️

PatatiPatatras · 28/03/2023 01:34

Trawl? Trawl? Bloody Trawl?

Children, very young children are dead. 3 innocent adults won't make it home today. And your ethos is that we should read the right news source?

We should only talk about the right things but also only read the right things. If you were saying this was fake news, I'd be mindful but you just want to censor which facts we read now?

It's beggars belief that any news source is trying to shy away from any facts in this case. and then you want us to read only the facts you deem respectable? Can you see or hear yourself?

Respect is giving those left behind the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

BreadInCaptivity · 28/03/2023 01:35

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:29

It wouldnt surprise me if the NRA were on this very thread, right now, trying to deflect the issue away from "Gun Control" to "Trans Control".

At this point you have just jumped the shark.

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 01:38

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 28/03/2023 01:34

For a discussion board on the topic of sex and gender there is a surprising number of new posters trying to deflect the attention away from the murderer’s sex and gender and onto gun control 🤷‍♀️

Admit it Crypto you've been here for So long you'd forgotten you are deep deep deep undercover. Just tell us you actually run the Norfolk branch of The NRA don't you!

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 28/03/2023 01:38

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 28/03/2023 01:32

If my partner kills me I don't know that him being a transman should be the take away. I would hope the fact he killed me would be the upsetting part. Not that he identifies as a man. If he kills me it's due to some serious mental health issues, not that he has a vagina.

Bit weird to talk about your romantic relationship on a thread about a mass school shooting with six dead, 3 of whom were children.

1Week · 28/03/2023 01:40

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 28/03/2023 01:32

If my partner kills me I don't know that him being a transman should be the take away. I would hope the fact he killed me would be the upsetting part. Not that he identifies as a man. If he kills me it's due to some serious mental health issues, not that he has a vagina.

Hopefully it never happens

But when tragedies like that do happen, all aspects of a persons life are examined. Smoked weed....
Depression...Work stress... early life traumas.
This is no different

TheBiologyStupid · 28/03/2023 01:41

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:29

It wouldnt surprise me if the NRA were on this very thread, right now, trying to deflect the issue away from "Gun Control" to "Trans Control".

Really??! This thread began because the OP was doubtful about news reports that a woman had carried out a school shooting, given the massive statistical likelihood of males carrying out such attacks. To her astonishment, it appears that the perpetrator was indeed female. And yet it seems that the shooter was indeed transgender, just as the OP had wondered. I don't know what the odds are on that, but it has nothing to do with the despicable NRA.

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:42

What about race? Is the race of assailant (UK) regularly given?

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:43

Or religion?

TheBiologyStupid · 28/03/2023 01:45

When relevant. The shooter in this case left a manifesto, which appears to be why the police released the details that they did.

Redebs · 28/03/2023 01:49

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 28/03/2023 01:32

If my partner kills me I don't know that him being a transman should be the take away. I would hope the fact he killed me would be the upsetting part. Not that he identifies as a man. If he kills me it's due to some serious mental health issues, not that he has a vagina.

A sizeable proportion of people with gender dysphoria also have other mental health issues. Some of those may result in them hurting other people or themselves. Not all of them.

Trans Rights Activists frequently point out levels of self harm amongst people with gender problems, but not so much higher levels of harm to other people

Redebs · 28/03/2023 01:51

BreadInCaptivity · 28/03/2023 01:35

At this point you have just jumped the shark.

Yes 🤣🤣🤣

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:52

It was a Christian school .....

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 01:53

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 28/03/2023 01:32

If my partner kills me I don't know that him being a transman should be the take away. I would hope the fact he killed me would be the upsetting part. Not that he identifies as a man. If he kills me it's due to some serious mental health issues, not that he has a vagina.

if your partner killed you and you lived in my area and your partner was on the run and dangerous I'd like to know if i should be on the lookout for a man, a woman, a man pretending to be a woman or a woman pretending to be a man.

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:54

Possibly reacting to transphobic ideology. We will have to see.

PatatiPatatras · 28/03/2023 01:56

MsJD the irrelevant daily mail usually gives it race, age and religion data. It's the very thing you find despicable apparently...

What's your point?
Don't mention it until your newspaper of choice confirms it is morally OK?

Sounds like how Rotherham got away with it for so long... only look at the info from the right source... even if you know they aren't lying.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 28/03/2023 01:56

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:42

What about race? Is the race of assailant (UK) regularly given?

This is the Sex and Gender board.

We’re here to discuss sex and gender.

The Independent has updated their online article in clear, easy to understand manner.

This means 2 out of a total of what, 5 or 6 female school shooters in a 45 year period have identified as transmen.

This is the previous case with a transman murderer (who had a male accomplice):

https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/colorado/news/maya-alec-mckinney-sentenced-deadly-stem-school-shooting/

NBC are quoting a police chief in Nashville...
1Week · 28/03/2023 01:56

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:54

Possibly reacting to transphobic ideology. We will have to see.

Yes, transphobic ideology is the problem when trans people leave innocents dead.

PatatiPatatras · 28/03/2023 01:59

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:54

Possibly reacting to transphobic ideology. We will have to see.

That's just... you need to re-read that... in the full context of what the "reaction" was.

Are you saying there's a possible excuse for this?

miniaturepixieonacid · 28/03/2023 01:59

To be fair to the media, news gets published so instantly nowadays that it's not surprising that this was reported so widely as a female crime. The perpetrator was shot dead. They only had appearance to go on. He looked like a woman and was probably physically a woman so it would be reported as a female attacker. It will have taken time for identification and perhaps even a bit longer than that to realise there were transgender issues involved. I don't imagine it means that it will be recorded as a female crime if mtf crimes get recorded as female crimes. They must have the same rule for whichever direction the dysphoria goes in. The reporting will probably correct itself to referring to the attacked by their male name and with male pronouns now that it's been worked out.

I'm very surprised this is the way it's gone. My thoughts were:
there are very few female attackers so it's unlikely to be a woman
there are very few transgender people so it's unlikely to be a man
I couldn't decide which scenario was more unlikely.
But for one of the very few female attackers to also be one the very few transgender people is so unlikely it's mind boggling.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 28/03/2023 02:02

MsJD · 28/03/2023 01:54

Possibly reacting to transphobic ideology. We will have to see.

Please clarify what you mean by this?

I hope you aren’t suggesting that 3 9 year
old children were murdered because they were pupils in a Christian school and all Christians and all pupils in Christian schools are transphobes?