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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Carly-May Kavanagh

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NitroNine · 23/09/2022 00:46

There are rumours circulating on Twitter that Carly-May Kavanagh (the one who screams at babies: Daily Mail) has, despite her “apology” been suspended from the Labour Party. Presumably such a suspension would have an impact on her job as Lloyd Russell-Moyle‘s head of policy?

Apparently if she is suspended it [probably] won’t be made public. Given the reason for her [potential] suspension; if Labour actually do take action, you’d think they’d want to reassure people that they expect their members to uphold certain standards. I mean, “not screaming abuse at infants” is less upholding a standard than it is failing to trip over pebbles of basic decency…

Clearly one cannot put too much weight into Random Person Says Unevidenced Thing. However, it would be a foolish rumour to start without cause, so I thought it was worth starting a thread here to see if there are developments to follow.

Should Kavanagh face consequences for her behaviour it will be a watershed moment: Labour acknowledging women have rights all their own, including the rights to assemble & to speak on issues of concern to them, such as their need for single sex provisions.

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Waitwhat23 · 24/09/2022 10:12

littlbrowndog · 23/09/2022 22:04

Och sapphos. Just that. Them statements are so far adrift from ordinary woman like me.

seems like only educated women are fit to be allowed into whatever you are doing

I've seen a depressing amount of Twitter comments from women saying that they don't feel like they can contribute to the discussion because they are not 'academic feminists' and are being put off by the infighting. Many have mentioned that they are new to the whole debate and find the backbiting and various cliques confusing. Unless you are an old hand who knows the whole background, key players, feminist dialogue, history, previous discussions and political factions/policies etc, it's hard to know where to start. I certainly find some of this confusing and have to go off and read up on it.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:15

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:01

Yet the link you posted absolutely listed her ‘sins’.

Are you fully comfortable with that?

Sorry Sappho, I know it seems like I am needling you. But there are some major inconsistencies in things being said on this thread and by both individual feminists and feminist groups.

I am asking what your solution is, personally. It will no doubt be different to other people’s threshold for action is.

But honestly, with this exact type of event where the organisers do not know who is there filming (regardless of the suggestions from some people), what is your solution?

Maybe these events simply are worthless in your eyes because of that risk.

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 24/09/2022 10:16

Signalbox · 24/09/2022 09:31

I don't think it would be accurate to call the black clad TRAs at this event fascist. They are more likely to be left-wing extremists, anti-capitalist, anti-police, anti-state, anarchist.

How about calling them thugs?

I’m still interested in the question of why, if most of the trans rights protesters there were nice reasonable people, they didn’t try to stop the violent aggressive ones & haven’t, as far as I know, spoken up to disassociate themselves from the bomb throwers or the baby shouter.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:18

seems like only educated women are fit to be allowed into whatever you are doing

And to be specific, educated in a specific area and in complete alignment.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 24/09/2022 10:18

I'm sure Helen Saxby and Helen Joyce will think twice about attending a SFW event again.

What makes you say that? Did you make the effort to read the link I posted? Helen Joyce says a lot of interesting and relevant things about the problems of sharing platforms and what happens at rallies. No indication at all that she considers turning her back on SFW or KJK to be a solution.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 24/09/2022 10:19

Old wrinklies will recall groups like the Spartacist Alliance.

Oh yes, original source of Private Eye's "Dave Spart".

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:26

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 24/09/2022 10:18

I'm sure Helen Saxby and Helen Joyce will think twice about attending a SFW event again.

What makes you say that? Did you make the effort to read the link I posted? Helen Joyce says a lot of interesting and relevant things about the problems of sharing platforms and what happens at rallies. No indication at all that she considers turning her back on SFW or KJK to be a solution.

Yes. I will wait for Helen Joyce to confirm that she will not again speak at an open mic rally and that she does not support the women who choose to speak out in this way.

Datun · 24/09/2022 10:27

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 09:54

I have looked at the list of Posie Parker sins as per the Brighton feminist group as per the link posted by sappho.

On abortion rights:
As far as I remember, Kellie Jay supports abortion rights. She has said that to her, because of the reach of trans ideology, this single issue should be the focus. Not that abortion rights should be ignored. And she also makes the point that abortion rights should have been adequately protected long ago.

So Brighton feminists dispute her priorities? And that is enough to declare her a sinner and dedicate a page to her sins?

On reproductive rights:
this page has a snippet where Kellie Jay Keen is stating that she doesn’t agree with donor conception. Some of us on this forum also don’t agree with donor conception because there is a large chance that it exploits women’s bodies.

So, Brighton feminists are quite happy for women’s bodies to be exploited for donor conception?
This is one step off those gay men in the USA protesting that they should have access to surrogacy because of reproductive equality.

And also, many posters on this forum have also asked what is the effect of testosterone taken by a female on an infant? And why the overwhelming majority of women should be dehumanised through forced language changes to accommodate a miniscule group of females who deny they are women, but then go and have a baby which is something ONLY a female can do. It is questioning the validity of the points upholding gender.

On Islam:
Most of the comments used in this section was about the lack of questioning of those gangs preying on girls and how that had been allowed to happen through fear of questioning a section of the community.

Do Brighton feminists think any group of the community to be unquestioned ?

On the radical far right in the USA:
The first link opens to this ‘In this recent video, Posie Parker/KJK thanks Marjorie Taylor Greene:

"The LGBT community is attempting to indoctrinate or groom children...We 100% agree with you, thank you for saying so!"

Only a group determined on a bad faith interpretation would use this. Just like the first link also takes a bad faith interpretation of the comment about men entering into female toilets as an example of how easy it is to use this ‘loophole’ that has been forced to accept any male into female spaces.

I skimmed through the other links and it is the same. ‘Posie Parker does not shun other women with bad views so she should be reviled’ (my own ‘bad faith interpretation’)

So, again. Only the pure seem to be welcome in that Brighton feminist group.

On Critical Race Theory:
Maybe someone who knows more about Critical Race Theory can tell us more about this issue of Kellie Jay’s and why she needs to be denounced because of the view she expressed in that video.

What I see here is a list of ‘purity sins’ specific to that feminist group. And I think pretty weakly explained and full of bad faith interpretations.

I guess I might fail the purity test too on not having totally pure thoughts on the ‘reproductive rights’ issue. I know plenty of people who call themselves feminists who also would be.

So, good thing I am not trying to fit into the mould to join Brighton feminists.

And again, how feminist and how moral is it to list the sins of a woman on a web site who apparently you must agree on some issues on but not others?

Can we get an answer to that please?

I love it you get your teeth into something Helleofabore.

Hints, misrepresentation, ad homs, bad faith responses, strawmen - they don't stand a bloody chance.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:31

Datun

You have most definitely cottoned on that I have to pull at inconsistencies. For quietening my own dissonance alarm!

Abhannmor · 24/09/2022 10:32

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 24/09/2022 10:19

Old wrinklies will recall groups like the Spartacist Alliance.

Oh yes, original source of Private Eye's "Dave Spart".

Yes! Although I didn't know it at the time. Don't suppose the Black Pampers are familiar with the Workers Hammer though.

All streaming now innih.

Hepwo · 24/09/2022 10:38

"So, again. Only the pure seem to be welcome in that Brighton feminist group."

There is a definite clout heirarchy with that clique. You can't be allowed to move yourself into a more senior position without penalty.

It's quite funny really, they are as competitive as any basic bitch capitalists.

RhannionKPSS · 24/09/2022 10:38

So it’s would all be fine if KJK was featured in, and given the seal of approval by left wing paper like The Guardian but not if she featured in the Daily Mail? Because that’s what it appears to be the case imho.
The hypocrisy of some professional feminists is mind blowing.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 24/09/2022 10:39

TheClogLady · 23/09/2022 21:17

I also think it’s hilarious that a bunch of alleged racist thugs who rocked up on the day, that nobody knew from Adam, managed to conduct themselves like civilised human beings in public but the Right Side of History(TM) gang screamed abuse at a man and an infant, had 3 of their number arrested (one of whom had a bag of knives) and threw a bunch of glitter into a black woman’s hair.

It’s absolutely fucking wild isn’t it?

The sad fact is that almost anyone with any sense who was once on the left is now politically homeless. There are a few hardcore, life long Labour and trade union activists hanging on in there desperately hoping to achieve change from the inside but it’s getting to the point that even if the Labour leadership suddenly and emphatically recognised material reality, electoral credibility has long left the building and the party is an embarrassing husk in the eyes of most of the electorate.

I’m not voting for anyone who doesn’t have the gonads to stand up to a bunch of lunatics in lipstick smeared balaclavas.

I predict yet another win for the Tories but with the lowest overall turn out for a GE in living memory. With a higher than average percentage of spoiled ballots.

It’s like having to choose cat shit or dog shit…

…for dinner!

I am still firmly on the left. But I support the economic left, not the insane and massively bigoted and authoritarian identity left. I bet a lot of right wing money has been pushed onto "identity left" groups to help the identity left gain power within the left, and destroy the possibility of the economic left taking a few pennies from the mega rich.

I think right wing women are women, however. I think they can do good and even if they can't they still deserve to have their voices heard because I don;t believe in silencing women.

JacquelinePot · 24/09/2022 10:39

CMK made it all the way to Sky News Australia

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 10:43

Sorry Sappho, I know it seems like I am needling you. But there are some major inconsistencies in things being said on this thread and by both individual feminists and feminist groups. I am asking what your solution is, personally. It will no doubt be different to other people’s threshold for action is

The solution is to respect women who choose to support PP and respect the reasons of women who don't.

Not being able to take critique is something I associate with TRAs.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:46

Not being able to take critique is something I associate with TRAs.

And is ‘critique’ what that link was doing in listing her ‘sins’?

Do you feel that is appropriate? You did, after all, post the link.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/09/2022 10:47

There are certainly people stirring the pot for all it's worth.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 10:47

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 10:43

Sorry Sappho, I know it seems like I am needling you. But there are some major inconsistencies in things being said on this thread and by both individual feminists and feminist groups. I am asking what your solution is, personally. It will no doubt be different to other people’s threshold for action is

The solution is to respect women who choose to support PP and respect the reasons of women who don't.

Not being able to take critique is something I associate with TRAs.

And your reply doesn’t address the specific event style.

So, I guess we have to assume that you feel that the event style should be abandoned?

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 10:57

So, I guess we have to assume that you feel that the event style should be abandoned?

Of course not. But if women choose not to attend due to the risk of being live streamed by far right nationalists (and it seems that risk is pretty high) they shouldn't be sneered at and bullied.

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 10:58

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 10:57

So, I guess we have to assume that you feel that the event style should be abandoned?

Of course not. But if women choose not to attend due to the risk of being live streamed by far right nationalists (and it seems that risk is pretty high) they shouldn't be sneered at and bullied.

The risk of being live-streamed? What “risk” are you suggesting that this is? Is it “literal violence” for the wrong sort of people to see what you are saying now?

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 11:08

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 10:57

So, I guess we have to assume that you feel that the event style should be abandoned?

Of course not. But if women choose not to attend due to the risk of being live streamed by far right nationalists (and it seems that risk is pretty high) they shouldn't be sneered at and bullied.

Can you tell me what other of these events have been live streamed by far right activists?

Because I honestly have found this excuse very empty. Because who knew they were even there before that excuse started to come out.

You see. These are the inconsistencies I am talking about. I am very clear that I find that link your posted is at least honest. Whoever leads that group, seem to personally and intensely dislike Kellie Jay Keen. That seems to me to be the only explanation for their page.

I find this ‘oak heart’ excuse is a convenient distraction added after the event and it should be admitted to be this.

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 11:09

But if women choose not to attend due to the risk of being live streamed by far right nationalists (and it seems that risk is pretty high) they shouldn't be sneered at and bullied

Well no ( I've missed where this happened ...or maybe it's not on this thread

...And not the other way round either

FrippEnos · 24/09/2022 11:14

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 10:57

So, I guess we have to assume that you feel that the event style should be abandoned?

Of course not. But if women choose not to attend due to the risk of being live streamed by far right nationalists (and it seems that risk is pretty high) they shouldn't be sneered at and bullied.

I suspect the reason that they don't attend is more down to the aggressive left that turns up and the fear that they will be ostracised more than the easy excuse of right wing video taking.

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 11:16

FrippEnos · 24/09/2022 11:14

I suspect the reason that they don't attend is more down to the aggressive left that turns up and the fear that they will be ostracised more than the easy excuse of right wing video taking.

Yes, it’s pretty dishonest to suggest that the black-clad violent left and their blue-haired fellow travelers are not the main disincentive to women turning up.

ZombieMumEB · 24/09/2022 11:21

I wonder if a lot more would turn up if the police actually did their job, and removed the thugs?

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