It is good advice to check. If you go, I hope you enjoy the screening.
I understand how scared and reluctant women are to attend. Just as you pointed out, I also understand that not attending feels like you are giving in. But you can only ever do what you think is right for you and to keep you safe. I never expected to be standing hand in hand with women at an event. And the things that were being yelled at us felt surreal. So much of it was not even what we are working towards or what we believe.
Just like the poster who mistakenly thinks that supporting trans rights relies only on acceptable of male being called women in situations where it impacts on all female sex based rights, even the rights needed by female trans people. It all seems to be because of misinformation being spread.
And as you say, just us repeatedly refuting the misinformation doesn't seem to be working.
If you go, I will be thinking of you.